TEDGlobal 2010
Zainab Salbi: Women, wartime and the dream of peace
Zainab Salbi: naised, sõjaaeg ja rahuunelm
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Me näeme sõjas tihti vaid rindejoone lugusid sõduritest ja lahingust. Zainab Salbi jutustab TEDGlobal 2010 raames jõulisi "rindejoone taguseid" lugusid naistest, kes hoiavad konfliktide ajal igapäevaelu liikumises ja kutsub üles naisi täitma kohti läbirääkimistelaua taga, kord kui võitlemine on möödas.
Zainab Salbi - Activist and social entrepreneur
Iraqi-born Zainab Salbi founded and runs Women for Women International, and has dedicated her life to helping women in war-torn regions rebuild their lives and communities. Full bio
Iraqi-born Zainab Salbi founded and runs Women for Women International, and has dedicated her life to helping women in war-torn regions rebuild their lives and communities. Full bio
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I woke up in the middle of the night
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Ma ärkasin keset ööd
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with the sound of heavy explosion.
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tugeva plahvatuse hääle peale.
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It was deep at night.
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Oli sügav öö.
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I do not remember what time it was.
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Ma ei mäleta, mis kell see juhtus.
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I just remember the sound
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Ma vaid mäletan, et see heli
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was so heavy
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oli nii tugev
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and so very shocking.
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ja nii väga šokeeriv.
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Everything in my room was shaking --
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Kõik mu toas värises -
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my heart, my windows,
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mu süda, mu aknad,
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my bed, everything.
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mu voodi - kõik.
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I looked out the windows
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Ma vaatasin akendest välja,
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and I saw a full half-circle
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ja nägin täielikku plahvatuse
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of explosion.
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poolringi.
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I thought it was just like the movies,
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Ma mõtlesin, et see oli täpselt nagu filmides,
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but the movies had not conveyed them
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aga filmid ei olnud neid edasi andnud
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in the powerful image that I was seeing
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niivõrd võimsa kujutisena nagu mina seda nägin -
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full of bright red
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täis eredat punast
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and orange and gray,
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ja oranži ja halli
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and a full circle of explosion.
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ja täit plahvatuse ringi.
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And I kept on staring at it
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Ja ma vaatasin seda üksisilmi edasi,
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until it disappeared.
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kuni see kadus.
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I went back to my bed,
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Ma läksin oma voodisse tagasi
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and I prayed,
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ja ma palvetasin
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and I secretly thanked God
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ja ma tänasin salaja jumalat,
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that that missile
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et see rakett
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did not land on my family's home,
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ei langenud minu perekonna kodu peale,
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that it did not kill my family that night.
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et see ei tapnud tol ööl minu perekonda.
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Thirty years have passed,
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and I still feel guilty about that prayer,
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ja ma tunnen end selle palve pärast ikka süüdi,
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for the next day, I learned that that missile
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kuna järgmisel päeval sain teada, et see rakett
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landed on my brother's friend's home
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langes minu venna sõbra kodu peale
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and killed him
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ja tappis tema
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and his father,
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ning ta isa,
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but did not kill his mother or his sister.
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kuid ei tapnud tema ema ega õde.
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His mother showed up the next week
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Ta ema ilmus järgmisel nädalal
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at my brother's classroom
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minu venna klassiruumi
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and begged seven-year-old kids
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ning anus seitsmeaastaseid lapsi,
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to share with her any picture they may have
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et nad jagaksid temaga mistahes pilte neil võiks olla
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of her son,
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tema pojast,
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for she had lost everything.
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kuna ta oli ilma jäänud kõigest.
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This is not a story
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See ei ole lugu
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of a nameless survivor of war,
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kellestki nimetust, kes elas üle sõja,
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and nameless refugees,
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ega nimetutest põgenikest,
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whose stereotypical images we see in our newspapers
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kelle stereotüüpseid kuvandeid näeme oma ajalehtedes
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and our TV
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ja oma televiisoris
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with tattered clothes,
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räbaldunud riietes,
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dirty face, scared eyes.
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räpase näo, hirmunud silmadega.
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This is not a story of a nameless someone
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See ei ole lugu kellestki nimetust,
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who lived in some war,
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kes elas mõne sõja ajal,
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who we do not know their hopes, their dreams,
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kelle lootusi ja unistusi me ei tea,
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their accomplishments, their families,
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nende saavutusi, nende perekondi,
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their beliefs, their values.
