ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Darieth Chisolm - Journalist, activist
Darieth Chisolm is an Emmy-winning television personality, former NBC News Anchor, entrepreneur, author, international speaker and life and business coach.

Why you should listen

Darieth Chisolm works with corporate professionals, coaches, authors, speakers and visionaries to develop visibility and multimedia strategies that build brand, influence and income. She leverages her life coaching skills to help victims and survivors of assault and abuse release the shame, live with confidence and find their everyday courage. 

Chisolm is also a revenge porn victim turned activist, filmmaker and founder of 50 Shades of Silence, a global movement giving voice and dignity to victims of cyber harassment and abuse. The project aims to advocate for stricter laws and tougher enforcement for cyber sexual crimes; encourage the accountability and responsiveness among online companies; promote social responsibility for texting, posting and sharing online; and restore dignity and respect to victims and survivors. It includes an upcoming feature-length documentary, a website with resources and services, and motivational and empowerment training materials to help victims.

Chisolm is currently the host of CBS's Eye on Health and PBS's Emmy-winning iQ: smartparent. Her YouTube channel and online video podcast series, Hustle & Heart TV, was a top 10 finalist for the 2015 Podcast Awards for Best Video Podcast and was ranked number one on iTunes for more than two months with subscribers and viewers in multiple countries.

Chisolm is also the author of Hustle! Why Now is the Time to Unleash your Passions, a collection of powerful and motivating stories to help readers unlock and unleash their passions and learn how to hustle in business while loving life in the process. She is also a contributing writer for Inspiring Lives and Woman of More magazines.

Chisolm received the 2018 Woman of Influence Award from the Pittsburgh Business Times and has been named Top 10 Trailblazers in Communications by Walker’s Legacy and nominated as Entrepreneur of the Year with Style Week in Pittsburgh. She has received two proclamations from the City of Pittsburgh, two proclamations from Allegheny County and a special recognition from the Senate of Pennsylvania for making an outstanding difference and profound impact in Pittsburgh.

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Darieth Chisolm: How revenge porn turns lives upside down

戴瑞爾絲奇索姆: 復仇式色情如何顛覆人生

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如果你是復仇式色情或網路霸凌的受害者,你能做什麼?你能做的,少到讓人無法置信,新聞記者和行動主義者戴瑞爾絲奇索姆如是說。她自己經歷過一段惡夢,在不知情也沒有同意的情況下,她被偷拍,照片還被放上網。她說明了她如何努力協助受害者,也提到了目前關於懲罰行兇者的立法現況。
- Journalist, activist
Darieth Chisolm is an Emmy-winning television personality, former NBC News Anchor, entrepreneur, author, international speaker and life and business coach. Full bio

