Vernā Myers: How to overcome our biases? Walk boldly toward them
Verna Majers (Vernā Myers): Kako da prevaziđemo svoje predrasude? Hrabrim suočavanjem s njima
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a wonderful time listening
"The Warmth of Other Suns."
neverovatne Izabel Vilkerson.
fleeing the South from 1915 to 1970
koji su pobegli sa juga od 1915. do 1970.
from all the brutality
opportunity up North,
bolju priliku na severu.
of the resilience and the brilliance
o žilavosti i briljantnosti
all the stories of the horrors
sve te priče o užasima,
and all the humiliations.
about the beatings and the burnings
o prebijanjima, spaljivanjima
this is a little deep.
to turn on the radio."
laid on the ground dead,
belog policajca, ležao je mrtav,
and his neighbors watched in horror,
i komšije posmatrali sa užasom,
against black men
It's just different names.
of our national psyche.
naše nacionalne psihe.
crosses the street,
prelazi ulicu,
shooting people down in the street,
u ljude na ulici,
stereotypes and prejudices
stereotipi i predrasude
these types of incidents,
takve incidente,
and being willing to change ourselves.
i voljom da se menjamo.
to offer us today to think about
za razmišljanje danas
from happening again;
Fergusone da se dese ponovo;
will not only protect them
ne samo zaštititi
so that they can thrive.
da bi mogli da napreduju.
embracing young black men,
koja prihvata mlade crnce,
giving them that kind of openness,
daje im tu vrstu otvorenosti,
to people we love?
ljudima koje volimo?
How much better would our country be?
Koliko bi bila bolja naša zemlja?
u vezi raznolikosti
at the beginning of the workshop.
we're so glad you're here" --
drago nam je što ste ovde" -
in our body."
and I see all my biases."
i primećujem sve svoje predrasude."
pilot coming over the P.A. system,
we are rocking it.
getting turbulent and bumpy,
počele turbulencije i truckanje,
I knew that was a bias
da je u pitanju predrasuda
and there's always a guy driving
the confidence of the male driver.
poverenje u muškog pilota.
I would say, "Female pilot: awesome."
"Žena pilot - odlično."
and a little troublesome, a little risky,
even know that I had.
koju nisam ni znala da imam.
what we have learned.
which measures unconscious bias,
koji meri podsvesne predrasude,
We like white people.
belac. Volimo bele ljude.
Šta pod time podrazumevam?
of black men and white men,
slike belaca i crnaca,
that white person with a positive word,
sa pozitivnom pričom,
trying to associate
kad pokušamo da povežemo
and vice versa.
black with negative
crno sa negativnim,
taking that test prefer white.
bira belce.
taking that test prefer white.
bira belce.
when the contamination came down.
došlo do kontaminacije.
that our brain automatically associates?
asocira automatski?
that you probably are thinking about,
pomislite je:
on my color blindness.
trying to make a difference
da promenimo stvari
It was what we did when we saw the color.
što primećujemo boju,
kad primetimo boju.
pretending not to see,
in which racial difference
rasne razlike
that's keeping them from thriving,
i sprečavaju ih da napreduju,
an early death.
are telling us is, no way.
ni slučajno!
and memorize them,
at awesome folks who are black,
ljude koji su crni,
automatically in our brain.
u našem mozgu.
these beautiful black men behind me?
ove lepe crne muškarce?
da izbacim neke.
associations about who black men are.
automatske asocijacije o crncima.
grow up to be amazing human beings
u fenomenalne ljude
and made them better.
i učinili ih boljim.
our automatic assumptions,
naše automatske pretpostavke,
who is odious that you know,
koja je odvratna
causes us to disassociate too.
da razbijemo asocijacije.
i Kolina Pauela.
(Smeh)
So go looking for your bias.
Zato potražite svoje predrasude.
and go looking for disconfirming data
i potražite podatke
your old stereotypes are wrong.
stereotipi, u stvari, pogrešni.
young black men instead of away from them.
and intentional about it.
i da je radite s namerom.
one time several years ago
bila sam na Vol stritu
and she's really wonderful
Ona je stvarno divna.
and she's a woman of color, she's Korean.
i ona je obojena, Korejanka.
it was late at night,
we were going, we were lost.
izgubile smo se.
and I was thinking, "Oh great, black guy."
i pomislila: "Super, crnac."
without even thinking about it.
