Kate Bowler: "Everything happens for a reason" -- and other lies I've loved
Kate Bowler is reexamining her perspective on the "prosperity gospel": the belief that good things happen to good people. Full bio
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that nobody, absolutely nobody,
that I got a call in my office
the life I wanted.
after years of infertility.
I applied for in academia,
I'd started feeling pain in my stomach
to find out why.
called me at work
to come to the hospital right away.
and he rushed to find me
that I have known.
the walk to the hospital,
a book called "Blessed."
that good things happen to good people.
nicknamed "the prosperity gospel,"
that God wants you to prosper.
a follower of the prosperity gospel.
that God wants to reward you
very American theology
interviewing its celebrities.
for divine money.
with spectacular hair
in hospital waiting rooms
as destroyer of family vacations
at the fanciest megachurch in town.
running through the sanctuary,
the whole idea of being "blessed"
vanity license plates and T-shirts
one of the most common cultural cliches,
hashtags on Instagram,
the way that the prosperity gospel
the founding of America itself,
worshipped Americans.
I'm nothing like them,"
how deeply invested I was
whether you are religious or not,
to avoid falling into the trap
and success go hand in hand.
that I had my own quiet version
happen to good people.
shining awards along the way.
were only detours
my long, long life.
it's a mindset that served me well.
I couldn't manage my way out of;
saying into the phone,
I could think of to say.
moment to accept:
personal prosperity gospel
or special about me could not save me --
is built with paper walls,
that we are all a breath away
destroy something irreplaceable
there are befores and afters.
that I would never go back,
so much in perspective.
I wrote about this
at the "New York Times."
vulnerable moments of your life
to feel less vulnerable.
of the questions I asked.
without quite so many reasons
without outrageous formulas
and so terrible was, of course,
for the bad things that happened.
that there had to be a reason
to understand the reason.
that my cancer is all part of a plan.
it was God's plan that I get cancer
by writing about it.
it is a test of my character
to this seeming chaos.
my wife is dying."
our hard work will pay off,
will always make our partners happy
in which not one ounce
or our deepest hopes will be for nothing.
in which nothing is lost.
in living with stage IV cancer
I've experienced more pain and trauma
so many abdominal surgeries
I've experienced love,
Research Foundation,
about their brushes with death
if it hadn't reminded me
uncomfortable telling anyone:
that I was going to die,
I have experienced.
felt abandoned by God,
around me like worker bees,
with words of encouragement.
like it had revealed to me
of people just like me,
they were entitled to
realize they had made.
somehow, with other people,
stayed with me for months.
at the prospect of losing it.
historians, nuns I liked,
when that loving feeling is gone?"
what I was talking about,
experienced it themselves
in great works of Christian theology.
for how to get it back."
this little piece of reassurance,
the thousands of emails I get
to divine health
that are wonderful and terrible,
that these opposites
appear to be working,
and waiting with scans.
to embarrass my son
lose his beautiful hair.
that nothing will be lost.
of prosperity gospel that I believe in.
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Kate Bowler - Divinity professor, authorKate Bowler is reexamining her perspective on the "prosperity gospel": the belief that good things happen to good people.
Why you should listen
After being diagnosed with stage IV cancer at age 35, Duke tenured professor and author Kate Bowler launched a national conversation about why it feels so difficult to speak frankly about suffering. She delves into how we live and cope with pain and suffering in Everything Happens for a Reason: And Other Lies I've Loved, a New York Times bestselling memoir, and in her popular podcast, Everything Happens. She is also the author of Blessed: A History of the American Prosperity Gospel, which received widespread media and academic attention as the first history of a movement based on divine promises of health, wealth and happiness. She has appeared on NPR and The TODAY Show, Amanpour & Company as well as in the New York Times, Washington Post and TIME Magazine. Her work has also been praised by a wide variety of religious and political publications, from liberal print media to conservative talk radio.
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