ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Kelli Swazey - Anthropologist
Kelli Swazey examines how religious and spiritual practices form group identity, and play a vital role in structuring the interactions of individuals within a culture.

Why you should listen

Kelli Swazey is fascinated by two big questions: how do we know who we are, and how does our identity shape interactions with others? As a cultural anthropologist, Swazey has explored these ideas by researching how religion, spirituality and politics define society in Indonesia, where she has lived for more than 10 years. Swazey is currently a lecturer at the Center for Cross-Cultural and Religious Studies at Gadjah Mada University.

In her research, Swazey has looked at Christian-Muslim relations in North Sulawesi, documented Indonesian church services in New England and taken an interest in the funeral practices in Tana Toraja, located in eastern Indonesia. Her husband is an ethnic Torajan, and Swazey found herself fascinated by his stories of playing with his grandfather long after he was dead. Examinging the way Torajans make death a unique part of village life has deeply influenced her own thoughts on the end of life, she says. This is why she loves anthropology: because thinking about human difference has the power to teach us about ourselves.

Swazey has also embarked on an unusual cultural tour of Indonesia: she is learning to sing a song from every province.

Watch Swazey's TEDxUbud 2018 talk here

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Kelli Swazey: Life that doesn't end with death

凯里·施瓦泽: 生命并不因死亡终止

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在托雅,婚礼和分娩并不是使社会交织在一起的社会集会。在这个印度尼西亚的一部分,盛大以及喧闹的葬礼组成了社会生活的中心。人类学家凯里·施瓦泽介绍说,在这种文化中,逝去亲戚的尸体在死亡之后很多年被家人亲切照顾。对于西方对于死亡的敏感性来说,这听起来很奇怪,她说,这实际上是对于与挚爱的关系并不随着呼吸的停止而终止事实的真实体现。
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Kelli Swazey examines how religious and spiritual practices form group identity, and play a vital role in structuring the interactions of individuals within a culture. Full bio