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nende uskumusi, nende väärtusi.
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This is my story.
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See on minu lugu.
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I was that girl.
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Mina olin see tüdruk.
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I am another image and vision
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Mina olen järjekordne kuvand ja nägemus
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of another survivor of war.
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järjekordsest sõja üleelanust.
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I am that refugee,
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Mina olen see põgenik
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and I am that girl.
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ja mina olen see tüdruk.
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You see,
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Vaadake,
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I grew up in war-torn Iraq,
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ma kasvasin üles sõjast purustatud Iraagis
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and I believe that there are two sides of wars
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ja ma usun, et sõdadel on kaks külge
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and we've only seen
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ning meie oleme näinud sellest
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one side of it.
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vaid ühte.
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We only talk about
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Ma räägime ainult
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one side of it.
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selle ühest küljest.
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But there's another side
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Aga on olemas ka teine külg,
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that I have witnessed
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mille tunnistajaks ma olen olnud
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as someone who lived in it
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kui keegi, kes on selle sees elanud,
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and someone who ended up working in it.
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ja keegi, kes lõpuks sattus selle sees töötama.
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I grew up with the colors of war --
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Ma kasvasin üles koos sõjavärvidega -
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the red colors of fire and blood,
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tule ja vere punaste värvidega,
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the brown tones of earth
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mulla pruunide toonidega,
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as it explodes
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mis plahvatab
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in our faces
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meie nägude ees
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and the piercing silver
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ja läbilõikav hõbe
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of an exploded missile,
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plahvatanud raketist,
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so bright
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nii ere,
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that nothing can protect your eyes from it.
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et mitte miski ei suuda su silmi selle eest kaitsta.
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I grew up
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Ma kasvasin üles
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with the sounds of war --
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koos sõjahelidega -
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the staccato sounds of gunfire,
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püssitule staccato-helidega,
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the wrenching booms of explosions,
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äkilised plahvatuste kõminad,
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ominous drones of jets flying overhead
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pea kohal lendavate reaktiivlennukite ähvardavad undamised
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and the wailing warning sounds
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ja sireenide ulguvad
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of sirens.
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hoiatussignaalid.
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These are the sounds you would expect,
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Need on need helid, mida sa eeldaksidki,
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but they are also the sounds
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kuid need on ühtlasi
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of dissonant concerts of a flock of birds
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dissonantsete kontsertide helid, mis kuuluvad
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screeching in the night,
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öös kriiskavale linnuparvele,
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the high-pitched honest cries
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laste kiledad ausad
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of children
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karjed
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and the thunderous,
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ning kõmisev,
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unbearable
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talumatu
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silence.
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vaikus.
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"War," a friend of mine said,
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"Sõda," ütles üks mu sõber,
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"is not about sound at all.
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"ei seisne üldse helides.
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It is actually about silence,
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Sõda seisneb tegelikult vaikuses,
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the silence of humanity."
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inimlikkuse vaikimises."
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I have since left Iraq
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Ma lahkusin Iraagist
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and founded a group called Women for Women International
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ja asutasin rühma nimega "Women for Women International",
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that ends up working
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mis hakkab lõpuks töötama
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with women survivors of wars.
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sõjast pääsenud naistega.
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In my travels and in my work,
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Oma reisidel ja oma tööl
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from Congo to Afghanistan,
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Congost Afganistaanini,
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from Sudan to Rwanda,
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Sudaanist Rwandani,
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I have learned not only
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ei ole ma mitte vaid aru saanud,
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that the colors and the sounds of war are the same,
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et sõja värvid ja helid on samad,
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but the fears of war are the same.
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vaid ka hirmud on sõjas samad.
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You know, there is a fear of dying,
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Teate, surmahirm on olemas
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and do not believe any movie character
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ja ärge uskuge ühtegi filmitegelast,
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where the hero is not afraid.
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kus kangelane ei tunne hirmu.
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It is very scary
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Väga õudustäratav
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to go through that feeling
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on läbi elada tunne,
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of "I am about to die"
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et ma kohe suren
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or "I could die in this explosion."
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või et ma võin selles plahvatuses surra.
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But there's also the fear
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Aga olemas on ka hirm
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of losing loved ones,
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kaotada oma lähedased
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and I think that's even worse.
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ja ma arvan, et see on isegi hullem.
