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Kristie Overstreet - Clinical sexologist and psychotherapist
Kristie Overstreet works with individuals to help strengthen their relationship with themselves and others.

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Dr. Kristie Overstreet is a clinical sexologist, psychotherapist, author, speaker and consultant. With more than twelve years of clinical experience, she has developed best practices for transgender healthcare. Her mission is to educate every behavioral and healthcare worker to provide dignity care for the LGBTQIA+ community. 

Overstreet has written three books on improving relationships and is a sought-after expert. She is the creator of the Transgender Healthcare Dignity Model training and certification program. Her new book Finding Your True Self: A Guide to Gender Acceptance will be published in 2019. She serves as a national contributor to CNN, Psychology Today, Readers Digest, Your Workplace, Women’s Health, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, Glamour and various other media.

Overstreet holds a PhD in Clinical Sexology, Master of Arts in Professional Counseling and Bachelor of Science in Biology. She is a licensed counselor in California, Florida, Georgia and Louisiana. She is also a certified sex therapist and addiction professional. She is president of Therapy Department, a private practice in Orange County, California, that provides counseling, training, speaking and consulting services throughout the United States.

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Kristie Overstreet: What doctors should know about gender identity

克莉絲蒂·奧佛史特利: 對於性別認同,醫生應該要知道什麼?

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克莉絲蒂·奧佛史特利的任務是要確保變性人族群的健康照護需求能被滿足。在這場充滿資訊、打破謎思的演說中,她帶大家入門,了解性別身分認同,並邀請大家轉變對於變性人健康照護的看法——讓人人去看醫生時都能獲得他們應得的尊敬和尊嚴。
- Clinical sexologist and psychotherapist
Kristie Overstreet works with individuals to help strengthen their relationship with themselves and others. Full bio

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00:12
About six months個月
into my career事業 as a therapist治療師,
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在成為一位醫生大約六個月左右,
00:15
I was working加工 at a drug藥物
and alcohol rehab康復 facility設施.
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我在一間毒品與酒精勒戒機構工作。
00:18
I got a call from one of the nurses護士
down at the detox排毒 unit單元.
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戒癮單位的一位護士打電話給我。
00:22
She asked me to come down
and assess評估 one of the new patients耐心
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她請我過去評估
當天早些時候抵達的一位病患。
00:25
that had arrived到達 earlier in the day.
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00:27
So I went down to the unit單元
and had the pleasure樂趣 of meeting會議 Anne安妮.
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所以我去了那個單位,
很榮幸見到了安。
00:30
Anne's安妮的 a transgender變性 female,
and as her and I started開始 talking,
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安是一位女性變性人,
當她和我開始交談時,
00:34
she was sharing分享 with me
about what brought her into treatment治療,
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她和我分享了
她來接受治療的原因。
00:37
but I could hear this fear恐懼 in her voice語音,
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但我能在她的聲音中聽出恐懼,
00:40
and I could see this worry擔心 in her eyes眼睛,
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也能在她的眼中看出擔憂。
00:41
and she began開始 to tell me
that she didn't fear恐懼 coming未來 into rehab康復
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她開始告訴我,
她並不害怕來到勒戒所,
00:44
and having to give up drugs毒品 and alcohol.
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和必須要放棄毒品和酒精。
00:47
Her fear恐懼 was that the doctors醫生
that were going to be treating治療 her
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她的恐懼是將要治療她的醫生,
可能不會把她當女性來對待。
00:50
would not treat對待 her as her female self.
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00:53
She then told me about this ongoing不斷的 pain疼痛
that she has experienced有經驗的 her whole整個 life
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她接著告訴我她一生中
所遭遇的這種持續不斷的痛苦。
00:57
of being存在 assigned分配 male
but knowing會心 she's female.
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她被認定為男性,
但她知道她是女性。
00:59
And what she meant意味著 by that is,
when she was born天生,
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她的意思是,當她出生時,
01:03
the doctor醫生 held保持 her up to her parents父母
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醫生把她抱起來交給她的父母,
01:05
and based基於 on her genitalia生殖器 said,
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根據她的生殖器,說:
01:07
"It's a boy男孩."
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「是個男孩。」
01:08
She always knew知道 she wasn't a boy男孩.
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她一直都知道她不是男孩。
01:11
Many許多 years年份 passed通過 and the feelings情懷
that she was feeling感覺
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許多年過去了,
她所感受到的感覺,
01:14
and holding保持 all this in grew成長 and grew成長,
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被她壓抑在心中,但越來越強。
01:16
and she knew知道 she had
to come out to her family家庭.