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I think it's safe安全 to say
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that all humans人类 will be intimate亲密 with death死亡
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每个人的一生中
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at least最小 once一旦 in their lives生活.
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都至少会有一次与死神亲密接触。
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But what if that intimacy亲密关系 began开始
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但是如果这种与死神的接触
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long before you faced面对 your own拥有 transition过渡
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远远早于
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from life into death死亡?
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你原本面临的由生到死的转换,该怎么办?
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What would life be like
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如果死亡就在你的身边
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if the dead literally按照字面 lived生活 alongside并肩 you?
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你的生活会变成什么样?
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In my husband's丈夫 homeland家园
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我丈夫的家乡,
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in the highlands高地 of Sulawesi苏拉威西 island
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在印度尼西亚东部的
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in eastern Indonesia印度尼西亚,
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苏拉威西岛高地上,
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there is a community社区 of people that experience经验 death死亡
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有一些人,死亡对于他们来说
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not as a singular单数 event事件
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不是一个孤立事件,
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but as a gradual social社会 process处理.
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而是一个逐步发生的社会进程。
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In Tana塔纳 Toraja托拉雅,
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在塔纳·托拉雅(Tana Toraja),
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the most important重要 social社会 moments瞬间 in people's人们 lives生活,
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人们生活中最重要的社交活动,
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the focal points of social社会 and cultural文化 interaction相互作用
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社会、文化的关注焦点
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are not weddings婚礼 or births出生 or even family家庭 dinners晚餐,
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不是在结婚、生孩子甚至家庭晚餐上,
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but funerals葬礼.
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而是在葬礼上。
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So these funerals葬礼 are characterized特征
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所以这些葬礼
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by elaborate阐述 rituals仪式
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具有复杂的仪式,
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that tie领带 people in a system系统 of reciprocal倒数 debt债务
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在一个基于动物数量的礼尚往来的体系中
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based基于 on the amount of animals动物 --
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将人们紧密联系--
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pigs, chickens and, most importantly重要的, water buffalo水牛 --
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例如:猪、鸡以及最重要的水牛 --
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that are sacrificed牺牲 and distributed分散式
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这些动物会被宰杀
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in the name名称 of the deceased死者.
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然后祭奠在死者的名下。
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So this cultural文化 complex复杂 surrounding周围 death死亡,
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所以这种围绕着“死”的文化情结,
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the ritual仪式 enactment设定 of the end结束 of life,
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这一代表生命结束的仪式,
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has made制作 death死亡 the most visible可见
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让葬礼成为托拉雅
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and remarkable卓越 aspect方面 of Toraja's托拉雅的 landscape景观.
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最引人注目的、最了不起的一道风景。
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Lasting持久 anywhere随地 from a few少数 days
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葬礼会持续几天
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to a few少数 weeks,
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到几周不等,
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funeral葬礼 ceremonies仪式 are a raucous沙哑 affair事务,
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葬礼是一个热闹的事儿。
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where commemorating纪念 someone有人 who's谁是 died死亡
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在人们祭奠的时候
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is not so much a private私人的 sadness
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不会有太多的个人悲伤
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but more of a publicly公然 shared共享 transition过渡.
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而更多的是公众的情感过渡。
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And it's a transition过渡 that's just as much
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这个过渡的重要性
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about the identity身分 of the living活的
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对生者来说
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as it is about remembrance纪念 of the dead.
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是和缅怀死者一样重要。
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So every一切 year, thousands数千 of visitors游客
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所以每年都会有成千上万的游客
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come to Tana塔纳 Toraja托拉雅 to see, as it were,
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去塔纳托拉雅看
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this culture文化 of death死亡,
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这种关于“死”的文化。
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and for many许多 people these grandiose雄伟 ceremonies仪式
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对于很多人来说,这些宏伟的仪式
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and the length长度 of the ceremonies仪式
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以及仪式持续的时间
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are somehow不知何故 incommensurable不可通约的
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是无法与
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with the way that we face面对 our own拥有 mortality死亡 in the West西.
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我们西方面对死亡的方法而比较的。
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So even as we share分享 death死亡 as a universal普遍 experience经验,
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虽然全世界的人们都会经历死亡,
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it's not experienced有经验的 the same相同 way the world世界 over.
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但是世人们经历死亡的方式不尽相同。
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And as an anthropologist人类学家,
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作为一名人类学家,
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I see these differences分歧 in experience经验
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我认为这些不尽相同的经历
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being存在 rooted in the cultural文化 and social社会 world世界
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根源于不同的文化和社会
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through通过 which哪一个 we define确定 the phenomena现象 around us.
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并成为我们判断周遭现象的依据。
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So where we see an unquestionable不容置疑 reality现实,
