Darieth Chisolm: How revenge porn turns lives upside down
达连·启森: 色情报复是如何颠覆受害者生活的
Darieth Chisolm is an Emmy-winning television personality, former NBC News Anchor, entrepreneur, author, international speaker and life and business coach. Full bio
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老板宣讲关于
before I was set to deliver a talk
the so-called expert there,
and life and business coach.
以及生活和商业指导。
at my cell phone just to catch the time,
会低下头看一下手机,
from my ex-husband.
who told me to go to this website,
他让我去看这个网站
all of these photos of you naked.
你的裸体照片。
are all over this website.
and so embarrassed and so ashamed.
非常尴尬,非常羞愧。
months of pain and depression
几个月痛苦和沮丧的开始
stalker ex-boyfriend
跟踪狂前男友
上面有我的名字,
一起住在牙买加,
while I was asleep,
he had been sending me
他已经给我发送
some sleazy, low-life slut.
一个卑鄙下流的荡妇。
in my head and stab me in my heart,
并刺进我的心,
the controlling relationship.
被他控制的关系。
this was happening to me.
cyberharassment or cyberbullying.
或者网络欺凌。
a relationship gone bad,
can't handle rejection,
无法接受被拒绝,
put their hands on you,
放在你身上时,
cell phones and laptops.
手机和笔记本电脑。
content -- all posted online,
露骨内容——未经允许,
we all live our lives online.
我们都在网上生活。
we make new relationships,
业务,建立新的关系,
one Facebook like at a time.
一次一个脸书。
they have been impacted by revenge porn.
色情报复的影响。
that number looks like one in 10.
这个数字似乎是10%。
in this audience as potential victims.
what's even more alarming?
to adequately protect victims
by Senator Kamala Harris.
由参议员卡玛拉·哈里斯提出。
have some laws in place for revenge porn.
制定了一些针对色情报复的法律。
we're talking $500 fines.
通常只是500美元的罚款。
from damaged relationships
and depression.
who spent 11 months in court,
待了11个月,
法律费用的女性。
and cyberabuse,
internet company
and jurisdictional issues drag this out
以及司法问题
were on display for months.
was exposed for the world to see,
你会有什么感觉?
for the content to be removed?
想要要删除内容?
a private company
to shut the website down.
digital material and content.
材料与内容的法律。
both copyright owners and consumers.
版权所有者和消费者。
own the rights to those selfies,
拥有这些相片的权利,
to have the content removed.
DMCA条款,删除内容。
third-party internet companies.
第三方互联网公司的斗争。
a nude photo or a naked pic,
from another country,
跟踪我,骚扰我,
to get help here.
isn't the internet international?
国际互联网的事吗?
some sort of policy in place
通用保护的政策吗?
regardless to borders or restrictions?
I had to keep fighting.
我将继续战斗。
of both my cell phone and my laptop
and the Jamaican Embassy
all of the evidence.
with the all-male investigative team.
“共享”我的隐私部位。
additional hoop to jump through.
羞辱,不必要的经历。
actually arrested him.
under their malicious communications act,
thousands of dollars in fines
会面临数千美元的罚款
is making history --
我的案例创造了历史——
under this new crime.
新罪行的国际案例。
这样一级的羞辱
all of these hoops.
所有这些折腾。
we need to have clear, tough enforcement;
and responsiveness from online companies;
以及来自网络公司的回应;
for posting, sharing and texting;
用于发帖、分享和发短信;
money or resources to wage war,
时间,金钱或资源,
mislabeled and broken?
错误的认知,以及被伤害。
that's holding you hostage.
将你囚如人质
is the stripping away of your self-worth.
自我价值的剥离。
I freed myself from shame.
我从羞愧中解脱出来。
from the fear of judgment
would judge me the most --
person that I know.
the wrong woman to mess with."
to use my platform
this one simple question:
一个简单的问题:
that I was challenged with,
about all kinds of possibilities.
我说出我的真相,
a new chapter in my life.
社会正义项目,
an upcoming documentary
快要上映的的纪录片
重塑她们的尊严。
someone who is, know this:
记住这一点:
you have to take care of yourself,
for what's next for your life.
of self-discovery
也是一个旅程。
confidence and conviction.
信心和信念。
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Darieth Chisolm - Journalist, activistDarieth Chisolm is an Emmy-winning television personality, former NBC News Anchor, entrepreneur, author, international speaker and life and business coach.
Why you should listen
Darieth Chisolm works with corporate professionals, coaches, authors, speakers and visionaries to develop visibility and multimedia strategies that build brand, influence and income. She leverages her life coaching skills to help victims and survivors of assault and abuse release the shame, live with confidence and find their everyday courage.
Chisolm is also a revenge porn victim turned activist, filmmaker and founder of 50 Shades of Silence, a global movement giving voice and dignity to victims of cyber harassment and abuse. The project aims to advocate for stricter laws and tougher enforcement for cyber sexual crimes; encourage the accountability and responsiveness among online companies; promote social responsibility for texting, posting and sharing online; and restore dignity and respect to victims and survivors. It includes an upcoming feature-length documentary, a website with resources and services, and motivational and empowerment training materials to help victims.
Chisolm is currently the host of CBS's Eye on Health and PBS's Emmy-winning iQ: smartparent. Her YouTube channel and online video podcast series, Hustle & Heart TV, was a top 10 finalist for the 2015 Podcast Awards for Best Video Podcast and was ranked number one on iTunes for more than two months with subscribers and viewers in multiple countries.
Chisolm is also the author of Hustle! Why Now is the Time to Unleash your Passions, a collection of powerful and motivating stories to help readers unlock and unleash their passions and learn how to hustle in business while loving life in the process. She is also a contributing writer for Inspiring Lives and Woman of More magazines.
Chisolm received the 2018 Woman of Influence Award from the Pittsburgh Business Times and has been named Top 10 Trailblazers in Communications by Walker’s Legacy and nominated as Entrepreneur of the Year with Style Week in Pittsburgh. She has received two proclamations from the City of Pittsburgh, two proclamations from Allegheny County and a special recognition from the Senate of Pennsylvania for making an outstanding difference and profound impact in Pittsburgh.
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