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Immersing himself in alternate lifestyles and long, hilarious experiments (usually with himself the guinea pig), writer AJ Jacobs tests the limits of behavior, customs, culture, knowledge -- and his wife's sense of humor.

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AJ Jacobs' writings stand at the intersection of philosophy, Gonzo journalism and performance art. Stubbornly curious and slyly perceptive, he takes immersive learning to its irrational and profoundly amusing extreme -- extracting wisdom and meaning after long stints as a self-styled guinea pig. For his widely circulated Esquire article "My Outsourced Life," he explored the phenomenon of outsourcing by hiring a team in Bangalore to take care of every part of his life -- from reading his emails to arguing with his wife to reading bedtime stories to his own son. A previous article, "I Think You're Fat," chronicled a brief, cringe-inducing attempt to live his life in Radical Honesty, telling all the truth, all the time.

Jacobs is author of The Know-It-All, which documents the year he spent reading the Encyclopedia Britannica from A to Z, uncovering both funny and surprising factoids but also poignant insight into history and human nature. In 2007 he released The Year of Living Biblically, in which he attempted to follow every single rule in the Bible as literally as possible for an entire year. His recent book The Guinea Pig Diaries: My Life as an Experiment is a collection of numerous personal experiments. including living according to George Washington's rules of conduct, outsourcing every single task to India, and posing as a woman on an online dating site. 

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AJ Jacobs: My journey to thank all the people responsible for my morning coffee

AJ·雅各布斯: 感谢咖啡贡献者之旅

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作家 AJ · 雅各布斯怀着一个看似简单的想法开始了他的探索之旅:亲自感谢每一个帮助他做早晨咖啡的人。在一千多句“谢谢”之后,雅各布斯回顾了他的环球旅行,并分享了他在旅途中收获的改变人生的智慧。雅各布斯说:“我发现,如果没有几百个我认为理所应当各司其职的人,我就喝不上我的咖啡。”
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Immersing himself in alternate lifestyles and long, hilarious experiments (usually with himself the guinea pig), writer AJ Jacobs tests the limits of behavior, customs, culture, knowledge -- and his wife's sense of humor. Full bio

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00:12
So, I don't like to boast,
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我不喜欢自吹自擂,
00:15
but I am very good at finding发现 things
to be annoyed懊恼 about.
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但我非常擅长发现
令人烦恼的东西。
00:21
It is a real真实 specialty专业 of mine.
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我对此非常在行。
00:23
I can hear 100 compliments赞美
and a single insult侮辱,
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在听到 100 句赞美和 1 句侮辱后,
00:27
and what do I remember记得?
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我会记住什么?
00:28
The insult侮辱.
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那句侮辱。
00:30
And according根据 to
the research研究, I'm not alone单独.
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研究表明,不是只有我一个人这样。
00:32
Unfortunately不幸, the human人的 brain
is wired有线 to focus焦点 on the negative.
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不幸的是,人类大脑天生就会
关注消极的事情。
00:38
Now, this might威力 have been helpful有帮助
when we were cave洞穴 people,
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当我们居住在洞穴时,
这可能会帮助
00:41
trying to avoid避免 predators大鳄,
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我们躲开捕食者,
00:43
but now it's a terrible可怕 way
to go through通过 life.
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但如今这却是很糟糕的生活方式。
00:46
It is a real真实 major重大的 component零件
of anxiety焦虑 and depression萧条.
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它是焦虑和抑郁的主要组成部分。
00:52
So how can we fight斗争
the brain's大脑的 negative bias偏压?
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那我们如何跟大脑
的负面偏见做斗争呢?
00:57
According根据 to a lot of research研究,
one of the best最好 weapons武器 is gratitude感谢.
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大量的研究认为,
最好的武器之一是感恩。
01:03
So knowing会心 this, I started开始 a new tradition传统
in our house a couple一对 of years年份 ago.
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知道这点后,几年前
我在家养成了一个新的习惯。
01:08
Before a meal膳食 with my wife妻子 and kids孩子,
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在与妻子和儿女开始吃饭前,
01:10
I would say a prayer祷告 of thanksgiving感恩.
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我会做感恩祈祷。
01:14
Prayer祷告 is not quite相当 the right word.