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所以我们看到的是一个不容置疑的现实,
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death死亡 as an irrefutable确凿 biological生物 condition条件,
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即死亡是一个不逆的生命状态,
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TorajansTorajans see the expired过期 corporeal肉体的 form形成
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而托拉雅人将这种肉体的死亡
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as part部分 of a larger social社会 genesis创世纪.
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更多的看作社会起源的一部分。
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So again, the physical物理 cessation戒烟 of life
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所以物理上生命的尽头
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is not the same相同 as death死亡.
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并不等同于死亡。
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In fact事实, a member会员 of society社会 is only truly dead
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事实上,一个人真正意义上的死亡
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when the extended扩展 family家庭 can agree同意 upon
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是当大家庭达成一致
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and marshal元帅 the resources资源 necessary必要
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以及准备好一切举行葬礼
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to hold保持 a funeral葬礼 ceremony仪式
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所需的资源。
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that is considered考虑 appropriate适当 in terms条款 of resources资源
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这些资源的准备
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for the status状态 of the deceased死者.
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要与死者的地位相匹配。
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And this ceremony仪式 has to take place地点
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整个葬礼仪式会在全村
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in front面前 of the eyes眼睛 of the whole整个 community社区
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当着所有人的面举行
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with everyone's大家的 participation参与.
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每个人都是其中的一份子。
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So after a person's人的 physical物理 death死亡,
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所以在一个人肉体死亡后,
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their body身体 is placed放置 in a special特别 room房间
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他的尸体会放在他们传统居住地的一个特别房间里,
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in the traditional传统 residence住宅, which哪一个 is called the tongkonantongkonan.
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这种房间叫做 tongkonan。
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And the tongkonantongkonan is symbolic象征
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Tongkonan 是一个象征意义,
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not only of the family's家庭的 identity身分
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它不只代表着家族的的身份
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but also of the human人的 life cycle周期 from birth分娩 to death死亡.
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也代表了一个人生死轮回。
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So essentially实质上, the shape形状 of the building建造
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所以基本上,你出生时
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that you're born天生 into is the shape形状
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所居住的建筑形状就是
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of the structure结构体 which哪一个 carries携带 you
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与你被带着去先祖安息的地方的
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to your ancestral resting休息 place地点.
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棺材的形状一致。
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Until直到 the funeral葬礼 ceremony仪式,
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直到葬礼仪式,
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which哪一个 can be held保持 years年份 after a person's人的 physical物理 death死亡,
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仪式可以在一个人肉体死亡多年以后举行
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the deceased死者 is referred简称 to as "to makala马卡拉," a sick生病 person,
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死者被称为 “to makala”,一个生病的人,
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or "to mama妈妈," a person who is asleep睡着,
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或"to mama",一个睡着了的人,
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and they continue继续 to be a member会员 of the household家庭.
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他们还会作为整个家庭的一份子。
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They are symbolically象征 fed美联储 and cared照顾 for,
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他们被象征性地喂养和照顾,
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and the family家庭 at this time
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然后家族会在这时候
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will begin开始 a number of ritual仪式 injunctions禁令,
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将实行一些仪式上的指令,
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which哪一个 communicates相通 to the wider更宽的 community社区 around them
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告知社区里更多的人
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that one of their members会员 is undergoing经历 the transition过渡
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他们的一个成员正在经历“轮回”
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from this life into the afterlife来世
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从生到来世
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known已知 as Puya普亚.
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这被叫做"Puya"。
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So I know what some of you must必须 be thinking思维 right now.
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所以我知道你们其中有人一定在想,
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Is she really saying that these people live生活
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她说的是真的吗,
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with the bodies身体 of their dead relatives亲戚们?
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这些人与他们的亲人的尸体住在一起?
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And that's exactly究竟 what I'm saying.
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而这正是我的意思。
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But instead代替 of giving in to the sort分类 of visceral内脏 reaction反应
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但我没有屈服于这种一想到
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we have to this idea理念 of proximity接近 to bodies身体,
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接近尸体或接近死亡
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proximity接近 to death死亡,
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就产生的五脏六腑的不适感,
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or how this notion概念 just does not fit适合
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也没有去想这个概念根本不适用于
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into our very biological生物 or medical
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我们生物或医学
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sort分类 of definition定义 of death死亡,
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对于死亡的的定义,
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I like to think about what the TorajanTorajan way
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我总是喜欢思考托拉雅人看待死亡的方式
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of viewing观看 death死亡 encompasses包括 of the human人的 experience经验
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涵盖了哪些医学定义的死亡
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that the medical definition定义 leaves树叶 out.
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所忽略的人类体验。
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I think that TorajansTorajans socially社交上 recognize认识
