ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Stella Young - Comedian, journalist, activist
Writer, comedian and advocate Stella Young was the editor of Ramp Up, an online space for news, discussion and opinion about disability in Australia.

Why you should listen

Born in Stawell in Western Victoria, Australia, Stella Young cut her activist teeth at the age of 14 by conducting an access audit of shops on the local main street. It didn’t take long -- it was a pretty short street.

She became active in the disability community in a variety of roles, including membership of the Victorian Disability Advisory Council, Ministerial Advisory Council for the Department of Victorian communities and Women With Disabilities Victoria. Young was a two-time state finalist in the Melbourne International Comedy Festival’s Raw Comedy competition; and hosted eight seasons of Australia’s first disability culture program, No Limits, aired on Channel 31 and community stations across the country.

With a strong interest in issues facing women and young people with disabilities, Young worked with the Youth Disability Advocacy Service to establish the LiveAccess project, advocating for better access to live music venues. She held a degree in journalism from Deakin University and a Diploma of Secondary Education from the University of Melbourne. Prior to joining the ABC, Stella worked in Public Programs at Melbourne Museum, where she taught kids about bugs, dinosaurs and other weird and wonderful things.

Young passed away at the age of 32 on December 8, 2014.

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Stella Young | Speaker | TED.com
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Stella Young: I'm not your inspiration, thank you very much

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Stella Young is a comedian and journalist who happens to go about her day in a wheelchair — a fact that doesn't, she'd like to make clear, automatically turn her into a noble inspiration to all humanity. In this very funny talk, Young breaks down society's habit of turning disabled people into "inspiration porn."
- Comedian, journalist, activist
Writer, comedian and advocate Stella Young was the editor of Ramp Up, an online space for news, discussion and opinion about disability in Australia. Full bio

