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Ione Wells: How we talk about sexual assault online
Ione Wells: Kako pričamo o seksualnom napastovanju on-line
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Trebamo obzirniji pristup u korištenju društvenih mreža za društvenu pravdu, kaže spisateljica i aktivistica Ione Wells. Nakon što je bila žrtva napada u Londonu, Wells je objavila pismo svom napadaču u studentskim novinama koje je postalo viralno i pokrenulo #NotGuilty kampanju protiv seksualnog nasilja i okrivljavanja žrtava. U ovom potresnom govoru, opisuje kako je dijeljenje njene vlastite priče dalo nadu drugima šalje snažnu poruku protiv kulture on-line posramljivanja.
Ione Wells - Writer, activist
University student Ione Wells is the founder of the international #NotGuilty campaign against sexual violence and misdirected victim blaming. Full bio
University student Ione Wells is the founder of the international #NotGuilty campaign against sexual violence and misdirected victim blaming. Full bio
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00:13
It was April, last year.
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Bio je travanj, prošle godine.
00:15
I was on an evening out with friends
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Bila sam vani s prijateljima
00:17
to celebrate one of their birthdays.
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kako bi proslavili nečiji rođendan.
00:19
We hadn't been all together
for a couple of weeks;
for a couple of weeks;
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Nismo bili svi skupa već
nekoliko tjedana;
nekoliko tjedana;
bila je to savršena večer,
svi ponovno zajedno.
svi ponovno zajedno.
00:22
it was a perfect evening,
as we were all reunited.
as we were all reunited.
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00:25
At the end of the evening,
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Na kraju večeri,
00:26
I caught the last underground train
back to the other side of London.
back to the other side of London.
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uhvatila sam posljednji vlak podzemne
kako bih se vratila na drugu stranu grada.
kako bih se vratila na drugu stranu grada.
00:30
The journey was smooth.
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Putovanje je teklo glatko.
00:32
I got back to my local station
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Vratila sam se na svoju stanicu
00:34
and I began the 10-minute walk home.
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i počela desetominutnu šetnju kući.
00:37
As I turned the corner onto my street,
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Kad sam skrenula za ugao moje ulice,
00:39
my house in sight up ahead,
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moja kuća vidjela se u daljini,
00:41
I heard footsteps behind me
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čula sam korake iza sebe
00:43
that seemed to have
approached out of nowhere
approached out of nowhere
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koji su se pojavili niotkuda
00:45
and were picking up pace.
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i ubrzavali su.
00:47
Before I had time to process
what was happening,
what was happening,
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Prije nego sam imala vremena
shvatiti što se događa,
shvatiti što se događa,
00:50
a hand was clapped around my mouth
so that I could not breathe,
so that I could not breathe,
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nečija ruka je bila oko mojih usta
tako da ne mogu disati,
tako da ne mogu disati,
00:53
and the young man behind me
dragged me to the ground,
dragged me to the ground,
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i mladić koji je bio iza mene
povukao me na tlo,
povukao me na tlo,
00:56
beat my head repeatedly
against the pavement
against the pavement
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lupio mi glavom o beton
nekoliko puta
nekoliko puta
00:58
until my face began to bleed,
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dok mi lice nije počelo krvariti,
01:00
kicking me in the back and neck
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udarajući me u vrat i leđa,
01:02
while he began to assault me,
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i počeo napastovati, kidajući
01:04
ripping off my clothes
and telling me to "shut up,"
and telling me to "shut up,"
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odjeću s mene i govoreći mi da "ušutim,"
dok sam se
dok sam se
01:06
as I struggled to cry for help.
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borila pokušavajući dozvati pomoć.
01:09
With each smack of my head
to the concrete ground,
to the concrete ground,
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Svakim udarcem moje glave
u betonsko tlo,
u betonsko tlo,
01:11
a question echoed through my mind
that still haunts me today:
that still haunts me today:
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kroz glavu mi je prošlo pitanje
koje me i danas muči:
koje me i danas muči:
01:15
"Is this going to be how it all ends?"
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"Hoće li se ovako sve završiti?"