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她知道她得要向她的家人坦白。
01:18
And when she did,
it didn't go over so well.
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當她坦白時,
結果並沒有很順利。
01:21
Her parents父母 said,
"Absolutely絕對 not. You're not a girl女孩.
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她的父母說:
「絕對不是。你不是女生。
01:24
This is not how we raised上調 you.
We don't know what you're thinking思維.
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我們不是這樣養育你的。
我們搞不懂你在想什麼。
01:27
Get out."
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滾出去。」
01:29
So Anne安妮 then found發現 herself她自己 on the streets街道
and in and out of homeless無家可歸 shelters候車亭,
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接著,安就流落街頭,
進進出出無家可歸者收容所。
01:33
and it's here where
she started開始 using運用 drugs毒品 and alcohol
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在那裡,她開始染上毒品和酒精,
01:36
to numb麻木 this pain疼痛 she felt inside.
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以麻痺她內心感受的痛苦。
01:39
She told me about her journey旅程 of being存在
in and out of hospitals醫院 and rehabs唐尼
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她告訴我那段不斷進出
醫院和勒戒所的過程。
01:43
trying to get sober清醒,
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她試著讓自己清醒。
01:44
and when she did, the health健康 care關心
providers供應商 and doctors醫生
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當她清醒時,
健康照護提供者以及醫生
01:47
wouldn't不會 use the correct正確
female name名稱 or pronouns代詞.
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不願意使用她的正確的
女性名字或女性代名詞。
01:50
This caused造成 her pain疼痛.
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這讓她很痛苦。
01:53
You see, when I was studying研究
to become成為 a therapist治療師,
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當我還在讀書準備要當醫生時,
01:55
I wasn't taught how to work
with transgender變性 patients耐心.
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沒有人教我要如何對待變性病人。
01:59
I had no idea理念 these would be
the patients耐心 I'd be working加工 with.
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我完全不知道
我會接觸到這樣的病人。
02:02
But the more I worked工作 with Anne安妮
and other patients耐心 like Anne安妮,
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但我和安以及其他
類似的病人接觸越多,
02:06
I began開始 to see my mission任務 evolve發展,
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我發現我的任務有所演變了。
02:08
and that was to make sure
that the transgender變性 community社區
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那就是要確保變性人族群的
02:11
got their health健康 care關心 needs需求 met會見.
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健康照護需求能被滿足。
02:14
The more I looked看著 into this,
I saw how this very real真實 fear恐懼
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在這方面,我研究越多,
我越能了解這種對於
02:18
of violence暴力, discrimination區別
and this lack缺乏 of acceptance驗收
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暴力、歧視,以及
不被接受的真實恐懼感
02:22
caused造成 so many許多 of these patients耐心
to turn to alcohol and drugs毒品.
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使許多這類病人轉向毒品及酒精。
02:26
And I also heard聽說 these horror恐怖 stories故事
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我也聽到許多駭人的故事,
02:29
of when these patients耐心
were seeking medical care關心
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關於這類病人在尋求醫療照護時,
02:32
and how they were treated治療,
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他們所受的對待,
02:33
and how a lot of their
medical needs需求 were ignored忽視.
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以及他們許多醫療的需求
如何被忽視。
02:37
Now let me tell you about Leah利亞.
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讓我告訴各位莉亞的故事。
02:39
I had the pleasure樂趣
of meeting會議 Leah利亞 a few少數 years年份 back.
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幾年前,我有榮幸認識了莉亞。
02:42
She's a female and she has
a wife妻子 and a child兒童.
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她是女性,她有妻子和一個孩子。
02:46
See, Leah利亞 was also assigned分配 male at birth分娩
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莉亞也是出生時被認定為男性,
02:49
and she knew知道 since以來 she was a young年輕 child兒童
that she was not a male,
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但她從小時候就知道她不是男性,
02:53
that she was a female.
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她是女性。
02:55
She hid it from herself她自己
and from everyone大家 she knew知道,
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她將這件事瞞著
自己以及她認識的每個人,
02:58
especially特別 from her wife妻子,
until直到 the age年齡 of 50.
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特別是她的妻子,直到五十歲時。
03:01
She couldn't不能 take it anymore.
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她無法再忍受了。
03:02
She was like, I can't
keep living活的 like this.
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她心想,我不能繼續這樣過日子。
我得要誠實。
03:05
I gotta總得 get honest誠實.
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她非常害怕將這件事告訴她的妻子。
03:06
She was extremely非常 scared害怕 to tell her wife妻子.
