ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Courtney E. Martin - Journalist
Courtney E. Martin’s work has two obsessions at its core: storytelling and solutions.

Why you should listen

In her upcoming book, The New Better Off, Courtney E. Martin explores how people are redefining the American dream with an eye toward fulfillment. Martin is a columnist for On Being, and the cofounder of the Solutions Journalism Network, Valenti Martin Media, and FRESH Speakers, as well as a strategist for the TED Prize and an editor emeritus at Feministing.com.

In her previous book Do It Anyway: The New Generation of Activists, she profiled eight young people doing social justice work, a fascinating look at the generation of world-changers who are now stepping up to the plate.

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TEDWomen 2010

Courtney E. Martin: This isn't her mother's feminism

克特妮.馬丁: 重塑女性主義

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部落客克特妮.馬丁在這個真誠的演講中,用自己的私人經驗審視了長久以來不斷被大眾所談論的"女權主義"。當她為自己的時代重新找尋女權主義,所遇到的三個矛盾。
- Journalist
Courtney E. Martin’s work has two obsessions at its core: storytelling and solutions. Full bio

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So I was born天生
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我出生於70年代
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on the last day
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of the last year of the '70s.
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的最後一天
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I was raised上調 on "Free自由 to be you and me" --
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我是被“自在作自己”
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(cheering歡呼)
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(註:1974年New Seekers的一首主打歌) (掌聲)
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hip-hop嘻哈 --
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和嘻哈音樂給養大的
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not as many許多 woohooswoohoos for hip-hop嘻哈 in the house.
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顯然現場沒有太多人幫嘻哈音樂歡呼
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Thank you. Thank you for hip-hop嘻哈 --
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謝謝你們.謝謝你們幫嘻哈音樂歡呼
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and Anita梅艷芳 Hill爬坡道.
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也謝謝你們幫Anita Hill歡呼
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(Cheering打氣)
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(註:1991年因受到男性主管的性騷擾﹐公然起訴聯邦大法官的女子)(掌聲)
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My parents父母 were radicals自由基 --
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我父母是激進份子
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(Laughter笑聲)
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(笑聲)
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who became成為,
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然後
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well, grown-ups大人.
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長大成人
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My dad facetiously開玩笑 says,
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我爸曾開玩笑說
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"We wanted to save保存 the world世界,
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我們想要拯救世界
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and instead代替 we just got rich豐富."
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結果卻變得有錢“
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We actually其實 just got "middle中間 class"
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說真的我們不過是
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in Colorado科羅拉多州 Springs, Colorado科羅拉多州,
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科羅拉多州的中產階級
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but you get the picture圖片.
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但你懂他的意思
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I was raised上調 with a very heavy sense
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我在一個沉重
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of unfinished未完成 legacy遺產.
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且未完成的使命下長大
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At this ripe成熟 old age年齡 of 30,
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站在30歲的邊緣
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I've been thinking思維 a lot about what it means手段 to grow增長 up
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我一直在思考長大的意義
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in this horrible可怕, beautiful美麗 time,
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在這個可怕又美麗的年代
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and I've decided決定, for me,
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最終我為我自己下了一個結論
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it's been a real真實 journey旅程 and paradox悖論.
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這是一場充滿矛盾的旅程
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The first paradox悖論
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第一個矛盾的地方是
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is that growing生長 up is about rejecting拒絕 the past過去
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長大好像就是不斷的否決過去
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and then promptly及時 reclaiming回收 it.
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又突然的想修正回來
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Feminism女性主義 was the water I grew成長 up in.
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我從小生長在充滿女性主義的環境中
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When I was just a little girl女孩,
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當我還是個小女孩時
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my mom媽媽 started開始 what is now
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我媽媽開始創辦了
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the longest-running運行時間最長的 women's女士的 film電影 festival in the world世界.
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到目前為止世界上為期最久的女性電影節
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So while other kids孩子 were watching觀看 sitcoms情景喜劇 and cartoons卡通,
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當其他小孩還在看喜劇與卡通時
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I was watching觀看 very esoteric深奧 documentaries紀錄片
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我都在看圈內的
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made製作 by and about women婦女.
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女性製作的女權記錄片
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You can see how this had an influence影響.
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你可以想見它的影響力
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But she was not the only feminist女權主義者 in the house.
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但我媽可不是這個家 唯一的女權主義者
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My dad actually其實 resigned辭職
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事實上我爸也從我家附近一家
