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Isaac Lidsky: What reality are you creating for yourself?
Isak Lidski (Isaac Lidsky): Kakvu stvarnost kreirate za sebe?
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Stvarnost nije nešto što opažate; ona je nešto što stvarate u svom umu. Isak Lidski je savladao ovu dubokoumnu lekkciju iz prve ruke, kada su neočekivane životne okolnosti iznedrile dragocena saznanja. U ovom introspektivnom, ličnom govoru, izaziva nas da se rešimo izgovora, pretpostavki i strahova, i da prihvatimo fenomenalnu odgovornost toga da smo tvorci sopstvene stvarnosti.
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00:12
When Dorothy was a little girl,
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Kad je Doroti bila devojčica,
00:14
she was fascinated by her goldfish.
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fascinirala je njena zlatna ribica.
00:17
Her father explained to her that fish swim
by quickly wagging their tails
by quickly wagging their tails
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Njen otac joj je objasnio da ribe plivaju
tako što brzo mašu repom
tako što brzo mašu repom
00:20
to propel themselves through the water.
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kako bi se otisnule kroz vodu.
00:23
Without hesitation,
little Dorothy responded,
little Dorothy responded,
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Bez oklevanja,
malena Doroti je odgovorila:
malena Doroti je odgovorila:
00:25
"Yes, Daddy, and fish swim backwards
by wagging their heads."
by wagging their heads."
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"Da, tata, a ribe plivaju unazad
mašući svojim glavama."
mašući svojim glavama."
00:28
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
00:30
In her mind, it was a fact
as true as any other.
as true as any other.
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U njenom umu to je bila činjenica
istinita kao i sve druge.
istinita kao i sve druge.
00:32
Fish swim backwards
by wagging their heads.
by wagging their heads.
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Ribe plivaju unazad,
vrteći svojim glavama.
vrteći svojim glavama.
00:35
She believed it.
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Verovala je u to.
00:37
Our lives are full
of fish swimming backwards.
of fish swimming backwards.
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Naši životi su puni riba
koje plivaju unazad.
koje plivaju unazad.
00:40
We make assumptions
and faulty leaps of logic.
and faulty leaps of logic.
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Pravimo pretpostavke
i falične zamahe logike.
i falične zamahe logike.
00:42
We harbor bias.
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Gajimo pristrasnost.
00:44
We know that we are right,
and they are wrong.
and they are wrong.
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Znamo da smo u pravu, a da oni nisu.
00:46
We fear the worst.
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Strahujemo od najgoreg.
00:48
We strive for unattainable perfection.
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Težimo nedostižnom savršenstvu.
00:50
We tell ourselves
what we can and cannot do.
what we can and cannot do.
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Govorimo sebi šta možemo,
a šta ne možemo.
a šta ne možemo.
00:53
In our minds, fish swim by in reverse
frantically wagging their heads
frantically wagging their heads
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U našim umovima, ribe plivaju unazad
mahnito mašući svojim glavama
mahnito mašući svojim glavama
00:58
and we don't even notice them.
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i mi ih ni ne primećujemo.
01:01
I'm going to tell you
five facts about myself.
five facts about myself.
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Reći ću vam pet činjenica o meni.
01:03
One fact is not true.
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Jedna od njih nije tačna.
01:05
One: I graduated from Harvard at 19
with an honors degree in mathematics.
with an honors degree in mathematics.
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Prva: diplomirao sam na Harvardu sa 19
uz počasnu diplomu iz matematike.
uz počasnu diplomu iz matematike.
01:11
Two: I currently run
a construction company in Orlando.
a construction company in Orlando.
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Druga: trenutno upravljam
građevinskom firmom u Orlandu.
građevinskom firmom u Orlandu.
01:16
Three: I starred on a television sitcom.
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Treća: glumio sam u TV sitkomu.
01:21
Four: I lost my sight
to a rare genetic eye disease.
to a rare genetic eye disease.
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Četvrta: izgubio sam vid
zbog retkog genetskog oboljenja oka.
zbog retkog genetskog oboljenja oka.
01:26
Five: I served as a law clerk
to two US Supreme Court justices.
to two US Supreme Court justices.