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It's too painful. You don't want to think about it.
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See on liiga valulik; te ei taha selle peale mõelda.
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But I think the worst kind of fear is the fear --
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Aga ma arvan, et kõige hullemat sorti hirm on hirm -
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as Samia, a Bosnian woman, once told me,
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nagu Samia, üks Bosnia naine, kord mulle ütles,
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who survived the four-years besiege of Sarajevo;
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kes pääses eluga Sarajevo neli aastat kestnud piiramisest.
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she said, "The fear
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Ta ütles: "Hirm
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of losing
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kaotada
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the 'I' in me,
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enda mina,
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the fear of losing
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hirm kaotada
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the 'I' in me."
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enda mina."
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That's what my mother in Iraq
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See on see, mida mu ema Iraagis
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used to tell me.
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mulle öelda tavatses.
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It's like dying from inside-out.
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See on nagu pahupidi suremine.
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A Palestinian woman once told me,
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Kord ütles mulle üks Palestiina naine:
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"It is not about the fear of one death,"
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"Asi ei ole ühes surmas,"
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she said, "sometimes I feel
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ta ütles, "vahel ma tunnen,
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I die 10 times in one day,"
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et suren 10 korda ühe päeva jooksul,"
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as she was describing the marches of soldiers
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kui ta kirjeldas sõdurite marssimisi
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and the sounds of their bullets.
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ja nende kuulide helisid.
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She said, "But it's not fair,
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Ja ta ütles: "Aga see ei ole õiglane,
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because there is only one life,
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kuna olemas on vaid üks elu
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and there should only be one death."
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ning peaks olema vaid üks surm."
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We have been only seeing
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Me oleme näinud ainult
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one side of war.
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ühte külge sõjast.
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We have only been discussing and consumed
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Me oleme arutlenud ja haaratud vaid
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with high-level preoccupations
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kõrgetest mõtetest, mis puudutavad
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over troop levels, drawdown timelines,
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sõdurite arvu, sõdurite arvu piiramise protsessi,
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surges and sting operations,
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sõdurite arvu järsku tõstmist ning salajasi operatsioone.
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when we should be examining the details
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kui me peaksime uurima detaile seal,
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of where the social fabric
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kus sotsiaalne kude
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has been most torn,
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on kõige rohkem rebenenud,
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where the community has improvised
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kus kogukond on improviseerinud
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and survived
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ja ellu jäänud
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and shown acts of resilience
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ja näidanud parandamatust optimismist
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and amazing courage
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ja hämmastavast julgusest tulenevaid tegusid,
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just to keep life going.
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lihtsalt, et võimaldada elul jätkuda.
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We have been so consumed
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Me oleme olnud niivõrd hõivatud
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with seemingly objective discussions
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pealtnäha ojektiivsete aruteludega
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of politics, tactics,
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poliitikast, taktikatest,
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weapons, dollars
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relvadest, dollaritest
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and casualties.
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ja langenutest.
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This is the language
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See on
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of sterility.
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viljatuse keel.
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How casually
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Kui pealiskaudselt
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we treat casualties
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me kohtleme langenuid
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in the context of this topic.
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selle teema kontekstis.
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This is where we conceive of rape and casualties
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Me kujutleme vägistamist ja langenuid
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as inevitabilities.
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kui midagi paratamatut.
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Eighty percent of refugees around the world
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80 protsenti põgenikest üle maailma
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are women and children. Oh.
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on naised ja lapsed. Ahsoo.
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Ninety percent of modern war casualties
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90 protsenti kaasaegse sõja ohvritest
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are civilians.
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on tsiviilisikud -
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Seventy-five percent of them are women and children.
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neist 75 protsenti on naised ja lapsed.
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How interesting.
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Kui huvitav.
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Oh, half a million women in Rwanda
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Oih, pool miljonit naist
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get raped in 100 days.
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vägistatakse Rwandas saja päeva jooksul.
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Or, as we speak now,
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Või, meie rääkimise ajal,
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hundreds of thousands of Congolese women
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sadu tuhandeid Congo naisi
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are getting raped and mutilated.
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vägistatakse ja moonutatakse.
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How interesting.
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Kui huvitav.
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These just become numbers that we refer to.
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Need muutuvad vaid numbriteks, millele me viitame.