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祈祷也许不是非常准确的词。
01:16
I'm agnostic不可知, so instead代替 of thanking表达感谢 God,
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我是不可知论者,
所以我的感谢对象不是上帝,
01:21
I would thank some of the people
who helped帮助 make my food餐饮 a reality现实.
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而是那些帮助把食品
送到餐桌上的人们。
01:25
I'd say, "I'd like to thank the farmer农民
who grew成长 these tomatoes番茄,
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我会说:“我感谢
种这些西红柿的农民,
01:29
and the trucker卡车司机 who drove开车
these tomatoes番茄 to the store商店,
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感谢把西红柿送到商店的司机,
01:32
and the cashier出纳员
who rang these tomatoes番茄 up."
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还有把西红柿包装起来的收银员。”
01:35
And I thought it was going
pretty漂亮 well, this tradition传统.
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我觉得这个习惯挺好的。
01:39
Then one day, my 10-year-old-岁 son儿子 said,
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之后有一天,我 10 岁的儿子说,
01:41
"You know, Dad, those people
aren't in our apartment公寓.
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“你知道吗,爸爸,
这些人不在我们家里。
01:44
They can't hear you.
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他们听不到你的感恩。
01:46
If you really cared照顾, you would go
and thank them in person."
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如果你发自真心,
你应该当面感谢他们。”
01:50
And I thought, "Hmm.
That's an interesting有趣 idea理念."
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我想,“嗯,这是个有趣的主意。”
01:53
(Laughter笑声)
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(笑声)
01:54
Now I'm a writer作家, and for my books图书
I like to go on adventures冒险.
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我现在是个作家,
我为了写书愿意去冒险。
01:59
Go on quests任务.
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完成任务。
02:01
So I decided决定 I'm going to take
my son儿子 up on his challenge挑战.
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于是我决定带上我儿子去挑战。
02:05
It seemed似乎 simple简单 enough足够.
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这似乎很简单。
02:07
And to make it even simpler简单,
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为了更精简,
02:09
I decided决定 to focus焦点 on just one item项目.
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我决定专注在一件事物上。
02:12
An item项目 I can't live生活 without:
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这个在我的生活中必不可缺的事物:
02:14
my morning早上 cup杯子 of coffee咖啡.
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我早上喝的咖啡。
02:16
Well, it turned转身 out
to be not so simple简单 at all.
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结果这场冒险一点都不简单。
02:20
(Laughter笑声)
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(笑声)
02:21
This quest寻求 took me months个月.
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这个任务花了我几个月的时间
02:22
It took me around the world世界.
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环游世界。
02:25
Because I discovered发现
that my coffee咖啡 would not be possible可能
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因为我发现如果没有那几百个
我本认为理应各司其职的人,
02:30
without hundreds数以百计 of people
I take for granted理所当然.
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咖啡就不可能被送到我手中。
02:33
So I would thank the trucker卡车司机
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所以我感谢卡车司机,
02:35
who drove开车 the coffee咖啡 beans
to the coffee咖啡 shop.
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因为他把咖啡豆运到咖啡店。
02:38
But he couldn't不能 have doneDONE his job工作
without the road.
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但如果没有道路,他的工作就没法完成。
02:41
So I would thank the people
who paved铺砌 the road.
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所以我会感谢铺路的人。
02:44
(Laughter笑声)
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(笑声)
02:45
And then I would thank the people
who made制作 the asphalt沥青 for the pavement路面.
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然后我会感谢那些
为路制造沥青的人。
02:50
And I came来了 to realize实现 that my coffee咖啡,
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我开始意识到,咖啡
02:54
like so much else其他 in the world世界,
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就像世界其他事物一样,
02:57
requires要求 the combined结合 work
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需要来自各行各业众多的人
02:59
of a shocking触目惊心 number of people
from all walks散步 of life.
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协力合作,才能送到我手中。
03:03
Architects建筑师, biologists生物学家,
designers设计师, miners矿工, goat山羊 herds牛群,
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建筑师,生物学家,
设计师,矿工,牧羊人,
03:08
you name名称 it.
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凡是你能说出的所有职业。
03:10
I decided决定 to call my project项目
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我决定把我的项目叫做
03:12
"Thanks谢谢 a Thousand."
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“感谢千人”。
03:14
Because I ended结束 up
thanking表达感谢 over a thousand people.
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因为我最后感谢了一千人。
03:18
And it was overwhelming压倒,
but it was also wonderful精彩.