01:18
Little could I have realized,
I'd been followed the whole way
I'd been followed the whole way
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Nisam shvatila da me pratio cijelim putem
01:21
from the moment I left the station.
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otkako sam napustila stanicu.
01:23
And hours later,
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Satima kasnije,
01:24
I was standing topless and barelegged
in front of the police,
in front of the police,
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stajala sam bez majice, golih nogu
pred policijom,
pred policijom,
01:28
having the cuts and bruises
on my naked body photographed
on my naked body photographed
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dok su mi fotografirali posjekotine
i modrice na golom tijelu
i modrice na golom tijelu
01:31
for forensic evidence.
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kao forenzički dokaz.
01:33
Now, there are few words to describe
the all-consuming feelings
the all-consuming feelings
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Postoji malo riječi
da bih opisala osjećaje
da bih opisala osjećaje
01:37
of vulnerability, shame, upset
and injustice that I was ridden with
and injustice that I was ridden with
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ranjivosti, srama, uznemirenja
i nepravde koji su me obuzimali
i nepravde koji su me obuzimali
01:40
in that moment and for the weeks to come.
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u tom trenutku i tjednima nakon toga.
01:43
But wanting to find a way
to condense these feelings
to condense these feelings
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Ali želeći naći način
da prikupim te osjećaje
da prikupim te osjećaje
01:46
into something ordered
that I could work through,
that I could work through,
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u nešto smisleno s čim bih se mogla
nositi,
nositi,
01:48
I decided to do what
felt most natural to me:
felt most natural to me:
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odlučila sam učiniti što mi se
činilo najprirodnije:
činilo najprirodnije:
01:51
I wrote about it.
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pisala sam o tome.
01:53
It started out as a cathartic exercise.
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Počelo je kao katarzična vježba.
01:55
I wrote a letter to my assaulter,
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Napisala sam pismo svom napadaču,
01:58
humanizing him as "you,"
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humanizirajući ga sa "ti,"
02:00
to identify him as part
of the very community
of the very community
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kako bih ga identificirala kao dio
te zajednice
te zajednice
02:03
that he had so violently
abused that night.
abused that night.
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koju je tako nasilno zlostavljao
te noći.
te noći.
02:06
Stressing the tidal-wave
effect of his actions,
effect of his actions,
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Naglašavajući njegovo djelovanje,
poput plimnog vala
poput plimnog vala
02:09
I wrote:
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napisala sam:
02:10
"Did you ever think
of the people in your life?
of the people in your life?
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"Jesi li razmišljao o ljudima
u svom životu?
u svom životu?
02:13
I don't know who the people
in your life are.
in your life are.
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Ne znam tko su ljudi u tvom životu.
02:16
I don't know anything about you.
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Ne znam ništa o tebi.
02:18
But I do know this:
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Ali znam ovo:
02:19
you did not just attack me that night.
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nisi napao samo mene te noći.
02:22
I'm a daughter, I'm a friend,
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Ja sam kćer, prijatelj,
02:23
I'm a sister, I'm a pupil,
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sestra, učenica,
02:25
I'm a cousin, I'm a niece,
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rođakinja, nećakinja,
02:26
I'm a neighbor;
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ja sam susjeda.
02:28
I'm the employee
who served everyone coffee
who served everyone coffee
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Ja sam radnica koja ljudima
poslužuje kavu
poslužuje kavu
02:30
in the café under the railway.
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u kafiću pod prugom.
02:32
And all the people who form
these relations to me
these relations to me
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I svi ljudi koji imaju te
veze samnom
veze samnom
02:34
make up my community.
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stvaraju moju zajednicu.
02:36
And you assaulted
every single one of them.
every single one of them.
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I ti si napao sve njih.
02:39
You violated the truth that I
will never cease to fight for,
will never cease to fight for,
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Povrijedio si istinu
za koju se nikad neću prestati boriti,
za koju se nikad neću prestati boriti,
02:42
and which all of these people represent:
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i koju svi ovi ljudi predstavljaju:
02:44
that there are infinitely more
good people in the world than bad."
good people in the world than bad."
