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Srikumar Rao: Plug into your hard-wired happiness
Šrikumar Rao (Srikumar Rao): Priklonite se sreći koja vam je urođena
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Šrikumar Rao kaže da provodimo većinu života učeći da budemo nesrećni, čak i dok težimo sreći. Na događaju Arbejdsglaede Live! 2009. godine, uči nas kako da se oslobodimo mentalnog modela „bio bih srećan ako...“ i da prigrlimo sreću koja nam je urođena.
Srikumar Rao - Happiness teacher
Executive, educator, writer and life coach Srikumar S. Rao asks, "Are you ready to succeed?" -- and in his famous course "Creativity and Personal Mastery," he teaches his students how to do so. Full bio
Executive, educator, writer and life coach Srikumar S. Rao asks, "Are you ready to succeed?" -- and in his famous course "Creativity and Personal Mastery," he teaches his students how to do so. Full bio
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I have a vision for each one of you,
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Imam viziju za svakog od vas,
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and the vision I have for you
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a vizija koju imam je da,
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is that when you wake up in the morning,
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kada se probudite ujutru,
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your blood is singing at the thought
of being who you are
of being who you are
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vaša krv peva na pomisao
da ste ono što jeste
da ste ono što jeste
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and doing what you do;
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i radite ono što radite;
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that as you go through the day,
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da, dok nastavljate sa danom,
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you can literally sink
to your knees in gratitude
to your knees in gratitude
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možete bukvalno da padnete
na kolena iz zahvalnosti
na kolena iz zahvalnosti
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at the tremendous good fortune
that's been bestowed on you;
that's been bestowed on you;
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zbog ogromne sreće koja vam je darovana;
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that as you go through the day,
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da, dok nastavljate sa danom,
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you become radiantly alive several times.
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postanete blistavo živahni nekoliko puta.
00:43
And if your life isn't like that,
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Ako vaš život nije takav,
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I'd like to humbly suggest
that you're wasting your life.
that you're wasting your life.
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skromno bih ukazao
na to da traćite svoj život.
na to da traćite svoj život.
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A life is too short to be wasted.
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Život je suviše kratak
da bi se uludo trošio.
da bi se uludo trošio.
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So what I propose to do
in the next 17 minutes --
in the next 17 minutes --
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Zato predlažem
da vam u narednih 17 minuta,
da vam u narednih 17 minuta,
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I've used up one minute already --
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a već sam iskoristio jedan minut,
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is to give you a set of powerful tools
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iznesem skup moćnih alatki
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which can get you started on being there.
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pomoću kojih možete postići taj cilj.
01:06
Is that of interest to you?
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Da li vas to zanima?
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Audience: Yes.
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Publika: Da.
01:09
Srikumar Rao: OK.
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Šrikumar Rao: U redu.
01:10
This is a conference on happiness,
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Ovo je konferencija o sreći,
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but even if it wasn't
a conference on happiness,
a conference on happiness,
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ali čak i da nije konferencija o sreći,
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would it be right if I said
that in some way, shape, fashion or form,
that in some way, shape, fashion or form,
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da li bi bilo ispravno kada bih rekao da,
nekako, na neki način,
u nekom vidu ili obliku,
u nekom vidu ili obliku,
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you're devoting your entire life
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ceo svoj život posvećujete
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to being happy?
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tome da budete srećni?
01:23
Everything you do -- your job, family,
children, relationships, whatever --
children, relationships, whatever --
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Sve što radite - vaš posao, porodica,
deca, odnosi, šta god -
deca, odnosi, šta god -
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is a quest for happiness.
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potraga je za srećom.
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Correct?
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Zar ne?
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I'd like you to think about the following:
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Hteo bih da razmislite o sledećem.
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What do you have to get
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Šta je potrebno da dobijete
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in order to be happy?
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da biste bili srećni?
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We're just going to spend
a minute on this.
a minute on this.
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Posvetićemo samo minut ovome.
Šta vam je potrebno da biste bili srećni?
01:43
What do you have to get
in order to be happy?
in order to be happy?
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01:48
Anybody, quick?
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Bilo ko, na brzinu?
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When I conduct this experiment,
a bunch of stuff comes up:
a bunch of stuff comes up:
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Kada sprovodim ovaj eksperiment,
gomila stvari proizađe:
gomila stvari proizađe:
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vast wealth, trophy spouse, good health,
lots of travel, time, etc, etc, etc.
lots of travel, time, etc, etc, etc.
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ogromno bogatstvo,
supružnik koji je premija,
supružnik koji je premija,
dobro zdravlje,
mnogo putovanja, vremena itd.
mnogo putovanja, vremena itd.
U ovom trenutku,
kada biste razmislili o tome,
kada biste razmislili o tome,
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Right now, if you were to think about it,
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you probably have a list
of, "Here's what I need to get
of, "Here's what I need to get
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verovatno imate spisak stvari
koje su vam potrebne
koje su vam potrebne
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in order to be happy."
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da biste bili srećni.
02:08
I would like you to consider this:
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Hteo bih da razmotrite sledeće.
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anything that you can get --
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Bilo šta što možete da steknete -
da ponovim to - bilo šta što steknete,
može da više ne bude vaše.
može da više ne bude vaše.
02:13
let me repeat that -- anything
you can get, you can un-get.
you can get, you can un-get.
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02:16
Is that correct?
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Da li je to tačno?
02:17
So, vast wealth can make you happy.
Vast wealth can disappear tomorrow.
Vast wealth can disappear tomorrow.
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Dakle, veliko bogatstvo vas može usrećiti.
Veliko bogatstvo može sutradan nestati.
Veliko bogatstvo može sutradan nestati.
02:21
A number of people in the financial sector
have discovered this already.
have discovered this already.