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03:09
What if her wife妻子 said,
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萬一她的妻子說:
「這是不能接受的,
03:10
"This is unacceptable不可接受,
I want a divorce離婚, get out"?
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我要離婚,滾出去。」怎麼辦?
03:14
To her surprise, her wife妻子 was accepting驗收.
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讓她意外的是,她的妻子接受了。
03:17
She said, "I love you
regardless而不管 of who you are.
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她說:「我愛你,不論你是誰。
03:20
I want to help you in every一切 way I can."
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我想要盡我所能來協助你。」
03:22
So she talked with her wife妻子,
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所以,她和妻子長談,
03:24
and she made製作 the decision決定
that she wanted to medically醫療 transition過渡,
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她決定要做醫學的變性。
03:28
and she was interested有興趣 in being存在
assessed評估 for hormone激素 replacement替代 therapy治療,
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她有興趣接受
更換荷爾蒙治療法的評估,
也就是大家所知的 HRT。
03:32
otherwise除此以外 known已知 as HRTHrt.
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03:34
So she made製作 an appointment約定
with her doctor醫生.
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所以,她和她的醫生
約了會面時間。
03:37
She arrived到達 on the day
of her appointment約定 early.
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當天,她提早赴約。
03:40
She filled填充 out all the paperwork證件,
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她填寫了各種表單,
03:41
put the name名稱 correctly正確地 down there
and waited等待 patiently耐心地.
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把名字正確地填寫好,
耐心地等待。
03:46
A little bit of time passed通過 and a nurse護士
called her back to the exam考試 room房間.
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不久後,一位護士把她叫回檢查間。
03:50
When she got back there,
she took a deep breath呼吸,
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當她去到檢查間時,
她深吸了一口氣,
03:53
and the doctor醫生 and the nurse護士 walked in.
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醫生和護士走進來。
03:56
She extended擴展 her hand to the doctor醫生
and said, "Hi你好, I'm Leah利亞."
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她把手伸向醫生,說:
「嗨,我是莉亞。」
03:59
The doctor醫生 looked看著 at her,
didn't shake her hand and said,
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醫生看著她,
並沒有握她的手,說:
04:03
"Why are you here?"
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「你為什麼來這裡?」
04:05
She took another另一個 deep breath呼吸 and said,
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她再次深呼吸,說:
04:09
"Well, I'm a transgender變性 female.
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「我是女性變性人。
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I've known已知 this my whole整個 life,
I've hid it from everyone大家,
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我一直都知道這一點,
但都沒讓別人知道,
但我無法繼續這樣了。
04:13
but I can't do it anymore.
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我妻子支持我,錢我負擔得起。
04:15
My wife's妻子 supportive支持,
I can financially經濟 afford給予 it,
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04:17
I've got to make these changes變化.
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我得要做這些改變。
04:19
Please consider考慮 me,
and let's evaluate評估 me for HRTHrt."
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請考慮我,請評估我是否
適合更換荷爾蒙治療法。」
04:23
The doctor醫生 said,
"We can't do anything today今天.
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醫生說:
「今天我們什麼都不能做。
你得去做愛滋病病毒檢測。」
04:25
You need to go get an HIVHIV test測試."
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04:29
She couldn't不能 believe it.
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她無法置信。
她很憤怒。
04:31
She was furious狂怒.
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04:32
She was angry憤怒. She was disappointed失望.
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她很生氣。她很失望。
04:35
If her doctor醫生 treated治療 her this way,
how would the rest休息 of the world世界 treat對待 her?
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如果連她的醫生都這樣對待她,
世界上的其他人會如何對待她呢?
04:38
First, he wouldn't不會 shake her hand,
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首先,他不願意和她握手,
04:41
and second第二, when he heard聽說
she was transgender變性,
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再者,當他聽到她是變性人時,
04:44
all he cared照顧 about was getting得到
an HIVHIV test測試 and ending結尾 the appointment約定.
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他在乎的只有愛滋病病毒檢測
以及結束面談。
他甚至沒有問她其他問題。
04:47
He didn't even ask her
any other questions問題.
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04:50
See, I can understand理解
where Leah's利亞的 coming未來 from,
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我能了解莉亞的感受,
04:53
because the years年份 that I've worked工作
with the community社區,
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因為我在工作上
接觸這個族群的這些年,
04:55
I hear myths神話 every一切 single day
that aren't true真正 at all.