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这个项目让人精疲力尽,
但也非常美妙。
03:22
Because it allowed允许 me to focus焦点
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因为它让我开始关注
03:24
on the hundreds数以百计 of things
that go right every一切 day,
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每天数百个正常运转的事情,
03:27
as opposed反对 to the three
or four that go wrong错误.
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而不是三四个出错的事情。
03:30
And it reminded提醒 me of the astounding惊人
interconnectedness互联 or our world世界.
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它提醒我这个世界中惊人的互联性。
03:36
I learned学到了 dozens许多 of lessons教训
during this project项目,
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我在这项任务中学到了很多东西,
03:40
but let me just focus焦点 on five today今天.
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但今天我想给你们讲其中五点。
03:43
The first is: look up.
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第一点是:抬头看。
03:46
I started开始 my trail落后 of gratitude感谢
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我首先感谢了
03:48
by thanking表达感谢 the barista咖啡师
at my local本地 coffee咖啡 shop,
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我家附近咖啡店的咖啡师,
03:51
Joe Coffee咖啡 in New York纽约.
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纽约的乔咖啡。
03:53
Her name名称 is Chung,
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她的名字叫钟,
03:55
and Chung is one of the most
upbeat乐观 people you will ever meet遇到.
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钟是你能遇到的最乐观的人之一。
03:59
Big smilersmiler, enthusiastic热情 hugger拥抱者.
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笑容灿烂,热情四射。
04:03
But even for Chung,
being存在 a barista咖啡师 is hard.
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但即使对她来说,做咖啡师也不容易。
04:06
And that's because you are encountering遇到
people in a very dangerous危险 state.
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因为你遇到的人都处于
非常危险的状态。
04:11
(Laughter笑声)
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(笑声)
04:12
You know what it is -- precaffeination预咖啡因.
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你们知道这是什么意思——
咖啡因摄入前。
04:15
(Laughter笑声)
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(笑声)
04:17
So, Chung has had people
yell叫喊 at her until直到 she cried哭了,
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钟曾遇到对她大喊大叫,
直到把她弄哭的人,
04:21
including包含 a nine-year-old九十岁 girl女孩,
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其中包括一位9岁的小女孩,
04:23
who didn't like the whipped鞭打 cream奶油 design设计
that Chung did on her hot chocolate巧克力.
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她不喜欢钟在热巧克力上
做的奶油设计。
04:27
So I thanked感谢 Chung,
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所以我感谢了钟,
04:30
and she thanked感谢 me for thanking表达感谢 her.
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她也感谢了我对她的感恩。
我从这里打住了。
04:34
I cut it off there.
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我不想进入无休止的感谢循环。
04:35
I didn't want to go
into an infinite无穷 thanking表达感谢 loop循环.
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04:37
(Laughter笑声)
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(笑声)
04:39
But Chung said that the hardest最难 part部分
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但钟说最困难的时候是
04:43
is when people don't even treat对待 her
like a human人的 being存在.
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当人们不把她当人类看时。
04:46
They treat对待 her like a vending自动售货机 machine.
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他们把她看作自动售货机。
04:48
So, they'll他们会 hand her their credit信用 card
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人们递给她信用卡时,
04:51
without even looking up from their phone电话.
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甚至眼睛都不离开手机。
04:53
And while she's saying this,
I'm realizing实现 I've doneDONE that.
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当她说到这儿时,
我意识到我也这样做过。
04:58
I've been that a-holea 孔.
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我就是那个混蛋。
05:00
And at that moment时刻, I pledged承诺:
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在那一刻,我发誓:
05:03
when dealing交易 with people,
I'm going to take those two seconds
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和人打交道时,我会用两秒钟
05:06
and look at them, make eye contact联系.
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看着他们,做眼神接触。
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Because it reminds提醒 you,
you're dealing交易 with a human人的 being存在
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因为这提醒你,你是在与人打交道,
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who has family家庭 and aspirations愿望
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对方也有家人,有梦想,
05:16
and embarrassing尴尬 high school学校 memories回忆.
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有高中时期的尴尬回忆。
05:19
And that little moment时刻 of connection连接
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这一片刻的连接
05:22
is so important重要 to both people's人们
humanity人性 and happiness幸福.