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Veliki broj ljudi u sektoru finansija
to je već otkrio.
to je već otkrio.
02:26
So whatever you get
that can make you happy
that can make you happy
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Dakle, sve što steknete,
a što vas čini srećnima, može nestati.
a što vas čini srećnima, može nestati.
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can go away.
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Na čemu ste onda?
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Where does that leave you?
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02:33
Not a very nice place, right?
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Ne baš u sjajnoj poziciji, zar ne?
Imam drugačiji predlog za vas.
02:35
I have a different proposition
to suggest to you.
to suggest to you.
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02:38
What I have to suggest to you
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Ono na šta imam da vam ukažem
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is that there is nothing
that you have to get, do or be
that you have to get, do or be
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je da ne postoji ništa što morate
da dobijete, uradite ili budete
da dobijete, uradite ili budete
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in order to be happy.
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da biste bili srećni.
02:46
Let me repeat that:
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Da ponovim,
ne postoji ništa što morate da dobijete,
uradite ili budete da biste bili srećni.
uradite ili budete da biste bili srećni.
02:47
there is nothing that you have to get,
do or be in order to be happy.
do or be in order to be happy.
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02:51
In fact, happiness is your innate nature.
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Zapravo, sreća je u vašoj
unutrašnjoj prirodi.
unutrašnjoj prirodi.
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It is hardwired into you.
It is part of your DNA.
It is part of your DNA.
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Ugrađena je u vas. Deo je vaše DNK.
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You cannot not be happy.
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Ne možete da ne budete srećni.
03:02
Now, all of you are very polite,
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E, sad, vi ste vrlo pristojni,
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and in some of the other forums
I speak in, such as top business schools,
I speak in, such as top business schools,
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a na nekim drugim okupljanjima
na kojima govorim,
na kojima govorim,
kao što su vrhunske škole poslovanja,
nisu baš tako pristojni.
nisu baš tako pristojni.
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they're not so polite.
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03:09
And invariably, somebody articulates
what many of you are thinking,
what many of you are thinking,
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Neizbežno, neko iznese
ono o čemu mnogi među vama misle,
ono o čemu mnogi među vama misle,
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which is: "If happiness
is my innate nature,
is my innate nature,
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a to je: „Ako je sreća
u mojoj urođenoj prirodi,
u mojoj urođenoj prirodi,
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how come I am not experiencing it?
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kako to da je ne osećam?
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How come I am experiencing my life sucks?"
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Kako to da imam doživljaj
da je moj život bezveze?“
da je moj život bezveze?“
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(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
03:24
And the answer to that
is actually very simple.
is actually very simple.
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Odgovor na to je zapravo vrlo jednostavan.
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You have spent your entire life
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Proveli ste čitav život
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learning to be unhappy.
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učeći da budete nesrećni.
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Let me repeat that: you have spent
your entire life learning to be unhappy.
your entire life learning to be unhappy.
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Da ponovim, proveli ste čitav život
učeći da budete nesrećni.
učeći da budete nesrećni.
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And the way we learn to be unhappy
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Biti nesrećan se uči
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is by buying into
a particular mental model.
a particular mental model.
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prihvatanjem specifičnog mentalnog modela.
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A mental model is a notion we have
that this is the way the world works.
that this is the way the world works.
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Mentalni model je predstava koju imamo
o načinu na koji svet funkcioniše.
o načinu na koji svet funkcioniše.
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All of us have mental models,
we've got dozens of mental models.
we've got dozens of mental models.
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Svi mi imamo mentalne modele,
desetine mentalnih modela.
desetine mentalnih modela.
Imamo mentalne modele
o tome kako pronaći posao,
o tome kako pronaći posao,
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We've got mental models
on how to find a job,
on how to find a job,
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kako napredovati na poslu,
kako odabrati restoran u kome ćemo jesti,
kako odabrati restoran u kome ćemo jesti,
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how to get ahead at work,
how to pick a restaurant to eat at,
how to pick a restaurant to eat at,
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04:00
how to have a movie
to go to ... dozens of them.
to go to ... dozens of them.
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koji film ćemo gledati... Desetine njih.
04:03
The problem isn't
that we have mental models.
that we have mental models.
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Problem nije u tome
što imamo mentalne modele.
što imamo mentalne modele.
04:05
The problem is that we don't know
that we have mental models.
that we have mental models.
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Problem je taj što ne znamo
da imamo mentalne modele.
da imamo mentalne modele.
Mislimo da je to način
na koji svet funkcioniše.
na koji svet funkcioniše.
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We think this is the way the world works.
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04:10
And the more we invest in a mental model,
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Što više ulažemo u mentalni model,
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the more it appears that this, in fact,
is the way the world works.
is the way the world works.
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sve se više čini da to zapravo i jeste
način na koji svet funkcioniše.
način na koji svet funkcioniše.
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But it isn't: it's just a mental model,
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Međutim, nije, to je samo mentalni model,
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and the mental model we have
that we buy into so strongly
that we buy into so strongly
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a mentalni model koji imamo
i koga se tako snažno držimo
i koga se tako snažno držimo
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is that we have to get something
so we can do something
so we can do something
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je da moramo da imamo nešto
da bismo uradili nešto
da bismo uradili nešto
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so we can be something.
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tako da bismo bili nešto.
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Like, we have to get a great deal of money
so we can travel to exotic places
so we can travel to exotic places
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Na primer, moramo da steknemo mnogo novca
da bismo putovali na egzotična mesta
da bismo putovali na egzotična mesta
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so we can be happy.
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da bismo bili srećni.
04:34
We have to be in a relationship
so we can have great sex
so we can have great sex
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Moramo da budemo u vezi
da bismo imali sjajne seksualne odnose
da bismo imali sjajne seksualne odnose
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so we can be happy.