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我每天都會聽到一些謎思,
它們都完全不是真的。
04:59
A couple一對 of those are:
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其中一些包括:
05:01
every一切 transgender變性 person wants
to transition過渡 with medication藥物治療 or surgery手術;
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每個變性人都想要
用藥物或手術來變性;
05:06
transgender變性 people are mentally精神上 ill生病,
this is a disorder紊亂;
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變性人心理有病,這是一種失調;
05:09
and: these people
aren't real真實 men男人 and women婦女.
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還有,這些人不是
真正的男人或女人。
05:12
These are all myths神話 and untrue不確實.
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這些都是謎思,且不是真的。
05:15
As this community社區 expands展開 and grows成長 older舊的,
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隨著這個族群擴大和年紀漸長,
05:18
it is imperative勢在必行 that all
health健康 care關心 providers供應商 be trained熟練
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所有的健康照護提供者
都必須要接受訓練,
05:21
on how to take care關心
of their health健康 care關心 needs需求.
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了解如何處理
他們的健康照護需求。
05:24
Back in 2015, a survey調查 was doneDONE
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在 2015 年,有一項調查
發現 72% 的健康照護提供者
05:26
and found發現 that 72 percent百分
of health健康 care關心 providers供應商
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05:30
did not feel well-informed靈通
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不覺得他們對於 LGBT 族群的
05:32
on the health健康 care關心 needs需求
of the LGBTLGBT community社區.
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健康照護需求有足夠的資訊。
05:37
There's a huge巨大 gap間隙
in the education教育 and training訓練.
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在他們的教育和訓練中,
有很大的缺口。
05:40
Today今天, in this talk,
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今天,在這場演說中,
05:42
I want to offer提供 a new way of thinking思維
for three groups of people:
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我想要將一種
新的思考方式提供給三種人:
05:45
doctors醫生, the transgender變性 community社區
and, well, the rest休息 of us.
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醫生、變性人族群,
以及剩下的其他人。
05:49
But before we do, I want to cover
a couple一對 of definitions定義
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但在這之前,
我想要先談幾個定義,
05:52
that's going to help you wrap your head
around gender性別 identity身分 a little bit more.
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它們能協助各位
對性別認同多了解一點。
05:56
So I hope希望 you've got your paper and pen鋼筆.
Get ready準備 to take some notes筆記.
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我希望你們已經準備好
紙筆要來寫筆記了。
06:00
So let's start開始 out
with this idea理念 of a binary二進制 system系統.
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咱們就從這個
二元系統的想法開始。
06:03
And what this means手段 is,
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意思就是,
以前我們認為只有兩種性別,
男和女。
06:04
before, we always thought
there was only two, male and female.
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06:07
Get it? Binary二進制? Right?
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懂嗎?二元?對吧?
06:09
So we've我們已經 come to find out
that this isn't true真正.
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我們漸漸發現,事實不是如此。
06:12
Gender性別 identity身分 is a spectrum光譜
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性別認同像是光譜,
06:15
with maleness男性 on one side
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一端是男性,
06:17
and femaleness雌性 over here
on the other side.
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另一端是女性。
06:19
This spectrum光譜 of identities身份
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這個性別認同的光譜
06:22
include包括 identities身份 such這樣 as
gender-nonconforming性別不合格,
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包含了非常規性別、
06:25
gender-affirming性別的肯定,
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性別確認、
06:27
gender-nonbinary性別-nonbinary,
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非二元性別、
06:28
two-spirited雙精神, three-spirited三-精力充沛,
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雙靈、三靈,
06:30
as well as people that are intersex兩性人.
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以及陰陽人。
06:33
The term術語 transgender變性 is this umbrella雨傘 term術語
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變性人這個詞是一個總稱,
06:36
that encompasses包括 all these
different不同 types類型 of identities身份.
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包括上述各類的性別認同。
06:39
But for today's今天的 talk, I want you
to think about transgender變性
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但,在今天的演說,
我希望各位能把變性人
06:42
as someone有人 who is assigned分配
a sex性別 at birth分娩 that doesn't match比賽
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視為在出生時被認定的性別
不符合自己本人的認定
和他們的自我感覺。
06:46
with who they are as a person
and their sense of self.
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06:49
Now, this is very different不同
than biological生物 sex性別.
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這和生物學上的性別是很不同的。
06:51
So gender性別 identity身分 is sense of self.
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性別認同是自我的感覺。
06:53
So think of it as
what's between之間 your ears耳朵:
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你可把它想成是在你的兩耳之間:
對自己的感覺,你是怎樣的人。
06:57
sense of self, who you are.