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对人性和幸福感都非常重要。
05:26
Alright好的, second第二 lesson was:
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第二点是:
05:28
smell the roses玫瑰. And the dirt污垢.
And the fertilizer肥料.
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闻一闻玫瑰花香,泥土和肥料。
05:33
After Chung, I thanked感谢 this man.
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在钟之后,我感谢了这位男士。
05:36
This is Ed埃德 Kaufmann考夫曼.
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他叫埃德·考夫曼。
05:38
And Ed埃德 is the one who chooses which哪一个 coffee咖啡
they serve服务 at my local本地 coffee咖啡 shop.
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埃德是负责挑选哪种咖啡能在
本地咖啡店出售的人。
05:43
He goes around the world世界,
to South America美国, to Africa非洲,
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他环游全球,从南美,到非洲,
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finding发现 the best最好 coffee咖啡 beans.
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只为寻找最好的咖啡豆。
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So I thanked感谢 Ed埃德.
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所以我感谢了埃德。
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And in return返回, Ed埃德 showed显示 me
how to taste味道 coffee咖啡 like a pro.
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作为回报,埃德向我展示了
如何像专家一样品尝咖啡。
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And it is quite相当 a ritual仪式.
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这就好像是一种仪式。
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You take your spoon
and you dip it in the coffee咖啡
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你拿起勺子,将它浸在咖啡中,
06:00
and then you take a big, loud slurp斯卢普.
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然后声音响亮地喝一口。
06:03
Almost几乎 cartoonishly卡通 loud.
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就像卡通片里面那样响亮。
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This is because you want
to spray喷雾 the coffee咖啡 all over your mouth.
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这是因为你需要让口腔内充满咖啡。
06:08
You have taste味道 buds
in the side of your cheeks脸颊,
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你的脸颊两侧有味蕾,
06:11
in the roof屋顶 of your mouth,
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在口腔顶部,
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you've got to get them all.
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你要让它们都尝到。
06:14
So Ed埃德 would do this
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所以埃德会这样品尝咖啡,
06:17
and he would --
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然后——
06:20
his face面对 would light up and he would say,
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他的神情会明亮起来,他会说,
06:22
"This coffee咖啡 tastes口味 of honey-crisp蜂蜜片 apple苹果
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“这种咖啡有甜脆苹果,
06:26
and notes笔记 of soil and maple syrup糖浆."
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还有泥土和枫糖浆的味道。”
06:30
And I would take a sip and I'd say,
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而我会喝一小口就说,
06:33
"I'm picking选择 up coffee咖啡.
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“我尝到了咖啡的味道,
06:35
(Laughter笑声)
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(笑声)
06:37
It tastes口味 to me like coffee咖啡."
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它喝起来就像咖啡。”
06:39
(Laughter笑声)
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(笑声)
06:41
But inspired启发 by Ed埃德, I decided决定 to really
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受埃德启发,我决定
06:44
let the coffee咖啡 sit on my tongue
for five seconds --
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让咖啡在我的舌尖萦绕5秒——
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we're all busy,
but I could spare备用 five seconds,
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我们都很忙,但我可以空出 5 秒,
06:49
and really think about the texture质地
and the acidity酸度 and the sweetness甜美.
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仔细体会它的质地,酸度和甜度。
06:56
And I started开始 to do it with other foods食品.
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然后我开始在其他食物上
也做这样的尝试。
06:58
And this idea理念 of savoring品尝
is so important重要 to gratitude感谢.
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这种品尝的想法对于感恩
是非常重要的。
07:04
Psychologists心理学家 talk about how gratitude感谢
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心理学家所认为的感恩就是
07:07
is about taking服用 a moment时刻
and holding保持 on to it as long as possible可能.
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花点时间,尽可能长时间地保持,
07:13
And slowing减缓 down time.
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然后放慢时间。
07:16
So that life doesn't go by
in one big blur模糊, as it often经常 does.
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这样生活就不会
像往常一样糊涂度过。
07:21
Number three is:
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第三点是:
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find the hidden masterpieces名作
all around you.
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发现隐藏在你周围的杰作。
07:26
Now, one of my favorite喜爱
conversations对话 during this year
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我今年最喜爱的一次交谈
07:29
was with the guy who invented发明
my coffee咖啡 cup杯子 lid.
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是与咖啡杯盖的发明者的谈话。
07:33
And until直到 this point,
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在那之前,
07:35
I had given特定 approximately
zero thought to coffee咖啡 cup杯子 lids.
