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Felice Belle and Jennifer Murphy: How we became sisters
Felis Bel i Dženifer Marfi (Felice Belle and Jennifer Murphy): Kako smo postale sestre
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Pesnikinje Felis Bel i Dženifer Marfi izvode delove iz svoje predstave „Druge žene“, koju je napisala i režirala Monika L. Vilijams. Tokom zadivljujućeg putovanja, zajedno pričaju priče prepune smeha, odanosti, tragedije i slomljenog srca, sećajući se trenutaka koji su ih načinili sestrama.
Felice Belle - Poet, playwright, pop culture enthusiast
Felice Belle consumes and creates stories to make sense of the world and her place in it. She spends her free time solving fictional crimes. Full bioJennifer Murphy - Writer, performer, private investigator
Jennifer Murphy is an award-winning writer, performer and private investigator who spends her time solving crimes -- some real, some imagined. Full bio
Felice Belle consumes and creates stories to make sense of the world and her place in it. She spends her free time solving fictional crimes. Full bioJennifer Murphy - Writer, performer, private investigator
Jennifer Murphy is an award-winning writer, performer and private investigator who spends her time solving crimes -- some real, some imagined. Full bio
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00:12
Chris Waddell: Felice Bell
and Jennifer Murphy
and Jennifer Murphy
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Kris Vadel: Felis Bel i Dženifer Marfi
će izvesti delove
svoje predstave „Druge žene“,
svoje predstave „Druge žene“,
00:14
are going to do an excerpts
from their play "Other Women,"
from their play "Other Women,"
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čija je autorka i režiserka
Monika L. Vilijams,
Monika L. Vilijams,
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which is created and directed
by Monica L. Williams,
by Monica L. Williams,
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00:21
so please welcome Felice Bell
and Jennifer Murphy.
and Jennifer Murphy.
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stoga, molim vas da pozdravite
Felis Bel i Dženifer Marfi.
Felis Bel i Dženifer Marfi.
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(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
00:29
(Music)
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(Muzika)
00:41
Felice Bell: Gambling.
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Felis Bel: Kockanje.
00:44
Quit your job.
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Daj otkaz na poslu.
00:46
With no savings and a rough sketch
of the rest of your life.
of the rest of your life.
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Bez imalo ušteđevine i sa grubim planom
za ostatak svog života.
za ostatak svog života.
00:52
Withdraw money from your 401K,
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Podigni novac iz svog penzionog fonda,
00:55
pay the penalty, why wait?
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plati kaznu, zašto čekati?
00:58
In this economy, everything you own
is worth more than it will ever be.
is worth more than it will ever be.
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U ovoj ekonomiji, sve što poseduješ
vredi više nego ikada.
vredi više nego ikada.
01:05
Cut your hair, call yourself "new,"
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Ošišaj kosu, nazovi sebe „novom“,
01:08
call your ex, call Robin,
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nazovi svog bivšeg, nazovi Robin,
01:11
tell her you bought a ticket to the Bay.
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reci joj da si kupila kartu za more.
01:14
Paso Robles road trip,
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Putovanje u Paso Robles,
01:17
wine taste,
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degustacije vina,
01:18
buy a Malbec and a tight red tee,
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kupi vino Malbek i tesnu crvenu majicu,
01:20
eat a cookie from an LA dispensary,
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pojedi kolač iz radnje marihuane
u Los Anđelesu,
u Los Anđelesu,
01:23
chain-smoke around
bed and breakfast hillside fire pit
bed and breakfast hillside fire pit
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puši bez prekida uz založenu vatru
po brdskim motelima
po brdskim motelima
01:27
with San Diego newlyweds
and vineyard view.
and vineyard view.
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sa mladencima iz San Dijega
i pogledom na vinograde.
i pogledom na vinograde.
01:30
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
01:32
Go to the water with your girls
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Idi do vode sa svojim devojkama
01:35
and grease-stained
bags of burgers.
bags of burgers.
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i masnim kesama od hamburgera.
01:38
Sit on driftwood.
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Sedi na splavu.
01:40
Sunset.
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Zalazak sunca.
01:42
Remember you folded.
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Seti se da si presekla.
01:45
Remember your place.
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Seti se svog mesta.
01:49
Spend the night in Reno.