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da postoji nebrojeno više
dobrih nego loših ljudi u svijetu."
dobrih nego loših ljudi u svijetu."
02:48
But, determined not to let
this one incident make me lose faith
this one incident make me lose faith
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Odlučna da ne dopustim
da ovaj incident naruši moju vjeru
da ovaj incident naruši moju vjeru
02:51
in the solidarity in my community
or humanity as a whole,
or humanity as a whole,
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u solidarnost moje zajednice
ili čovječanstva u cijelosti,
ili čovječanstva u cijelosti,
02:54
I recalled the 7/7 terrorist bombings
in July 2005 on London transport,
in July 2005 on London transport,
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prisjetila sam se terorističkog napada
7. 7. 2005. u londonskom prijevozu,
7. 7. 2005. u londonskom prijevozu,
02:59
and how the mayor of London at the time,
and indeed my own parents,
and indeed my own parents,
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i kako su gradonačelnik Londona,
i moji roditelji,
i moji roditelji,
03:02
had insisted that we all get back
on the tubes the next day,
on the tubes the next day,
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inzistirali da se vratimo u
podzemnu sljedećeg dana,
podzemnu sljedećeg dana,
03:05
so we wouldn't be defined or changed
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tako da nas ne odrede ili promjene
03:07
by those that had made us feel unsafe.
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oni koji su učinili da se osjećamo
nesigurno.
nesigurno.
03:09
I told my attacker,
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Rekla sam svom napadaču,
03:11
"You've carried out your attack,
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"Izveo si svoj napad,
03:13
but now I'm getting back on my tube.
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ali ja se vraćam u svoju podezmnu.
03:16
My community will not feel we are unsafe
walking home after dark.
walking home after dark.
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Moja zajednica neće osjećati strah
kada bude išla kući po mraku.
kada bude išla kući po mraku.
03:19
We will get on the last tubes home,
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Ići ćemo zadnjim vlakovima kući,
03:21
and we will walk up our streets alone,
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i sami ćemo šetati ulicama,
03:23
because we will not ingrain
or submit to the idea
or submit to the idea
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jer nećemo prihvatiti i pasti
pod utjecaj ideje
pod utjecaj ideje
03:25
that we are putting ourselves
in danger in doing so.
in danger in doing so.
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da se dovodimo u opasnost
čineći to.
čineći to.
03:28
We will continue
to come together, like an army,
to come together, like an army,
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Nastavit ćemo
stupati skupa, poput vojske,
stupati skupa, poput vojske,
03:30
when any member
of our community is threatened.
of our community is threatened.
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kada se prijeti nekom našem članu.
03:33
And this is a fight you will not win."
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I to je borba u kojoj nećeš pobijediti."
03:37
At the time of writing this letter --
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Kada sam pisala ovo pismo --
03:39
(Applause)
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(Pljesak)
03:40
Thank you.
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Hvala vam.
03:42
(Applause)
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(Pljesak)
03:44
At the time of writing this letter,
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Kada sam pisala ovo pismo,
učila sam za ispite na Oxfordu,
03:46
I was studying for my exams in Oxford,
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i radila sam u tamošnjim lokalnim
novinama.
novinama.
03:48
and I was working
on the local student paper there.
on the local student paper there.
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Unatoč sreći zbog podrške obitelji
i prijatelja,
i prijatelja,
03:50
Despite being lucky enough to have
friends and family supporting me,
friends and family supporting me,
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osamila sam se.
03:54
it was an isolating time.
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Nisam poznavala nikog tko je
to prije prošao,
to prije prošao,
03:55
I didn't know anyone
who'd been through this before;
who'd been through this before;
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barem sam tako mislila.
03:57
at least I didn't think I did.
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Čitala bih novinske izvještaje, statistike,
i znala koliko su učestali seksualni napadi,
i znala koliko su učestali seksualni napadi,
03:59
I'd read news reports, statistics,
and knew how common sexual assault was,
and knew how common sexual assault was,
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ali nisam mogla imenovati nijednu osobu
04:02
yet I couldn't actually name
a single person
a single person
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za koju sam prije čula da priča o
ovakvom iskustvu.
ovakvom iskustvu.