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我认为托拉雅人在社会上认同了
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and culturally文化 express表现
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并在文化上表达了
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what many许多 of us feel to be true真正
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大多数人感知的真理,
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despite尽管 the widespread广泛 acceptance验收
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尽管生物医学所定义的死亡
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of the biomedical生物医药 definition定义 of death死亡,
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被普遍接受。
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and that is that our relationships关系 with other humans人类,
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这种真理就是我们与其他人类之间的关联,
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their impact碰撞 on our social社会 reality现实,
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这种关系对社会现实的影响,
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doesn't cease停止 with the termination终止
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并不会随着
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of the physical物理 processes流程 of the body身体,
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身体物理性的死亡而终止,
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that there's a period of transition过渡
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活着的人和死亡的人之间的关系
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as the relationship关系 between之间 the living活的 and the dead
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有一段过渡期
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is transformed改造 but not ended结束.
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是被改变而不是被结束。
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So TorajansTorajans express表现 this idea理念 of this enduring持久 relationship关系
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所以托拉雅人通过将爱和关注
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by lavishing挥霍浪费 love and attention注意
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给予这个关系中最明显的标志
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on the most visible可见 symbol符号 of that relationship关系,
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即人的身体
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the human人的 body身体.
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来表达出这种长久的关系。
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So my husband丈夫 has fond喜欢 memories回忆
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所以我丈夫曾经跟他已故的祖父
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of talking to and playing播放 with
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交谈过、玩耍过,
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and generally通常 being存在 around his deceased死者 grandfather祖父,
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有着美好的回忆,
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and for him there is nothing unnatural不自然 about this.
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而且在他看来是一件很自然的事情。
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This is a natural自然 part部分 of the process处理
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这是家庭接受他们
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as the family家庭 comes to terms条款 with the transition过渡
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与死者之间关系过渡的
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in their relationship关系 to the deceased死者,
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自然而然的一步。
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and this is the transition过渡 from relating有关 to the deceased死者
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这种过渡就是,
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as a person who's谁是 living活的
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从与死者生前的联系
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to relating有关 to the deceased死者
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变为把死者
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as a person who's谁是 an ancestor祖先.
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作为祖先的一员看待。
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And here you can see these wooden effigies肖像
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在这里你可以看到这些祖先的
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of the ancestors祖先,
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木制的肖像,
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so these are people who have already已经 been buried隐藏,
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所以这些人已经被埋葬,
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already已经 had a funeral葬礼 ceremony仪式.
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已经有过葬礼仪式。
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These are called tau牛头 tau牛头.
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这些叫做tau tau。
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So the funeral葬礼 ceremony仪式 itself本身
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所以葬礼仪式本身
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embodies体现 this relational相关的 perspective透视 on death死亡.
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体现了从社会关系的角度看待死亡。
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It ritualizes仪式化 the impact碰撞 of death死亡 on families家庭
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它使死亡对于家庭和社区的影响
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and communities社区.
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仪式化。
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And it's also a moment时刻 of self-awareness自我意识.
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它也是一个自我意识的时刻。
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It's a moment时刻 when people think about who they are,
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根据托拉雅人的宇宙哲学,
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their place地点 in society社会,
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在这个时刻,人们思考他们的身份,
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and their role角色 in the life cycle周期
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他们在社会中的地位,
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in accordance按照 with TorajanTorajan cosmology宇宙学.
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以及他们在生命周期中的角色。
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There's a saying in Toraja托拉雅
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在托拉雅有一句谚语
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that all people will become成为 grandparents祖父母,
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那就是“所有人都将成为祖父母”,
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and what this means手段 is that after death死亡,
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这意味着在死后,
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we all become成为 part部分 of the ancestral line线
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我们都成为祖先的一部分
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that anchors us between之间 the past过去 and the present当下
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将我们定位在过去和现在之间
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and will define确定 who our loved喜爱 ones那些 are into the future未来.
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也将我们的挚爱是谁定义到未来。
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So essentially实质上, we all become成为 grandparents祖父母
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所以从根本上说,
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to the generations of human人的 children孩子
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对于我们的下一代
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that come after us.
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我们都会成为祖父母。
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And this metaphor隐喻 of membership
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相当于说,我们都是
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in the greater更大 human人的 family家庭
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更大的人类大家庭中的成员。
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is the way that children孩子 also describe描述