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06:59
This is very different不同
than biological生物 sex性別, right?
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這和生物學上的性別
很不一樣,對吧?
07:01
Hormones激素, genitalia生殖器, chromosomes染色體:
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荷爾蒙、生殖器、染色體:
07:03
that's what's between之間 our legs.
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那是在我們的兩腿之間。
07:07
Now, you may可能 be thinking思維, "Dr博士. Kristie克利斯蒂,
I have never questioned質疑 who I am.
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你們可能在想:「克莉絲蒂醫生,
我從來沒有質疑過我是什麼人。
07:10
I know I'm a man, or I know I'm a woman女人."
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我知道我是男人,
或我知道我是女人。」
07:13
I get it. You know who you are.
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我懂。你知道你是什麼人。
07:16
This is how many許多
transgender變性 individuals個人 feel.
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許多變性人也有這種感覺。
07:18
They just know who they are
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他們就是知道他們是什麼人,
07:20
with that same相同 conviction定罪.
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有著和你們同等的信心。
07:24
It's important重要 to know that there
are many許多 different不同 types類型 of identities身份,
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重要的是要知道
有許多不同類型的身分認同,
而我認同的是順性別的女性。
07:27
and I identify鑑定 as a cisgender順性別 female.
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07:30
Now, for all y'all你們 out there
that like to know how to spell拼寫 things,
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如果你們想要知道如何寫這個詞,
07:34
cisCis is spelled拼寫 "c-i-sc-i-s."
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「順」性別的順是「c-i-s」。
07:36
It's the Latin拉丁 term術語
for "on the same相同 side of."
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這個詞來自拉丁文,
意思是「在同一邊」。
07:39
When I was born天生,
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我出生時,
07:41
the doctor醫生 held保持 me up
to my parents父母 and said,
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醫生把我抱起來交給我父母,
說:「是個女孩。」
07:43
"It's a girl女孩."
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這完全是根據我的生殖器判斷的。
07:44
All this, based基於 on my genitalia生殖器.
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07:46
Even though雖然 I grew成長 up
in a small farm農場 town in Georgia格魯吉亞,
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雖然我是在喬治亞州的
小農場長大,
07:49
very much a tomboy假小子,
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是個很男性化的女孩。
07:52
I never questioned質疑 that I was a female.
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我從來沒有質疑過我是女性。
07:54
I've always known已知 I was a girl女孩,
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我一直都知道我是個女孩,
07:56
regardless而不管 of how I was as a kid孩子.
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不論我在孩提時是怎樣的。
07:58
Now, this is very different不同
than someone有人 who's誰是 transgender變性.
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這和變性人是非常不同的。
08:01
Now, trans反式 is a Latin拉丁 term術語
for "on the other side of" --
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「變(trans)」也來自拉丁文,
意思是「在另一邊」——
08:05
think about transcontinental橫貫大陸 airlines航空公司,
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想想看橫貫(trans)
大陸的航線,
08:07
across橫過, on the other side of --
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橫越,到另一邊——
08:09
someone有人 that's assigned分配 a sex性別 at birth分娩
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有人在出生時被認定了一個性別,
08:12
and they identify鑑定
on the other side of the spectrum光譜.
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而他們認同的是另一端的性別。
08:15
A transgender變性 male is someone有人
who was assigned分配 female at birth分娩,
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男性變性人就是在出生時
被認定為女性,
08:19
but their sense of self,
who they are, how they live生活 their life,
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但他們的自我感覺、他們是誰、
要如何過他們的生活,
08:23
is as a male.
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是男性的。
08:24
And the opposite對面 is, as we talked earlier,
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相對的,我們前面談過,
女性變性人是在出生時
被指定為男性,
08:26
a transgender變性 female,
someone有人 that's assigned分配 male at birth分娩
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但以女性的身分過生活,
且自我感覺是女性。
08:29
but lives生活 their live生活
and sense of self as a female.
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08:32
It's also important重要 to point out here
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這裡還有一個重點,
08:34
that not everyone大家
that has a nonbinarynonbinary identity身分
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並不是所有非二元性別認同的人,
08:37
identifies識別 with the term術語 "transgender變性."
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就一定是「變性人」。
08:40
Just so nobody沒有人 gets得到 confused困惑,
I want to point out sexual有性 identity身分,
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為了不要讓大家困惑,
我要談一下性認同,
08:44
or orientation方向.
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或是性取向,
08:45
That is simply只是 who we're attracted吸引 to,
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那只是看我們被什麼人吸引,
08:48
physically物理, emotionally感情上,
sexually, spiritually靈性.
