Anjali Kumar: My failed mission to find God -- and what I found instead
Anjali Kumar is a Brooklyn-born, first-generation Indian American author, attorney, advisor, speaker and “idea acupuncturist.” Full bio
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right up front that I failed,
gave me a lot of hope.
and significance of our differences.
by Indian parents -- culturally Hindu,
unknown religion outside of India
of just how minority that makes me:
roughly one percent of the US population;
Teddy Bear Factory each year
of the Jain religion in America.
my parents then decided,
Let's send her to Catholic school" --
were the only non-white,
in the entire school.
in Flossmoor, Illinois --
that there is a single Supreme Being
to moral shepherding to eternal life.
entirely different.
as individuals,
spending our entire lives
becoming our own godlike, perfect selves.
principles of Jainism
that no single person
of absolute truth,
in your Catholic school.
I was from my peers.
a highly spiritual person,
or a clever play on words,
who checks off the box "none"
about their religious affiliation.
things about Nones are:
religiously unaffiliated Nones
for over one-third of adults
to me about Nones
with some degree of certainty,
and had found that information out
not-so-reassuring takeaway
people are currently godless,
as easy as I had originally hoped.
that on my spiritual journey,
into the spiritual fringe
to keep a fairly open mind,
full of volcanic water
in the convention center --
heat-infused sweat lodge
to convene with the dead,
my deceased mother-in-law
of the hip-hop group The Roots.
she was really happy
on all the pasta I was eating.
that it wasn't his dead mother
out of South Africa;
a 45-minute orgasm --
the energy of the universe --
in the Nevada desert at Burning Man,
lie on top of me,
of the Universe to heal my "yoni,"
at TED -- even TEDWomen --
faith healer John of God
a full-trance medium,
he can talk to dead people.
to channel a very specific group
whatever's wrong with you.
not have a medical degree
where there is no cutting,
who is thousands of miles away
of rules and regulations.
you can visit John of God
that you would like fixed,
and doctors to work on your behalf
was kind of weird and inconclusive,
than I already started out.
I came home empty-handed.
to my trip to Brazil,
to some friends
to a couple more people
coffee shop I go to each morning,
next to me on the subway.
of theirs down to Brazil,
to see John of God
apparently told more friends,
and the guys at their coffee shops,
before I left for Brazil
have my email address.
was that I had offered too much
those messages a few years later,
three commonalities,
about how they could be reached.
or their friends had told them,
of the three things they wanted fixed,
and their date of birth.
like, apartment numbers and zip codes,
to stop by their house
or send along a package.
that their wishes were granted
that they weren't delivered
was just as curious,
the Muslim, the devout Catholic --
the same three things.
and yes, a few people asked for cash.
ultimately a handful of anomalies,
for themselves and their families.
health issue to be fixed,
asked for good health in general.
specific subtype of happiness, too --
that could sustain us,
absolutely everything else.
of romantic love,
in epic romantic novels,
till the end of our days.
race or religion,
that I really wanted,
of the basic human needs
like Abraham Maslow and Manfred Max-Neef.
to the big existential questions
like I had set out to find.
to war or global hunger.
for absolutely anything,
happiness and love.
a third commonality as well.
their wishes all the way to Brazil,
that we have so much in common
all to hear, especially now,
on the things that make us different,
that I am not a statistician,
that I just accumulated in my in-box
more qualitative than quantitative.
with data would tell you,
or demographically balanced sample.
thinking about those emails
on the bias and prejudice
or a senseless tragedy
might be insurmountable.
with the opportunity
no matter who we are,
want these things so badly
confused as well --
and email her our deepest wishes,
the remote possibility
by someone who is not a god,
a member of our chosen religion,
look at him on paper,
candidate to deliver.
fractured by religious,
and racial divides,
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Anjali Kumar - General counsel, author, "idea acupuncturist"Anjali Kumar is a Brooklyn-born, first-generation Indian American author, attorney, advisor, speaker and “idea acupuncturist.”
Why you should listen
Anjali Kumar is the Chief People Officer and General Counsel at Cheddar, author and "idea acupuncturist." She was formerly the Head of Social Innovation and Founding General Counsel at Warby Parker, a transformative lifestyle brand offering designer eyewear at affordable prices while leading the way for socially conscious businesses. Prior to joining Warby Parker, Kumar was Senior Counsel at Google where she was a commercial and product attorney on areas ranging from Google X to YouTube. She is an Adjunct Professor at Columbia Business School and Fordham University and serves as an advisor to prominent technology companies, luxury fashion brands, consumer products and non-profit organizations including Malala Fund, IDEO.org and organize.org. She serves on the Board of Directors of Happy Money, GloScience Professional, Amplifier Foundation, Edible Schoolyard NY, and GrowNYC and the Guggenheim museum’s Global Innovation Group. Anjali’s first book, Stalking God: My Unorthodox Search for Something to Believe In, comes out January 2018 via Seal Press.
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