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Peta: radio sam kao pravni službenik
u dva Vrhovna suda pravde u SAD-u.
u dva Vrhovna suda pravde u SAD-u.
01:32
Which fact is not true?
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Koja činjenica nije tačna?
01:35
Actually, they're all true.
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Zapravo, sve su tačne.
01:38
Yeah. They're all true.
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Da, sve su tačne.
01:40
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
01:44
At this point, most people really
only care about the television show.
only care about the television show.
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Sada većinu ljudi zaista interesuje
jedino televizijska serija.
jedino televizijska serija.
01:48
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
01:51
I know this from experience.
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Znam to iz iskustva.
01:54
OK, so the show was NBC's
"Saved by the Bell: The New Class."
"Saved by the Bell: The New Class."
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U redu, radi se o seriji sa NBC-ja
"Zvono kao spas: novi razred".
"Zvono kao spas: novi razred".
01:57
And I played Weasel Wyzell,
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Glumio sam Vizela Vajzela,
02:02
who was the sort of dorky,
nerdy character on the show,
nerdy character on the show,
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koji je bio nekakav tunjavi,
štrebasti lik u seriji,
štrebasti lik u seriji,
02:06
which made it a very
major acting challenge
major acting challenge
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zbog čega je to bio veliki glumački izazov
02:11
for me as a 13-year-old boy.
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za mene kao trinaestogodišnjaka.
02:12
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
02:15
Now, did you struggle
with number four, my blindness?
with number four, my blindness?
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Sad, da li vas muči
broj četiri, moje slepilo?
broj četiri, moje slepilo?
02:19
Why is that?
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Zašto je to tako?
02:21
We make assumptions
about so-called disabilities.
about so-called disabilities.
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Pravimo pretpostavke
o takozvanim invaliditetima.
o takozvanim invaliditetima.
02:24
As a blind man, I confront
others' incorrect assumptions
others' incorrect assumptions
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Kao slep čovek, suočen sam
sa tuđim netačnim pretpostavkama
sa tuđim netačnim pretpostavkama
02:27
about my abilities every day.
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svakodnevno o mojim sposobnostima.
02:30
My point today is not
about my blindness, however.
about my blindness, however.
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Međutim, svrha moje priče danas
nije o mom slepilu.
nije o mom slepilu.
02:33
It's about my vision.
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Već o mom vidu.
02:35
Going blind taught me
to live my life eyes wide open.
to live my life eyes wide open.
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Gubitak vida me je naučio
da živim širom otvorenih očiju.
da živim širom otvorenih očiju.
Naučilo me je da primećujem
ribe koje plivaju unazad,
ribe koje plivaju unazad,
02:40
It taught me to spot
those backwards-swimming fish
those backwards-swimming fish
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02:42
that our minds create.
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a koje tvore naši mozgovi.
02:44
Going blind cast them into focus.
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Slepilo ih je izbacilo na videlo.
02:47
What does it feel like to see?
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Kakav je osećaj videti?
02:50
It's immediate and passive.
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Trenutan je i pasivan.
02:52
You open your eyes and there's the world.
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Otvorite oči i svet je tu.
02:54
Seeing is believing. Sight is truth.
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Verujete u ono što vidite. Vid je istina.
02:57
Right?
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Je li tako?
02:59
Well, that's what I thought.
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Pa, tako sam mislio.
03:01
Then, from age 12 to 25,
my retinas progressively deteriorated.
my retinas progressively deteriorated.
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Zatim su mi mrežnjače počele progresivno
da propadaju od 12 do 15 godine.
da propadaju od 12 do 15 godine.
03:07
My sight became an increasingly bizarre
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Vid mi je postajao sve bizarnija
03:10
carnival funhouse hall
of mirrors and illusions.
of mirrors and illusions.
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sala karnevalske kuće zabave
od ogledala i iluzija.
od ogledala i iluzija.
03:13
The salesperson I was relieved
to spot in a store
to spot in a store
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Prodavac koga mi je bilo drago
što vidim u radnji
što vidim u radnji
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was really a mannequin.
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je zapravo bio lutka.