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da bismo bili srećni.
04:39
All of this is a variation
of the if-then model.
of the if-then model.
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Sve to su varijacije modela „ako-onda“.
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And the if-then model is:
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Model „ako-onda“ znači -
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if this happens,
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ako se ovo desi,
04:48
then we will be happy.
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onda ćemo biti srećni.
04:52
If I were to get a better job,
if I were to get more money,
if I were to get more money,
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Kada bih dobio bolji posao,
kada bih imao više novca,
kada bih imao više novca,
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if my boss would have a heart attack,
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kada bi moj šef doživeo srčani udar,
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if only I was married,
if only my wife would leave me --
if only my wife would leave me --
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samo kada bih bio u braku,
samo kada bi me žena ostavila,
samo kada bi me žena ostavila,
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(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
05:04
if only I had children,
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samo kada bih imao dece,
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if my children would grow up
and go to college ...
and go to college ...
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kada bi moja deca odrasla
i krenula na fakultet...
i krenula na fakultet...
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It doesn't matter what it is.
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Svejedno šta je u pitanju.
05:11
The whole notion is if this happens,
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Cela ideja je o tome da,
ako se ovo dogodi,
ako se ovo dogodi,
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then I will be happy.
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onda ću biti srećan.
05:17
And right now, the only thing
that's different
that's different
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U ovom trenutku, jedino što je različito
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between the persons in this audience
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među ljudima u ovoj publici
05:23
is what is the particular "if"
that you are focusing on?
that you are focusing on?
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je koje je to specifično „ako“
na koje ste fokusirani.
na koje ste fokusirani.
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And the only thing that's different
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Jedino što je drugačije
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between you now
and where you were 10 years ago
and where you were 10 years ago
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kod vas danas u odnosu
na vas pre deset godina
na vas pre deset godina
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is what is the particular "if"
that you were focusing on?
that you were focusing on?
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je koje je to određeno „ako“
na koje ste se fokusirali.
na koje ste se fokusirali.
05:34
Think about your life 10 years ago.
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Razmislite o svom životu pre deset godina.
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Spend a minute doing that.
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Odvojite minut za to.
05:40
Ten years ago, if you remember clearly,
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Pre deset godina, ako se dobro prisetite,
želeli ste određene stvari.
želeli ste određene stvari.
05:42
there were certain things you wanted.
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Je l' tako?
05:43
Is that correct?
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05:45
Odds are pretty good
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Prilično su dobri izgledi
da sada imate mnoge od tih stvari
koje ste želeli pre deset godina.
koje ste želeli pre deset godina.
05:47
that many of those things you wanted
10 years ago you now have.
10 years ago you now have.
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05:50
Is that correct?
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Je l' tako?
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Where has that left you?
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Šta ste time dobili?
05:56
In exactly the same place, right?
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I dalje ste na istom, zar ne?
05:59
What we don't realize
is the model itself is flawed.
is the model itself is flawed.
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Ono što ne shvatamo
je da je sam taj model pogrešan.
je da je sam taj model pogrešan.
06:03
The if-then model --
"If this happens I will be happy" --
"If this happens I will be happy" --
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Model „ako-onda“ -
„ako se to desi, biću srećan“ -
„ako se to desi, biću srećan“ -
06:06
the model itself is flawed.
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sam taj model je pogrešan.
06:09
But instead of recognizing
that it is the model itself that's flawed,
that it is the model itself that's flawed,
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Umesto da prepoznamo
da je sam taj model pogrešan,
da je sam taj model pogrešan,
06:13
what we do is spend
enormous amounts of time
enormous amounts of time
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mi provodimo ogromnu količinu vremena
06:17
changing the "if."
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menjajući deo „ako“.
06:19
"Oh, well, I thought if I became
CEO it would help,
CEO it would help,
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„Pa, mislio sam da će pomoći
ako postanem generalni direktor,
ako postanem generalni direktor,
ali sada shvatam da nije stvar u tome
da hoću da budem direktor.
da hoću da budem direktor.
06:22
but now I realize it's not
that I want to become a CEO.
that I want to become a CEO.
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06:25
I want to become the billionaire CEO,
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Hoću da budem direktor milijarder,
06:28
and then I will be happy."
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a tada ću biti srećan.“
06:30
You've got your own variation on that.
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Imate svoje varijacije na tu temu.
06:32
But it's the model itself that's flawed,
not what you put on the "if" side
not what you put on the "if" side
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Međutim, sam taj model je pogrešan,
a ne ono što stavite na stranu „ako“
a ne ono što stavite na stranu „ako“
06:37
of the equation.
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u jednačini.
06:38
I can demonstrate that to you.
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Mogu to da vam ilustrujem.
Da li se neko od vas
može prisetiti trenutka
može prisetiti trenutka
06:40
Can any of you recall a time
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06:42
when you were confronted with a scene
of such spectacular beauty
of such spectacular beauty
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kada ste se susreli sa prizorom
tako upečatljive lepote
tako upečatljive lepote
06:47
that it took you outside of yourself
into a place of great serenity?
into a place of great serenity?
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da vas je izmestio iz sopstvene kože
i odveo na mesto velikog spokoja?
i odveo na mesto velikog spokoja?
06:52
Maybe a rainbow, a mountain range,
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Možda je u pitanju duga, planinski venac,
06:54
a valley, the sea.
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dolina, more.
06:56
And if you remember that --
raise your hands if you could.
raise your hands if you could.
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Ako se sećate toga -
podignite ruke ako ste se setili.
podignite ruke ako ste se setili.
06:59
Virtually all of you could, right?
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Gotovo svi ste mogli, zar ne?
07:01
Have you ever wondered why that happened?