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from the male-only只招男生。 business商業 club俱樂部 in my hometown家鄉
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只允許男性加入的俱樂部中退出了
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because he said he would never be part部分 of an organization組織
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因為他說,他絕不會成為只歡迎他兒子
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that would one day welcome歡迎 his son兒子, but not his daughter女兒.
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而不歡迎他女兒,那種俱樂部的一份子
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(Applause掌聲)
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(掌聲)
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He's actually其實 here today今天.
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事實上他今天也在場
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(Applause掌聲)
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(掌聲)
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The trick here
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他的想法是
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is my brother哥哥 would become成為 an experimental試驗 poet詩人,
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我哥會變成一個實驗詩人
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not a businessman商人,
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而不是商人
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but the intention意向 was really good.
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他的出發點是好的
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(Laughter笑聲)
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(笑聲)
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In any case案件, I didn't readily容易 claim要求 the feminist女權主義者 label標籤,
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其實在任何時候,我不會特別對外宣稱我是女性主義者
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even though雖然 it was all around me,
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即使我被她們環繞
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because I associated相關 it with my mom's媽媽的 women's女士的 groups,
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因為那總會讓我聯想到我媽以及她的女性社團
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her swishyswishy skirts and her shoulder pads --
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她的那些長裙,墊肩
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none沒有 of which哪一個 had much cachet純情
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在帕米爾高中的走廊上
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in the hallways走廊 of Palmer帕爾默 High School學校
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都特別顯眼
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where I was trying to be cool at the time.
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那是當時我嘗試裝酷的地方
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But I suspected嫌疑 there was something really important重要
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但我猜這些有關女權的東西
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about this whole整個 feminism女權主義 thing,
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可能非常重要
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so I started開始 covertly隱蔽 tiptoeing踮著腳尖 into my mom's媽媽的 bookshelves書架
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所以我開始偷偷的接近我媽的書櫃
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and picking選擇 books圖書 off and reading them --
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拿本書然後開始閱讀
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never, of course課程, admitting承認 that I was doing so.
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當然,我永遠都不會承認的
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I didn't actually其實 claim要求 the feminist女權主義者 label標籤
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我不會給自己貼上女權主義的標簽
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until直到 I went to Barnard巴納德 College學院
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直到我進入了伯納大學
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and I heard聽說 Amy艾米 Richards理查茲 and Jennifer詹妮弗 BaumgardnerBaumgardner speak說話 for the first time.
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第一次聽到了愛咪李奇與珍妮佛卡納的演講
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They were the co-authors合著者 of a book called "Manifesta宣言展."
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他們是Manifesta這本書的前作者
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So what very profound深刻 epiphany頓悟, you might威力 ask,
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你也許會問,那到底對當下的我,有著甚麼樣深刻的頓悟
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was responsible主管 for my feminist女權主義者 click點擊 moment時刻?
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以及重大影響呢?
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Fishnet魚網 stockings絲襪.
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網襪
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Jennifer詹妮弗 BaumgardnerBaumgardner was wearing穿著 them.
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珍妮佛當時正穿著網襪
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I thought they were really hot.
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我覺得超辣!
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I decided決定, okay, I can claim要求 the feminist女權主義者 label標籤.
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因次我決定,好,我可以幫自己貼上女權主義的標籤
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Now I tell you this --
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現在我告訴你們這些
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I tell you this at the risk風險 of embarrassing尷尬 myself,
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我冒著自己會被取笑的風險
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because I think part部分 of the work of feminism女權主義
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因為我覺得為女性主義工作的一部分
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is to admit承認 that aesthetics美學, that beauty美女,
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就是承認美學,承認美麗
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that fun開玩笑 do matter.
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和樂趣的重要
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There are lots of very modern現代 political政治 movements運動
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有非常多的現代政治運動
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that have caught抓住 fire in no small part部分
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因為創新文化
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because of cultural文化 hipnesshipness.
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產生很大的影響
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Anyone任何人 heard聽說 of these two guys as an example?
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大家有聽到我用他們兩個來做例子嗎?
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So my feminism女權主義 is very indebted感激的 to my mom's媽媽的,
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我要感謝母親給我帶來女權主義的觀念
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but it looks容貌 very different不同.