03:17
Reaching down to wash my hands,
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Posežući da operem ruke,
03:19
I suddenly saw it was
a urinal I was touching, not a sink,
a urinal I was touching, not a sink,
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iznenada bih uvideo
da dodirujem bide, a ne lavabo,
da dodirujem bide, a ne lavabo,
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when my fingers felt its true shape.
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kad bi mi prsti osetili njegov oblik.
03:25
A friend described
the photograph in my hand,
the photograph in my hand,
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Prijatelj bi mi opisao fotografiju u ruci,
03:27
and only then I could see
the image depicted.
the image depicted.
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i tek onda bih mogao da vidim
prizor na njoj.
prizor na njoj.
03:30
Objects appeared, morphed
and disappeared in my reality.
and disappeared in my reality.
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Objekti su se pojavljivali, menjali oblik
i nestajali u mojoj stvarnosti.
i nestajali u mojoj stvarnosti.
03:36
It was difficult and exhausting to see.
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Bilo je teško i iscrpljujuće gledati.
03:39
I pieced together fragmented,
transitory images,
transitory images,
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Lepio sam iskomadane, nepostojane slike,
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consciously analyzed the clues,
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svesno analizirajući tragove,
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searched for some logic
in my crumbling kaleidoscope,
in my crumbling kaleidoscope,
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tragao sam za logikom
u svom izmrvljenom kaleidoskopu,
u svom izmrvljenom kaleidoskopu,
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until I saw nothing at all.
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dok nisam skroz obnevideo.
03:51
I learned that what we see
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Shvatio sam da ono što vidimo
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is not universal truth.
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nije univerzalna istina.
03:56
It is not objective reality.
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Nije objektivna stvarnost.
04:00
What we see is a unique,
personal, virtual reality
personal, virtual reality
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Ono što vidimo je jedinstvena,
lična, virtuelna stvarnost
lična, virtuelna stvarnost
04:04
that is masterfully
constructed by our brain.
constructed by our brain.
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koja je majstorski sazdana u našem mozgu.
04:07
Let me explain with a bit
of amateur neuroscience.
of amateur neuroscience.
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Objasniću vam to uz pomoć
amaterske neuronauke.
amaterske neuronauke.
04:09
Your visual cortex takes up
about 30 percent of your brain.
about 30 percent of your brain.
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Vaš vizuelni korteks zauzima
oko 30 procenata vašeg mozga.
oko 30 procenata vašeg mozga.
04:13
That's compared to approximately
eight percent for touch
eight percent for touch
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To je u poređenju sa otprilike
osam procenata za dodir
osam procenata za dodir
04:17
and two to three percent for hearing.
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i dva do tri procenta za sluh.
04:19
Every second, your eyes
can send your visual cortex
can send your visual cortex
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Svake sekunde vaše oči
mogu da pošalju vizuelnom korteksu
mogu da pošalju vizuelnom korteksu
04:23
as many as two billion
pieces of information.
pieces of information.
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skoro dve milijarde jedinica informacija.
04:26
The rest of your body can send your brain
only an additional billion.
only an additional billion.
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Ostatak vašeg tela može poslati mozgu
tek dodatnih milijardu.
tek dodatnih milijardu.
04:30
So sight is one third
of your brain by volume
of your brain by volume
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Dakle, vid je jedna trećina
zapremine vašeg mozga
zapremine vašeg mozga
04:34
and can claim about two thirds
of your brain's processing resources.
of your brain's processing resources.
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i može da zauzme oko dve trećine
resursa za obradu podataka vašeg mozga.
resursa za obradu podataka vašeg mozga.
04:39
It's no surprise then
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Ne iznenađuje onda
04:40
that the illusion
of sight is so compelling.
of sight is so compelling.
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što je iluzija vida tako neodoljiva.
04:42
But make no mistake about it:
sight is an illusion.
sight is an illusion.
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Ali ne zavaravajte se: vid je iluzija.
04:45
Here's where it gets interesting.
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Evo šta je zanimljivo.
04:47
To create the experience of sight,
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Kako bi stvorio doživljaj vida,
04:49
your brain references your conceptual
understanding of the world,
understanding of the world,
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vaš mozak vas upućuje
na konceptualno razumevanje sveta,
na konceptualno razumevanje sveta,
04:53
other knowledge, your memories,
opinions, emotions, mental attention.
opinions, emotions, mental attention.