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The front of wars
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Sõjarinne tähendab
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is increasingly non-human eyes
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üha enam kunstlikku pilku,
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peering down on our perceived enemies
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mis vaatab otsivalt meie väidetavaid vaenlasi
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from space,
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kosmosest,
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guiding missiles toward unseen targets,
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juhtides rakette nähtamatute sihtmärkide suunas,
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while the human conduct
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samal ajal, kui inimesed dirigeerivad
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of the orchestra of media relations
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meediasuhete orkestrit
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in the event that this particular drone attack
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selle valguses, et see konkreetne mehitamata rünnak
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hits a villager
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tabas külaelanikku
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instead of an extremist.
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ekstremisti asemel.
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It is a chess game.
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See on malemäng.
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You learn to play an international relations school
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Sa õpid seda mängima rahvusvaheliste suhete koolis
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on your way out and up
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teel üles
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to national and international leadership.
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rahvuslikku ja rahvusvahelisse juhatusse.
08:38
Checkmate.
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Šahh-matt.
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We are missing
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Meil on puudu
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a completely other side of wars.
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täiesti teine külg sõdadest.
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We are missing my mother's story,
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Meil on puudu lugu minu emast,
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who made sure with every siren, with every raid,
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kes iga sireeni, iga rünnaku,
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with every cut off-of electricity,
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iga elektrikatkestuse ajal
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she played puppet shows for my brothers and I,
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mängis minule ja mu vendadele nukuteatrit,
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so we would not be scared
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et me ei kardaks
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of the sounds of explosions.
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plahvatuste helisid.
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We are missing the story of Fareeda,
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Meil on puudu lugu Fareedast,
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a music teacher,
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muusikaõpetajast,
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a piano teacher, in Sarajevo,
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klaveriõpetajast Sarajevos,
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who made sure
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kes kindlustas,
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that she kept the music school open
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et muusikakool oleks avatud
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every single day
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absoluutselt iga päev
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in the four years of besiege in Sarajevo
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Sarajevo nelja-aastase piiramise ajal.
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and walked to that school,
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Ning ta jalutas sellesse kooli
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despite the snipers shooting
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hoolimata snaiperite laskudest
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at that school and at her,
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selle kooli ja tema pihta.
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and kept the piano, the violin, the cello
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Ja ta lasi klaveril, viiulil, tšellol
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playing the whole duration of the war,
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mängida terve sõja jooksul
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with students wearing their gloves and hats and coats.
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koos õpilastega, kes kandsid kindaid, mütse ja mantleid.
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That was her fight.
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See oli tema võitlus.
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That was her resistance.
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See oli tema vastupanu.
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We are missing the story of Nehia,
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Meil on puudu lugu Nehiast,
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a Palestinian woman in Gaza
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Palestiina naisest Gazas,
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who, the minute there was a cease-fire in the last year's war,
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kes, samal hetkel, kui hakkas kehtima relvarahu eelmise aasta sõjas,
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she left out of home,
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läks kodust välja,
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collected all the flour
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kogus kokku jahu
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and baked as much bread for every neighbor to have,
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ja küpsetas nii palju leiba, et seda jagus igale naabrile,
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in case there is no cease-fire the day after.
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juhuks kui järgmisel päeval ei ole enam relvarahu.
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We are missing
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the stories of Violet,
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lood Violetist,
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who, despite surviving genocide in the church massacre,
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kes, hoolimata genotsiidist pääsemisest kiriku tapatalgudel,
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she kept on going on,
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pingutas aina edasi,
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burying bodies, cleaning homes, cleaning the streets.
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mattes surnuid, ehitades kodusid, puhastades tänavaid.
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We are missing stories of women
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Meil on puudu lood naistest,
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who are literally keeping life going
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kes sõna otseses võttes hoiavad elu liikumises
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in the midst of wars.
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keset sõdasid.
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Do you know --
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Kas te teate -
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do you know that people fall in love in war
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kas te teate, et inimesed armuvad sõja ajal
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and go to school
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ja käivad koolis
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and go to factories and hospitals
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ja käivad tehastes ja haiglates
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and get divorced and go dancing and go playing
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ja lahutavad ja käivad tantsimas ja mängimas
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and live life going?
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ja hoiavad elu liikumises?
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And the ones who are keeping that life
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Ja need, kes seda elu hoiavad,
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are women.
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on naised.
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There are two sides of war.
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Sõjal on kaks külge.