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身體上、感情上、性別上、心靈上。
08:52
It's got nothing to do
with gender性別 identity身分.
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這和性別認同是沒關係的。
08:54
So just for a quick recap概括,
before we continue繼續 on:
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在我們繼續下去之前,
先快速回顧一下重點:
08:57
gender性別 identity身分 between之間 the ears耳朵,
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性別認同在兩耳之間,
08:58
biological生物 sex性別, just think
of it between之間 your legs,
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生物學的性別則是在兩腿之間的,
09:02
and then sexual有性 identity身分,
well, sometimes有時 we use our heart,
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而性認同,
有時我們會用我們的心,
09:04
but it's here.
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但它在這裡。
09:06
Three very different不同 identity身分 spectrums頻譜.
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三種不同的身分認同光譜。
09:11
Now, the average平均 medical student學生
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一般的醫學院學生
09:13
spends about five hours小時 learning學習
about the LGBTLGBT health-related健康相關 needs需求
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在上醫學院時會花
大約五小時的時間,
學習關於 LGBT 的健康相關需求。
09:18
while they're in medical school學校.
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09:20
Now, this is despite儘管 us knowing會心
that there are unique獨特 health健康 risks風險
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而且這是在我們已經知道
這個族群會面對獨特的健康風險。
09:24
to this community社區.
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09:27
And there's an estimated預計
10 million百萬 American美國 adults成年人
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根據估計,有一千萬名美國成人的
09:31
that identify鑑定 as LGBTLGBT.
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性別認同是 LGBT。
09:34
Most doctors醫生 that work
with transgender變性 patients耐心,
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大部分在工作上需要接觸
變性人病人的醫生,
09:36
they learn學習 trial審訊 by fire.
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他們學的是火審。
09:39
That means手段 they figure數字 it out
as they go along沿,
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意思就是說,他們邊做邊學,
09:41
or the patient患者 ends結束 up spending開支 their time
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或是最後反而是病人要花時間
09:43
trying to teach the doctor醫生
how to take care關心 of them.
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來教導醫生如何照顧他們。
09:47
Many許多 doctors醫生 don't feel comfortable自在
asking about gender性別 identities身份.
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許多醫生對於詢問病人的
性別認同感覺不自在。
09:50
Some don't feel like it's relevant相應 at all
to their medical care關心
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有些醫生覺得性別認同
和醫療照護一點關係都沒有。
09:54
and others其他 just don't want
to say the wrong錯誤 thing.
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還有些醫生不希望說錯話。
09:58
Many許多 doctors醫生 who say
something inappropriate不當
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當醫生說出了不妥當的話,
10:00
or they say something negative,
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或是負面的話時,
10:02
they may可能 not be coming未來
from a malicious惡毒 or mean place地點,
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他們不見得是有惡意或是故意的。
10:05
they may可能 have never been trained熟練
on how to care關心 for these individuals個人.
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他們可能從來沒有受過
如何照顧這些人的訓練。
10:09
But this can't be accepted公認
as a norm規範 anymore either.
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但我們不能再接受
把這種狀況當成常態了。
10:14
So what happens發生 to a transgender變性 male --
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所以,當男性變性人——
10:17
for a quick recap概括, that's someone有人
who is assigned分配 female at birth分娩
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快速回顧一下,
就是出生時被認定為女性,
但以男性身分過日子的人——
10:20
but lives生活 their life as a male --
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10:22
what happens發生 when this transgender變性 male
goes for their yearly每年 gynecological婦科 visit訪問?
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當男性變性人去做每年的
婦科檢查時,會發生什麼事?
10:28
How that doctor醫生 treats對待 that patient患者
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那位醫生如何對待這個病人,
10:31
will set the whole整個 tone for the office辦公室.
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會決定那間診所的氛圍。
10:33
If that doctor醫生 treats對待 that male
with the correct正確 pronouns代詞, correct正確 name名稱,
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如果醫生用正確的代名詞、
正確的名字來對待那位男性,
10:38
gives dignity尊嚴 and respect尊重,
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給予他尊嚴和尊重,
10:40
it's highly高度 likely容易
that the rest休息 of the staff員工 will too.
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很可能其他工作人員也會這麼做。
10:44
So that's a little bit
about my thoughts思念 on doctors醫生,
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那是我對於醫生的小小想法,
10:46
and now let's move移動 on
to the transgender變性 community社區.
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現在,咱們接著來談變性人族群。
10:49
I'm here talking about fear恐懼,
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我要談的是恐懼。
10:51
but y'all你們 know who
is really fearful可怕, right?