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druga saznanja, vaša sećanja,
mišljenja, osećanja, mentalnu pažnju.
mišljenja, osećanja, mentalnu pažnju.
04:57
All of these things and far more
are linked in your brain to your sight.
are linked in your brain to your sight.
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Sve ovo i štošta više
je u vašem umu povezano s vidom.
je u vašem umu povezano s vidom.
05:03
These linkages work both ways,
and usually occur subconsciously.
and usually occur subconsciously.
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Ove veze funkcionišu obostrano,
i često se dešavaju podsvesno.
i često se dešavaju podsvesno.
05:06
So for example,
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Te, na prmer,
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what you see impacts how you feel,
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ono što vidite utiče
na to kako se osećate,
na to kako se osećate,
05:10
and the way you feel
can literally change what you see.
can literally change what you see.
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a to kako se osećate
bukvalno može da promeni ono što vdite.
bukvalno može da promeni ono što vdite.
05:14
Numerous studies demonstrate this.
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Brojna istraživanja to pokazuju.
05:16
If you are asked to estimate
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Ukoliko bi vam zatražili da procenite
05:18
the walking speed of a man
in a video, for example,
in a video, for example,
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brzinu hoda čoveka
na video snimku, na primer,
na video snimku, na primer,
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your answer will be different if you're
told to think about cheetahs or turtles.
told to think about cheetahs or turtles.
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na vaš odgovor bi uticala sugestija
da razmišljate o gepardima ili kornjačama.
da razmišljate o gepardima ili kornjačama.
05:27
A hill appears steeper
if you've just exercised,
if you've just exercised,
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Brdo izgleda strmije,
ako ste upravo vežbali,
ako ste upravo vežbali,
05:30
and a landmark appears farther away
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a orijentir se čini daljim,
05:32
if you're wearing a heavy backpack.
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ako nosite težak ranac.
05:35
We have arrived
at a fundamental contradiction.
at a fundamental contradiction.
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Stigli smo do temeljne protivrečnosti.
05:40
What you see is a complex
mental construction of your own making,
mental construction of your own making,
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Ono što vidite je složena
mentalna konstrukcija čiji ste vi tvorac,
mentalna konstrukcija čiji ste vi tvorac,
05:44
but you experience it passively
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ali doživljavate je pasivno
05:46
as a direct representation
of the world around you.
of the world around you.
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kao direktnu predstavu sveta oko vas.
05:49
You create your own reality,
and you believe it.
and you believe it.
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Stvarate sopstvenu stvarnost
i verujete u nju.
i verujete u nju.
05:53
I believed mine until it broke apart.
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Ja sam verovao u svoju,
dok se nije raspala.
dok se nije raspala.
05:56
The deterioration of my eyes
shattered the illusion.
shattered the illusion.
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Propadanje mog vida je razbilo iluziju.
06:00
You see, sight is just one way
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Vidite, vid je tek jedan od načina
06:03
we shape our reality.
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na koji oblikujemo našu stvarnost.
06:05
We create our own realities
in many other ways.
in many other ways.
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Stvaramo sopstvene stvarnosti
na razne druge načine.
na razne druge načine.
06:09
Let's take fear as just one example.
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Uzmimo strah kao jedan od primera.
06:13
Your fears distort your reality.
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Vaši strahovi izobličavaju vašu stvarnost.
06:17
Under the warped logic of fear,
anything is better than the uncertain.
anything is better than the uncertain.
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Pod izvitoperenom logikom straha,
sve je bolje od neizvesnosti.
sve je bolje od neizvesnosti.
06:22
Fear fills the void at all costs,
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Strah po svaku cenu ispunjava prazninu,
06:24
passing off what you dread
for what you know,
for what you know,
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podmeće vam vaše bojazni kao saznanja,
06:26
offering up the worst
in place of the ambiguous,
in place of the ambiguous,
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nudi vam najgore, umesto nesigurnosti,
06:29
substituting assumption for reason.
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menjajući pretpostavke za razum.