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Provedi noć u Rinu.
01:50
Resent the safety of the slots,
sit at the blackjack table,
sit at the blackjack table,
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Prezri sigurnost mašina za kockanje,
sedi za sto za blekdžek,
sedi za sto za blekdžek,
01:55
hand the dealer rent, retirement,
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predaj deliocu stanarinu, penziju,
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pray God cares enough to pony up an ace.
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moli se da je bogu
dovoljno stalo da izbaci asa.
dovoljno stalo da izbaci asa.
02:01
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
02:03
Leaving.
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Odlazak.
02:04
Lunch on Lake Tahoe, they say, is deep
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Ručak na jezeru Taho,
koje je, kažu, duboko
koje je, kažu, duboko
02:07
and cold enough to preserve a body whole.
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i dovoljno hladno da očuva telo u celosti.
02:11
Railroad workers, mafia, military
and possibly a monster like Loch Ness --
and possibly a monster like Loch Ness --
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Radnici železnica, mafija, vojska
i možda čudovište poput onog iz Loh Nesa -
i možda čudovište poput onog iz Loh Nesa -
02:17
no one can prove it.
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niko ne može to dokazati.
02:18
Ignore the math.
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Ignoriši matematiku.
02:20
Odds are a distraction.
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Verovatnoća samo ometa.
02:24
What matters is the chip count.
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Ono što je važno je broj čipova.
02:28
The cards on the table,
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Karte na stolu,
02:30
the cards in your hand.
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karte u tvojoj ruci.
02:32
You must be willing to lose.
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Moraš biti spremna na poraz.
02:42
Jennifer Murphy:
When the dream was a notion,
When the dream was a notion,
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Dženifer Marfi: Kada je san bio pojam,
02:44
it lived in the desert
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živeo je u pustinji
02:45
near Edwards Air Force Base,
where NASA tested space ships.
where NASA tested space ships.
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blizu vazdušne baze Edvards,
gde je NASA testirala svemirske brodove.
gde je NASA testirala svemirske brodove.
02:51
It fed on cactus and stars,
but it kept being delayed.
but it kept being delayed.
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Hranio se kaktusom i zvezdama,
ali je stalno odlagan.
ali je stalno odlagan.
02:55
"It's not time," they said.
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„Nije još vreme“, govorili su.
02:58
The dream grew impatient,
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San je postajao sve nestrpljiviji,
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broke water, extracted from its mother
in a bed of wrecked strawberries.
in a bed of wrecked strawberries.
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probušio vodenjak, odvojio se od majke
iz postelje uništenih jagoda.
iz postelje uništenih jagoda.
03:06
As a teenager, it cried,
took endless drives over the grapevine
took endless drives over the grapevine
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Kao tinejdžer, plakao je,
beskonačno se vozio kroz vinovu lozu
beskonačno se vozio kroz vinovu lozu
03:11
out of a town ripe
with oranges and silence,
with oranges and silence,
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iz grada prepunog narandži i tišine.
03:14
"Get me out of here," it begged.
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„Vodi me odavde“, preklinjao je.
03:18
It was so tiny and delicate,
you feared for its life.
you feared for its life.
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Bio je tako mali i nežan
da ste se bojali za njegov život.
da ste se bojali za njegov život.
03:22
It seemed a butterfly might land
on its face and crush it.
on its face and crush it.
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Činilo se da leptir može sleteti
na njegovo lice i razbiti ga.
na njegovo lice i razbiti ga.
03:27
It frightened you
to love something so much.
to love something so much.
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Plašilo vas je da nešto toliko volite.
03:30
Later it rebelled, got drunk,
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Kasnije se pobunio, napio,
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handcuffed for urinating whiskey
on your neighbor's rose bushes.
on your neighbor's rose bushes.
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zarobljen je zbog uriniranja viskija
na komšijino žbunje.
na komšijino žbunje.
03:36
The dream had issues, needs.
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San je imao problema, potreba.
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"Don't ignore me," it screamed.
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„Ne ignoriši me“, vikao je.