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There is a side that fights,
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On üks külg, mis võitleb,
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and there is a side that keeps the schools
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ja teine külg, mis hoiab koolid,
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and the factories and the hospitals open.
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tehased ja haiglad avatuna.
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There is a side that is focused on winning battles,
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On külg, mis on keskendunud lahingute võitmisele,
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and there is a side that is focused
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ning on külg, mis on keskendunud
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on winning life.
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elu võitmisele.
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There is a side that leads the front-line discussion,
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On külg, mis juhib rindejoone arutelu,
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and there is a side
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ning on külg,
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that leads the back-line discussion.
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mis juhib rindejoone tagust arutelu.
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There is a side that thinks
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that peace is the end of fighting,
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et rahu tähendab võitlemise lõppu
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and there is a side that thinks
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ja on külg, mis arvab,
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that peace is the arrival
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et rahu tähendab
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of schools and jobs.
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koolide ja töökohtade saabumist.
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There is a side
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that is led by men,
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mida juhivad mehed,
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and there is a side
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ning on külg,
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that is led by women.
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mida juhivad naised.
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And in order for us to understand
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how do we build lasting peace,
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kuidas tegelikult rajada kestvat rahu,
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we must understand war and peace
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peame mõistma sõda ja rahu
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from both sides.
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mõlemast küljest.
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We must have a full picture
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Meil peab olema täielik kuvand sellest,
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of what that means.
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mida see tähendab.
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In order for us to understand
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Selleks, et mõista,
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what actually peace means,
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mida rahu tegelikult tähendab,
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we need to understand,
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peame mõistma,
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as one Sudanese woman once told me,
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mida üks Sudaani naine mulle kord ütles:
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"Peace is the fact that my toenails
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"Rahu tähendab tõsiasja, et mu varbaküüned
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are growing back again."
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kasvavad jälle tagasi."
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She grew up in Sudan, in Southern Sudan,
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Ta kasvas üles Sudaanis, Lõuna-Sudaanis
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for 20 years of war,
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sõja ajal, mis kestis 20 aastat,
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where it killed one million people
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mis tappis miljon inimest
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and displaced five million refugees.
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ja tõrjus välja 5 miljonit põgenikku.
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Many women were taken as slaves
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Paljud naised võeti orjadeks
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by rebels and soldiers,
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mässajate ja sõdurite poolt,
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as sexual slaves who were forced also
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seksiorjadeks, keda lisaks sunniti
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to carry the ammunition and the water
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kandma laskemoona ja vett
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and the food for the soldiers.
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ja toitu sõduritele.
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So that woman walked for 20 years,
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Nii kõndis see naine 20 aastat
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so she would not be kidnapped again.
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selleks, et teda uuesti ei röövitaks.
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And only when there was some sort of peace,
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Ja ainult siis, kui oli mingit sorti rahu,
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her toenails grew back again.
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kasvasid tema varbaküüned tagasi.
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We need to understand peace
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Me peame mõistma rahu
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from a toenail's perspective.
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varbaküüne vaatenurgast.
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We need to understand
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Me peame mõistma,
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that we cannot actually have negotiations
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et me ei saa päriselt pidada läbirääkimisi
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of ending of wars or peace
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sõdade lõpetamise ja rahu asjus
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without fully including women
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ilma naisi täielikult kaasamata
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at the negotiating table.
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läbirääkimistelaua taha.
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I find it amazing
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Ma pean hämmastavaks seda,
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that the only group of people
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et ainus inimgrupp,
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who are not fighting and not killing
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kes ei võitle ega tapa
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and not pillaging and not burning and not raping,
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ega rüüsta ega põleta ega vägista
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and the group of people who are mostly --
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ja inimgrupp, kellest enamik -
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though not exclusively --
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kuigi mitte ainuliselt -
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who are keeping life going in the midst of war,
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on need, kes hoiavad elu keset sõda liikumises,
13:01
are not included in the negotiating table.
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ei ole läbirääkimistelaua taha kaasatud.
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And I do argue that women lead the back-line discussion,
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Ja ma väidan, et naised juhivad rindejoonetagust arutelu,
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but there are also men
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kuid on ka mehi,
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who are excluded from that discussion.
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kes on sellest arutelust välja jäetud.
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The doctors who are not fighting,
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Arstid, kes ei võitle,
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the artists, the students, the men who refuse to pick up the guns,
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kunstnikud, tudengid, mehed, kes keelduvad relva kätte võtmast,
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they are, too, excluded
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nemad on samuti välja jäetud
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from the negotiating tables.