06:32
Psychologists have
a great term for it: awfulizing.
a great term for it: awfulizing.
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Psiholozi imaju sjajan
termin za to - užasavanje.
termin za to - užasavanje.
06:34
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
06:36
Right?
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Tačno?
06:37
Fear replaces the unknown with the awful.
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Strah zamenjuje nepoznato užasom.
06:42
Now, fear is self-realizing.
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Sad, strah je samoevidentan.
06:44
When you face the greatest need
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Kad ste suočeni sa najvećom potrebom
06:45
to look outside yourself
and think critically,
and think critically,
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da pogledate izvan sebe
i razmišljate kritički,
i razmišljate kritički,
06:48
fear beats a retreat
deep inside your mind,
deep inside your mind,
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strah pobeđuje utočište
duboko u vašem umu,
duboko u vašem umu,
06:51
shrinking and distorting your view,
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skupljajući i izopačavajući vaš vid,
potapajući vašu sposobnost
kritičkog mišljenja
kritičkog mišljenja
06:53
drowning your capacity
for critical thought
for critical thought
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06:55
with a flood of disruptive emotions.
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poplavom nekontrolisanih emocija.
06:57
When you face a compelling
opportunity to take action,
opportunity to take action,
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Kada ste suočeni sa izazovnom
šansom da delate,
šansom da delate,
07:00
fear lulls you into inaction,
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strah vas uljuljkava u nedelanje,
07:03
enticing you to passively watch
its prophecies fulfill themselves.
its prophecies fulfill themselves.
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mami vas da pasivno posmatrate
kako se njegova proročanstva obistinjuju.
kako se njegova proročanstva obistinjuju.
07:09
When I was diagnosed
with my blinding disease,
with my blinding disease,
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Kad mi je dijagnostikovana bolest slepila,
07:12
I knew blindness would ruin my life.
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znao sam da će mi slepilo uništiti život.
07:16
Blindness was a death sentence
for my independence.
for my independence.
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Slepilo je bilo smrtna presuda
za moju nezavisnost.
za moju nezavisnost.
07:19
It was the end of achievement for me.
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Tu je bio kraj mojim postignućima.
07:22
Blindness meant I would live
an unremarkable life,
an unremarkable life,
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Slepilo je značilo da ću da živim,
beznačajan život,
beznačajan život,
07:26
small and sad,
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skučen i otužan
07:28
and likely alone.
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i da ću verovatno biti sam.
07:30
I knew it.
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Znao sam to.
07:33
This was a fiction born of my fears,
but I believed it.
but I believed it.
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To je bila fikcija rođena iz mog straha,
ali sam verovao u nju.
ali sam verovao u nju.
07:36
It was a lie, but it was my reality,
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To je bila laž,
ali je to bila moja stvarnost,
ali je to bila moja stvarnost,
07:39
just like those backwards-swimming fish
in little Dorothy's mind.
in little Dorothy's mind.
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baš kao i te ribe koje plivaju unazad
u umu malene Doroti.
u umu malene Doroti.
07:43
If I had not confronted
the reality of my fear,
the reality of my fear,
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Da se nisam suočio
sa stvarnošću mojih strahova,
sa stvarnošću mojih strahova,
07:46
I would have lived it.
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proživeo bih ih.
07:48
I am certain of that.
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U to sam siguran.
07:51
So how do you live your life
eyes wide open?
eyes wide open?
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Pa, kako da živite svoj život
očiju širom otvorenih?
očiju širom otvorenih?
07:55
It is a learned discipline.
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To je disciplina koja se uči.
07:57
It can be taught. It can be practiced.
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Može da se nauči. Može da se praktikuje.
08:00
I will summarize very briefly.
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Sažeću je veoma kratko.
08:03
Hold yourself accountable
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Smatrajte sebe odgovornim
08:05
for every moment, every thought,
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za svaki trenutak, svaku misao,
08:08
every detail.
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svaki detalj.
08:10
See beyond your fears.
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Gledajte mimo vaših strahova.
08:11
Recognize your assumptions.
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Prepoznajte svoje pretpostavke.
08:13
Harness your internal strength.
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Upregnite unutrašnju snagu.
08:15
Silence your internal critic.