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你們都知道真正感到
害怕的人是誰,對吧?
10:54
It's the transgender變性 community社區.
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是變性人族群。
10:57
Earlier I shared共享 the story故事 about Anne安妮
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剛才我分享了安的故事,
10:58
and how she was so worried擔心
about going into treatment治療
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提到她有多擔心要去接受治療時,
不會被當成女性來尊重,
11:01
and not being存在 respected尊敬
as her female self,
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11:03
and then Leah利亞 who was scared害怕
about how her doctor醫生 would react應對,
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接著是莉亞,
她害怕的是醫生的反應,
11:06
and the second第二
that he didn't shake her hand
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當醫生沒有跟她握手,
11:08
and ordered有序 that HIVHIV test測試,
her fears恐懼 came來了 true真正.
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並要求愛滋病檢測的那一刻,
她的恐懼成真了。
11:12
The transgender變性 community社區
needs需求 to be empowered授權
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變性人族群需要能夠
大聲說出他們的健康照護需求。
11:15
to speak說話 up for their health健康 care關心 needs需求.
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11:18
The days of remaining其餘 silent無聲 and taking服用
whatever隨你 treatment治療 you can get are over.
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保持沉默和接受任何
能得到之治療的日子已經過去了。
11:23
If you don't speak說話 up
for your health健康 care關心 needs需求,
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如果你不大聲說出
自己的健康照護需求,
沒有人會為你發聲。
11:25
no one's那些 going to do it for you.
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11:29
So what about the rest休息 of us?
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那麼,我們剩下的人呢?
11:32
A lot of y'all你們, maybe in the next下一個 week
or a couple一對 of months個月,
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在座很多人,
在下週或是幾個月後,
11:34
are going to have
a doctor's醫生 appointment約定, right?
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可能已預約了要看醫生,對吧?
11:37
So let's say you go
to your doctor's醫生 appointment約定
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假設說你照約定的時間去看醫生,
11:39
and when it's over,
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結束時,
11:40
you feel worse更差 than you did
when you got there.
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你的感覺比去看醫生之前更糟。
11:44
What if you felt dismissed駁回 by the doctor醫生,
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你覺得被醫生打發掉,
11:47
that they ignored忽視 your needs需求,
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醫生不理會你的需求,
11:48
or you even felt judged判斷?
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或你甚至覺得受到評斷。
11:52
That's what happens發生 for many許多
of the 1.4 million百萬 transgender變性 adults成年人
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美國 140 萬名成年變性人當中,
有許多人就會有這樣的遭遇,
11:56
here in the US
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11:58
if they're lucky幸運 enough足夠
to get an appointment約定.
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前提是他們夠幸運地
預約到醫生。
12:01
Now, you may可能 be thinking思維,
"Why is this important重要 to me?
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你們現在可能在想:
「這對我來說有什麼重要的?
12:04
I'm not transgender變性.
I don't know anybody任何人 that's transgender變性.
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我又不是變性人。
我也不認識任何變性人。
12:07
Why should I even care關心?"
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我幹嘛在乎?」
12:10
Think of it this way.
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就這樣想吧。
12:11
A transgender變性 individual個人 is human人的,
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變性人是人,
12:14
just like you and me.
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就像你和我一樣。
12:16
They deserve值得 competent勝任
and trained熟練 health健康 care關心 providers供應商,
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他們也該能取得有能力
且受過訓練的健康照護提供者,
12:19
just like you and me.
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和你我一樣。
12:22
So let me ask, if you don't
mind心神 raising提高 your hand:
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讓我問個問題,
如果不介意,請舉手:
12:24
Do you know or have you met會見
anyone任何人 who is transgender變性,
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你們認識或遇見過任何變性人、
12:28
gender-nonconforming性別不合格, agenderagender, intersex兩性人,
two-spirited雙精神, three-spirited三-精力充沛?
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非性別常規、無性別、陰陽人、
雙靈、或三靈的人嗎?
12:32
Thank y'all你們 so much. Lovely可愛. Thank y'all你們.
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非常謝謝你們。真好。謝謝。
12:35
Every一切 one of y'all你們
who did not raise提高 your hand,
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所有沒舉手的人,
12:38
in the very near future未來
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在不久的將來,
12:40
you will get the opportunity機會 to meet遇到
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你們會有機會遇見
上述的其中一種,我保證。
12:42
someone有人 that falls下降 into one
of these identities身份, I guarantee保證 it.