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但我和她的女權主義很不同
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My mom媽媽 says, "patriarchy父權制."
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我母親說"父權主義"
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I say, "intersectionality交叉性."
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我說"交集"
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So race種族, class, gender性別, ability能力,
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種族, 階級, 性別, 以及能力
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all of these things go into our experiences經驗
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都會逐漸變成
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of what it means手段 to be a woman女人.
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成為一個女人的必然經驗
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Pay工資 equity公平? Yes. Absolutely絕對 a feminist女權主義者 issue問題.
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薪資平等?當然,這絕對是女權的議題
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But for me, so is immigration移民. (Applause掌聲)
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但對我而言,移民也是
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Thank you.
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謝謝
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My mom媽媽 says, "Protest抗議 march遊行."
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我母親說過"遊行示威"
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I say, "Online線上 organizing組織."
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而我說"線上組織"
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I co-edit共同編輯, along沿 with a collective集體
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我之前跟著一群非常棒又超級聰明的女人們
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of other super-smart超智能, amazing驚人 women婦女,
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一起弄了一個網站
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a site現場 called FeministingFeministing.comCOM.
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叫做" Feministing.com"
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We are the most widely廣泛 read feminist女權主義者 publication出版物 ever,
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我們的網站是被最多人瀏覽的女性出版網站
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and I tell you this
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我告訴你們這個
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because I think it's really important重要 to see
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是因為我覺得看著她們延續下去
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that there's a continuum連續.
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是一件非常重要的事
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Feminist女性主義 blogging寫博客 is basically基本上 the 21stST century世紀 version
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女權主義的部落格基本上是21世紀中
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of consciousness意識 raising提高.
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女性意識的提升
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But we also have a straightforward直截了當 political政治 impact碰撞.
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我們也直接承受了政治影響
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FeministingFeministing has been able能夠
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女權主義
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to get merchandise商品 pulled off the shelves貨架 of Walmart沃爾瑪(Walmart).
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是能夠讓商品從沃爾瑪下架的
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We got a misogynist厭惡 administrator管理員 sending發出 us hate-mail仇恨郵件
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曾經有個變態管理員因為寄恐嚇信給我們
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fired解僱 from a Big Ten school學校.
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而被前十名的好學校開除
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And one of our biggest最大 successes成功
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而我們的最大成功之一
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is we get mail郵件 from teenage青少年 girls女孩 in the middle中間 of Iowa愛荷華州
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就是我們曾經收過一個愛荷華州的小女孩來信說
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who say, "I Googled谷歌搜索 Jessica傑西卡 Simpson辛普森 and stumbled迷迷糊糊 on your site現場.
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" 我在搜尋Jessica Simpson 時, 碰巧進到你們的網站
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I realized實現 feminism女權主義 wasn't about man-hating人憎恨 and Birkenstocks勃肯鞋."
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它讓我了解,女權主義並不是恨男生或是勃肯鞋 "
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So we're able能夠 to pull in the next下一個 generation
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所以我們能夠用一種全心的方式
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in a totally完全 new way.
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讓下一代加入我們的行列
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My mom媽媽 says, "Gloria格洛麗亞 Steinem斯泰納姆."
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我母親也曾提過Gloria Steinem(註:她是著名的美國女性人權先鋒)
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I say, "Samhita本集 MukhopadhyayMukhopadhyay,
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而我說"Samhita Mukhopadhyay"
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Miriam楊千嬅 Perez佩雷斯, Ann Friedman弗里德曼,
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Miriam Perez, Ann Friedman,
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Jessica傑西卡 Valenti瓦倫蒂, Vanessa凡妮莎 Valenti瓦倫蒂,
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Jessica Valenti, Vanessa Valenti,
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and on and on and on and on."
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還有許許多多的女權主義者
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We don't want one hero英雄.
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我們不要只有一個英雄
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We don't want one icon圖標.
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我們不要只有一個標章
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We don't want one face面對.
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我們不需要只有一張臉來代替我們所有人
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We are thousands數千 of women婦女 and men男人 across橫過 this country國家
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我們是一起生活在這個國家的數以千萬的女人和男人
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doing online線上 writing寫作, community社區 organizing組織,
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從事著網路創作,社區組織
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changing改變 institutions機構 from the inside out --
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從體制裡開始改變
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all continuing繼續 the incredible難以置信 work
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所有人都在從事著這不可思議的工作
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that our mothers母親 and grandmothers祖母 started開始.