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我几乎从没考虑过咖啡杯盖。
07:39
But I loved喜爱 talking
to this inventor发明者, Doug道格 Fleming弗莱明,
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但我喜欢和发明它
的道格·弗莱明交谈,
07:42
because he was so passionate多情.
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因为他充满激情。
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And the blood血液 and sweat and tears眼泪
he put into this lid,
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他倾注在这个盖子上
的热血,汗水和泪水,
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and that I had never even considered考虑.
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而在之前我从没有考虑到。
07:51
He says a bad lid can ruin废墟 your coffee咖啡.
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他说一个糟糕的杯盖
可能会毁掉你的咖啡。
07:54
That it can block the aroma香气,
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它能阻隔气味,
07:56
which哪一个 is so important重要 to the experience经验.
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而气味对体验是非常重要的。
07:59
So he -- he's very innovative创新.
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他非常有创新精神。
08:01
He's like the Elon伊隆 Musk of coffee咖啡 lids.
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他对于咖啡杯盖来说
就是埃隆·马斯克。
08:03
(Laughter笑声)
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(笑声)
08:04
So he designed设计 this lid
that's got an upside-down上下翻转 hexagon六边形
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他设计了一个倒置六边形的盖子,
08:09
so you can get your nose鼻子 right in there
and get maximum最大值 aroma香气.
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这样你的鼻子就能凑过去
最大程度地闻到香气。
08:13
And so I was delighted欣喜的 talking to him,
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我很高兴和他交谈,
08:16
and it made制作 me realize实现 there are
hundreds数以百计 of masterpieces名作 all around us
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这让我意识到我们周围
存在着数百个杰作,
而我们根本没意识到
它们的伟大之处。
08:21
that we totally完全 take for granted理所当然.
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08:23
Like the on-off开关 switch开关 on my desk lamp
has a little indentation压 痕 for my thumb拇指
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就像桌上的台灯开关
有个小小的凹痕,
08:29
that perfectly完美 fits适合 my thumb拇指.
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正好能贴合我的拇指。
08:31
And when something is doneDONE well,
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当事情完美运作时,
08:34
the process处理 behind背后 it
is largely大部分 invisible无形.
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背后的付出几乎是不可见的。
08:37
But paying付款 attention注意 to it
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但关注这些细节
08:40
can tap龙头 into that sense of wonder奇迹
and enrich丰富 our lives生活.
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可以产生一种奇妙的感觉
能够丰富我们的生活。
08:44
Number four is: fake it till直到 you feel it.
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第四点是:在真正感受到之前
仍要假装感受到。
08:47
By the end结束 of the project项目,
I was just in a thanking表达感谢 frenzy发狂.
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在这个项目结束时,
我只是在疯狂地感谢。
08:51
So I was -- I would get up
and spend a couple一对 hours小时,
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我会花上几个小时,
08:54
I'd write emails电子邮件, send发送 notes笔记,
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发邮件,邮便笺,
08:58
make phone电话 calls电话, visit访问 people
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打电话,拜访人们,
09:00
to thank them for their role角色 in my coffee咖啡.
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以感谢他们为我的咖啡
所做的贡献。
09:03
And some of them, quite相当 honestly老老实实 --
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他们中一些人,非常诚实——
没那么喜欢这种形式。
09:05
not that into it.
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09:07
They would be like, "What is this?
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他们的反应是,“这是什么?
09:09
Is this a pyramid金字塔 scheme方案,
what do you want, what are you selling销售?"
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这是传销吗,你想要什么,
你想卖什么东西?”
09:14
But most people were surprisingly出奇 moved移动.
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但多数人还是被惊喜感动了。
09:18
I remember记得, I called the woman女人
who does the pest虫害 control控制
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我记得我打电话给那位
咖啡仓库里
09:22
for the warehouse仓库
where my coffee咖啡 is served提供服务 --
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做害虫防控的女士——
09:25
I'm sorry -- where my coffee咖啡 is stored存储.
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抱歉——存放咖啡的仓库。
09:28
And I said,
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我说,
09:30
"This may可能 sound声音 strange奇怪,
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“这听来有点奇怪,
09:32
but I want to thank you
for keeping保持 the bugs虫子 out of my coffee咖啡."