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Da li ste se ikada zapitali
zašto se to dogodilo?
zašto se to dogodilo?
07:04
The reason that happened is that somehow,
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Razlog tome je da ste nekako,
07:08
for some reason,
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iz nekog razloga,
07:10
at that instant,
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u tom trenutku
07:13
you accepted the universe
exactly as it was.
exactly as it was.
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prihvatili univerzum
baš onakav kakav jeste.
baš onakav kakav jeste.
07:18
You didn't say,
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Niste rekli:
„To je prelepa duga,
ali nekako ide malo više ulevo,
ali nekako ide malo više ulevo,
07:19
"That's a beautiful rainbow,
but it's kind of off to the left,
but it's kind of off to the left,
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a kad biste je pomerili 200 metara udesno,
07:22
and if I could move it
200 yards to the right,
200 yards to the right,
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07:25
it would be ever so much more beautiful."
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bila bi mnogo lepša.“
07:27
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
07:29
You didn't say,
"That's a beautiful valley,
"That's a beautiful valley,
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Niste rekli: „To je prelepa dolina,
07:31
but the tree in the foreground
has too many crooked branches.
has too many crooked branches.
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ali drvo koje se tu ističe
ima previše krivih grana.
ima previše krivih grana.
07:34
So if you gave me
a chainsaw and 20 minutes,
a chainsaw and 20 minutes,
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Ako biste mi dali
motornu testeru i 20 minuta,
motornu testeru i 20 minuta,
07:36
I'd make it ever so much better."
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učinio bih je mnogo lepšom.“
07:39
Oh no, the rainbow off-center
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Ne, dugina nepodešenost
07:40
was just fine.
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je bila sasvim u redu.
07:41
The tree with its crooked branches
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Drvo sa iskrivljenim granama
07:43
was just fine.
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bilo je sasvim u redu.
07:44
And the moment you accepted
the universe just as it was,
the universe just as it was,
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Tog trenutka kada ste prihvatili
univerzum onakvog kakav jeste,
univerzum onakvog kakav jeste,
07:49
your habitual-wanting self dropped away,
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nestalo je vaše ja koje po običaju traži,
07:53
and the happiness which is
your innate nature surfaced,
your innate nature surfaced,
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a isplivala je sreća
koja je vaše urođeno stanje
koja je vaše urođeno stanje
07:56
and you felt it.
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i to ste osetili.
07:57
And I know you felt it because now,
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Znam da ste to osetili jer se sada,
08:00
even now after all those years,
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čak i nakon svih tih godina,
08:02
you can still remember it.
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i dalje možete setiti toga.
08:06
The problem is that your life right now,
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Problem je u tome
što je vaš sadašnji život,
što je vaš sadašnji život,
08:09
with all of the problems that you have --
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sa svim problemima koje imate -
08:11
more precisely, all of the problems
that you think you have --
that you think you have --
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preciznije, sa svim problemima
koje mislite da imate -
koje mislite da imate -
08:16
is equally perfect.
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podjednako savršen.
08:19
But you do not accept it.
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Ipak, vi to ne prihvatate.
08:21
In fact, you're spending all your time
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U stvari, provodite celokupno svoje vreme
08:24
striving with might and main
to make it different.
to make it different.
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boreći se svim silama da ga promenite.
08:28
You are not accepting it.
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Ne prihvatate ga.
08:31
And when you're not accepting it,
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A ako ga ne prihvatate,
08:33
you're buying into the if-then model:
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onda utonete u model „ako-onda“ -
08:35
if this happens, then I will be happy.
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ako se ovo desi, onda ću biti srećan,
08:38
And it's the model itself that is flawed.
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a sam taj model je pogrešan.
Dopustite da vam zato pokažem
kako možete izaći iz toga,
kako možete izaći iz toga,
08:43
So let me show you how
you can get out of that,
you can get out of that,
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08:45
or at least you can begin the steps
towards getting out of that.
towards getting out of that.
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ili makar kako možete otpočeti
sa koracima ka izlaženju iz toga.
sa koracima ka izlaženju iz toga.
08:50
I'd like to share with you that action.
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Hteo bih da podelim sa vama tu akciju.
08:52
We all live our lives because we want
to achieve something, correct?
to achieve something, correct?
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Svi živimo svojim životom jer želimo
da nešto postignemo, je l' tako?
da nešto postignemo, je l' tako?
08:56
You know, we are here
and we want to have something.
and we want to have something.
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Znate, ovde smo i hoćemo da imamo nešto.
08:58
Alex wants to have
a successful conference.
a successful conference.
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Aleks želi da ima uspešnu konferenciju.
09:01
You know, many of you want to have
great programs for your companies
great programs for your companies
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Znate, mnogi među vama žele da imaju
sjajne programe za svoje kompanije
sjajne programe za svoje kompanije
09:05
that are very successful.
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koje su veoma uspešne.
09:06
You want to progress, have more money,
all of that, is that correct?
all of that, is that correct?
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Želite na napredujete, imate više novca,
sve to, zar nije tako?
sve to, zar nije tako?
09:13
Each of those is an outcome;
you would like something to happen.
you would like something to happen.
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Sve to su ishodi;
voleli biste da se nešto dogodi.
voleli biste da se nešto dogodi.
09:17
Now, I'd like you to think
about the following:
about the following:
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Sada bih hteo da razmislite o sledećem -
postupci su pod vašom kontrolom;
09:20
actions are within your control,
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09:22
not entirely, but to a large extent.
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ne potpuno, ali u većoj meri.
09:24
The outcome is completely
out of your control.
out of your control.
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Ishod je potpuno izvan vaše kontrole.
09:27
OK?
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U redu?
09:28
Actions are within your control.
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Postupci su pod vašom kontrolom.