04:04
that I'd heard speak out
about an experience of this kind before.
about an experience of this kind before.
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U ponešto spontanoj odluci,
04:07
So in a somewhat spontaneous decision,
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04:09
I decided that I would publish
my letter in the student paper,
my letter in the student paper,
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odlučila sam pismo objaviti
u studentskim novinama,
u studentskim novinama,
04:12
hoping to reach out to others in Oxford
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u nadi da ću doprijeti do
drugih u Oxfordu
drugih u Oxfordu
04:14
that might have had a similar experience
and be feeling the same way.
and be feeling the same way.
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koji su imali slično iskustvo
i osjećaju se slično.
i osjećaju se slično.
04:18
At the end of the letter,
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Na kraju pisma,
04:19
I asked others to write in
with their experiences
with their experiences
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pitala sam druge da pišu
04:21
under the hashtag, "#NotGuilty,"
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pod "#NotGuilty,"
04:23
to emphasize that survivors of assault
could express themselves
could express themselves
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da naglase kako se preživjeli
mogu izraziti
mogu izraziti
bez osjećaja srama ili krivnje
vezano za to što se dogodilo --
vezano za to što se dogodilo --
04:26
without feeling shame or guilt
about what happened to them --
about what happened to them --
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da pokažemo da se možemo oduprijeti
seksualnom napastovanju.
seksualnom napastovanju.
04:29
to show that we could all
stand up to sexual assault.
stand up to sexual assault.
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04:32
What I never anticipated
is that almost overnight,
is that almost overnight,
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Nisam očekivala da će
gotovo preko noći,
gotovo preko noći,
04:35
this published letter would go viral.
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ovo objavljeno pismo postati viralno.
04:37
Soon, we were receiving
hundreds of stories
hundreds of stories
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Uskoro smo primali
stotine priča
stotine priča
04:40
from men and women across the world,
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muškaraca i žena iz cijelog svijeta,
04:41
which we began to publish
on a website I set up.
on a website I set up.
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koje smo počeli objavljivati
na stranici koju sam postavila.
na stranici koju sam postavila.
04:44
And the hashtag became a campaign.
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Hashtag je postao kampanja.
04:47
There was an Australian mother in her 40s
who described how on an evening out,
who described how on an evening out,
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Majka iz Australije u 40-ima opisala je
kako ju je tijekom izlaska,
kako ju je tijekom izlaska,
04:51
she was followed to the bathroom
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u kupaonicu pratio
04:52
by a man who went
to repeatedly grab her crotch.
to repeatedly grab her crotch.
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muškarac koji ju je
opetovano hvatao za prepone.
opetovano hvatao za prepone.
04:55
There was a man in the Netherlands
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Čovjek iz Nizozemske je opisao
04:56
who described how he was date-raped
on a visit to London
on a visit to London
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kako je silovan na spoju tijekom posjeta
Londonu
Londonu
04:59
and wasn't taken seriously
by anyone he reported his case to.
by anyone he reported his case to.
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i nisu ga shvatili ozbiljno
kada je prijavio slučaj.
kada je prijavio slučaj.
Dobila sam osobne Facebook poruke
ljudi iz Indije i Južne Amerike,
ljudi iz Indije i Južne Amerike,
05:02
I had personal Facebook messages
from people in India and South America,
from people in India and South America,
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s pitanjima kako tamo prenijeti
poruku kampanje?
poruku kampanje?
05:06
saying, how can we bring
the message of the campaign there?
the message of the campaign there?
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05:08
One the first contributions we had
was from a woman called [Nikki],
was from a woman called [Nikki],
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Jedan od prvih doprinosa
bio je od žene koja se zvala Nikki,
bio je od žene koja se zvala Nikki,
koja je opisala kako je odrastala
uz oca koji ju je zlostavljao.
uz oca koji ju je zlostavljao.
05:11
who described growing up,
being molested my her own father.
being molested my her own father.