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这种比喻通常也被儿女们用来形容
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the money that they invest投资
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他们在这些祭祀水牛上
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in these sacrificial牺牲 buffaloes水牛
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投资的钱
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that are thought to carry携带 people's人们 soul灵魂
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这些水牛被认为携带着人的灵魂
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from here to the afterlife来世,
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从这里到来世。
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and children孩子 will explain说明
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子女会解释说,
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that they will invest投资 the money in this
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他们将这些钱投资在这
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because they want to repay偿还 their parents父母
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因为他们想要报答他们的父母
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the debt债务 for all of the years年份 their parents父母 spent花费
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这是孩子们在其父母投资、养育他们时
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investing投资 and caring爱心 for them.
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所欠下的债。
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But the sacrifice牺牲 of buffalo水牛
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但祭祀的水牛
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and the ritual仪式 display显示 of wealth财富
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和展示财富的仪式
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also exhibits展品 the status状态 of the deceased死者,
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同样代表着死者的社会地位,
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and, by extension延期, the deceased's死者 family家庭.
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也同样引申至死者家庭的社会地位。
08:39
So at funerals葬礼, relationships关系 are reconfirmed再次确认
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所以在葬礼上,关系再次被确认
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but also transformed改造
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也同样被改变
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in a ritual仪式 drama戏剧 that highlights强调
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在一种仪式的戏剧中强调了
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the most salient突出的 feature特征 about death死亡 in this place地点:
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这个地方关于死亡最突出的特点:
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its impact碰撞 on life and the relationships关系 of the living活的.
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死亡对生命、对生者之间关系的影响。
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So all of this focus焦点 on death死亡
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因此,所有对死亡的关注
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doesn't mean that TorajansTorajans don't aspire立志
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并不意味着托拉雅人
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to the ideal理想 of a long life.
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不渴望长寿。
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They engage从事 in many许多 practices做法
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他们进行各种锻炼
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thought to confer授予 good health健康
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认为这些有利于健康
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and survival生存 to an advanced高级 age年龄.
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和长寿。
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But they don't put much stock股票
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但他们并不相信
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in efforts努力 to prolong延长 life in the face面对 of debilitating衰弱 illness疾病
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在面对疾病和衰老的时候
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or in old age年龄.
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能有办法延年益寿。
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It's said in Toraja托拉雅 that everybody每个人 has
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听说在托拉雅
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sort分类 of a predetermined预定 amount of life.
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每人都有预定的生命时间。
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It's called the sunga'sunga”.
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它叫做sunga。
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And like a thread线, it should be allowed允许 to unspool退绕
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就像一根线,它从一头拉到另一头
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to its natural自然 end结束.
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直到自然终止。
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So by having death死亡 as a part部分
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所以,死亡作为
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of the cultural文化 and social社会 fabric of life,
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文化和社会生活结构的一部分,
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people's人们 everyday每天 decisions决定 about their health健康
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使得人们对于他们健康和医疗服务的
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and healthcare卫生保健 are affected受影响.
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日常抉择也被影响。
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The patriarch家长 of my husband's丈夫 maternal母系 clan氏族,
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我丈夫母系氏族的族长
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NenetNenet Katcha卡查,
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他叫Nenet Katcha,
09:53
is now approaching接近 the age年龄 of 100, as far as we can tell.
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据我们所知,已接近 100 岁的高龄。
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And there are increasing增加 signs迹象
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有越来越多的迹象表明
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that he is about to depart离开 on his own拥有 journey旅程 for Puya普亚.
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他正在向迈向死亡的路途中。
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And his death死亡 will be greatly非常 mourned哀悼.
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他的死亡会引发强烈的哀悼。
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But I know that my husband's丈夫 family家庭
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但我知道我丈夫的家族
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looks容貌 forward前锋 to the moment时刻
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期待着这个时刻
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when they can ritually仪式 display显示
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因为那时他们就可以用仪式展示
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what his remarkable卓越 presence存在 has meant意味着 to their lives生活,
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他卓越的成就对他们生活的意义
10:23
when they can ritually仪式 recount叙事
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他们可以用仪式来记录
10:25
his life's人生 narrative叙述,
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他的生活故事,
10:27
weaving织布 his story故事
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使他的故事编入
10:28
into the history历史 of their community社区.
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他们社区的历史。
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His story故事 is their story故事.
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他的故事就是他们的故事。
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His funeral葬礼 songs歌曲 will sing them a song歌曲 about themselves他们自己.
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他的葬礼之歌也是他们的颂扬之歌。
10:42
And it's a story故事 that has no discernible可识别的 beginning开始,
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这个故事没有明显开端
10:46
no foreseeable可预见的 end结束.
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也没有可预见的结束。
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It's a story故事 that goes on