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從母親們或祖母們就開始的工作
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Thank you.
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謝謝
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(Applause掌聲)
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掌聲
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Which哪一個 brings帶來 me to the second第二 paradox悖論:
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這讓我想到第二個矛盾點
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sobering發人深省 up about our smallness渺小
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讓我們意識到我們的眇小
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and maintaining維持 faith信仰 in our greatness偉大
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同時保持我們
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all at once一旦.
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偉大的信念
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Many許多 in my generation --
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跟我同年代的很多人
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because of well-intentioned用心良苦 parenting育兒 and self-esteem自尊 education教育 --
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因為父母的用心栽培,以及受到自尊式的教育
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were socialized社會化 to believe
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都社會化的相信
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that we were special特別 little snowflakes雪花 --
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我們會走出自己的一片天和拯救世界
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(Laughter笑聲)
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(笑聲)
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who were going to go out and save保存 the world世界.
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因為我們都是最特別的小雪花
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These are three words many許多 of us were raised上調 with.
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我們曾經跟著三個字長大
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We walk步行 across橫過 graduation畢業 stages階段,
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我們走過畢業階段
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high on our overblown誇大 expectations期望,
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先是高於我們的期待
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and when we float浮動 back down to earth地球,
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然後我們又回到現實
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we realize實現 we don't know what the heck赫克 it means手段
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我們忽然發現自己根本不知道
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to actually其實 save保存 the world世界 anyway無論如何.
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拯救世界真正的意義
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The mainstream主流 media媒體 often經常 paints油漆 my generation
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主流媒體常常描繪我們這個世代
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as apathetic麻木不仁,
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是冷漠的時代
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and I think it's much more accurate準確
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準確一點來說
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to say we are deeply overwhelmed不堪重負.
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我們其實深感打擊
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And there's a lot to be overwhelmed不堪重負 about, to be fair公平 --
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說句公道話,打擊我們的不只這些
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an environmental環境的 crisis危機,
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像是環境危機
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wealth財富 disparity差距 in this country國家
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我們國家的貧富差距
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unlike不像 we've我們已經 seen看到 since以來 1928,
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不止我們所看到的
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and globally全球,
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自1928年
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a totally完全 immoral不道德 and ongoing不斷的 wealth財富 disparity差距.
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全球都存在在不道德與貧富差距中
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Xenophobia's仇外心理的 on the rise上升. The trafficking販賣 of women婦女 and girls女孩.
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仇外的傾向逐漸加溫 非法販賣婦女及女童...
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It's enough足夠 to make you feel very overwhelmed不堪重負.
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這些都足以讓我們感到難以承受
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I experienced有經驗的 this firsthand第一手 myself
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在2002年 當我畢業於柏納大學時
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when I graduated畢業 from Barnard巴納德 College學院 in 2002.
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我曾親身經歷過
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I was fired解僱 up; I was ready準備 to make a difference區別.
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我充滿熱情,準備要有所做為
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I went out and I worked工作 at a non-profit非盈利,
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我開始為一家非營利公司工作
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I went to grad畢業 school學校, I phone-banked電話開戶,
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我進入研究所,我打電話籌款
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I protested抗議, I volunteered自告奮勇,
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我上街頭,我做義工
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and none沒有 of it seemed似乎 to matter.
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但這些似乎都無關緊要
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And on a particularly尤其 dark黑暗 night
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2004年12月
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of December十二月 of 2004,
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在某個特別漆黑的夜晚
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I satSAT down with my family家庭,
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我坐下來和我的家人說
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and I said that I had become成為 very disillusioned幻滅.
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我決定不抱任何幻想了
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I admitted承認 that I'd actually其實 had a fantasy幻想 -- kind of a dark黑暗 fantasy幻想 --
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我承認我曾有個幻想 有點黑暗的幻想
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of writing寫作 a letter
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就是寫一封信
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about everything that was wrong錯誤 with the world世界
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關於這世界上所有的錯
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and then lighting燈光 myself on fire
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然後在白宮的階梯上