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05:14
And I had friends open up to me
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Prijatelji su mi pričali
05:16
about experiences ranging
from those that happened last week
from those that happened last week
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o iskustvima koja su se dogodila
prošlog tjedna
prošlog tjedna
05:19
to those that happened years ago,
that I'd had no idea about.
that I'd had no idea about.
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do onih koja su se dogodila
godinama prije za koje nisam znala.
godinama prije za koje nisam znala.
05:23
And the more we started
to receive these messages,
to receive these messages,
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I što smo više tih poruka primali,
05:25
the more we also started
to receive messages of hope --
to receive messages of hope --
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počeli smo dobivati i poruke nade --
05:28
people feeling empowered
by this community of voices
by this community of voices
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od ljudi koji su bili osnaženi ovom
zajednicom glasova
zajednicom glasova
05:30
standing up to sexual assault
and victim-blaming.
and victim-blaming.
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koji su ustali protiv seksualnih napada
i okrivljavanja žrtava.
i okrivljavanja žrtava.
05:33
One woman called Olivia,
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Žena imena Olivia je,
05:34
after describing how she was attacked
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nakon opisa kako ju je napala
05:36
by someone she had trusted
and cared about for a long time,
and cared about for a long time,
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osoba kojoj je vjerovala
i o kojoj se brinula dugo vremena
i o kojoj se brinula dugo vremena
05:39
said, "I've read many
of the stories posted here,
of the stories posted here,
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rekla, "Pročitala sam puno priča
objavljenih ovdje,
objavljenih ovdje,
05:41
and I feel hopeful that if so many
women can move forward,
women can move forward,
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i osjećam nadu kad vidim
da toliko žena ide naprijed,
da toliko žena ide naprijed,
da to mogu i ja.
05:44
then I can, too.
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Inspirirale su me mnoge,
05:45
I've been inspired by many,
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nadam se da ću i ja jednom
biti tako snažna.
biti tako snažna.
05:47
and I hope I can be as strong
as them someday.
as them someday.
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05:49
I'm sure I will."
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Sigurna sam da hoću."
05:51
People around the world began
tweeting under this hashtag,
tweeting under this hashtag,
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Ljudi širom svijeta, počeli su
tweetati pod tim hashtagom,
tweetati pod tim hashtagom,
05:53
and the letter was republished
and covered by the national press,
and covered by the national press,
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i pismo je ponovno objavljeno
i pratio ga je državni tisak,
i pratio ga je državni tisak,
i preveli su ga na nekoliko jezika
širom svijeta.
širom svijeta.
05:56
as well as being translated into several
other languages worldwide.
other languages worldwide.
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06:00
But something struck me
about the media attention
about the media attention
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Ali nešto me pogodilo
kod medijske pažnje
kod medijske pažnje
06:03
that this letter was attracting.
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koju je ovo pismo dobivalo.
06:04
For something to be front-page news,
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Da bi nešto bilo vijest s naslovnice,
06:06
given the word "news" itself,
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s obzirom na samu riječ "vijest",
06:09
we can assume it must be something new
or something surprising.
or something surprising.
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moramo pretpostaviti da to mora biti
nešto novo ili iznenađujuće.
nešto novo ili iznenađujuće.
06:13
And yet sexual assault
is not something new.
is not something new.
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Ali ipak, seksualno zlostavljanje
nije nešto novo.
nije nešto novo.
06:15
Sexual assault, along with other
kinds of injustices,
kinds of injustices,
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Seksualni napadi,
zajedno s drugim nepravdama,
zajedno s drugim nepravdama,
06:18
is reported in the media all the time.
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su stalno u medijima.