09:30
The outcome is completely
outside your control.
outside your control.
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Ishodi su potpuno van vaše kontrole.
09:32
Have any of you recognized
that when you have a goal
that when you have a goal
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Da li je iko među vama primetio
da, kada imate cilj
da, kada imate cilj
09:35
and you start to work towards it,
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i počnete da radite ka njemu,
09:37
some of the time
you don't achieve your goal,
you don't achieve your goal,
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ponekad ne dostignete svoj cilj,
09:39
and some of the time what you get
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a ponekad dobijete
09:41
is the exact opposite of what you wanted?
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ono što je potpuno suprotno
onome što ste hteli?
onome što ste hteli?
09:43
Has that happened to any of you?
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Da li se to dogodilo nekome od vas?
09:46
Like there was a friend of mine
who said, "Gee, you know,
who said, "Gee, you know,
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Na primer, jedan moj prijatelj
je jednom rekao: „Bože, znaš,
je jednom rekao: „Bože, znaš,
nisam posvećivao
dovoljno pažnje svojoj ženi
dovoljno pažnje svojoj ženi
09:49
I have not been paying
a lot of attention to my wife,
a lot of attention to my wife,
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i to mora da se promeni.“
09:53
and this has to change."
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09:54
So the next time
we went on a business trip,
we went on a business trip,
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Sledeći put kada smo otišli
na poslovni put,
na poslovni put,
09:56
he bought a very expensive dress for her.
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kupio joj je vrlo skupu haljinu.
09:59
And this was his way of showing,
you know, I care for you,
you know, I care for you,
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To je bio njegov način
da pokaže da mu je stalo,
da pokaže da mu je stalo,
10:02
and nice things would happen.
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da bi se lepe stvari dogodile.
10:04
And when he presented the gift
to his wife, her immediate reaction was,
to his wife, her immediate reaction was,
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Kada je predao poklon svojoj ženi,
njena reakcija u tom trenutku je bila:
njena reakcija u tom trenutku je bila:
10:09
"After 20 years of marriage,
you don't know my size?"
you don't know my size?"
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„Nakon 20 godina braka,
ne znaš koju veličinu nosim?“
ne znaš koju veličinu nosim?“
10:12
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
10:14
"And furthermore, don't you know
I never wear this kind of thing?"
I never wear this kind of thing?"
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„Osim toga, zar ne znaš
da nikada ne nosim takve stvari?“
da nikada ne nosim takve stvari?“
10:19
And the next thing you know,
he had a full-blown marital spat.
he had a full-blown marital spat.
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U sledećem trenutku,
imali su bračnu razmiricu velikih razmera.
imali su bračnu razmiricu velikih razmera.
10:23
Has that happened to any of you?
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Da li se to desilo nekome od vas?
10:24
You've taken action
for a particular outcome
for a particular outcome
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Preduzeli ste akcije radi određenog cilja
i ishod koji ste dobili
bio je potpuno suprotan
bio je potpuno suprotan
10:27
and the outcome you got
was the exact opposite
was the exact opposite
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10:29
of what you wanted?
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onome što ste želeli?
10:31
Happens all the time.
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To se stalno dešava.
10:33
Well, we live in a world
where what we think of,
where what we think of,
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Živimo u svetu
u kome ono o čemu razmišljamo,
u kome ono o čemu razmišljamo,
10:37
what we invest in,
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ono u šta ulažemo,
10:39
is the outcome.
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predstavlja ishod.
10:40
We define our life in the following way:
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Definišemo svoj život na sledeći način -
ovde se nalazim, ovde hoću da budem,
10:42
here I am, here is where I want to go,
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ovo su koraci koje treba da preduzmem
kako bih stigao sa mesta na kome sam
kako bih stigao sa mesta na kome sam
10:44
these are the steps I have to take
in order to get from where I am
in order to get from where I am
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10:48
to where I want to go,
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na ono gde želim da budem,
10:49
and if I succeed, life is wonderful.
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a ako uspem, život je predivan.
10:52
And if I don't, then I have failed,
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Ako ne uspem, onda sam promašio,
10:56
life is no good, life sucks.
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život nije dobar, život ne valja.
11:00
True? False?
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Da li je tako ili nije?
11:02
That is how we live.
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Tako živimo.
11:03
We invest in the outcome,
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Ulažemo u ishode,
11:05
and as I've just pointed out,
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a kao što sam upravo ukazao,
11:07
the outcome is frequently different
from what we would like,
from what we would like,
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ishodi su često drugačiji
u odnosu na ono što bismo voleli,
u odnosu na ono što bismo voleli,
11:11
and sometimes the diametric opposite
of what we would like.
of what we would like.
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a ponekad dijametralno suprotni
u odnosu na ono što bismo voleli.
u odnosu na ono što bismo voleli.
11:14
You invest in the outcome
and you are guaranteed to have
and you are guaranteed to have
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Ulažite u ishode i garantovano ćete imati
11:18
more than your share of frustration, angst
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i previše frustracija, anksioznosti
11:20
and all the rest of the stuff
that makes life suck.
that makes life suck.
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i ostalih stvari
zbog kojih vam je život bezveze.
zbog kojih vam je život bezveze.
11:24
There is an alternative.
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Postoji alternativa.
11:26
And the alternative is that you do not
invest in the outcome,
invest in the outcome,
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Alternativa je da ne ulažete u ishod,
11:29
you invest in the process.
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već ulažete u proces.
11:33
And the best way to describe that
is a quote by John Wooden.
is a quote by John Wooden.
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Najbolji način da to opišem
je pomoću citata Džona Vudena.
je pomoću citata Džona Vudena.
11:37
I don't know how many of you
are familiar with John Wooden.
are familiar with John Wooden.
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Ne znam koliko vas zna za Džona Vudena.