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on the White白色 House steps腳步.
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引火自焚
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My mom媽媽
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我媽
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took a drink of her signature簽名 Sea Breeze微風,
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喝下一口她最愛的調酒“海風”
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her eyes眼睛 really welled油然而生 with tears眼淚,
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眼裡充滿了眼淚
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and she looked看著 right at me and she said,
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她直直看著我說
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"I will not stand
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“我絕對不會容忍
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for your desperation絕望."
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你的絕望行徑”
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She said, "You are smarter聰明, more creative創作的
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她說“你更聰明,更有創意
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and more resilient彈性 than that."
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更有彈性,你不應如此。”
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Which哪一個 brings帶來 me to my third第三 paradox悖論.
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我第三個矛盾點是
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Growing生長 up is about aiming瞄準 to succeed成功 wildly瘋狂
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長大不過是瞄準巨大的成功
07:49
and being存在 fulfilled完成 by failing失敗 really well.
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然後徹底失敗
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(Laughter笑聲)
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(笑聲)
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(Applause掌聲)
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(掌聲)
07:56
There's a writer作家 I've been deeply influenced影響 by, Parker帕克 Palmer帕爾默,
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影響我很深的作家 Parker Palmer(教育、社區、社會改變問題的作者)
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and he writes that many許多 of us are often經常 whiplashedwhiplashed
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他說我們往往“在自大,高估與
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"between之間 arrogant傲慢 overestimation高估 of ourselves我們自己
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卑微地低估自己中”
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and a servile低三下四 underestimation低估 of ourselves我們自己."
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鞭打自己
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You may可能 have guessed by now,
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你現在可以看到
08:09
I did not light myself on fire.
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我沒有引火自焚
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I did what I know to do in desperation絕望, which哪一個 is write.
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我做了我在絕望中所做的,就是寫
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I wrote the book I needed需要 to read.
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我寫了本我需要閱讀的書
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I wrote a book about eight incredible難以置信 people
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書中描寫我們國家
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all over this country國家
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八位從事社會正義
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doing social社會 justice正義 work.
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了不起的人士
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I wrote about Nia尼亞 Martin-Robinson馬丁 - 羅賓遜,
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其中有來自底特律的 Nia Martin-Robinson
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the daughter女兒 of Detroit底特律 and two civil國內 rights權利 activists活動家,
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和兩個民權運動家
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who's誰是 dedicating her life
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她將一生奉獻於
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to environmental環境的 justice正義.
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環境正義
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I wrote about Emily艾米莉 Apt易於
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我寫 Emily Apt
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who initially原來 became成為 a caseworker社會工作者 in the welfare福利 system系統
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一開始她加入社福團體
08:35
because she decided決定 that was the most noble高貴 thing she could do,
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因為她認為這是她所能做的最崇高的事
08:38
but quickly很快 learned學到了, not only did she not like it,
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但很快發現 她不但不喜歡
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but she wasn't really good at it.
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她甚至做不好
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Instead代替, what she really wanted to do was make films影片.
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她真正想做的事情,其實是拍電影
08:44
So she made製作 a film電影 about the welfare福利 system系統
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她拍了一部有關社會福利制度的電影
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and had a huge巨大 impact碰撞.
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有很大的影響力
08:48
I wrote about MaricelaMaricela Guzman古斯曼, the daughter女兒 of Mexican墨西哥人 immigrants移民,
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我寫 Maricela Guzman ,一個墨西哥移民之女
08:51
who joined加盟 the military軍事 so she could afford給予 college學院.
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她參加軍隊 只為了付大學學費
08:55
She was actually其實 sexually assaulted毆打 in boot camp
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她在新兵訓練營被性侵
08:57
and went on to co-organize合辦 a group
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於是創建了一個叫
08:59
called the Service服務 Women's女士的 Action行動 Network網絡.
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女兵行動網的組織
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What I learned學到了 from these people and others其他
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我從他們之中學到的是
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was that I couldn't不能 judge法官 them
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我不能因為一個人沒有達到崇高的目標
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based基於 on their failure失敗 to meet遇到 their very lofty高遠 goals目標.
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就認為他們失敗
09:09
Many許多 of them are working加工 in deeply intractable棘手 systems系統 --
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他們往往在極為疾首的社會體制裡工作
09:12
the military軍事, congress國會,
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像是軍隊、國會
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the education教育 system系統, etc等等.
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以及教育體制等等