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läbirääkimistelaua tagant.
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There is no way we can talk about a lasting peace,
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Ei ole mingit võimalust rääkida kestvast rahust,
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building of democracy, sustainable economies,
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demokraatia ehitamisest, jätkusuutlikust majandusest,
13:29
any kind of stabilities,
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mingistki stabiilsusest,
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if we do not fully include women
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kui me ei kaasa naisi täielikult
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at the negotiating table.
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läbirääkimistelaua taha.
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Not one, but 50 percent.
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Mitte ühte, vaid 50 protsenti.
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There is no way we can talk about the building of stability
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Ei ole mingit võimalust rääkida stabiilsuse ehitamisest,
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if we don't start investing
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kui me ei hakka investeerima
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in women and girls.
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naistesse ja tüdrukutesse.
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Did you know
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Kas te teadsite,
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that one year
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et ühe aasta jagu
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of the world's military spending
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maailma sõjalisi kulutusi
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equals 700 years
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on võrdne ÜRO
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of the U.N. budget
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700 aasta eelarvega
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and equals 2,928 years
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ja on võrdne ÜRO 2928 aasta eelarvega,
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of the U.N. budget allocated for women?
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mis on eraldatud naiste jaoks.
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If we just reverse
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Kui me vaid pööraksime ümber
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that distribution of funds,
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sellise rahajaotuse,
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perhaps we could have
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ehk oleks meil
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a better lasting peace in this world.
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siin maailmas paremini kestev rahu.
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And last, but not least,
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Ja viimasena, kuid mitte vähemtähtsana -
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we need to invest in peace and women,
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Me peame investeerima rahusse ja naistesse
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not only because it is the right thing to do,
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mitte lihtsalt sellepärast, et on õige,
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not only because it is the right thing to do,
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mitte lihtsalt sellepärast, et on õige
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for all of us to build sustainable and lasting peace today,
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meie kõigi jaoks, kui ehitame täna jätkusuutliku ja kestva rahu,
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but it is for the future.
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vaid see on tuleviku jaoks.
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A Congolese woman,
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Üks Kongo naine,
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who was telling me about
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kes rääkis mulle sellest,
14:38
how her children saw their father killed in front of them
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kuidas tema lapsed nägid pealt oma isa tapmist
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and saw her raped in front of them
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ja nägid pealt tema vägistamist
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and mutilated in front of them,
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ja moonutamist
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and her children saw their nine-year-old sibling
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ja kuidas ta lapsed nägid pealt oma üheksa-aastase
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killed in front of them,
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venna tapmist,
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how they're doing okay right now.
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ja kuidas neil läheb praegu normaalselt.
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She got into Women for Women International's program.
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Ta sisenes "Women for Women International" programmi.
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She got a support network.
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Ta sai endale tugivõrgustiku.
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She learned about her rights.
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Ta sai teadlikuks oma õigustest.
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We taught her vocational and business skills. We helped her get a job.
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Me õpetasime talle kutse- ja ärioskusi. Me aitasime tal tööd teida.
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She was earning 450 dollars. She was doing okay.
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Ta teenis 450 dollarit. Tal läks normaalselt.
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She was sending them to school. Have a new home.
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Ta saatis nad kooli - neil on uus kodu.
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She said, "But what I worry about the most
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Ta ütles: "Aga see, mille pärast ma kõige rohkem muretsen,
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is not any of that.
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ei puuduta üldse neid asju.
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I worry that my children
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Ma olen mures, et mu laste südametes
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have hate in their hearts,
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on vihkamine
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and when they want to grow up, they want to fight again
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ja kui nad suureks kasvavad, siis nad tahavad uuesti võidelda
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the killers of their father and their brother."
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oma isa ja venna tapjatega."
15:25
We need to invest in women,
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Me peame investeerima naistesse,
15:28
because that's our only chance
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kuna see on meie ainus võimalus
15:31
to ensure that there is no more war
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kindlustada, et tulevikus
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in the future.
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ei oleks enam sõdasid.
15:35
That mother has a better chance to heal her children
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Sellel emal on parem võimalus oma laste ravimiseks
15:38
than any peace agreement can do.
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kui ühelgi rahulepingul.
15:42
Are there good news? Of course, there are good news. There are lots of good news.