On je veoma poznat u Sjedinjenim Državama,
11:40
He's very well-known in the United States
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11:42
and certainly among basketball fans.
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svakako među obožavaocima košarke.
11:45
He's the only person ever to make
the basketball Hall of Fame
the basketball Hall of Fame
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On je jedina osoba koja je dospela
do Dvorane slavnih u košarci
do Dvorane slavnih u košarci
11:49
both as a player and as a coach.
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kao igrač i kao trener.
11:51
And what he told his entering team --
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Nikada nije govorio timu koji dolazi -
vodio je tim Univerziteta u Kalifoniji,
Los Anđeles, ka nečuvenom broju pobeda
Los Anđeles, ka nečuvenom broju pobeda
11:53
he led UCLA to an unprecedented number
of victories and finals in the NCAA --
of victories and finals in the NCAA --
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i finala Nacionalne studentske
sportske asocijacije -
sportske asocijacije -
11:59
and what he used to tell any new team
is he never spoke about winning.
is he never spoke about winning.
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nikada nije govorio
nijednom novom timu o pobeđivanju.
nijednom novom timu o pobeđivanju.
12:06
He always said, "When it's over
and you look in the mirror,
and you look in the mirror,
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Uvek je govorio: „Kada je sve gotovo
i kada se pogledate u ogledalu,
i kada se pogledate u ogledalu,
12:10
did you do the best
that you were capable of?
that you were capable of?
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da li ste dali sve od sebe?
12:13
And if you did the best
that you were capable of,
that you were capable of,
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Ako jeste dali sve od sebe,
12:16
the score doesn't matter.
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rezultat nije bitan.
12:18
But I would suspect that if you did
the best that you were capable of,
the best that you were capable of,
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Ipak, pretpostavljam da će vam se,
ako date sve od sebe,
ako date sve od sebe,
12:22
you will find the score to your liking."
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svideti rezultat.“
12:26
That is investing in a process.
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To je ulaganje u proces.
12:29
What we do is the exact opposite.
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Ono što mi radimo
je potpuno suprotno tome.
je potpuno suprotno tome.
12:31
We invest in the outcome.
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Ulažemo u ishod.
12:33
This is what I want -- oh,
I want it so desperately,
I want it so desperately,
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„Hoću ovo, o, očajnički to želim,
12:36
because if I get it I will be happy.
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jer ako to dobijem, biću srećan.“
12:38
And you try with might and main,
to do whatever you can,
to do whatever you can,
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Trudite se svim silama
da uradite sve što možete,
da uradite sve što možete,
12:42
but you are always focusing
on, "This is the outcome."
on, "This is the outcome."
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ali ste uvek fokusirani na „ovo je ishod“.
12:46
Now, focusing on the outcome is fine.
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E, sad, fokusiranje na ishod je u redu;
12:48
It gives you direction.
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daje vam pravac.
12:50
Investing in the outcome means
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Ulaganje u ishod znači
12:52
that you make the achievement
of a particular outcome
of a particular outcome
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da postižete ostvarenje
određenog rezultata
određenog rezultata
12:57
dependent for your well-being.
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od koga zavisi vaša dobrobit,
12:59
And that is a surefire recipe for failure.
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a to je siguran recept za neuspeh.
13:03
What you can do is something else.
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Možete uraditi nešto drugo.
13:05
You can invest in the process.
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Možete ulagati u proces.
13:09
That is, once you have determined,
here is where I am,
here is where I am,
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Odnosno, kada jednom ustanovite
gde se nalazite,
gde se nalazite,
13:12
here is where I want to be,
and that's fine,
and that's fine,
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gde želite da budete i to je u redu,
13:15
you focus on the outcome only
to the extent that it gives you direction,
to the extent that it gives you direction,
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fokusirate se na ishod samo u toj meri
da vam to daje pravac,
da vam to daje pravac,
13:19
and then you invest yourself
completely in the process.
completely in the process.
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a zatim potpuno ulažete sebe u proces.
13:22
You say, here are the steps
you want to take,
you want to take,
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Kažete: „Ovo su koraci koje ću preduzeti“
13:24
and you put everything into it.
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i uložite sve u to.
13:26
And if you succeed, wonderful.
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Ako uspete, odlično.
13:30
And if you don't succeed,
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Ako ne uspete,
13:32
still wonderful,
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i dalje je odlično,
13:36
because now you have a new starting point,
and from that new starting point,
and from that new starting point,
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jer sada imate novu polaznu tačku
i sa te polazne tačke
i sa te polazne tačke
13:39
you select another outcome and keep going.
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birate sledeći ishod i nastavljate dalje.
13:42
And when you do that, you will find
that every day is a blast.
that every day is a blast.
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Kada to uradite, uvidećete
da je svaki dan uživancija.
da je svaki dan uživancija.
Dozvolite da vam dam primer.
13:46
Let me give you an example.
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13:48
And if you have children -- raise
your hands if you have children.
your hands if you have children.
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Podignite ruku ako imate dece.
Jeste li ikada videli
dete koje uči da hoda?
dete koje uči da hoda?
13:51
Have you ever seen
a small child learn to walk?
a small child learn to walk?
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13:54
What happens, and this happens
typically between 11 and 13 months,
typically between 11 and 13 months,
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Ono što se desi, a obično se desi
između 11. i 13. meseca,
između 11. i 13. meseca,
13:57
is the child gets up
and she sees everybody walking,
and she sees everybody walking,
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jeste da dete ustane i vidi da svi hodaju,
14:01
she wants to walk, she gets up,
she falls down, she starts crying
she falls down, she starts crying
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ono hoće da hoda, ustane,
padne, počne da plače,
padne, počne da plače,
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and momma runs up and comforts her,
kisses the place, makes it well.
kisses the place, makes it well.