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00:12
I had about five minutes分鐘
before I was set to deliver交付 a talk
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我有大約五分鐘的時間,
接著就要對一群企業主演說,
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to a bunch of business商業 owners擁有者
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about visibility能見度 and being存在 on camera相機.
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主題是能見度和面對攝影機。
00:20
After all, I was
the so-called所謂 expert專家 there,
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畢竟,在那裡,我是所謂的專家,
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the former前任的 20-year-年 television電視 news新聞 anchor
and life and business商業 coach教練.
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我曾當過二十年的電視新聞主播,
及人生和事業的教練。
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I happened發生 to take a look down
at my cell細胞 phone電話 just to catch抓住 the time,
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我剛好低頭看了一眼
手機,想知道時間,
我注意到我有一通未接來電,
是我前夫打來的。
00:32
and I noticed注意到 that I had a missed錯過 call
from my ex-husband前夫.
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I can still hear his voice語音.
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我現在仍然能聽見他的聲音。
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"Darieth達裡埃特, what is going on?
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「戴瑞爾絲,怎麼回事?
00:43
I just got a call from some strange奇怪 man
who told me to go to this website網站,
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我剛接到一個陌生人的電話,
他叫我上一個網站,
00:47
and now I'm looking at
all of these photos相片 of you naked.
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現在我眼前都是你的裸照。
00:52
Your private私人的 parts部分
are all over this website網站.
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網站上都是你的私密處。
00:55
Who's誰是 seen看到 this?"
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誰看得到這些?」
00:58
I couldn't不能 think. I couldn't不能 breathe呼吸.
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我無法思考。我無法呼吸。
01:02
I was so humiliated羞辱
and so embarrassed尷尬 and so ashamed羞愧.
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我好羞愧,好丟臉,好可恥。
01:06
I felt like my world世界 was coming未來 to an end結束.
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我覺得我的世界完蛋了。
01:09
And yet然而, this began開始 for me
months個月 of pain疼痛 and depression蕭條
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然而,這只是開端,
接著是數個月的
痛苦、憂鬱、憤怒、
迷惘,以及沉默。
01:13
and anger憤怒 and confusion混亂 and silence安靜.
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01:16
My manipulative操控, jealous,
stalker死纏爛打 ex-boyfriend前男友
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我的前男友很會操弄人、
愛嫉妒、還是個跟蹤狂,
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did exactly究竟 what he said he would do:
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而他做了他說他會做的事:
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he put up a website網站 with my name名稱 on it,
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他架了一個網站,掛上我的名字,
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and he posted發布 this.
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在網站上張貼這個。
01:29
And this.
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還有這個。
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And several一些 explicit明確的 photos相片
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還有許多清楚的照片,
01:33
that he had taken採取 of me
while I was asleep睡著,
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都是他趁我在睡覺時偷拍的,
01:35
living活的 with him in Jamaica牙買加.
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當時我們在牙買加同居。
01:37
For months個月 prior to that,
he had been sending發出 me
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在此事之前的幾個月,
他一直對我發送像這樣的威脅訊息。
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threatening危險的 text文本 messages消息 like this.
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01:42
He was trying to make me out to be
some sleazy骯髒, low-life低壽命 slut懶婦.
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他一直要把我塑造成像
某種低級、卑鄙的蕩婦。
01:47
He had even threatened受威脅 to kill me.
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他甚至威脅要殺了我。
01:49
He told me that he would shoot射擊 me
in my head and stab me in my heart,
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他告訴我,他要對著我的頭開槍,
用刀刺進我的心臟,
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simply只是 because I wanted to end結束
the controlling控制 relationship關係.
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只因為我想要結束
這段充滿控制的關係。
01:58
I couldn't不能 believe
this was happening事件 to me.
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我無法相信這種事
會發生在我身上。
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I didn't even know what to call it.
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我甚至不知道這種事叫什麼。
02:03
You might威力 know it as
cyberharassmentcyberharassment or cyberbullying網絡欺凌.
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你們可能聽過的名詞
包括網路騷擾或網路霸凌。
02:07
The media媒體 calls電話 it "revenge復仇 pornA片."
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媒體稱它為「復仇式色情」。
02:10
I now call it "digital數字 domestic國內 violence暴力."
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我現在稱它為「數位家庭暴力」。
02:14
It typically一般 stems from
a relationship關係 gone走了 bad,
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通常,它的源頭
都是一段惡化的關係,
02:17
where a controlling控制, jilted拋棄 ex-lover前情人
can't handle處理 rejection拒絕,
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很有控制慾、被拋棄的舊情人
無法接受自己被拒絕,
02:21
so when they can't physically物理
put their hands on you,
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當他們無法在實體上對你下手時,
02:24
they use different不同 weapons武器:
cell細胞 phones手機 and laptops筆記本電腦.
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他們就會用不同的武器:
手機和筆記型電腦。
02:28
The ammunition彈藥?
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彈藥是什麼?照片、影片、
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Photos相片, videos視頻, explicit明確的 information信息,
content內容 -- all posted發布 online線上,
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清楚的資訊、內容——
全都張貼在網路上,
02:35