03:42
It needed skyscrapers and nicotine,
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Bili su mu potrebni neboderi i nikotin,
03:45
needed to stay home
reading the "Easter Parade"
reading the "Easter Parade"
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trebalo mu je da ostane kući
i čita „Uskršnju paradu“
i čita „Uskršnju paradu“
03:48
instead of going to its job
as a waitress at a restaurant
as a waitress at a restaurant
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umesto da ide na posao
kao konobarica u restoranu
kao konobarica u restoranu
03:51
where it could not afford the food.
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gde ne može ni hranu priuštiti.
03:53
It was a dream, for Christ's sake,
it had better things to do.
it had better things to do.
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To je bio san, pobogu;
imao je pametnijeg posla.
imao je pametnijeg posla.
03:57
It had to write, pray,
dispatch fleets of messages to God
dispatch fleets of messages to God
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Morao je da piše, moli se,
šalje flotu poruka bogu
šalje flotu poruka bogu
04:02
about how to make
itself known in daylight.
itself known in daylight.
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o tome kako da se pojavi
na svetlosti dana.
na svetlosti dana.
04:06
All its life, the dream made plans.
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Celog svog života, san je pravio planove.
04:10
It planned to write,
publish, get rich, publish,
publish, get rich, publish,
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Planirao je da piše,
objavljuje, obogati se, objavljuje,
objavljuje, obogati se, objavljuje,
04:13
have sex with reckless, attractive men
in the backseats of taxis,
in the backseats of taxis,
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ima seksualne odnose sa opasnim,
privlačnim muškarcima
privlačnim muškarcima
na zadnjem sedištu taksija,
04:17
yes, that happened -- no, it didn't.
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da, to se desilo - ne, nije.
04:21
The dream argued with itself,
with the truth.
with the truth.
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San se svađao sam sa sobom, sa istinom.
04:24
You didn't have the dream,
the dream had you.
the dream had you.
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Nisi imao san; san je imao tebe.
04:27
Every single one
of its plans fell through.
of its plans fell through.
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Svaki njegov plan je propao.
04:31
"I give up," it cried, "I quit."
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„Odustajem“, plakao je, „Dižem ruke.“
04:34
Hid itself in the dark until finally
it heard its name being called.
it heard its name being called.
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Sakrivao se u mraku sve dok konačno
nije čuo da ga zovu po imenu.
nije čuo da ga zovu po imenu.
04:41
Pondered the unspeakable miracle
of sticking around long enough to be seen.
of sticking around long enough to be seen.
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Razmišljao je o neverovatnom čudu
ostajanja dovoljno dugo da bi ga videli.
ostajanja dovoljno dugo da bi ga videli.
04:48
Now it looks around for the ones
who've waited years for its arrival.
who've waited years for its arrival.
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Sada traži one koji su godinama
čekali njegov dolazak.
čekali njegov dolazak.
04:55
They always come for you,
don't they, your girls?
don't they, your girls?
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One uvek dođu po tebe,
zar ne, tvoje devojke?
zar ne, tvoje devojke?
04:59
With their crossed fingers
and belief in you,
and belief in you,
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Dok drže fige i veruju u tebe,
05:02
"No destination," they say,
"No maps, no idea where we're headed."
"No maps, no idea where we're headed."
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„Bez odredišta“, kažu, „bez mapa,
bez predstave kuda smo se uputili.“
bez predstave kuda smo se uputili.“
05:09
And even though you
cannot believe this is happening,
cannot believe this is happening,
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Čak i ako ne možeš
da veruješ da se ovo događa,
da veruješ da se ovo događa,
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even though you are
hallucinating with fear,
hallucinating with fear,
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čak iako haluciniraš od straha,
05:17
you hear yourself say it,
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čuješ sebe kako govoriš:
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"I am ready, I am ready, let's go!"
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„Spremna sam, spremna sam, hajdemo!“
05:28
FB: Episode one.
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FB: Epizoda broj jedan.
05:30
JM: Everyone always wants to know
how we became sisters.
how we became sisters.
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DžM: Svi uvek žele da znaju
kako smo postale sestre.
kako smo postale sestre.
05:34
"How did you two meet?"
Like we're a married couple.
Like we're a married couple.
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„Kako ste se vas dve upoznale?“
Kao da smo venčani par.
Kao da smo venčani par.
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I like to say we met online.
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Volim da kažem da smo se upoznale na netu.
