Darieth Chisolm: How revenge porn turns lives upside down
戴瑞爾絲奇索姆: 復仇式色情如何顛覆人生
Darieth Chisolm is an Emmy-winning television personality, former NBC News Anchor, entrepreneur, author, international speaker and life and business coach. Full bio
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before I was set to deliver a talk
the so-called expert there,
and life and business coach.
at my cell phone just to catch the time,
手機,想知道時間,
是我前夫打來的。
from my ex-husband.
who told me to go to this website,
all of these photos of you naked.
are all over this website.
and so embarrassed and so ashamed.
months of pain and depression
接著是數個月的
迷惘,以及沉默。
stalker ex-boyfriend
愛嫉妒、還是個跟蹤狂,
while I was asleep,
he had been sending me
some sleazy, low-life slut.
某種低級、卑鄙的蕩婦。
in my head and stab me in my heart,
the controlling relationship.
這段充滿控制的關係。
this was happening to me.
會發生在我身上。
cyberharassment or cyberbullying.
包括網路騷擾或網路霸凌。
a relationship gone bad,
都是一段惡化的關係,
can't handle rejection,
無法接受自己被拒絕,
put their hands on you,
cell phones and laptops.
手機和筆記型電腦。
content -- all posted online,
全都張貼在網路上,
we all live our lives online.
我們都生活在網路上。
we make new relationships,
我們建立新的關係,
one Facebook like at a time.
一次一個臉書上的讚。
一個更小的世界。
they have been impacted by revenge porn.
她曾經受過復仇式色情的影響。
that number looks like one in 10.
則是十個中就有一個。
in this audience as potential victims.
就有可能會成為受害者。
what's even more alarming?
to adequately protect victims
或給行兇者應得的懲罰。
by Senator Kamala Harris.
「ENOUGH(夠了)」法案,
have some laws in place for revenge porn.
we're talking $500 fines.
我們在談的是 500 美元的罰款。
from damaged relationships
名譽受到損害。
and depression.
who spent 11 months in court,
花了十一個月在法庭上,
and cyberabuse,
internet company
還很讓人困惑。
and jurisdictional issues drag this out
were on display for months.
就繼續被展示著。
was exposed for the world to see,
你會有什麼感受?
for the content to be removed?
等待著內容被移除?
a private company
一間私人公司,
to shut the website down.
將該網站關閉。
digital material and content.
數位素材和內容用的。
both copyright owners and consumers.
拍攝和分享裸照的人,
own the rights to those selfies,
to have the content removed.
DMCA 來將內容移除。
third-party internet companies.
第三方網路公司。
a nude photo or a naked pic,
from another country,
跟蹤和騷擾我,
to get help here.
isn't the internet international?
網路不是國際的嗎?
some sort of policy in place
regardless to borders or restrictions?
跨越國界或不受限制?
I had to keep fighting.
我得要繼續奮鬥。
of both my cell phone and my laptop
and the Jamaican Embassy
all of the evidence.
with the all-male investigative team.
分享給全是男性的調查團隊。
additional hoop to jump through.
又尷尬的額外磨難。
actually arrested him.
under their malicious communications act,
惡意溝通法的指控,
thousands of dollars in fines
處以數千美元的罰金,
is making history --
創造了歷史——
under this new crime.
第一個國際案例。
all of these hoops.
正在危急關頭。
we need to have clear, tough enforcement;
and responsiveness from online companies;
負責任並做出回應;
for posting, sharing and texting;
和發送訊息的社會責任;
money or resources to wage war,
來打戰,他們該怎麼辦?
mislabeled and broken?
錯誤的標籤,陷入沮喪當中。
that's holding you hostage.
is the stripping away of your self-worth.
是剝去你的自我價值。
I freed myself from shame.
就讓我不再受羞恥的擺佈。
from the fear of judgment
would judge me the most --
評斷我的那個人——
person that I know.
the wrong woman to mess with."
to use my platform
this one simple question:
一個簡單的問題:
that I was challenged with,
一切時,那個問題
about all kinds of possibilities.
讓我去思考各種可能性。
我說出我的真相,
a new chapter in my life.
an upcoming documentary
一部即將問世的紀錄片,
someone who is, know this:
任何受害者,請記住:
you have to take care of yourself,
你得要能照顧好你自己,
for what's next for your life.
未來人生境遇的準備。
of self-discovery
是一段自我發現的旅程,
confidence and conviction.
勇氣、信心,和信念。
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Darieth Chisolm - Journalist, activistDarieth Chisolm is an Emmy-winning television personality, former NBC News Anchor, entrepreneur, author, international speaker and life and business coach.
Why you should listen
Darieth Chisolm works with corporate professionals, coaches, authors, speakers and visionaries to develop visibility and multimedia strategies that build brand, influence and income. She leverages her life coaching skills to help victims and survivors of assault and abuse release the shame, live with confidence and find their everyday courage.
Chisolm is also a revenge porn victim turned activist, filmmaker and founder of 50 Shades of Silence, a global movement giving voice and dignity to victims of cyber harassment and abuse. The project aims to advocate for stricter laws and tougher enforcement for cyber sexual crimes; encourage the accountability and responsiveness among online companies; promote social responsibility for texting, posting and sharing online; and restore dignity and respect to victims and survivors. It includes an upcoming feature-length documentary, a website with resources and services, and motivational and empowerment training materials to help victims.
Chisolm is currently the host of CBS's Eye on Health and PBS's Emmy-winning iQ: smartparent. Her YouTube channel and online video podcast series, Hustle & Heart TV, was a top 10 finalist for the 2015 Podcast Awards for Best Video Podcast and was ranked number one on iTunes for more than two months with subscribers and viewers in multiple countries.
Chisolm is also the author of Hustle! Why Now is the Time to Unleash your Passions, a collection of powerful and motivating stories to help readers unlock and unleash their passions and learn how to hustle in business while loving life in the process. She is also a contributing writer for Inspiring Lives and Woman of More magazines.
Chisolm received the 2018 Woman of Influence Award from the Pittsburgh Business Times and has been named Top 10 Trailblazers in Communications by Walker’s Legacy and nominated as Entrepreneur of the Year with Style Week in Pittsburgh. She has received two proclamations from the City of Pittsburgh, two proclamations from Allegheny County and a special recognition from the Senate of Pennsylvania for making an outstanding difference and profound impact in Pittsburgh.
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