09:16
But what they managed管理 to do within those systems系統
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但是他們設法成為這些體制內
09:18
was be a humanizing人性化 force.
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人性化的力量
09:21
And at the end結束 of the day,
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到最後
09:23
what could possibly或者 be more important重要 than that?
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還有什麼比這些更重要的
09:25
Cornel West西 says, "Of course課程 it's a failure失敗.
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Cornel West 說"這當然是個失敗"
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But how good a failure失敗 is it?"
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但這是個多好的失敗經驗"
09:30
This isn't to say we give up our wildest最瘋狂, biggest最大 dreams.
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這不是要我們放棄偉大的夢想
09:33
It's to say we operate操作 on two levels水平.
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他是要我們應該有兩種做法
09:35
On one,
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一個是
09:37
we really go after changing改變 these broken破碎 systems系統
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我們真的進入這些我們身處的
09:39
of which哪一個 we find ourselves我們自己 a part部分.
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失敗的體系
09:41
But on the other, we root our self-esteem自尊
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但把我們的自尊放在日常生活中
09:43
in the daily日常 acts行為 of trying to make one person's人的 day
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試圖使每個人的每一天
09:46
more kind, more just, etc等等.
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更寬容 更公正...
09:49
So when I was a little girl女孩,
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當我還是個小女孩的時候
09:51
I had a couple一對 of very strange奇怪 habits習慣.
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我有些奇怪的習慣
09:53
One of them was
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其一是
09:55
I used to lie謊言 on the kitchen廚房 floor地板 of my childhood童年 home,
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我習慣躺在我舊家廚房的地板上
09:57
and I would suck吮吸 the thumb拇指 of my left hand
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左手吸吮我的拇指
09:59
and hold保持 my mom's媽媽的 cold toes腳趾 with my right hand.
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右手握著我媽冰冷的腳趾
10:02
(Laughter笑聲)
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(笑)
10:04
I was listening to her talk on the phone電話, which哪一個 she did a lot.
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我常偷聽我媽講電話
10:07
She was talking about board meetings會議,
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她常常在電話中討論董事會議
10:10
she was founding創建 peace和平 organizations組織,
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當時她正創辦和平組織
10:12
she was coordinating協調 carpools合乘, she was consoling安慰 friends朋友 --
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她要協調合夥用車,她要安慰朋友...
10:15
all these daily日常 acts行為 of care關心 and creativity創造力.
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這些所有日常的關懷和創意
10:18
And surely一定, at three and four years年份 old,
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可以肯定的是,在三、四歲的時候
10:20
I was listening to the soothing撫慰的 sound聲音 of her voice語音,
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我聽到她安定人心的聲音
10:23
but I think I was also getting得到 my first lesson in activist活動家 work.
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這也是我成為積極份子的第一課
10:26
The activists活動家 I interviewed採訪
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我採訪的積極份子
10:28
had nothing in common共同, literally按照字面, except for one thing,
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毫無共通處,除了她們
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which哪一個 was that they all cited引用 their mothers母親
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都說她們的母親
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as their most looming若隱若現 and important重要
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是影響她們
10:35
activist活動家 influences影響.
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成為積極份子的重要原因
10:37
So often經常, particularly尤其 at a young年輕 age年齡,
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所以 特別在我們年輕的時候
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we look far afield遠處
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我們往往在遠方
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for our models楷模 of the meaningful富有意義的 life,
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找尋一個富有意義的生活的模範
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and sometimes有時 they're in our own擁有 kitchens廚房,
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有時這個模範就在我們自家廚房
10:47
talking on the phone電話, making製造 us dinner晚餐,
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講電話,做晚餐
10:49
doing all that keeps保持 the world世界 going around and around.
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盡一切讓世界持續前進
10:53
My mom媽媽 and so many許多 women婦女 like her
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我媽 還有眾多像我媽一樣的女人
10:55
have taught me that life is not about glory榮耀,
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都教我 人生不是為了榮耀
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or certainty肯定, or security安全 even.
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或確定 甚至不是安全感
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It's about embracing擁抱 the paradox悖論.
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而是欣然接受矛盾
11:03
It's about acting演戲 in the face面對 of overwhelm壓倒.
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在難以承受的狀況下開始行動
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And it's about loving愛心 people really well.
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好好愛人
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And at the end結束 of the day,
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在一日結束後
11:11
these things make for a lifetime一生
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這些事會讓我們的一生
11:14
of challenge挑戰 and reward獎勵.
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充滿挑戰和回饋
11:16
Thank you.
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謝謝
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(Applause掌聲)
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(掌聲)
Translated by A&J Alisa&Jenny
Reviewed by Coco Shen

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Courtney E. Martin - Journalist
Courtney E. Martin’s work has two obsessions at its core: storytelling and solutions.

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In her upcoming book, The New Better Off, Courtney E. Martin explores how people are redefining the American dream with an eye toward fulfillment. Martin is a columnist for On Being, and the cofounder of the Solutions Journalism Network, Valenti Martin Media, and FRESH Speakers, as well as a strategist for the TED Prize and an editor emeritus at Feministing.com.

In her previous book Do It Anyway: The New Generation of Activists, she profiled eight young people doing social justice work, a fascinating look at the generation of world-changers who are now stepping up to the plate.

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