without your consent同意.
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且沒有取得你的同意。
02:37
I mean, let's face面對 it --
we all live生活 our lives生活 online線上.
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咱們面對現實吧——
我們都生活在網路上。
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And the internet互聯網 is a really small world世界.
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而網路真的是個很小的世界。
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We show顯示 off our baby寶寶 photos相片,
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我們炫耀自己寶寶的照片,
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we start開始 and grow增長 our businesses企業,
we make new relationships關係,
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我們創造並經營自己的事業,
我們建立新的關係,
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we let the world世界 in,
one FacebookFacebook的 like at a time.
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我們讓全世界進來,
一次一個臉書上的讚。
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And you know what I found發現?
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你們知道我發現什麼嗎?
一個更小的世界。
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An even smaller world世界.
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One in 25 women婦女 say
they have been impacted影響 by revenge復仇 pornA片.
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二十五名女性中就有一名說
她曾經受過復仇式色情的影響。
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For women婦女 under the age年齡 of 30,
that number looks容貌 like one in 10.
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三十歲以下的女性,
則是十個中就有一個。
03:06
And that leaves樹葉 a few少數 of you
in this audience聽眾 as potential潛在 victims受害者.
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那表示在座當中有少數幾個人
就有可能會成為受害者。
03:10
You want to know
what's even more alarming驚人?
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想知道什麼更令人擔憂嗎?
03:12
Lack缺乏 of legislation立法 and laws法律
to adequately充分 protect保護 victims受害者
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缺乏立法和法律,
無法提供受害者適當的保護,
或給行兇者應得的懲罰。
03:16
and punish懲治 perpetrators肇事者.
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03:18
There's only one federal聯邦 bill法案 pending有待;
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只有一項聯邦法案,目前還待決;
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it's called the ENOUGH足夠 Act法案,
by Senator參議員 Kamala卡馬拉 Harris哈里斯.
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是參議員卡瑪拉哈里斯提出的
「ENOUGH(夠了)」法案,
03:24
It would criminalize刑事犯罪 revenge復仇 pornA片.
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它會將復仇式色情歸為犯罪行為。
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But that could take years年份 to pass通過.
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但可能要花上數年才能通過法案。
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So what are we left with in the meantime與此同時?
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所以,在這期間,我們還有什麼?
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Flimsy脆弱 civil國內 misdemeanors輕罪.
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很不周密的民事輕罪。
03:33
Currently目前, only 40 states狀態 and DCDC
have some laws法律 in place地點 for revenge復仇 pornA片.
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目前,只有四十個州及華盛頓特區
有一些能處理復仇色情的法律。
03:40
And those penalties處罰 vary變化 --
we're talking $500 fines罰款.
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罰款各有不同——
我們在談的是 500 美元的罰款。
03:44
Five hundred dollars美元?
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500 美元?你在跟我開玩笑嗎?
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Are you kidding開玩笑 me?
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03:46
Women婦女 are losing失去 their jobs工作.
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女性丟掉了工作。
03:47
They're suffering痛苦
from damaged破損 relationships關係
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她們的關係受到損害,
名譽受到損害。
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and damaged破損 reputations名譽.
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They're falling落下 into illness疾病
and depression蕭條.
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她們因此生病和陷入憂鬱。
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And the suicide自殺 rates利率 are climbing攀登.
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自殺比率在攀升。
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You're looking at a woman女人
who spent花費 11 months個月 in court法庭,
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你們現在看著的這個女人,
花了十一個月在法庭上,
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thirteen十三 trips旅行 to the courthouse法院
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跑了法庭大樓十三趟,
04:04
and thousands數千 of dollars美元 in legal法律 fees費用,
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花費數千美元的訴訟費,
04:06
just to get two things:
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只得到兩樣東西:
04:08
a protection保護 from cyberstalking網絡跟踪
and cyberabuse網路虐待,
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網路跟蹤和網路虐待的保護令,
04:11
otherwise除此以外 known已知 as a PFA粉煤灰,
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也就是一般所知的 PFA,
04:13
and language語言 from a judge法官
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以及法官要求第三方網路公司
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that would force a third-party第三方
internet互聯網 company公司
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將內容移除。
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to remove去掉 the content內容.
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It's expensive昂貴, complicated複雜 and confusing撲朔迷離.
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這實在是既昂貴又複雜,
還很讓人困惑。
04:23
And worse更差, legal法律 loopholes漏洞
and jurisdictional管轄權的 issues問題 drag拖動 this out
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更糟的是,法律漏洞和轄區議題
又讓這件事拖延了幾個月,
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for months個月,
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while my private私人的 parts部分
were on display顯示 for months個月.
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在這幾個月間我的私密處
就繼續被展示著。
04:34
How would you feel if your naked body身體
was exposed裸露 for the world世界 to see,
