TEDActive 2011
JD Schramm: Break the silence for suicide attempt survivors
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Even when our lives appear fine from the outside, locked within can be a world of quiet suffering, leading some to the decision to end their life. At TEDYou, JD Schramm asks us to break the silence surrounding suicide and suicide attempts, and to create much-needed resources to help people who reclaim their life after escaping death. Resources: http://t.co/wsNrY9C
JD Schramm - Communicator
JD Schramm teaches future business leaders both the theoretical and practical aspects of communication. Full bio
JD Schramm teaches future business leaders both the theoretical and practical aspects of communication. Full bio
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From all outward appearances,
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John had everything going for him.
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He had just signed the contract
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to sell his New York apartment
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at a six-figure profit,
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and he'd only owned it for five years.
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The school where he graduated from with his master's
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had just offered him a teaching appointment,
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which meant not only a salary,
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but benefits for the first time in ages.
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And yet, despite everything going really well for John,
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he was struggling,
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fighting addiction and a gripping depression.
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On the night of June 11th, 2003,
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he climbed up to the edge
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of the fence on the Manhattan Bridge
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and he leaped to the treacherous waters below.
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Remarkably --
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no, miraculously --
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he lived.
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The fall shattered his right arm,
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broke every rib that he had,
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punctured his lung,
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and he drifted in and out of consciousness
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as he drifted down the East River,
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under the Brooklyn Bridge
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and out into the pathway of the Staten Island Ferry,
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where passengers on the ferry
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heard his cries of pain,
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contacted the boat's captain
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who contacted the Coast Guard
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who fished him out of the East River
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and took him to Bellevue Hospital.
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And that's actually where our story begins.
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Because once John committed himself
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to putting his life back together --
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first physically, then emotionally,
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and then spiritually --
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he found that there were very few resources available
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to someone who has attempted to end their life
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in the way that he did.
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Research shows
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that 19 out of 20 people
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who attempt suicide
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will fail.
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But the people who fail
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are 37 times more likely to succeed
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the second time.
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This truly is
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an at-risk population
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with very few resources to support them.
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And what happens
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when people try to assemble themselves back into life,
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because of our taboos around suicide,
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we're not sure what to say,
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and so quite often we say nothing.
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And that furthers the isolation
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that people like John found themselves in.
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I know John's story very well
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because I'm John.
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And this is, today,
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the first time in any sort of public setting
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I've ever acknowledged
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the journey that I have been on.
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But after having lost a beloved teacher in 2006
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and a good friend last year to suicide,
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and sitting last year at TEDActive,
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I knew that I needed to step out of my silence
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and past my taboos
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to talk about an idea worth spreading --
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and that is that people
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who have made the difficult choice
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to come back to life
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need more resources and need our help.
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As the Trevor Project says, it gets better.
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It gets way better.
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And I'm choosing to come out
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of a totally different kind of closet today
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to encourage you, to urge you,
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that if you are someone
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who has contemplated or attempted suicide,
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or you know somebody who has,
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talk about it; get help.
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It's a conversation worth having
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and an idea worth spreading.
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Thank you.
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(Applause)
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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
JD Schramm - CommunicatorJD Schramm teaches future business leaders both the theoretical and practical aspects of communication.
Why you should listen
A seasoned communicator and entrepreneur, JD Schramm teaches the theoretical and practical aspects of effective communication as a lecturer in management at Stanford's Graduate School of Business. At Stanford, he has led the development and launch of the Mastery in Communication Initiative to help GSB students improve their mastery of speaking and writing.
He says: "I cultivate dreams in myself and others by building bridges, inspiring greatness, encouraging growth, and living passionately."
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