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mama dotrči da uteši
i poljubi gde boli da bude bolje.
i poljubi gde boli da bude bolje.
14:09
She tries again, falls down,
mommy runs up again.
mommy runs up again.
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Ono proba ponovo, padne,
mama ponovo dotrči.
mama ponovo dotrči.
14:12
After some time, mommy feels tired
and no longer runs up
and no longer runs up
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Nakon izvesnog vremena,
mama se umori i više ne dotrčava
mama se umori i više ne dotrčava
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and the child stops crying,
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i dete prestane da plače,
14:17
and then she gets up, takes a step
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zatim ustane, zakorači
14:19
and doesn't fall down,
and then she takes another,
and then she takes another,
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i ne padne, onda načini sledeći korak
14:22
and a beautiful smile comes on her face.
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i prelepi osmeh mu se javi na licu.
14:24
And very soon, generally within 24 hours,
she's walking all over the place,
she's walking all over the place,
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Vrlo uskoro, uglavnom u roku od 24 sata,
ono šeta svuda unaokolo
ono šeta svuda unaokolo
14:28
upsetting your living room arrangements.
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i remeti raspored u dnevnoj sobi.
14:30
And you know you've gone
to a new stage of parenting.
to a new stage of parenting.
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Tada znate da ste
na novom stadijumu roditeljstva.
na novom stadijumu roditeljstva.
14:33
Right?
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Zar ne?
14:34
Now, imagine what would happen
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Sada zamislite šta bi se dogodilo
14:37
if each time the child fell,
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kada bi dete, svaki put kada padne,
14:40
she would say, "Oh my God, I failed again.
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reklo: „O bože, opet nisam uspela.
14:43
I'm never going to learn to walk."
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Nikada neću naučiti da hodam.“
14:46
And you have to get counseling for her
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Onda morate da je vodite na savetovanje
14:48
to help her deal with
feelings of inadequacy
feelings of inadequacy
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da joj pomognete da se izbori
sa osećanjima neadekvatnosti
sa osećanjima neadekvatnosti
14:51
and not being able to achieve
and fail yet again.
and fail yet again.
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i nesposobnosti da ostvari cilj
i da iznova pada.
i da iznova pada.
Šta mislite, koliko vremena
bi mu trebalo da nauči da hoda
bi mu trebalo da nauči da hoda
14:55
How long do you think it would take her
to learn to walk if you had to do that,
to learn to walk if you had to do that,
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ako biste morali to da radite,
14:59
if every three times she fell down,
you had to get a counselor
you had to get a counselor
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ako biste na svaka tri njena pada
morali da nađete savetnika
morali da nađete savetnika
15:02
to counsel her and so on?
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da je posavetuje i tako iznova?
15:04
Sounds funny, doesn't it?
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Zvuči smešno, zar ne?
15:06
But that is exactly what we're doing.
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No, to je ono što radimo.
15:08
What the child is doing
is focusing on the process.
is focusing on the process.
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Dete se fokusira na proces.
15:13
She's investing in the process,
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Ulaže u proces,
15:15
not in the outcome.
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ne u ishod.
15:18
What we do is the exact opposite.
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Mi radimo sasvim suprotno.
15:21
As we grow up, we lose the ability
to invest in the process,
to invest in the process,
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Kako odrastamo, gubimo sposobnost
da ulažemo u proces
da ulažemo u proces
15:25
we start investing in the outcome.
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i počemo da ulažemo u ishod.
15:27
By definition the outcome
is outside of our control,
is outside of our control,
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Po definiciji je ishod van naše kontrole,
15:31
and if that's where we spend
all of our emotional energy,
all of our emotional energy,
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a ako u njega ulažemo
celokupnu emocionalnu energiju,
celokupnu emocionalnu energiju,
15:33
we are going to get drained as we do.
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time ćemo se iscrpeti.
Međutim, sa druge strane, ako kažemo:
15:36
But if, on the other hand, we said,
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15:38
"Here is the outcome,
I am going to invest in the process
I am going to invest in the process
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„Evo ishoda, ulagaću u proces
15:41
and give it every single bit I could,"
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i daću sve od sebe što mogu“,
15:44
every day is a blast,
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svaki dan je uživanje
15:46
and you're well on your way to achieving
the vision that I outlined to you.
the vision that I outlined to you.
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i na dobrom ste putu da postignete
viziju koju sam vam opisao.
viziju koju sam vam opisao.
15:51
The question that I get all the time,
is people say, "Professor Rao,
is people say, "Professor Rao,
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Pitanje koje mi stalno postavljaju je:
„Profesore Rao, ali kod mene
ništa ne izaziva strast.“
ništa ne izaziva strast.“
15:54
but nothing makes me passionate."
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Na to ja kažem: „U redu, šta bi izazvalo?“
15:57
So I say, "OK, what would?"
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15:58
And they invariably come up with,
you know, here is a list of things.
you know, here is a list of things.
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Tada bez izuzetka iznesu spisak stvari.
16:02
Here's my job and here's how much it pays,
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Evo koji je moj posao
i evo koliko je plaćen,
i evo koliko je plaćen,
16:04
this is the kind of person my boss is,
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ovakav je moj šef,
16:06
the kind of people my colleagues are,
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ovakve su moje kolege,
16:08
and here's how my customers are,
here's how much I travel,
here's how much I travel,
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ovakve su moje mušterije,
evo koliko putujem,
evo koliko putujem,
evo kolika je moja kancelarija,
koliko mi je debeo tepih,
koliko mi je debeo tepih,
16:11
here's how big my office is,
how deep the carpeting is,
how deep the carpeting is,
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16:13
how many windows I have --
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koliko prozora imam -
16:15
a bunch of parameters.