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Utišajte kritičara u vama samima.
08:17
Correct your misconceptions
about luck and about success.
about luck and about success.
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Ispravljajte vaše zablude
o sreći i o uspehu.
o sreći i o uspehu.
08:21
Accept your strengths and your weaknesses,
and understand the difference.
and understand the difference.
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Prihvatite svoju snagu i svoju slabost,
i razumejte razliku među njima.
i razumejte razliku među njima.
08:25
Open your hearts
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Otvorite vaša srca
08:26
to your bountiful blessings.
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za obilje blagoslova.
08:29
Your fears, your critics,
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Vaši strahovi, vaše kritike,
08:31
your heroes, your villains --
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vaši heroji, vaši zlikovci -
08:33
they are your excuses,
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oni su vaši izgovori,
08:36
rationalizations, shortcuts,
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racionalizacije, prečice,
08:39
justifications, your surrender.
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opravdanja, vaša predaja.
08:42
They are fictions you perceive as reality.
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Oni su fikcije
koje doživljavate kao stvarnost.
koje doživljavate kao stvarnost.
08:46
Choose to see through them.
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Voljno ih prozrite.
08:47
Choose to let them go.
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Voljno ih se rešite.
08:50
You are the creator of your reality.
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Vi ste tvorac vaše stvarnosti.
08:54
With that empowerment
comes complete responsibility.
comes complete responsibility.
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S tim osnaženjem
dolazi potpuna odgovornost.
dolazi potpuna odgovornost.
08:58
I chose to step out of fear's tunnel
into terrain uncharted and undefined.
into terrain uncharted and undefined.
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Voljno sam iskoračio iz tunela straha
na neistražen i neodređen teren.
na neistražen i neodređen teren.
09:04
I chose to build there a blessed life.
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Izabrao sam da tu sagradim
blagosloven život.
blagosloven život.
09:08
Far from alone,
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Nimalo usamljen,
09:09
I share my beautiful life with Dorothy,
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delim svoj divni život sa Doroti,
09:12
my beautiful wife,
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mojom prelepom suprugom,
09:14
with our triplets,
whom we call the Tripskys,
whom we call the Tripskys,
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sa našim trojkama, koje zovemo Tripskijima
09:18
and with the latest addition
to the family,
to the family,
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i sa najnovijom porodičnom prinovom,
09:20
sweet baby Clementine.
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preslatkom bebom Klementinom.
09:22
What do you fear?
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Čega se plašite?
09:25
What lies do you tell yourself?
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Koje laži sebi govorite?
09:28
How do you embellish your truth
and write your own fictions?
and write your own fictions?
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Kako ulepšavate vaše istine
i pišete sopstvene fikcije?
i pišete sopstvene fikcije?
09:32
What reality are you
creating for yourself?
creating for yourself?
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Kakvu stvarnost kreirate za sebe?
09:36
In your career and personal life,
in your relationships,
in your relationships,
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U vašim karijerama i privatnom životu,
u vašim vezama,
u vašim vezama,
09:39
and in your heart and soul,
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i u vašim srcima i dušama,
09:41
your backwards-swimming fish
do you great harm.
do you great harm.
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vaše ribe koje plivaju unazad
vam nanose veliku štetu.
vam nanose veliku štetu.
09:44
They exact a toll in missed opportunities
and unrealized potential,
and unrealized potential,
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Ostavljaju danak u propuštenim šansama
i u nerealizovanom potencijalu,
i u nerealizovanom potencijalu,
09:49
and they engender insecurity and distrust
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i uzrokuju nesigurnost i nepoverenje,
09:51
where you seek fulfillment and connection.
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tamo gde tražite ispunjenost i povezanost.
09:55
I urge you to search them out.
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Pozivam vas da ih istražite.
09:59
Helen Keller said that the only thing
worse than being blind
worse than being blind
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Helen Keler je rekla
da je jedino gore od slepila
da je jedino gore od slepila
10:03
is having sight but no vision.
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imati vid, ali ne videti.
10:06
For me, going blind
was a profound blessing,
was a profound blessing,
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Meni je slepilo bilo istinski blagoslov
10:10
because blindness gave me vision.