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Kas on ka häid uudiseid? Loomulikult on ka häid uudiseid. Häid uudiseid on palju.
15:45
To start with, these women that I told you about
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Alustuseks, need naised, kellest ma teile rääkisin
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are dancing and singing every single day,
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tantsivad ja laulavad iga päev -
15:51
and if they can,
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ja kui nemad suudavad,
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who are we not to dance?
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siis kes oleme meie, et meie ei saa tantsida.
15:55
That girl that I told you about
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See tüdruk, kellest ma teile rääkisin
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ended up starting Women for Women International Group
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hakkas tööle ühingus "Women for Women International",
16:00
that impacted one million people, sent 80 million dollars,
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mis on avaldanud mõju miljonile inimesele, jaganud 80 miljonit dollarit,
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and I started this from zero,
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ning ma alustasin seda nullist.
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nothing, nada, [unclear].
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Mittemillestki, nada, [ebaselge].
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(Laughter)
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(Naer)
16:11
They are women who are standing on their feet
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Need on naised, kes seisavad oma jalgadel
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in spite of their circumstances,
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hoolimata oma olukorrast,
16:17
not because of it.
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mitte oma olukorra tõttu.
16:20
Think of how the world can be a much better place
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Mõelge, kuidas maailm oleks palju parem koht,
16:23
if, for a change,
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kui meil oleks vahelduseks
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we have a better equality,
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suurem võrdsus,
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we have equality,
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meil on võrdsus,
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we have a representation
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meil on esindatus
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and we understand war,
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ja me mõistame sõda
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both from the front-line
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nii rindejoone kui rindejoone taguse
16:35
and the back-line discussion.
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arutelu vaatepunktist.
16:37
Rumi, a 13th-century Sufi poet,
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Rumi, 13. sajandi sufi poeet ütleb:
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says, "Out beyond the worlds
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"Teisel pool neid maailmu,
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of right-doings and wrong-doings,
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milles tehakse head ning milles halba,
16:45
there is a field.
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on üks põld.
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I will meet you there.
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Ma kohtun teiega seal.
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When the soul lies down in that grass,
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Siis kui hing heidab sinna murule,
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the world is too full
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on maailm liialt täielik,
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to talk about.
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et sellest rääkida.
16:56
Ideas, language,
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Ideed, keel,
16:58
even the phrase 'each other'
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isegi väljend "teineteist"
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no longer makes any sense."
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ei oma enam tähendust."
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I humbly add -- humbly add --
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Ma lisan alandlikult - lisan alandlikult -
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that out beyond
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et teisel pool
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the worlds of war and peace,
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sõja ja rahu maailmu
17:12
there is a field,
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on üks põld.
17:14
and there are many women and men
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Ning on palju naisi ja mehi,
17:17
[who] are meeting there.
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kes seal kohtuvad.
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Let us make this field a much bigger place.
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Teeme sellest põllust palju suurema koha.
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Let us all meet in that field.
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Kohtume kõik sellel põllul.
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Thank you.
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Tänan.
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(Applause)
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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Zainab Salbi - Activist and social entrepreneurIraqi-born Zainab Salbi founded and runs Women for Women International, and has dedicated her life to helping women in war-torn regions rebuild their lives and communities.
Why you should listen
In her memoir Hidden in Plain Sight: Growing Up in the Shadow of Saddam, Zainab Salbi writes of being raised in Saddam Hussein's inner circle -- her father was Saddam's personal pilot. She left Iraq for an arranged marriage in the US, which quickly became another form of tyranny. But in 1993, when she heard of the rape and concentration camps in Bosnia, she realized she could no longer remain passive. Salbi founded Women for Women International to help women who are victims of war in every way -- from those who've been physically harmed to those who suffer from the poverty that war and strife inevitably bring. WFWI provides economic and emotional aid, job-skills training, and rights education, empowering women to stop the cycle of violence and create social change.
In her latest book, The Other Side of War, she shares personal stories of women's experience in conflict. As she writes: "War is not a computer-generated missile striking a digital map. War is the color of earth as it explodes in our faces, the sound of child pleading, the smell of smoke and fear. Women survivors of war are not the single image portrayed on the television screen, but the glue that holds families and countries together. Perhaps by understanding women, and the other side of war ... we will have more humility in our discussions of wars... perhaps it is time to listen to women's side of history."
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