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gomila parametara.
16:17
And what I tell them is what
I want to share with you,
I want to share with you,
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Govorim im ono što želim
da podelim i sa vama,
da podelim i sa vama,
16:20
because all of that stuff --
first of all, it doesn't exist.
first of all, it doesn't exist.
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jer sve te stvari -
pre svega, to ne postoji.
pre svega, to ne postoji.
16:23
But second, even if it did
and you were plugged into it,
and you were plugged into it,
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Drugo, čak i da postoji i da ste u tome,
za ne više od šest meseci
16:26
it would not take more than six months
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postali biste isto tako nesrećni
i očajni kao što ste sada,
i očajni kao što ste sada,
16:28
for you to be the same sorry,
miserable self there as you are now,
miserable self there as you are now,
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16:32
because passion exists inside you.
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jer strast postoji u vama.
16:36
It does not exist in the job.
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Ona nije u poslu.
16:39
And if you don't find a way
to ignite it within you
to ignite it within you
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Ako ne nađete način
da je razbuktate u sebi
da je razbuktate u sebi
16:43
right where you are,
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baš tu gde se nalazite,
16:44
you are not going to find it outside.
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nećete je naći izvan.
16:48
But if you do find a way
to ignite it where you are,
to ignite it where you are,
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Ako nađete način
da je razbuktate tu gde jeste,
da je razbuktate tu gde jeste,
16:53
then you will find that the external world
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otkrićete tada
da se spoljašnji svet preuređuje
da se spoljašnji svet preuređuje
16:55
rearranges itself
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16:59
to accommodate the new person
that you are becoming.
that you are becoming.
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da bi se prilagodio osobi koja postajete.
17:03
And as you do that, you will find
that miracles happen on a regular basis.
that miracles happen on a regular basis.
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Dok to radite, otkrićete da se čuda
svakodnevno dešavaju.
svakodnevno dešavaju.
17:08
Persons come up
whom you're delighted to meet.
whom you're delighted to meet.
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Upoznajete osobe kojima ste oduševljeni.
17:10
New people enter your life.
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Novi ljudi ulaze u vaš život.
17:11
It's just a breeze,
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To je samo povetarac,
17:14
because all you do in your life
is you take journeys.
is you take journeys.
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jer sve što činite u životu
su odlaženja na putovanja.
su odlaženja na putovanja.
17:17
You came here to this conference;
you went on a journey.
you went on a journey.
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Došli ste ovde na ovu konferenciju,
otišli ste na putovanje.
otišli ste na putovanje.
Okupili ste se oko aparata za vodu
17:21
You hang around the water cooler,
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17:22
talking about how terrible
your place of work is;
your place of work is;
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i pričate o tome kako je užasno
vaše radno mesto -
vaše radno mesto -
17:25
you went on a journey.
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otišli ste na putovanje.
17:27
You watch "Desperate Housewives,"
you go on a journey.
you go on a journey.
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Gledate „Očajne domaćice“ -
otišli ste na putovanje.
otišli ste na putovanje.
17:29
You go on a journey
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Idete na putovanje
u kome su žene od četrdesetak godina
u aferi sa baštovanima od oko 19,
u aferi sa baštovanima od oko 19,
17:31
where 40-something women are having
affairs with 19-something gardeners
affairs with 19-something gardeners
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dok se muževi razonode
unaokolo za manekenkama.
unaokolo za manekenkama.
17:34
while the husbands
are playing around with models.
are playing around with models.
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Sve što radite su odlaženja na putovanja.
17:37
All you do is go on journeys.
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17:39
There's nothing wrong with that,
but just ask yourself,
but just ask yourself,
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Nema ničeg lošeg u tome,
ali se samo zapitajte:
ali se samo zapitajte:
17:41
"Is this a journey I want to take?
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„Da li je ovo putovanje
na koje želim da idem?
na koje želim da idem?
17:44
Does this take me to a place
I want to spend time?"
I want to spend time?"
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Da li me to vodi na mesto
na kome želim da provedem vreme?“
na kome želim da provedem vreme?“
17:48
And if you start doing that,
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Ako počnete da to radite,
17:50
you will find that your life changes.
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uvidećete da vam se život menja.
17:53
The kind of people you meet,
the things you talk about,
the things you talk about,
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Ljudi koje upoznajete,
stvari o kojima govorite,
stvari o kojima govorite,
filmovi koje idete da gledate,
knjige koje čitate - sve se menja.
knjige koje čitate - sve se menja.
17:55
the movies you go to,
the books you read --
the books you read --
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17:57
everything changes.
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18:00
And you begin all of that
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Sve to počinjete
18:03
by focusing on the process.
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fokusiranjem na proces.
18:05
Invest in the process, not in the outcome.
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Ulažite u proces, ne u ishod.
18:09
Thank you.
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Hvala.
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Srikumar Rao - Happiness teacherExecutive, educator, writer and life coach Srikumar S. Rao asks, "Are you ready to succeed?" -- and in his famous course "Creativity and Personal Mastery," he teaches his students how to do so.
Why you should listen
Srikumar Rao was an executive at Warner Communications and McGraw-Hill before he created his celebrated MBA course, "Creativity and Personal Mastery." The course -- the only business school course that has its own alumni association -- shows students how to discover their unique purpose, creativity and happiness, through group work and a philosophical perspective. Its popularity has led to write-ups in The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal and Business Week.
Rao is also an adviser to senior business executives, whom he helps find deeper meaning and engagement in their work. He's the author of Are You Ready to Succeed: Unconventional Strategies for Achieving Personal Mastery in Business and Life, and has been a contributing editor for Forbes. His latest book is titled Happiness at Work: Be Resilient, Motivated, and Successful - No Matter What.
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