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jer mi je slepilo podarilo vid.
10:13
I hope you can see what I see.
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Nadam se da vidite isto što i ja.
10:16
Thank you.
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Hvala vam.
10:17
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
10:32
Bruno Giussani: Isaac, before you
leave the stage, just a question.
leave the stage, just a question.
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Bruno Đuzani: Isače, pre nego
napustiš scenu, samo jedno pitanje.
napustiš scenu, samo jedno pitanje.
10:35
This is an audience of entrepreneurs,
of doers, of innovators.
of doers, of innovators.
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U ovoj publici su preduzetnici,
delatnici, izumitelji.
delatnici, izumitelji.
10:39
You are a CEO of a company
down in Florida,
down in Florida,
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Ti si izvršni direktor
firme, dole u Floridi,
firme, dole u Floridi,
10:43
and many are probably wondering,
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i verovatno se mnogi pitaju
10:45
how is it to be a blind CEO?
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kako je to biti slepi izvršni direktor?
10:47
What kind of specific challenges
do you have, and how do you overcome them?
do you have, and how do you overcome them?
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Koji su to specifični izazovi koje imaš
i kako ih savlađuješ?
i kako ih savlađuješ?
10:51
Isaac Lidsky: Well,
the biggest challenge became a blessing.
the biggest challenge became a blessing.
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Isak Lidski: Pa, najveći izazov
je postao blagoslov.
je postao blagoslov.
10:54
I don't get visual feedback from people.
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Ne dobijam vizuelne
povratne informacije od ljudi.
povratne informacije od ljudi.
10:57
(Laughter)
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(Smeh)
11:00
BG: What's that noise there? IL: Yeah.
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BĐ: Kakva je buka tamo? IL: Da.
11:02
So, for example,
in my leadership team meetings,
in my leadership team meetings,
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Pa, na primer,
na sastancima ekipe rukovodilaca,
na sastancima ekipe rukovodilaca,
11:05
I don't see facial
expressions or gestures.
expressions or gestures.
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ne vidim izraze lica ili gestove.
11:09
I've learned to solicit
a lot more verbal feedback.
a lot more verbal feedback.
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Naučio sam da tražim
što više verbalnih povratnih informacija.
što više verbalnih povratnih informacija.
11:13
I basically force people
to tell me what they think.
to tell me what they think.
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U suštini primoravam ljude
da mi kažu šta misle.
da mi kažu šta misle.
11:18
And in this respect,
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I u tom smislu,
11:19
it's become, like I said, a real blessing
for me personally and for my company,
for me personally and for my company,
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to je postalo, kao što sam rekao,
istinski blagoslov za mene i moju firmu
istinski blagoslov za mene i moju firmu
11:24
because we communicate
at a far deeper level,
at a far deeper level,
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jer komuniciramo na daleko višem nivou,
11:27
we avoid ambiguities,
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izbegavamo dvosimslenosti,
11:30
and most important, my team knows
that what they think truly matters.
that what they think truly matters.
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i što je najvažnije, moja ekipa zna
da je njihovo mišljenje uistinu važno.
da je njihovo mišljenje uistinu važno.
11:38
BG: Isaac, thank you for coming to TED.
IL: Thank you, Bruno.
IL: Thank you, Bruno.
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BĐ: Isače, Hvala što si došao na TED.
IL: Hvala tebi, Bruno.
IL: Hvala tebi, Bruno.
11:41
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Isaac Lidsky - Author, entrepreneurIsaac Lidsky has a very eclectic resume.
Why you should listen
Lidsky runs a big construction services company based in Florida, has co-founded an Internet startup and a nonprofit and is a member of the Young Presidents’ Organization (YPO). He graduated in math and computer science from Harvard and then added a law degree magna cum laude from the same university, clerked for US Supreme Court Justices Sandra Day O’Connor and Ruth Bader Ginsburg and argued a dozen cases in federal court on behalf of the US Justice Department, not losing any. Earlier, he was a child television star in both commercials and series.
Lidsky's rich biography disguises a secret, which can be summarized in the title of his forthcoming book Eyes Wide Open: Overcoming Obstacles and Recognizing Opportunities In A World That Can’t See Clearly.
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