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如果你的裸體被公開給全世界看,
你會有什麼感受?
04:38
and you waited等待 helplessly無奈
for the content內容 to be removed去除?
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且你只能無助地
等待著內容被移除?
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Eventually終於, I stumbled迷迷糊糊 upon
a private私人的 company公司
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最終,我偶然碰見了
一間私人公司,
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to issue問題 a DMCADMCA notice注意
to shut關閉 the website網站 down.
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發佈了 DMCA 通知,
將該網站關閉。
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DMCADMCA -- Digital數字 Millennium千年 Copyright版權 Act法案.
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DMCA —— 數位千禧年著作權法。
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It's a law that regulates調整對象
digital數字 material材料 and content內容.
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這項法律是用來規範
數位素材和內容用的。
04:56
Broadly廣泛, the aim目標 of the DMCADMCA is to protect保護
both copyright版權 owners擁有者 and consumers消費者.
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廣義來說,DMCA 的目標是要保護
版權的所有人以及消費者。
05:01
So get this:
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所以,要了解:
拍攝和分享裸照的人,
05:02
people who take and share分享 nude裸體 photos相片
own擁有 the rights權利 to those selfies自拍,
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擁有那些自拍照的權利,
05:07
so they should be able能夠 to issue問題 a DMCADMCA
to have the content內容 removed去除.
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所以他們應該能夠透過
DMCA 來將內容移除。
但沒有這麼快——因為
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But not so fast快速 --
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because the other fight鬥爭 we're dealing交易 with
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我們在處理的另一個爭論,
05:16
is noncompliant不合規 and nonresponsive無回應
third-party第三方 internet互聯網 companies公司.
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是那些不服從且不回應的
第三方網路公司。
05:21
And oh -- by the way,
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喔——順便一提,
05:22
even in consenting同意 relationships關係,
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即使是在同意的關係中,
05:24
just because you get
a nude裸體 photo照片 or a naked picPIC,
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你取得了一張裸照或裸圖,
05:28
does not give you the right to share分享 it,
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也不表示你有權分享它,
05:31
even [without] the intent意圖 to do harm危害.
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即使你並沒有任何傷害人的意圖。
05:34
Back to my case案件,
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回到我的案例,
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which哪一個 happens發生 to be further進一步 complicated複雜
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它剛好又更複雜,
05:37
because he was stalking盯梢 and harassing騷擾 me
from another另一個 country國家,
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因為他是從另一個國家
跟蹤和騷擾我,
05:40
making製造 it nearly幾乎 impossible不可能
to get help here.
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我在這裡幾乎是不可能得到協助。
05:45
But wait a minute分鐘 --
isn't the internet互聯網 international國際?
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但,等一下——
網路不是國際的嗎?
05:48
Shouldn't不能 we have
some sort分類 of policy政策 in place地點
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我們難道沒有已經實施的政策
05:50
that broadly寬廣地 protects保護 us,
regardless而不管 to borders國界 or restrictions限制?
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可以廣泛地保護我們,
跨越國界或不受限制?
05:55
I just couldncouldn’t give up;
I had to keep fighting戰鬥.
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我就是無法放棄;
我得要繼續奮鬥。
05:59
So I willingly甘心, on three occasions場合,
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所以,我出於自願,在三個場合,
06:02
allowed允許 for the invasion侵入
of both my cell細胞 phone電話 and my laptop筆記本電腦
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允許國土安全部以及牙買加大使館
06:07
by the Department of Homeland家園 Security安全
and the Jamaican牙買加 Embassy大使館
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侵入我的手機和筆記型電腦,
06:11
for thorough徹底 forensic法庭的 investigation調查,
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以做徹底的鑑識調查,
06:13
because I had maintained保持
all of the evidence證據.
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因為我還保有所有的證據。
06:17
I painstakingly精心 shared共享 my private私人的 parts部分
with the all-male所有男性 investigative研究 team球隊.
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我很難過地將我的私密處
分享給全是男性的調查團隊。
06:23
And it was an embarrassing尷尬, humiliating羞辱
additional額外 hoop to jump through通過.
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我又承受了這羞辱
又尷尬的額外磨難。
06:29
But then something happened發生.
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但接著,有影響產生了。
06:31
Jamaican牙買加 authorities當局
actually其實 arrested被捕 him.
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牙買加當權機關真的逮捕了他。
06:35
He's now facing面對 charges收費
under their malicious惡毒 communications通訊 act法案,
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他現在要面臨違反該國
惡意溝通法的指控,
06:40
and if found發現 guilty有罪, could face面對
thousands數千 of dollars美元 in fines罰款
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若被判有罪,可能會被
處以數千美元的罰金,
06:44
and up to 10 years年份 in prison監獄.
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以及最高十年有期徒刑。
06:46
And I've also learned學到了 that my case案件
is making製造 history歷史 --
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我也得知,我的案例
創造了歷史——
06:49
it is the first international國際 case案件
under this new crime犯罪.
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它是這種新型犯罪的
第一個國際案例。
06:54
Wow, finally最後 some justice正義.
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哇,終於,正義伸張了。
06:58
But this got me to thinking思維.
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但這讓我做了些思考。
07:00
Nobody沒有人 deserves值得 this.
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沒有人應該承受這種事。
07:02
Nobody沒有人 deserves值得 this level水平 of humiliation屈辱
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沒有人應該受到這種程度的羞辱、
07:06
and having to jump through通過
all of these hoops.
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走過這麼多磨難。