05:39
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
05:40
FB: We met at the Nuyorican
Poets Café in 1999.
Poets Café in 1999.
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FB: Upoznale smo se 1999. godine
u Njujorškom kafiću pesnika.
u Njujorškom kafiću pesnika.
05:45
Every Friday night of our young lives
spent in the audience or on the mic.
spent in the audience or on the mic.
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Svaki petak uveče naših mladih života
provodile smo u publici ili za mikrofonom.
provodile smo u publici ili za mikrofonom.
05:50
Miss one Friday, and you would hear
about the poet who killed it.
about the poet who killed it.
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Ako preskočite jedan petak, slušate
o pesniku koji je rasturio na nastupu.
o pesniku koji je rasturio na nastupu.
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You should have been there!
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Trebalo je da budeš tamo!
05:55
JM: I killed it.
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DžM: Rasturila sam!
05:56
FB: The night I met Jen, she was sitting
on the lap of my archnemesis.
on the lap of my archnemesis.
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FB: Te noći kada sam upoznala Džen,
sedela je u krilu
mog zakletog neprijatelja.
mog zakletog neprijatelja.
06:02
I swear we are never going to be friends.
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Zaklela sam se da nikad
nećemo biti prijateljice.
nećemo biti prijateljice.
06:07
JM: Really?
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DžM: Stvarno?
06:08
We are not going to be friends
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Nećemo biti prijateljice
06:10
because I'm friends
with someone you don't like?
with someone you don't like?
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jer se ja družim
sa nekim koga ti ne voliš?
sa nekim koga ti ne voliš?
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FB: Absolutely. Without a doubt.
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FB: Totalno. Bez ikakve sumnje.
06:15
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
06:16
JM: Misdemeanor one: menacing.
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DžM: Prekršaj broj jedan: ugroženost.
06:19
I love it when women
size me up and spit me out
size me up and spit me out
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Volim kada me žene odmere i odbace
06:22
before they've ever met me,
before I've said one word.
before I've said one word.
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pre nego što me upoznaju,
pre nego sam i progovorila.
pre nego sam i progovorila.
06:25
The phrase "dismissed
before investigation" comes to mind.
before investigation" comes to mind.
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Fraza „pušten pre istrage“
mi pada na pamet.
mi pada na pamet.
06:29
Misdemeanor two: fraud.
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Prekršaj broj dva: prevara.
06:32
Felice likes to claim
she believes in science and math,
she believes in science and math,
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Felis voli da tvrdi da veruje
u nauku i matematiku,
u nauku i matematiku,
06:36
that she proceeds through life
with logic, like a man.
with logic, like a man.
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da se kroz život
vodi logikom, kao muškarac.
vodi logikom, kao muškarac.
06:39
Lot of logic in this example,
lot of fairness and justice,
lot of fairness and justice,
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Ima mnogo logike u ovom primeru,
mnogo pravičnosti i poštenja;
mnogo pravičnosti i poštenja;
06:43
real open-minded play.
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predstava veoma otvorenog uma.
06:45
Felice is not a detective,
she only plays one onstage.
she only plays one onstage.
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Felis nije detektiv,
već samo glumi detektiva na sceni.
već samo glumi detektiva na sceni.
06:49
And when I say that,
I say it as a private investigator,
I say it as a private investigator,
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I kada kažem to,
govorim to kao privatni detektiv
govorim to kao privatni detektiv
06:52
licensed in the state of New York.
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sa dozvolom države Njujork.
06:54
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
06:56
FB: Sherlock Holmes
doesn't need a license.
doesn't need a license.
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FB: Šerloku Holmsu ne treba dozvola.
06:59
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
07:00
He solves crime. So do I.
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On rešava zločine. Kao i ja.
07:03
Using science and my intuition.
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Koristeći nauku i svoju intuiciju.
07:06
Everything I know about
detective work, I learned on TV.
detective work, I learned on TV.
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Sve što znam o detektivskom poslu,
naučila sam na TV-u.
naučila sam na TV-u.
07:08
JM: Episode two.
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DžM: Epizoda broj dva.
07:11
How we became sisters.
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Kako smo postale sestre.
07:13
FB: Right, so about a year later,
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FB: Da, pa posle godinu dana,
07:14
Jen and I were invited to read poems
in the basement of Two Boots pizzeria.
in the basement of Two Boots pizzeria.