06:21
But through the campaign,
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Ali kroz kampanju,
06:22
these injustices were framed
as not just news stories,
as not just news stories,
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ove su nepravde oblikovane
ne samo kao priče iz novina,
ne samo kao priče iz novina,
06:25
they were firsthand experiences
that had affected real people,
that had affected real people,
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već iskustva iz prve ruke
koja su utjecala na stvarne ljude
koja su utjecala na stvarne ljude
06:28
who were creating,
with the solidarity of others,
with the solidarity of others,
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koji su stvarali,
uz solidarnost drugih,
uz solidarnost drugih,
06:30
what they needed
and had previously lacked:
and had previously lacked:
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ono što su trebali
i prije im je nedostajalo:
i prije im je nedostajalo:
06:32
a platform to speak out,
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platformu za govor,
06:34
the reassurance they weren't alone
or to blame for what happened to them
or to blame for what happened to them
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sigurnost da nisu sami
ili okrivljavanje za to što im se dogodilo
ili okrivljavanje za to što im se dogodilo
06:37
and open discussions that would help
to reduce stigma around the issue.
to reduce stigma around the issue.
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i otvorene rasprave koje će pomoći
smanjiti stigmu oko problema.
smanjiti stigmu oko problema.
06:41
The voices of those directly affected
were at the forefront of the story --
were at the forefront of the story --
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Glasovi onih na koje je to utjecalo
su bili u prvom planu priče --
su bili u prvom planu priče --
06:45
not the voices of journalists
or commentators on social media.
or commentators on social media.
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ne glasovi novinara ili komentatora
na društvenim mrežama.
na društvenim mrežama.
06:48
And that's why the story was news.
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I zato je ta priča bila vijest.
06:52
We live in an incredibly
interconnected world
interconnected world
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Živimo u nevjerojatno povezanom svijetu
06:54
with the proliferation of social media,
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sa procvatom društvenih mreža,
06:56
which is of course a fantastic resource
for igniting social change.
for igniting social change.
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što je naravno odličan resurs
u pokretanju društvenih promjena.
u pokretanju društvenih promjena.
06:59
But it's also made us
increasingly reactive,
increasingly reactive,
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Ali smo postali i reaktivniji,
07:02
from the smallest annoyances
of, "Oh, my train's been delayed,"
of, "Oh, my train's been delayed,"
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od najmanjih problema,
"Oh, moj vlak kasni,"
"Oh, moj vlak kasni,"
07:06
to the greatest injustices of war,
genocides, terrorist attacks.
genocides, terrorist attacks.
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do najvećih nepravdi, rata,
genocida, terorističkih napada.
genocida, terorističkih napada.
07:10
Our default response has become
to leap to react to any kind of grievance
to leap to react to any kind of grievance
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Naš osnovni odgovor postao je
brzo reagirati na bilo kakav problem
brzo reagirati na bilo kakav problem
07:14
by tweeting, Facebooking, hastagging --
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tvitajući, pišući na FB, hashtagovima --
07:16
anything to show others
that we, too, have reacted.
that we, too, have reacted.
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bilo što da bismo drugima pokazali
da smo i mi reagirali.
da smo i mi reagirali.
07:19
The problem with reacting
in this manner en masse
in this manner en masse
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Problem kod takvih masovnih reakcija
07:22
is it can sometimes mean
that we don't actually react at all,
that we don't actually react at all,
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je da to nekad zapravo znači
da uopće nismo reagirali,
da uopće nismo reagirali,
barem ne u smislu
da smo nešto zaista učinili.
da smo nešto zaista učinili.
07:25
not in the sense of actually
doing anything, anyway.
doing anything, anyway.
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Možda ćemo se osjećati bolje,
07:27
It might make ourselves feel better,
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kao da smo pridonijeli
grupnom žalovanju ili bijesu,
grupnom žalovanju ili bijesu,
07:29
like we've contributed
to a group mourning or outrage,
to a group mourning or outrage,
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ali to zapravo ništa ne mjenja.
07:31
but it doesn't actually change anything.
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07:33
And what's more,
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I važnije,
07:35
it can sometimes drown out the voices
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nekad može ugušiti glasove
07:36
of those directly
affected by the injustice,
affected by the injustice,
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onih na koje nepravda
direktno utječe,
direktno utječe,
07:39
whose needs must be heard.
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a čiji glas moramo čuti.