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这是一个在他的身体腐朽之后,
10:50
long after his body身体 no longer does.
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一直延续的故事。
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People ask me if I'm frightened受惊 or repulsed击退
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人们问我,参与到这种文化中
10:59
by participating参与 in a culture文化
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是否害怕或不情愿
11:02
where the physical物理 manifestations表现 of death死亡
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因为这其中处处都感到
11:05
greet迎接 us at every一切 turn.
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逝者就在你周围。
11:07
But I see something profoundly深深 transformative变革
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但我看到一些深刻变革
11:10
in experiencing经历 death死亡 as a social社会 process处理
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是将经历死亡作为一个社会进程
11:13
and not just a biological生物 one.
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而不是一种生物进程。
11:17
In reality现实, the relationship关系 between之间 the living活的 and the dead
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在实际中,活人和死人之间的关系
11:21
has its own拥有 drama戏剧 in the U.S. healthcare卫生保健 system系统,
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在美国医疗保健系统中有它自己的戏剧性,
11:24
where decisions决定 about how long to stretch伸展
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在决定到底将生命这根线拉多长时
11:26
the thread线 of life are made制作 based基于 on our emotional情绪化
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是根据我们的情感
11:30
and social社会 ties联系 with the people around us,
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和与我们周围人的社会纽带,
11:32
not just on medicine's医学的 ability能力 to prolong延长 life.
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不只是基于医学延长生命的能力。
11:37
We, like the TorajansTorajans,
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我们如托拉雅人一样
11:40
base基础 our decisions决定 about life
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将生命中的决定
11:43
on the meanings含义 and the definitions定义
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基于我们赋予死亡的
11:47
that we ascribe归咎于 to death死亡.
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意义和定义。
11:49
So I'm not suggesting提示 that anyone任何人 in this audience听众
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所以我不是建议在座的所有人
11:52
should run out and adopt采用 the traditions传统
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放弃美国的医疗保健
11:55
of the TorajansTorajans.
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而采取托拉雅人的传统。
11:56
It might威力 be a little bit difficult
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要将托拉雅模式在美国应用
11:58
to put into play in the United联合的 States状态.
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可能会有点困难。
12:01
But I want to ask what we can gain获得
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但我想问,当我们将死亡不仅看做一个生物的过程
12:03
from seeing眼看 physical物理 death死亡 not only as a biological生物 process处理
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而看做更广阔的人类历史的一部分
12:08
but as part部分 of the greater更大 human人的 story故事.
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能收获什么?
12:12
What would it be like to look on
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当我们真情地看着死者的身体
12:15
the expired过期 human人的 form形成 with love
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而那曾是我们生命中不可或缺的一部分
12:18
because it's so intimately密切 a part部分 of who we all are?
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会是一种什么感觉?
12:22
If we could expand扩大 our definition定义 of death死亡
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如果我们可以扩展我们对死亡的定义
12:25
to encompass环绕 life,
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以涵盖生活,
12:27
we could experience经验 death死亡 as part部分 of life
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我们可能会体会到将死亡作为生活的一部分
12:31
and perhaps也许 face面对 death死亡
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面对死亡时绝非恐惧
12:33
with something other than fear恐惧.
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而是其他的感觉。
12:38
Perhaps也许 one of the answers答案 to the challenges挑战
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美国医疗保健系统
12:41
that are facing面对 the U.S. healthcare卫生保健 system系统,
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正面临挑战,特别是对于老年医保。
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particularly尤其 in the end-of-life生命尽头 care关心,
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一个可能的解决方法
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is as simple简单 as a shift转移 in perspective透视,
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就是转变看它的角度。
12:49
and the shift转移 in perspective透视 in this case案件
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而在这个例子中的转变
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would be to look at the social社会 life of every一切 death死亡.
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就是去看看逝者的社会生活。
12:57
It might威力 help us recognize认识 that the way we limit限制
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它可以帮助我们认识到
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our conversation会话 about death死亡
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我们讨论死亡时
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to something that's medical or biological生物
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总是局限于医学性、生物性
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is reflective反光 of a larger culture文化 that we all share分享
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这反映了我们都是如何
13:09
of avoiding避免 death死亡, being存在 afraid害怕 of talking about it.
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避免死亡,害怕谈论它。
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If we could entertain招待 and value
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如果我们能够接纳和重视
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other kinds of knowledge知识 about life,
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关于生命的其他知识
13:22
including包含 other definitions定义 of death死亡,
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包括对死亡的其他定义,
13:25
it has the potential潜在 to change更改 the discussions讨论
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它才有可能改变
13:28
that we have about the end结束 of life.
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我们关于生命终结的讨论。
13:31
It could change更改 the way that we die,
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它可以改变我们死亡的方式,
13:35
but more importantly重要的,
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但更重要的是,
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it could transform转变 the way that we live生活.
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它可以改变我们生活的方式。
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Translated by Sophia Liu
Reviewed by Daisy Hong

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Kelli Swazey - Anthropologist
Kelli Swazey examines how religious and spiritual practices form group identity, and play a vital role in structuring the interactions of individuals within a culture.

Why you should listen

Kelli Swazey is fascinated by two big questions: how do we know who we are, and how does our identity shape interactions with others? As a cultural anthropologist, Swazey has explored these ideas by researching how religion, spirituality and politics define society in Indonesia, where she has lived for more than 10 years. Swazey is currently a lecturer at the Center for Cross-Cultural and Religious Studies at Gadjah Mada University.

In her research, Swazey has looked at Christian-Muslim relations in North Sulawesi, documented Indonesian church services in New England and taken an interest in the funeral practices in Tana Toraja, located in eastern Indonesia. Her husband is an ethnic Torajan, and Swazey found herself fascinated by his stories of playing with his grandfather long after he was dead. Examinging the way Torajans make death a unique part of village life has deeply influenced her own thoughts on the end of life, she says. This is why she loves anthropology: because thinking about human difference has the power to teach us about ourselves.

Swazey has also embarked on an unusual cultural tour of Indonesia: she is learning to sing a song from every province.

Watch Swazey's TEDxUbud 2018 talk here

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