Kate Bowler: "Everything happens for a reason" -- and other lies I've loved
Kejt Bouler (Kate Bowler): „Sve se dešava sa razlogom“ i druge laži koje sam volela
Kate Bowler is reexamining her perspective on the "prosperity gospel": the belief that good things happen to good people. Full bio
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that nobody, absolutely nobody,
koje niko, apsolutno niko,
that I got a call in my office
poziv u kancelariji
the life I wanted.
život kakav sam želela.
iz srednje škole
after years of infertility.
nakon mnogo godina neplodnosti.
ili dinosaurusa,
I applied for in academia,
na koji sam konkurisala,
I'd started feeling pain in my stomach
sam počela da osećam bol u stomaku
to find out why.
da bih otkrila razlog.
called me at work
to come to the hospital right away.
na pamet da kažem je:
and he rushed to find me
koji je pojurio kod mene,
that I have known.
koje sam znala.
the walk to the hospital,
a book called "Blessed."
knjigu pod nazivom „Blagoslovena“.
that good things happen to good people.
dešavaju dobrim ljudima.
nicknamed "the prosperity gospel,"
zvani „jevanđelje napretka“,
that God wants you to prosper.
da bog želi da napredujete.
a follower of the prosperity gospel.
sledbenikom jevanđelja napretka.
that God wants to reward you
da bog želi da vas nagradi
very American theology
ova vrlo američka teologija
interviewing its celebrities.
da bih intervjuisala njena poznata lica.
u razgovoru sa televangelistima
for divine money.
za božanski novac.
with spectacular hair
iz megacrkava sa spektakularnom kosom
in hospital waiting rooms
u bolničkim čekaonicama
sa ljudima u invalidskim kolicima,
as destroyer of family vacations
uništitelja porodičnih odmora
at the fanciest megachurch in town.
kod najluksuznije megacrkve u gradu.
running through the sanctuary,
the whole idea of being "blessed"
čitava ideja o „blagoslovenosti“
vanity license plates and T-shirts
registarskih tablica, majica
one of the most common cultural cliches,
kulturalnih klišea,
hashtags on Instagram,
haštagova na Instagramu,
na kojima jedva da postoji bikini,
„Toliko sam blagoslovena.
the way that the prosperity gospel
kako je jevanđelje napretka
transcendentalno opravdanje
the founding of America itself,
worshipped Americans.
je uzdizalo Amerikance.
i ritualizuje njihovu glad,
I'm nothing like them,"
uopšte nisam kao oni,“
how deeply invested I was
koliko duboko sam zašla
whether you are religious or not,
bilo da ste religiozni ili ne,
to avoid falling into the trap
and success go hand in hand.
idu ruku pod ruku.
that I had my own quiet version
da imam svoju tihu verziju
happen to good people.
dešavaju dobrim ljudima.
shining awards along the way.
sa samo nekoliko sjajnih nagrada.
were only detours
my long, long life.
da će biti moj dug, dug život.
it's a mindset that served me well.
to shvatanje mi je dobro služio.
me je podstaklo na postignuće,
koji mi je dobro služio
I couldn't manage my way out of;
odakle nisam mogla da nađem izlaz,
saying into the phone,
kako govorim u telefon:
I could think of to say.
padalo na pamet da kažem.
moment to accept:
personal prosperity gospel
moje lično jevanđelje napretka.
or special about me could not save me --
ili posebno u vezi sa mnom
is built with paper walls,
da je moj život napravljen od papira,
that we are all a breath away
samo jedan dah deli
destroy something irreplaceable
uništiti nešto nezamenljivo
there are befores and afters.
that I would never go back,
da se nikada ne bih vratila nazad,
so much in perspective.
I wrote about this
nakon što sam se razbolela,
i poslala ga uredniku „Njujork tajmsa“.
at the "New York Times."
vulnerable moments of your life
od najranjivijih trenutaka u svom životu
to feel less vulnerable.
da se osećate manje ranjivo.
of the questions I asked.
koja sam postavila.
without quite so many reasons
bez naročitih razloga
bez preteranih formula
without outrageous formulas
ono što dobiju?
and so terrible was, of course,
i tako strašno je, naravno,
ljude da malo smanje
for the bad things that happened.
za loše stvari koje su se dogodile.
that there had to be a reason
da mora postojati razlog
to understand the reason.
that my cancer is all part of a plan.
da je moj rak deo plana.
it was God's plan that I get cancer
da je božji plan da dobijem rak
by writing about it.
tako što ću pisati o tome.
it is a test of my character
da je to provera mog karaktera
što sam učinila.
to this seeming chaos.
u ovom prividnom haosu.
my wife is dying."
za to što moja žena umire.“
our hard work will pay off,
da li će se naš trud isplatiti,
will always make our partners happy
naši partneri uvek biti srećni,
in which not one ounce
or our deepest hopes will be for nothing.
neće biti uzaludan.
in which nothing is lost.
u kojem ništa nije izgubljeno.
in living with stage IV cancer
kroz život sa rakom IV stadijuma
I've experienced more pain and trauma
doživela sam više bola i traume
so many abdominal surgeries
toliko operacija na stomaku
I've experienced love,
Research Foundation,
about their brushes with death
o njihovom dodiru sa smrću
o istoj čudnoj stvari:
if it hadn't reminded me
da me nije podsetilo
uncomfortable telling anyone:
da bilo kome kažem:
that I was going to die,
I have experienced.
stvari koje sam doživela.
felt abandoned by God,
kao da me je bog napustio,
around me like worker bees,
kao pčele radilice,
with words of encouragement.
like it had revealed to me
da mi je moja patnja razotkrila
of people just like me,
ljudi kao što sam ja,
they were entitled to
realize they had made.
da su pravili.
somehow, with other people,
veće povezanosti sa drugima,
stayed with me for months.
at the prospect of losing it.
zbog mogućnosti da ga izgubim.
historians, nuns I liked,
koje su mi se dopadale:
when that loving feeling is gone?"
taj divni osećaj nestane?“
what I was talking about,
experienced it themselves
in great works of Christian theology.
hrišćanske teologije.
for how to get it back."
this little piece of reassurance,
the thousands of emails I get
na hiljade mejlova koje dobijam
to divine health
za božansko zdravlje
that are wonderful and terrible,
koji su divni i užasni,
that these opposites
da se ove suprotnosti
appear to be working,
and waiting with scans.
to embarrass my son
dovoljno dugo da osramotim sina
lose his beautiful hair.
kako gubi svoju lepu kosu.
that nothing will be lost.
da ništa neće biti izgubljeno.
of prosperity gospel that I believe in.
jevanđelja napretka u koju verujem.
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Kate Bowler - Divinity professor, authorKate Bowler is reexamining her perspective on the "prosperity gospel": the belief that good things happen to good people.
Why you should listen
After being diagnosed with stage IV cancer at age 35, Duke tenured professor and author Kate Bowler launched a national conversation about why it feels so difficult to speak frankly about suffering. She delves into how we live and cope with pain and suffering in Everything Happens for a Reason: And Other Lies I've Loved, a New York Times bestselling memoir, and in her popular podcast, Everything Happens. She is also the author of Blessed: A History of the American Prosperity Gospel, which received widespread media and academic attention as the first history of a movement based on divine promises of health, wealth and happiness. She has appeared on NPR and The TODAY Show, Amanpour & Company as well as in the New York Times, Washington Post and TIME Magazine. Her work has also been praised by a wide variety of religious and political publications, from liberal print media to conservative talk radio.
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