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12:46
The number of this
community社區 is increasing增加.
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這個族群的人數在增加。
12:49
That's not because it's a fad時尚
or the new thing to do.
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並不是因為這是流行或是很新鮮。
12:53
It's safer更安全 to come out.
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而是他們對站出來感到更安全了。
12:55
There's more awareness意識.
There's more visibility能見度.
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有更多的意識。有更多的能見度。
12:58
There's more safety安全, so people
are speaking請講 up about their true真正 self
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有更多的安全感,
所以大家會展現出真實的自己,
13:01
like never before.
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以前是不可能的。
13:04
That's why it's so important重要
that our health健康 care關心 system系統 get on board
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這就是為什麼,很重要的是
我們的健康照護體制要能上路,
13:08
and make sure that our doctors醫生
and health健康 care關心 providers供應商 are trained熟練
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確保我們的醫生和健康照護
提供者都受到訓練,
13:12
to approach途徑 these patients耐心
with dignity尊嚴 and respect尊重,
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知道如何在接觸這些病人時
保持他們的尊嚴和尊重,
13:15
just like we expect期望.
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就像我們所有人都期望得到的。
13:18
I remember記得 being存在
in my 11th grade年級 literature文學 class,
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我記得我十一歲在上文學課時,
麥克連老師是我最喜歡的老師之一,
13:21
with one of my favorite喜愛
teachers教師, Mr先生. McClain麥克林,
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13:23
and he shared共享 this quote引用 by Heraclitus赫拉克利特
that sticks with me to this day.
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他引述了赫拉克利特的話,
至今我都忘不了。
13:26
Y'all你們 may可能 have even heard聽說 it.
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你們可能也聽過。
13:28
It's, "The only thing that is constant不變
is that things will change更改."
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「唯一不變的即是變。」
13:34
Familiar, right?
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很耳熟,對吧?
13:36
Every一切 single one of us
face面對 changes變化 in our lives生活,
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我們每個人在人生中
都會面臨改變,
13:39
and often經常 when we're faced面對
with these changes變化,
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通常,當我們面臨這些改變時,
13:42
we've我們已經 got some difficult
decisions決定 to make.
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我們得要做出一些困難的決定。
13:45
Will we remain in fear恐懼, stay stuck卡住
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我們是否會持續
留在恐懼中,被卡住,
13:48
and not grow增長?
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無法成長?
13:50
Or, will we face面對 fear恐懼 with bravery,
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或者,我們會勇敢面對恐懼,
13:55
evolve發展, take the opportunity機會 to grow增長?
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進化,抓住機會來成長?
13:59
Every一切 one of us face面對 new things.
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我們每個人都會面臨新事物。
14:01
What will you do?
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你們會怎麼做?
14:03
Will you remain in fear恐懼,
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你們會持續留在恐懼中?
14:06
or will you grow增長?
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還是你們會成長?
14:09
I invite邀請 each of you, doctors醫生,
the transgender變性 community社區
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我想邀請每個人:
醫生、變性人族群,
14:12
and you and I,
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以及你和我,
14:14
to face面對 fear恐懼 together一起
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在走進這個勇敢的新世界時,
14:15
as we walk步行 into this brave勇敢 new world世界.
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一起面對恐懼。
14:18
Thank you.
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謝謝。
14:19
(Applause掌聲)
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(掌聲)
Translated by Lilian Chiu
Reviewed by Melody Tang

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Kristie Overstreet - Clinical sexologist and psychotherapist
Kristie Overstreet works with individuals to help strengthen their relationship with themselves and others.

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Dr. Kristie Overstreet is a clinical sexologist, psychotherapist, author, speaker and consultant. With more than twelve years of clinical experience, she has developed best practices for transgender healthcare. Her mission is to educate every behavioral and healthcare worker to provide dignity care for the LGBTQIA+ community. 

Overstreet has written three books on improving relationships and is a sought-after expert. She is the creator of the Transgender Healthcare Dignity Model training and certification program. Her new book Finding Your True Self: A Guide to Gender Acceptance will be published in 2019. She serves as a national contributor to CNN, Psychology Today, Readers Digest, Your Workplace, Women’s Health, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, Glamour and various other media.

Overstreet holds a PhD in Clinical Sexology, Master of Arts in Professional Counseling and Bachelor of Science in Biology. She is a licensed counselor in California, Florida, Georgia and Louisiana. She is also a certified sex therapist and addiction professional. She is president of Therapy Department, a private practice in Orange County, California, that provides counseling, training, speaking and consulting services throughout the United States.

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