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Džen i ja smo bile pozvane da čitamo pesme
u podrumu picerije „Dve čizme“.
u podrumu picerije „Dve čizme“.
07:19
JM: Our careers had taken off!
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DžM: Naše karijere uzleću!
07:21
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
07:22
FB: After the pizzeria reading,
we have a slice.
we have a slice.
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FB: Nakon čitanja u pizeriji,
pojele smo po parče.
pojele smo po parče.
07:26
I don't know why, but I tell her
something I hadn't told anyone.
something I hadn't told anyone.
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Ne znam zašto, ali rekla sam joj
nešto što nikom pre nisam rekla.
nešto što nikom pre nisam rekla.
07:30
I spent the weekend in Reno
with Nacho Velasquez.
with Nacho Velasquez.
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Provela sam vikend u Rinu
sa Naćom Velaskezom.
sa Naćom Velaskezom.
07:34
First thing she says --
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Prvo što je rekla -
07:35
JM: Did you see Nacho's little nacho?
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DžM: Da li si videla Naćov mali naćo?
07:38
FB: And we were friends.
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FB: I postale smo drugarice.
07:40
JM: That --
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DžM: To -
07:41
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
07:42
That is not how I remember it.
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Ja se ne sećam da je bilo tako.
07:45
In my mind, we became friends
after I was diagnosed with cancer.
after I was diagnosed with cancer.
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Koliko se ja sećam, postale smo drugarice
nakon što su mi dijagnostifikovali rak.
nakon što su mi dijagnostifikovali rak.
07:50
You came with me to Sloan Kettering,
because my family wasn't handy.
because my family wasn't handy.
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Pošla si sa mnom u „Sloun Ketering“
jer moja porodica nije bila pri ruci.
jer moja porodica nije bila pri ruci.
07:53
FB: OK, let's hear that version.
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FB: Okej, hajde da čujemo tu verziju.
07:55
JM: So, we walk into Sloan Kettering,
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DžM: Pa, ušetale smo u „Sloun Ketering“
07:58
and I have never seen my sister happier.
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i nikad nisam videla
svoju sestru srećniju.
svoju sestru srećniju.
08:02
Reminder: we are at the cancer hospital.
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Podsetnik: mi smo u bolnici za rak.
08:06
There are people limping by
with carved faces and missing ears.
with carved faces and missing ears.
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Tu su ljudi koju šepaju
sa licima punim ožiljaka i bez ušiju.
sa licima punim ožiljaka i bez ušiju.
08:11
FB: This place has everything.
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FB: To mesto ima sve.
08:14
There is a waterfall, there are orchids,
little packets of graham crackers.
little packets of graham crackers.
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Ima vodopad, orhideje,
male paketiće krekera.
male paketiće krekera.
08:18
JM: I am sitting in the waiting room,
sweating through my dress,
sweating through my dress,
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DžM: Sedim u čekaonici
i znojim se kroz haljinu,
i znojim se kroz haljinu,
08:22
she's making herself a cappuccino.
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a ona sebi pravi kapućino.
08:24
FB: It's delicious.
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FB: Ukusan je.
08:25
JM: I cannot handle you right now.
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DžM: Ne mogu te trenutno podneti.
08:29
FB: Episode three.
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FB: Epizoda broj tri.
08:32
JM: Six years after we first met.
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DžM: Šest godina nakon što smo se upoznale.
08:36
FB: My childhood best friend dies.
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FB: Moj najbolji prijatelj
iz detinjstva umire.
iz detinjstva umire.
08:40
The day of his wake
there is a transit strike.
there is a transit strike.
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Na dan njegovog bdenja
dešava se štrajk saobraćajnih radnika.
dešava se štrajk saobraćajnih radnika.
08:46
Jen walks from Cobble Hill
to Crown Heights
to Crown Heights
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Džen ide peške od Kobl Hila
do Kraun Hajtsa
do Kraun Hajtsa
08:52
so she can go with me.
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da bi mogla ići sa mnom.
08:54
There are moments that bond,
and this one is key.
and this one is key.
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Postoje momenti koji nas zbliže
i ovaj je ključan.
i ovaj je ključan.