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I grew up in a very small country town
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in Victoria.
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I had a very normal, low-key kind of upbringing.
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I went to school, I hung out with my friends,
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I fought with my younger sisters.
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It was all very normal.
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And when I was 15, a member of my local community
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approached my parents
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and wanted to nominate me
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for a community achievement award.
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And my parents said, "Hm, that's really nice,
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but there's kind of one glaring problem with that.
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She hasn't actually achieved anything." (Laughter)
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And they were right, you know.
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I went to school, I got good marks,
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I had a very low-key after school job
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in my mum's hairdressing salon,
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and I spent a lot of time watching
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"Buffy the Vampire Slayer" and "Dawson's Creek."
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Yeah, I know. What a contradiction.
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But they were right, you know.
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I wasn't doing anything that was out of the ordinary
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at all.
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I wasn't doing anything that could
be considered an achievement
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if you took disability out of the equation.
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Years later, I was on my second teaching round
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in a Melbourne high school,
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and I was about 20 minutes into
a year 11 legal studies class
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when this boy put up his hand and said,
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"Hey miss, when are you going
to start doing your speech?"
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And I said, "What speech?"
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You know, I'd been talking them
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about defamation law for a good 20 minutes.
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And he said, "You know, like,
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your motivational speaking.
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You know, when people in
wheelchairs come to school,
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they usually say, like, inspirational stuff?"
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(Laughter)
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"It's usually in the big hall."
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And that's when it dawned on me:
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This kid had only ever experienced disabled people
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as objects of inspiration.
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We are not, to this kid --
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and it's not his fault, I mean,
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that's true for many of us.
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For lots of us, disabled people are not our teachers
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or our doctors or our manicurists.
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We're not real people. We are there to inspire.
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And in fact, I am sitting on this stage
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looking like I do in this wheelchair,
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and you are probably kind of expecting me
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to inspire you. Right? (Laughter)
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Yeah.
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Well, ladies and gentlemen, I'm afraid
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I'm going to disappoint you dramatically.
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I am not here to inspire you.
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I am here to tell you that we have been lied to
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about disability.
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Yeah, we've been sold the lie
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that disability is a Bad Thing, capital B, capital T.
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It's a bad thing, and to live with a disability
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makes you exceptional.
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It's not a bad thing, and it doesn't
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make you exceptional.
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And in the past few years, we've been able
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to propagate this lie even further
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via social media.
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You may have seen images like this one:
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"The only disability in life is a bad attitude."
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Or this one: "Your excuse is invalid." Indeed.
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Or this one: "Before you quit, try!"
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These are just a couple of examples,
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but there are a lot of these images out there.
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You know, you might have seen the one,
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the little girl with no hands
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drawing a picture with a pencil held in her mouth.
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You might have seen a child running
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on carbon fiber prosthetic legs.
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And these images,
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there are lots of them out there,
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they are what we call inspiration porn.
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(Laughter)
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And I use the term porn deliberately,
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because they objectify one group of people
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for the benefit of another group of people.
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So in this case, we're objectifying disabled people
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for the benefit of nondisabled people.
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The purpose of these images
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is to inspire you, to motivate you,
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so that we can look at them
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and think, "Well, however bad my life is,
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it could be worse.
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I could be that person."
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But what if you are that person?
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I've lost count of the number of times that I've
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been approached by strangers
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wanting to tell me that they think I'm brave
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or inspirational,
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and this was long before my work
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had any kind of public profile.
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They were just kind of congratulating me
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for managing to get up in the morning
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and remember my own name. (Laughter)
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And it is objectifying.
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These images, those images
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objectify disabled people
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for the benefit of nondisabled people.
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They are there so that you can look at them
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and think that things aren't so bad for you,
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to put your worries into perspective.
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And life as a disabled person
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is actually somewhat difficult.
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We do overcome some things.
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But the things that we're overcoming
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are not the things that you think they are.
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They are not things to do with our bodies.
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I use the term "disabled people" quite deliberately,
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because I subscribe to what's called
the social model of disability,
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which tells us that we are more disabled
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by the society that we live in
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than by our bodies and our diagnoses.
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So I have lived in this body a long time.
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I'm quite fond of it.
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It does the things that I need it to do,
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and I've learned to use it to the best of its capacity
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just as you have,
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and that's the thing about those
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They're not doing anything out of the ordinary.
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They are just using their bodies
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to the best of their capacity.
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So is it really fair to objectify them
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in the way that we do,
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to share those images?
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People, when they say, "You're an inspiration,"
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they mean it as a compliment.
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And I know why it happens.
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It's because of the lie, it's because we've been sold
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this lie that disability makes you exceptional.
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And it honestly doesn't.
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And I know what you're thinking.
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You know, I'm up here bagging out inspiration,
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and you're thinking, "Jeez, Stella,
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aren't you inspired sometimes by some things?"
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And the thing is, I am.
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I learn from other disabled people all the time.
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I'm learning not that I am luckier than them, though.
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I am learning that it's a genius idea
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to use a pair of barbecue tongs
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to pick up things that you dropped. (Laughter)
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I'm learning that nifty trick where you can charge
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your mobile phone battery from your chair battery.
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Genius.
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We are learning from each
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not against our bodies and our diagnoses,
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but against a world that exceptionalizes
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and objectifies us.
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I really think that this lie that we've been sold
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about disability is the greatest injustice.
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It makes life hard for us.
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And that quote, "The only disability in life
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is a bad attitude,"
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the reason that that's bullshit
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is because it's just not true,
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because of the social model of disability.
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No amount of smiling at a flight of stairs
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has ever made it turn into a ramp.
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Never. (Laughter) (Applause)
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Smiling at a television screen
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isn't going to make closed captions appear
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for people who are deaf.
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No amount of standing
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and radiating a positive attitude
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is going to turn all those books into braille.
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It's just not going to happen.
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I really want to live in a world
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where disability is not the exception, but the norm.
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I want to live in a world where a 15-year-old girl
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sitting in her bedroom
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watching "Buffy the Vampire Slayer"
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isn't referred to as achieving anything
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because she's doing it sitting down.
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I want to live in a world
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where we don't have such low expectations
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of disabled people
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that we are congratulated for getting out of bed
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and remembering our own names in the morning.
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I want to live in a world where
we value genuine achievement
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for disabled people,
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and I want to live in a world
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where a kid in year 11 in a Melbourne high school
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is not one bit surprised
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that his new teacher is a wheelchair user.
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Disability doesn't make you exceptional,
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but questioning what you
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Thank you.
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(Applause)
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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Stella Young - Comedian, journalist, activist
Writer, comedian and advocate Stella Young was the editor of Ramp Up, an online space for news, discussion and opinion about disability in Australia.

Why you should listen

Born in Stawell in Western Victoria, Australia, Stella Young cut her activist teeth at the age of 14 by conducting an access audit of shops on the local main street. It didn’t take long -- it was a pretty short street.

She became active in the disability community in a variety of roles, including membership of the Victorian Disability Advisory Council, Ministerial Advisory Council for the Department of Victorian communities and Women With Disabilities Victoria. Young was a two-time state finalist in the Melbourne International Comedy Festival’s Raw Comedy competition; and hosted eight seasons of Australia’s first disability culture program, No Limits, aired on Channel 31 and community stations across the country.

With a strong interest in issues facing women and young people with disabilities, Young worked with the Youth Disability Advocacy Service to establish the LiveAccess project, advocating for better access to live music venues. She held a degree in journalism from Deakin University and a Diploma of Secondary Education from the University of Melbourne. Prior to joining the ABC, Stella worked in Public Programs at Melbourne Museum, where she taught kids about bugs, dinosaurs and other weird and wonderful things.

Young passed away at the age of 32 on December 8, 2014.

More profile about the speaker
Stella Young | Speaker | TED.com

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