07:10
Our cyber網絡 civil國內 rights權利 are at stake賭注.
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我們的網路公民權利
正在危急關頭。
07:14
Here in the United聯合的 States狀態,
we need to have clear明確, tough強硬 enforcement強制;
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在美國這裡,我們需要
清楚、強硬的執行;
07:19
we need to demand需求 the accountability問責
and responsiveness響應 from online線上 companies公司;
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我們需要要求線上公司
負責任並做出回應;
07:24
we need to promote促進 social社會 responsibilities責任
for posting發帖, sharing分享 and texting發短信;
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我們需要推動張貼、分享,
和發送訊息的社會責任;
07:28
and we need to restore恢復 dignity尊嚴 to victims受害者.
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我們需要把尊嚴還給受害者。
07:33
And what about victims受害者
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還有一些受害者,
07:36
who neither也不 have the time,
money or resources資源 to wage工資 war戰爭,
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沒有時間、金錢,或資源
來打戰,他們該怎麼辦?
07:39
who are left disempowered剝奪權力,
mislabeled貼錯標籤 and broken破碎?
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他們落得無能為力,被貼上
錯誤的標籤,陷入沮喪當中。
07:44
Two things:
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兩件事:
07:46
release發布 the shame恥辱 and end結束 the silence安靜.
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放下羞恥,終結沉默。
07:50
Shame恥辱 is at the core核心 of all of this.
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這一切的核心就是羞恥。
07:53
And for every一切 silent無聲 prisoner囚犯 of shame恥辱,
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對羞恥的所有沉默囚犯來說,
07:56
it's the fear恐懼 of judgment判斷
that's holding保持 you hostage人質.
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挾持他們的正是對於被評斷的恐懼。
08:00
And the price價錢 to pay工資
is the stripping剝離 away of your self-worth自我價值.
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要付出的代價,
是剝去你的自我價值。
08:05
The day I ended結束 my silence安靜,
I freed釋放 myself from shame恥辱.
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我終結沉默的那一天,
就讓我不再受羞恥的擺佈。
08:09
And I freed釋放 myself
from the fear恐懼 of judgment判斷
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我不再害怕被他人評斷,
08:12
from the one person who I thought
would judge法官 me the most --
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包括我認為最會
評斷我的那個人——
我兒子,
08:16
my son兒子,
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08:17
who actually其實 told me,
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結果他卻告訴我:
08:19
"Mom媽媽, you are the strongest最強
person that I know.
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「媽,你是我所認識最堅強的人。
08:24
You can get through通過 this.
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你能渡過這件事的。
08:26
And besides除了, mom媽媽 -- he chose選擇
the wrong錯誤 woman女人 to mess食堂 with."
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此外,媽——他惹錯女人了。」
08:31
(Laughter笑聲)
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(笑聲)
08:32
(Applause掌聲)
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(掌聲)
08:37
It was on that day that I decided決定
to use my platform平台
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在那一天,我決定運用我的平台、
08:41
and my story故事 and my voice語音.
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我的故事,和我的聲音。
08:44
And to get started開始, I asked myself
this one simple簡單 question:
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一開始,我先問我自己
一個簡單的問題:
08:48
Who do I need to become成為 now?
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我現在需要變成誰?
08:50
That question, in the face面對 of everything
that I was challenged挑戰 with,
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在面對我受到挑戰的
一切時,那個問題
08:54
transformed改造 my life and had me thinking思維
about all kinds of possibilities可能性.
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轉變了我的人生,
讓我去思考各種可能性。
08:59
I now own擁有 my story故事, I speak說話 my truth真相,
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現在,我承認我的故事,
我說出我的真相,
09:02
and I'm narrating話外音
a new chapter章節 in my life.
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我在講述我人生的新篇章。
09:05
It's called "50 Shades色調 of Silence安靜."
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它叫做「沉默的五十道陰影」。
09:08
It's a global全球 social社會 justice正義 project項目,
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它是一項全球性的社會正義計畫,
09:11
and we're working加工 to film電影
an upcoming即將到來 documentary記錄
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我們正在拍攝
一部即將問世的紀錄片,
09:13
to give voice語音 and dignity尊嚴 to victims受害者.
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將聲音和尊嚴還給受害者。
09:16
If you are a victim受害者 or you know
someone有人 who is, know this:
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如果你是受害者或者你認識
任何受害者,請記住:
09:21
in order訂購 to be empowered授權,
you have to take care關心 of yourself你自己,
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若想要有能力做點什麼,
你得要能照顧好你自己,
09:24
and you have to love yourself你自己.
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你得要愛你自己。
09:26
You have to turn your anger憤怒 into action行動,
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你得要把你的憤怒轉為行動,
09:29
your pain疼痛 into power功率
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把你的痛苦轉為力量,
09:30
and your setback挫折 into a setup建立
for what's next下一個 for your life.
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把你的挫折轉為
未來人生境遇的準備。
09:36
This is a process處理, and it's a journey旅程
of self-discovery自我發現
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這是一個過程,
是一段自我發現的旅程,
09:40
that might威力 include包括 forgiveness饒恕.
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它可能會需要有寬恕。
09:42
But it definitely無疑 requires要求 bravery,
confidence置信度 and conviction定罪.
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但它肯定會需要
勇氣、信心,和信念。
09:48
I call it:
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我稱它為:
09:49
finding發現 your everyday每天 courage勇氣.
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找到你每天日常的勇氣。
09:54
Thank you.
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謝謝。
09:55
(Applause掌聲)
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(掌聲)
Translated by Lilian Chiu
Reviewed by Nan-Kun Wu