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但我想要谢谢你
没让害虫吃掉我的咖啡。”
09:36
And she said, "Well,
that does sound声音 strange奇怪,
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她说,“好吧,这确实听着奇怪,
09:39
but you just made制作 my day."
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但你让我很开心。”
09:41
And it was like an anti-crank防曲柄 phone电话 call.
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这有点像防诈骗电话。
09:45
And it didn't just affect影响 her,
it affected受影响 me.
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这不仅感染了她,也感染了我自己。
09:48
Because I would wake唤醒 up every一切 morning早上
in my default默认 mood心情, which哪一个 is grumpiness脾气暴躁,
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因为我每天早上都会在
默认情绪中醒来,那就是暴躁,
09:54
but I would force myself
to write a thank-you谢谢-你 note注意
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但我会强迫自己写下感谢纸条,
09:57
and then another另一个 and then another另一个.
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一条接着一条。
10:00
And what I found发现 was
that if you act法案 as if you're grateful感激,
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我发现如果你表现得很感激,
10:04
you eventually终于 become成为 grateful感激 for real真实.
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你最终真的会变得感激。
10:07
The power功率 of our actions行动
to change更改 our mind心神 is astounding惊人.
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行动改变思想的力量非常惊人。
10:12
So, often经常 we think
that thought changes变化 behavior行为,
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我们往往认为思想改变行动,
10:16
but behavior行为 very often经常
changes变化 our thought.
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但行为往往也能改变我们的思想。
10:22
And finally最后, the last lesson
I want to tell you about is:
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最后,我学到的一点是:
10:27
practice实践 six degrees of gratitude感谢.
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实践六度感恩。
10:30
And every一切 place地点, every一切 stop
on this gratitude感谢 trail落后
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在这条感恩之路的
每一个地方,每一站,
10:35
would give birth分娩 to 100 other people
that I could thank.
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都会出现另外 100个
我可以感谢的人。
10:39
So I went down to Colombia哥伦比亚 to thank
the farmers农民 who grow增长 my coffee咖啡 beans.
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我来到哥伦比亚
去感谢种咖啡豆的农民。
10:44
And it was in a small mountain town,
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目的地位于一座小山城中,
10:46
and I was driven驱动 there
along沿 these curvy曲线玲珑, cliffside悬崖边 roads道路.
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我乘车沿着很多弯曲,
陡峭的山路前进。
10:51
And every一切 time
we went around a hairpin发夹 turn
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每次我们碰到急转弯,
10:55
the driver司机 would do the sign标志 of the cross交叉.
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司机都会做食指中指交叉的手势。
10:59
And I was like, "Thank you for that.
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而我的反应是,“谢谢”。
11:02
(Laughter笑声)
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(笑声)
11:04
But can you do that
while keeping保持 your hands on the wheel?
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“但你能不能同时两手放在方向盘上?
11:07
Because I am terrified."
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因为我被吓到了。”
11:09
But we made制作 it.
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但我们顺利到达了。
11:10
And I met会见 the farmers农民,
the Guarnizo瓜尔尼佐 brothers兄弟.
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我见到了那里的农民,
戈阿尼佐兄弟。
11:14
It's a small farm农场, they make great coffee咖啡,
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这是一个小农场,他们的咖啡非常棒,
11:17
they're paid支付 above以上
fair-trade公平交易 prices价格 for it.
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人们会用高于市价的价格
购买他们的咖啡。
他们向我展示了咖啡是如何种植的。
11:20
And they showed显示 me
how the coffee咖啡 is grown长大的.
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11:23
The bean is actually其实 inside
this fruit水果 called the coffee咖啡 cherry樱桃.
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咖啡豆其实是在一种
叫咖啡果的水果里面长的。
11:28
And I thanked感谢 them.
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我感谢了他们。
他们说,“如果没有另外 100 个人,
11:30
And they said,
"Well, we couldn't不能 do our job工作
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11:33
without 100 other people."
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我们也做不了我们的工作。”
11:35
The machine that depulps德普尔斯 the fruit水果
is made制作 in Brazil巴西,
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分离果实的机器是巴西制造的,
11:39
and the pickup捡起 truck卡车
they drive驾驶 around the farm农场,
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他们在农场开的载货小卡车,
11:42
that is made制作 from parts部分
from all over the world世界.