08:58
When there is no train,
no car service, no bus,
no car service, no bus,
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Kada nema voza, auta, autobusa,
09:03
my sister will walk miles
just to be by my side.
just to be by my side.
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moja sestra će šetati kilometrima
samo da bi bila uz mene.
samo da bi bila uz mene.
09:09
JM: When a sister loves a sister.
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DžM: Kada sestra voli sestru.
09:14
When she says, "It's time for bibimbap,"
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Kada kaže: „Vreme je za bibimbap“,
09:17
she means, "I need to talk,
I'm having a meltdown."
I'm having a meltdown."
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misli: „Želim da pričamo; raspadam se.“
09:20
And when she says,
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A kada kaže:
„Da li si spavala sa mojim čovekom,
Naćom Velaskezom?“
Naćom Velaskezom?“
09:21
"Did you sleep with my man,
Nacho Velasquez,"
Nacho Velasquez,"
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09:25
she means, "I'm having trust issues
around our friendship again.
around our friendship again.
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onda misli: „Ponovo imam problema
sa poverenjem u našem prijateljstvu.
sa poverenjem u našem prijateljstvu.
09:28
You are supposed to know this."
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Trebalo bi ovo da znaš.“
09:29
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
09:30
FB: When a sister loves a sister,
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FB: Kada sestra voli sestru,
09:32
you are in Crown Heights
and she is in Bedford-Stuyvesant.
and she is in Bedford-Stuyvesant.
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ti si u Kraun Hajtsu,
a ona je u Bedford-Stajvesantu.
a ona je u Bedford-Stajvesantu.
09:35
Or you're in Spain, sipping absinthe,
and she is in Paris, writing.
and she is in Paris, writing.
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Ili si ti u Španiji, piješ apsint,
a ona je u Parizu, piše.
a ona je u Parizu, piše.
09:40
Or you are in your apartment,
sun-glassed and hoodied,
sun-glassed and hoodied,
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Ili si ti u stanu, sa naočarama
za sunce i kapuljačom,
za sunce i kapuljačom,
09:43
creating new choreography
to the right soundtrack.
to the right soundtrack.
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stvaraš novu koreografiju uz pravu muziku.
09:46
JM: While you're home
having flashbacks to 9/11,
having flashbacks to 9/11,
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DžM: Dok si ti kod kuće
i imaš flešbekove od 11. septembra,
i imaš flešbekove od 11. septembra,
09:49
listening to the last call of your friend,
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slušajući poslednji poziv svog prijatelja,
09:51
a firefighter who perished
in the North Tower.
in the North Tower.
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vatrogasca koji je poginuo
u Severnoj kuli,
u Severnoj kuli,
09:54
His last words, "Thank you."
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a njegove poslednje reči su „hvala ti“,
09:57
You find it difficult to say goodbye.
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teško ti je oprostiti se.
10:00
FB: When a sister loves a sister,
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FB: Kada sestra voli sestru,
10:02
it is five o’clock in the morning,
you are asleep and she is calling.
you are asleep and she is calling.
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pet je ujutru, ti spavaš i ona zove.
10:05
You say, "Hey, sis, did someone die?"
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Ti kažeš: „Hej, seko, da li je neko umro?“
10:08
JM: You are sobbing, saying
your boyfriend, the cop, got shot
your boyfriend, the cop, got shot
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DžM: Jecaš i govoriš
da je tvoj momak, policajac, upucan
da je tvoj momak, policajac, upucan
10:11
and straight away, her voice contains
the depth and calm of a windless lake.
the depth and calm of a windless lake.
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i odmah njen glas ima dubinu
i smirenost jezera bez vetra.
i smirenost jezera bez vetra.
10:17
For hours, she stays on the line
and remains very quiet and very kind.
and remains very quiet and very kind.
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Satima, ona je na liniji
veoma tiha i ljubazna.
veoma tiha i ljubazna.
10:23
FB: Whatever you need to get through this.
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FB: Šta god ti treba da prođeš kroz ovo.
10:26
JM: When she says,
"Let's see each other this week,"
"Let's see each other this week,"
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DžM: Kada kaže: „Hajde
da se vidimo ove nedelje“,
da se vidimo ove nedelje“,
10:28
she means, "Let's cancel
and talk on the phone instead."
and talk on the phone instead."