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Darieth Chisolm - Journalist, activist
Darieth Chisolm is an Emmy-winning television personality, former NBC News Anchor, entrepreneur, author, international speaker and life and business coach.

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Darieth Chisolm works with corporate professionals, coaches, authors, speakers and visionaries to develop visibility and multimedia strategies that build brand, influence and income. She leverages her life coaching skills to help victims and survivors of assault and abuse release the shame, live with confidence and find their everyday courage. 

Chisolm is also a revenge porn victim turned activist, filmmaker and founder of 50 Shades of Silence, a global movement giving voice and dignity to victims of cyber harassment and abuse. The project aims to advocate for stricter laws and tougher enforcement for cyber sexual crimes; encourage the accountability and responsiveness among online companies; promote social responsibility for texting, posting and sharing online; and restore dignity and respect to victims and survivors. It includes an upcoming feature-length documentary, a website with resources and services, and motivational and empowerment training materials to help victims.

Chisolm is currently the host of CBS's Eye on Health and PBS's Emmy-winning iQ: smartparent. Her YouTube channel and online video podcast series, Hustle & Heart TV, was a top 10 finalist for the 2015 Podcast Awards for Best Video Podcast and was ranked number one on iTunes for more than two months with subscribers and viewers in multiple countries.

Chisolm is also the author of Hustle! Why Now is the Time to Unleash your Passions, a collection of powerful and motivating stories to help readers unlock and unleash their passions and learn how to hustle in business while loving life in the process. She is also a contributing writer for Inspiring Lives and Woman of More magazines.

Chisolm received the 2018 Woman of Influence Award from the Pittsburgh Business Times and has been named Top 10 Trailblazers in Communications by Walker’s Legacy and nominated as Entrepreneur of the Year with Style Week in Pittsburgh. She has received two proclamations from the City of Pittsburgh, two proclamations from Allegheny County and a special recognition from the Senate of Pennsylvania for making an outstanding difference and profound impact in Pittsburgh.

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