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是由来自世界各地的零件制造的。
11:46
In fact事实, the US exports出口 steel to Colombia哥伦比亚.
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事实上,美国也向
哥伦比亚出口了钢铁。
11:50
So I went to Indiana印地安那,
and I thanked感谢 the steel makers制造商.
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所以我来到印第安纳,
我感谢了钢铁制造商。
11:55
And it just drove开车 home
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而这还让我了解到了
11:58
that it doesn't take a village
to make a cup杯子 of coffee咖啡.
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制作一杯咖啡不止需要一个村庄。
12:02
It takes the world世界
to make a cup杯子 of coffee咖啡.
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需要全世界的力量
才能做出一杯咖啡。
12:05
And this global全球 economy经济,
this globalization全球化,
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这种全球经济,全球化,
12:10
it does have downsides缺点.
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它确实有不足。
12:12
But I believe the long-term长期
upsides上升空间 are far greater更大,
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但我相信,长期的好处要大得多,
12:15
that progress进展 is real真实.
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这种进步是真实的。
12:17
We have made制作 improvements改进
in the last 50 years年份,
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我们在过去50年间取得了进步,
12:19
poverty贫穷 worldwide全世界 has gone走了 down.
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全球贫困水平下降了。
12:22
And that we should resist the temptation诱惑
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我们应该遏制退回到
12:25
to retreat撤退 into our silos筒仓.
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固步自封的诱惑。
12:28
And we should resist this upsurge高涨
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我们应该抵制这种孤立主义
12:31
in isolationism孤立主义 and jingoism金戈主义.
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和沙文主义的高涨。
12:36
Which哪一个 brings带来 me to my final最后 point.
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这就引出了我最后一个观点。
12:38
Which哪一个 is my hope希望 that we use gratitude感谢
as a spark火花 to action行动.
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我希望我们可以
使用感恩来激励行动。
12:45
Some people worry担心
that gratitude感谢 has a downside缺点.
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有些人担心感恩有负面作用。
12:49
That we'll be so grateful感激,
that we'll be complacent自满.
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我们太感恩,就会变得自满。
12:52
We'll be so, "Oh, everything's一切的
wonderful精彩, I'm so grateful感激."
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我们会说,“哦,一切都很好,
我满怀感激。”
12:56
Well, it turns out, the opposite对面 is true真正.
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事实证明,恰恰相反。
13:01
The research研究 shows节目
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研究显示
13:03
that the more grateful感激 you are,
the more likely容易 you are to help others其他.
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你越感恩,你越可能帮助别人。
13:08
When you're in a bad state,
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当你身处糟糕的境地,
13:10
you're often经常 more focused重点
on your own拥有 needs需求.
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你往往更关注你自己的需求。
13:12
But gratitude感谢 makes品牌 you
want to pay工资 it forward前锋.
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但感恩之情会让你继续下去。
13:16
And I experienced有经验的 this personally亲自.
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我个人亲身体验过。
13:18
I mean, I'm not Mother母亲 Teresa邓丽君,
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我意思是,我不是特蕾莎修女,
13:20
I'm still a selfish自私 bastard混蛋
a huge巨大 amount of the time.
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很多时候我还是个自私的混蛋。
13:23
But I'm better than I was
before this project项目.
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但我比开始这个项目前好多了。
13:27
And that's because it made制作 me aware知道的
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因为它让我认识到
13:30
of the exploitation开发 on the supply供应 chain.
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供应链的开发。
13:34
It reminded提醒 me
that what I take for granted理所当然
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它提醒我那些我认为理所当然的东西
13:37
is not available可得到 to millions百万
of people around the world世界.
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如果没有全球上百万人就不可能存在。
13:40
Like water.
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比如水。
13:42
Coffee咖啡 is 98.8 percent百分 water.
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咖啡 98.8% 的成分是水。
13:46
So I figured想通 I should go and thank
the people at the New York纽约 reservoir,
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所以我想我应该去感谢
在纽约水库工作的人们,
13:49
hundreds数以百计 of them, who provide提供 me water,
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为我们提供水的数百个人,
13:52
and this miracle奇迹 that I can
turn a lever杠杆 and get safe安全 water.
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还有扭转水龙头就能得到
安全的水的奇迹。
13:55
And that millions百万 of people
around the world世界 don't have this luxury豪华
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全球数百万人并没有这种奢侈,
13:59
and have to walk步行 hours小时 to get safe安全 water.