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misli: „Hajde da otkažemo
i umesto toga pričamo telefonom.''
i umesto toga pričamo telefonom.''
10:31
When she says,
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Kada kaže:
10:33
"This thing Tara Brach said
reminded me of you,"
reminded me of you,"
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„Ono što je Tara Brak rekla
me podsetilo na tebe“,
me podsetilo na tebe“,
10:35
she means it reminded her
of her and then you.
of her and then you.
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misli da ju je podsetilo prvo
na samu sebe, pa onda na tebe.
na samu sebe, pa onda na tebe.
10:39
It means she's been doing
guided meditations again,
guided meditations again,
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To znači da je ponovo radila
vođenu meditaciju
vođenu meditaciju
10:42
is about to drop
some spiritual-wisdom-type shit
some spiritual-wisdom-type shit
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i da će izbaciti neko sranje
duhovno-mudrog tipa
duhovno-mudrog tipa
10:45
about radical acceptance, ergo --
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o radikalnom prihvatanju, stoga -
10:47
FB: The only way to live is by accepting
each minute as an unrepeatable miracle.
each minute as an unrepeatable miracle.
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FB: Jedini način da živiš je da prihvatiš
svaku minutu kao neponovljvo čudo.
svaku minutu kao neponovljvo čudo.
10:51
JM: In the '90s, you fought
with the constancy of dawn.
with the constancy of dawn.
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DžM: Devedesetih, borila si se
sa postojanoću zore.
sa postojanoću zore.
10:55
It was entertaining, a sport, a pastime.
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Bilo je zabavno, sport, razbibriga.
10:57
FB: What is wrong with you?
JM: What's wrong with you?
JM: What's wrong with you?
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FB: Šta nije u redu s tobom?
DžM: Šta nije u redu s tobom?
DžM: Šta nije u redu s tobom?
11:00
FB: I'm not the one being aggressive.
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FB: Nisam ja ta koja je agresivna.
11:01
JM: I'm relaxed.
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DžM: Ja sam opuštena.
11:03
FB: I'm not doing this with you.
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FB: Neću ovo da radim s tobom.
11:04
JM: Your wide-eyed friends
would raise their hands and say,
would raise their hands and say,
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DžM: Tvoji prijatelji
sa razrogačenim očima
sa razrogačenim očima
bi podigli ruke i rekli:
„Šta se dešava sa vas dve?“
„Šta se dešava sa vas dve?“
11:08
"What is going on with you two?"
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11:11
One winter, when you had no money,
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Jedne zime, kada nisi imala novca,
11:13
you mailed her flowers from Paris
because she was having surgery.
because she was having surgery.
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poslala si joj cveće iz Pariza
jer je bila na operaciji.
jer je bila na operaciji.
11:17
One spring in your deepest heartbreak
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Jednog proleća tokom najgoreg raskida
11:20
she stood with you in the rain
on Fulton Street.
on Fulton Street.
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stajala je sa tobom
na kiši u ulici Fulton.
na kiši u ulici Fulton.
11:23
FB: This isn't your dream, sis.
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FB: To nije tvoj san, seko.
11:25
You can leave him.
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Možeš da ga ostaviš.
11:27
JM: One winter, one spring,
two decades, two women, one dream.
two decades, two women, one dream.
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DžM: Jedna zima, jedno proleće,
dve decenije, dve žene, jedan san.
dve decenije, dve žene, jedan san.
11:33
Your mothers' names are Sheila.
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Ime vaših majki je Šila.
11:35
They quote the Bible, say --
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Citiraju Bibliju, recimo -
11:37
FB: "You are fearfully
and wonderfully made."
and wonderfully made."
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FB: „Ti si strašno i sjajno napravljena.“
11:39
JM: Say --
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DžM: Recimo -
FB: „Dobro je da si završila
sa master studijama.“
sa master studijama.“
11:40
FB: "Boy, it's good
you're done with that MFA."
you're done with that MFA."
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DžM: Ti i tvoja sestra se smejete,
hvala bogu da je taj dosadni san gotov.
hvala bogu da je taj dosadni san gotov.
