Emilie Wapnick: Why some of us don't have one true calling
Emilie Wapnick: Hvorfor nogle af os ikke kun har én ting at gøre i livet
Career coach Emilie Wapnick celebrates the "multipotentialite" -- those of us with many interests, many jobs over a lifetime, and many interlocking potentials. Full bio
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been asked the question
hvis du nogensinde er blevet spurgt:
when you were first asked this question?
første gang du fik det spørgsmål?
been able to answer the question
svare på spørgsmålet
that I didn't have any interests --
have nogle interesser -
and math and art and I built websites
matematik og billedkunst og jeg lavede -
called Frustrated Telephone Operator.
som hed Frustrated Telephone Operator.
to notice this pattern in myself
til et mønster ved mig selv:
at whatever it was,
til hvad end det nu var
where I'd start to get bored.
startede med at kede mig selv.
and persist anyway,
at blive ved alligevel
so much time and energy
så meget tid og energi
på dette interesseområde.
form for kedsomhed,
this isn't challenging anymore --
det her, det er ikke udfordrende længere -
in something else,
i noget andet,
and I would dive into that,
og jeg ville dykke ind i det
and I'd be like, "Yes! I found my thing,"
"Yes! Jeg har fundet min ting,"
where I'd start to get bored.
hvor jeg ville begynde at kede mig.
something new and totally different,
og helt anderledes
any of this into a career.
ud af alt det her.
have to pick one thing,
skulle vælge én ting,
so much anxiety
at det gjorde mig så nervøs
was something wrong with this,
at der var noget galt med det her
for being unable to stick with anything.
jeg ikke kunne holde mig til én ting.
at jeg var bange for -
or that I was self-sabotaging,
eller saboterede mig selv,
and to these feelings,
og disse følelser,
jeg havde spurgt mig selv om.
the meaning of wrong or abnormal
hvad der var forkert og unormal
"What do you want to be when you grow up?"
"Hvad vil du være når du bliver voksen?"
what you say when you're that age.
hvad du siger i den alder.
to elicit cute replies,
for at få et sødt svar,
or "I want to be a ballerina,"
"Jeg vil være en balletdanser"
again and again as we get older
igen og igen som vi bliver ældre
high school students might get asked
gymnasieelever bliver måske spurgt
to pick in college.
at læse videre som på universitetet.
the cute exercise it once was
spørgsmål det var engang
som holder os oppe om natten.
to dream about what they could be,
børn til at drømme om hvad de kan blive,
about all that they could be.
alt det de kunne blive.
what you want to be,
om hvad de gerne vil være
will likely chuckle and be like,
nok vil grine og sige:
a violin maker and a psychologist.
violinbygger og en psykolog.
turned illustrator, entrepreneur,
et magasin, illustrator, entreprenør,
about people like this.
om denne slags folk.
det snævert fokuserede liv
or the one true calling,
eller ens sande kald
during our time on this earth,
at vi skal lave her på jorden
what that thing is
who isn't wired this way?
er bygget på denne måde?
subjects that you're curious about,
emner som du er nysgerrig omkring
like you in this framework.
i denne konstruktion.
have a purpose.
there's something wrong with you.
er noget galt med dig.
with many interests and creative pursuits.
mange interessere og kreative udfoldelser.
into three parts:
that connote the same idea,
der betyder det samme,
to be well-versed in multiple disciplines.
flere discipliner.
or invent your own.
eller opfind dit eget.
that as a community,
det passende, at vi
ikke kan finde en samlet identitet.
that you need to overcome.
bliver nødt til at overvinde.
through speaking with people
ved at snakke med folk
ideas on my website,
på min hjemmeside,
strengths to being this way.
ved at være sådan her.
at the intersection.
from their shared interests
fælles interesser
travel, mathematics and design,
matematik og design,
custom geographically-inspired jewelry.
geografisk-inspirerede smykker.
with this unique idea
mix of skills and experiences.
blanding af færdigheder og erfaringer.
with all of their backgrounds,
med alle deres erfaringer,
points of intersection.
mellem felter.
become interested in something,
interesseret i noget
we can get our hands on.
at være begyndere,
so many times in the past,
så mange gange før,
of trying new things
for at prøve nye ting
are transferable across disciplines,
på tværs af flere discipliner,
to every new area we pursue,
til de nye felter vi jagter,
and freelance writer.
og er freelance skribent.
she honed an incredible ability
hun sin fantastiske evne
maskinskriver hun kender.
Nora was a financial planner.
var Nora en finansiel rådgiver
the finer mechanics of sales
detaljerne ved salg
write compelling pitches to editors.
skrive fængende salgstaler til redaktører.
to pursue something you're drawn to,
at opsøge noget du er draget af,
in a different field entirely,
i et helt andet felt
have anticipated.
into whatever you need to be
til det du har brug for at være
sometimes a web designer,
nogle gange webdesigner,
sometimes a teacher,
nogle gange underviser,
because he can take on various roles,
påtage sig flere roller,
identified adaptability
identificerede tilpasning
to develop in order to thrive
at udvikle for at trives
so quickly and unpredictably
så hurtig og uforudsigelig
and organizations that can pivot
der kan dreje sig
that are really going to thrive.
der virkelig vil trives.
and adaptability:
og tilpasning:
are very adept at,
potentiale er gode til,
if pressured to narrow their focus.
bliver tvunget til et smalt fokus.
in encouraging multipotentialites
interesse i at opmuntre folk med multi-
problems in the world right now,
dimensionale problemer i verden lige nu,
out-of-the-box thinkers to tackle them.
boksen tænkere til at tackle dem.
in your heart, a specialist.
er en specialist.
you wanted to be a pediatric neurosurgeon.
at du ville være pædiatrisk hjernekirurg.
wrong with you, either.
galt med dig.
are comprised of a specialist
sammensat af en specialist
and implement ideas,
og implementere idéer,
a breadth of knowledge to the project.
projektet en bred viden.
lives and careers
og karrierer
vi er skruet sammen.
are largely being encouraged
i stor stil opfordret
like their specialist peers.
deres specialist kollegaer.
you take away from this talk,
fra denne præsentation,
whatever that may be.
hvordan det end måtte være.
her i lokalet,
who may have just realized
har fundet ud af
down those rabbit holes.
to a happier, more authentic life.
et gladere, mere autentisk liv.
verden har brug for os.
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Emilie Wapnick - Writer, coach, artist ...Career coach Emilie Wapnick celebrates the "multipotentialite" -- those of us with many interests, many jobs over a lifetime, and many interlocking potentials.
Why you should listen
Emilie Wapnick has been a musician/songwriter, a web designer, filmmaker, writer, law student and entrepreneur. "This is how I’ve always lived," she writes, "moving from interest to interest, building on my skills in different areas, and synthesizing the knowledge I acquire along the way."
As a career and life coach, she helps other people with wide and varied interests understand and appreciate who they are, in a society that asks us to pick a lane and stay in it. Her work with "multipotentialites" has resulted in the book Renaissance Business and the interesting website Puttylike.
Wapnick's new book, How to Be Everything: A Guide for Those Who (Still) Don't Know What They Want to Be When They Grow Up, is due out in May 2017.
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