"Oh, that's interesting."
he was a black guy.
know where they're going.
uglavnom znaju kuda idu.
but that's what I think.
ali tako mislim.
were going, 'Yay, a black guy'?"
super, crnac!
'Ooh, a black guy.'"
same guy, same clothes,
isti lik, ista odeća,
different reaction.
različita reakcija.
I'm a diversity consultant.
Ja sam savetnik za raznolikost.
I'm a woman of color. Oh my God!"
a ja sam obojena. O, bože!"
We really need to relax about this."
I go way back with black guys.
You see what I'm saying?
Razumete šta hoću da kažem?
I was married to a black guy.
Udata sam za crnca.
is so wide and so deep
and figure out who that black guy is,
da ocenim ko je taj crnac,
where you're going. I'll take you there."
kuda idete. Odvešću vas tamo."
we make up about people
koje izmišljamo o ljudima
and be afraid of them?
i da ih se plašimo?
to walk toward your discomfort.
ka neprijatnostima.
to take any crazy risks.
preduzimate sulude rizike.
and professional circles.
i profesionalne krugove.
folks, men, women?
muškarcima, ženama,
from who you are
osobama od vas,
Just look around your periphery.
in your classroom,
u vašoj učionici, u vašoj crkvi.
there's some black young guy there.
and build the kinds of relationships,
i napravite takve odnose,
cause you to see the holistic person
da vidite osobu u celosti
friends in particular that will say,
bele prijatelje koji će reći:
is going to work for me.
about perfection. It's about connection.
savršeni. Cilj je povezivanje.
before you get uncomfortable.
prethodno ne bude bilo neprijatno.
and authentically, take the invitation.
prihvatite poziv.
who can see your humanity.
mogu da vide vašu humanost.
and the compassion
with people who are different from you.
s ljudima različitim od vas.
and beautiful happens:
that they are you in your family,
da su oni u vašoj porodici
we become advocates,
into a bigger, brighter thing,
u nešto veće, svetlije,
another Ferguson from happening.
da se desi neki novi Ferguson.
young black men, can thrive.
mogu da napreduju.
to put it out there anyway.
the courage to say something,
hrabrosti da kažemo nešto,
and it's going to be a time
and having a good time.
i dobro smo raspoloženi.
the conversations around the table.
"Grandma's a bigot."
"Baba je ekstremista."
and we love Uncle Joe. We do.
but what they're saying is wrong.
ali ono što govore je pogrešno.
because you know who else is at the table?
jer znate ko je još za stolom?
and move from generation to generation?
i prenose se s generacije na generaciju?
we don't call people that anymore."
"Bako, ne nazivamo ljude više tako."
that he deserved that.
da je on to zaslužio.
from the ugliness of racism
have the luxury to do so,
luksuz da to urade,
young black sons.
our lovely darlings, our future,
an amazing country with incredible ideals,
sa neverovatnim idealima,
and we have made some progress,
i napravili neki napredak,
into our institutions
devaluing of young black men.
mladih crnaca.
in this society
u ovom društvu
and is willing, above all other things,
i koje su, iznad svega, voljne
can be seen for all of who they are.
biti vrednovani u celini.
statesmen that have ever lived,
koji su ikada živeli,
are powerful preachers.
and artists and writers.
i umetnici, i pisci.
with dreams of their own.
sa sopstvenim snovima.
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Vernā Myers - Diversity advocateVernā Myers is dedicated to promoting meaningful, lasting diversity in the workplace.
Why you should listen
Vernā Myers is a diversity consultant and self-described "recovering lawyer" with a degree from Harvard Law. She leads the Vernā Myers Consulting Group, an organization that has helped break down barriers of race, gender, ethnicity and sexual orientation in thousand-member workplaces. She is also the author of Moving Diversity Forward: How to Go from Well-Meaning to Well-Doing.
Myers encourages us to recognize our own biases in order to actively combat them, emphasizing a "low guilt, high responsibility" philosophy. In her work she points to her own inner biases, because, as she says, "People relax when they know the diversity lady has her own issues."
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