11:42
JM: You and your sister laugh,
thank God that pesky dream is finished,
thank God that pesky dream is finished,
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11:47
now you can finally get back
to peeling potatoes and shucking corn.
to peeling potatoes and shucking corn.
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Sada se konačno možeš vratiti
na ljuštenje krompira i kukuruza.
11:51
FB: When a sister loves a sister,
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FB: Kada sestra voli sestru,
11:53
you want her in the audience
when your play premieres
when your play premieres
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želiš da bude u publici
tokom premijere svoje predstave
tokom premijere svoje predstave
11:55
at the National Theatre in Washington DC.
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u Narodnom pozorištu u Vašingtonu.
11:57
JM: When a sister loves a sister,
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DžM: Kada sestra voli sestru,
11:59
she cheers and screams when an agent
agrees to send out your stories.
agrees to send out your stories.
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ona navija i vrišti kada agent
pristane da pošalje tvoje priče.
pristane da pošalje tvoje priče.
12:04
FB: When a sister loves a sister,
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FB: Kada sestra voli sestru,
12:07
she celebrates your artistic,
romantic and spiritual victories.
romantic and spiritual victories.
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ona slavi tvoje umetničke,
romantične i duhovne pobede.
romantične i duhovne pobede.
12:11
JM: You are like young girls becoming
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DžM: Vi ste kao mlade devojke koje postaju
12:14
what they always dreamed
of becoming when they grew up.
of becoming when they grew up.
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ono o čemu su oduvek sanjale
da će postati kada odrastu.
da će postati kada odrastu.
12:18
FB: When a sister loves a sister,
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FB: Kada sestra voli sestru,
12:21
you listen to her read, thinking --
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slušaš je dok čita, misleći -
12:24
JM: As heaven to the gods
is poetry to the beloved.
is poetry to the beloved.
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DžM: To što je raj bogovima,
poezija je voljenima.
poezija je voljenima.
12:30
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
12:33
JM: Love you.
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DžM: Volim te.
12:34
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
ABOUT THE SPEAKERS
Felice Belle - Poet, playwright, pop culture enthusiastFelice Belle consumes and creates stories to make sense of the world and her place in it. She spends her free time solving fictional crimes.
Why you should listen
Felice Belle is a poet, playwright and pop culture enthusiast. She has performed at Joe’s Pub, the Apollo Theater and the American Museum of Natural History. Belle was a featured poet at TED’s City2.0 conference and her young audiences play, Game On!, premiered at the Kennedy Center as part of the One Mic: Hip Hop Culture Worldwide festival.
Belle co-wrote and performs alongside Jennifer Murphy in Other Women, a two-woman show about the enduring nature of sisterhood that interrogates ideas about women as artists, lovers, and friends. A unique theatrical experience with stories, poems and images, Other Women invites audiences to choose what’s real, what’s fantasy, and what lies between. Other Women was created by Monica L. Williams and produced by #LoveHustle, a global dialogue and performance series.
Belle holds a B.S. in Industrial Engineering from Columbia University, an M.A. in Individualized Study from NYU’s Gallatin School and an M.F.A. in Creative Writing from Long Island University. She spends her free time solving fictional crimes.
Felice Belle | Speaker | TED.com
Jennifer Murphy - Writer, performer, private investigator
Jennifer Murphy is an award-winning writer, performer and private investigator who spends her time solving crimes -- some real, some imagined.
Why you should listen
Jennifer Murphy is an award-winning writer and performer whose work has been published in numerous literary journals and anthologies. A recipient of the PEN Oakland-Josephine Miles Literary Award honoring excellence in multicultural literature, she has performed at Joe’s Pub at The Public Theater, Knitting Factory and The Nuyorican Poets Café, among other performance venues. Murphy also maintains a parallel career as a private investigator, specializing in online investigations and threat monitoring for high-consequence events.
Murphy co-wrote and performs alongside Felice Belle in Other Women, a two-woman show about the enduring nature of sisterhood that interrogates ideas about women as artists, lovers, and friends. A unique theatrical experience with stories, poems and images, Other Women invites audiences to choose what’s real, what's fantasy, and what lies between. Other Women was created by Monica L. Williams and produced by #LoveHustle, a global dialogue and performance series.
Jennifer Murphy | Speaker | TED.com