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他们要走上几个小时
才能获得安全的水。
14:02
It inspired启发 me to see what I could do
to help people get more access访问,
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这启发我思考,能做些什么
去给人们提供更多饮水途径,
14:07
and I did research研究
and found发现 a wonderful精彩 group
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我研究了一下
并找到了一个很棒的组织,
14:10
called Dispensers掌柜 for Safe安全 Water.
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叫做安全水配送员。
14:12
And I got involved参与.
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我参与了其中。
14:14
And I'm not expecting期待
the Nobel诺贝尔 Prize committee委员会
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我不期待诺贝尔评审员
14:16
to knock down my door,
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敲我的门,
14:18
but it's a baby宝宝 step,
it's a little something.
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但这是个开始,
这是件有意义的小事。
14:22
And it's all because of gratitude感谢.
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这全是因为感恩。
14:25
And it's why I encourage鼓励
people, friends朋友, family家庭,
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这也是我为什么鼓励
大家,朋友,家人,
14:28
to follow跟随 gratitude感谢 trails步道 of their own拥有.
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去追寻他们自己的感恩之路。
14:31
Because it's a
life-transforming生活改造 experience经验.
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因为这是一次改变人生的体验。
14:34
And it doesn't have to be coffee咖啡.
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它不一定是咖啡。
14:36
It could be anything.
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它可以是任何事情。
14:37
It could be a pair of socks袜子,
it could be a light bulb灯泡.
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它可以是一双袜子,一个灯泡。
14:40
And you don't have to go around the world世界,
you can just do a little gesture手势,
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你不需要环球旅行,
你只需要一个小小的动作,
14:43
like make eye contact联系 or send发送 a note注意
to the designer设计师 of a logo商标 you love.
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比如做眼神接触,
给你喜爱的标志设计师发个邮件。
14:49
It's more about a mindset心态.
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这更关乎心态,
意识到有数百人参与进
我们的每一件小事中。
14:51
Being存在 aware知道的 of the thousands数千 of people
involved参与 in every一切 little thing we do.
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14:56
Remembering记住 that
there's someone有人 in a factory
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记住,是工厂里的某个人
15:00
who made制作 the fabric for the chairs椅子
you're sitting坐在 in right now.
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制作了你的椅垫,
15:04
That someone有人 went into a mine
and got the copper for this microphone麦克风
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是某人开采的铜
制作了这个话筒。
15:10
so that I could say my final最后 thank you,
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我最后的一声谢谢,
15:13
which哪一个 is to thank you.
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是要送给你们。
谢谢你们听我的故事。
15:14
Thank you a thousand
for listening to my story故事.
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15:18
(Applause掌声)
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(鼓掌)
15:20
(Cheering打气)
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(欢呼)
Translated by psjmz mz
Reviewed by Hanlin Wang

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
AJ Jacobs - Author
Immersing himself in alternate lifestyles and long, hilarious experiments (usually with himself the guinea pig), writer AJ Jacobs tests the limits of behavior, customs, culture, knowledge -- and his wife's sense of humor.

Why you should listen

AJ Jacobs' writings stand at the intersection of philosophy, Gonzo journalism and performance art. Stubbornly curious and slyly perceptive, he takes immersive learning to its irrational and profoundly amusing extreme -- extracting wisdom and meaning after long stints as a self-styled guinea pig. For his widely circulated Esquire article "My Outsourced Life," he explored the phenomenon of outsourcing by hiring a team in Bangalore to take care of every part of his life -- from reading his emails to arguing with his wife to reading bedtime stories to his own son. A previous article, "I Think You're Fat," chronicled a brief, cringe-inducing attempt to live his life in Radical Honesty, telling all the truth, all the time.

Jacobs is author of The Know-It-All, which documents the year he spent reading the Encyclopedia Britannica from A to Z, uncovering both funny and surprising factoids but also poignant insight into history and human nature. In 2007 he released The Year of Living Biblically, in which he attempted to follow every single rule in the Bible as literally as possible for an entire year. His recent book The Guinea Pig Diaries: My Life as an Experiment is a collection of numerous personal experiments. including living according to George Washington's rules of conduct, outsourcing every single task to India, and posing as a woman on an online dating site. 

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AJ Jacobs | Speaker | TED.com

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