07:41
Worrying, too, is the tendency
for some reactions to injustice
for some reactions to injustice
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Zabrinjavajuće, također,
je to što neke reakcije na nepravdu
je to što neke reakcije na nepravdu
07:45
to build even more walls,
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grade još više zidova,
07:47
being quick to point fingers
with the hope of providing easy solutions
with the hope of providing easy solutions
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upirući prstom
s nadom da ćete ponuditi lako rješenje
s nadom da ćete ponuditi lako rješenje
07:50
to complex problems.
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za složene probleme.
07:52
One British tabloid,
on the publication of my letter,
on the publication of my letter,
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Jedan britanski tabloid,
prilikom objave mog pisma,
prilikom objave mog pisma,
07:54
branded a headline stating,
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objavio je naslov
07:56
"Oxford Student Launches
Online Campaign to Shame Attacker."
Online Campaign to Shame Attacker."
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"Studentica s Oxforda pokreće
online kampanju da osramoti napadača."
online kampanju da osramoti napadača."
08:01
But the campaign never
meant to shame anyone.
meant to shame anyone.
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Ali kampanja nikad nije bila
namijenjena tome.
namijenjena tome.
08:04
It meant to let people speak
and to make others listen.
and to make others listen.
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Trebala je dozvoliti ljudima da pričaju
i učiniti da drugi slušaju.
i učiniti da drugi slušaju.
08:08
Divisive Twitter trolls were quick
to create even more injustice,
to create even more injustice,
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Twitter trollovi brzo su stvorili
još više podjela,
još više podjela,
08:11
commenting on
my attacker's ethnicity or class
my attacker's ethnicity or class
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komentirajući etničku pripadnost ili
primanja
primanja
08:14
to push their own prejudiced agendas.
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kako bi progurali svoje predrasude.
08:17
And some even accused me
of feigning the whole thing
of feigning the whole thing
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A neki su me čak optužili
da sam lažirala cijelu stvar
da sam lažirala cijelu stvar
08:20
to push, and I quote,
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kako bih progurala, i citiram,
08:22
my "feminist agenda of man-hating."
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moju "feministički program mržnje
muškaraca."
muškaraca."
08:26
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
08:27
I know, right?
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Znam, zar ne?
08:29
As if I'm going to be like,
"Hey guys! Sorry I can't make it,
"Hey guys! Sorry I can't make it,
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Kao da ću doći i reći,
"Hej ljudi! Ne mogu doći,
"Hej ljudi! Ne mogu doći,
08:31
I'm busy trying to hate
the entire male population
the entire male population
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zaposlena sam pokušavajući
mrziti cijelu mušku populaciju
mrziti cijelu mušku populaciju
08:34
by the time I'm 30."
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prije tridesete."
08:35
(Laughter)
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(Smijeh)
08:36
Now, I'm almost sure
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Gotovo sam sigurna
08:39
that these people wouldn't say
the things the say in person.
the things the say in person.
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da ti ljudi ne bi govorili
stvari koje govore uživo.
stvari koje govore uživo.
08:42
But it's as if because they might
be behind a screen,
be behind a screen,
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Ali kao da je to što su iza ekrana,
08:44
in the comfort in their own home
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u udobnosti svojeg doma
08:46
when on social media,
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kada su na društvenim mrežama,
08:47
people forget that what
they're doing is a public act --
they're doing is a public act --
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razlog zbog kojeg zaborave
da je to što rade javni čin --
da je to što rade javni čin --
da će to drugi čitati
i da će na njih utjecati.
i da će na njih utjecati.
08:50
that other people will be reading it
and be affected by it.
and be affected by it.
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08:53
Returning to my analogy
of getting back on our trains,
of getting back on our trains,
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Vraćajući se na moju analogiju
vraćanje na naše vlakove,
vraćanje na naše vlakove,
08:56
another main concern I have
about this noise that escalates
about this noise that escalates
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još jedna velika briga koju imam
oko ove buke koja eskalira
oko ove buke koja eskalira
08:59
from our online responses to injustice
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od naših online odgovora na nepravdu
09:01
is that it can very easily slip
into portraying us as the affected party,
into portraying us as the affected party,
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je da sve vrlo lako može preći u
opisivanje nas kao povrijeđenih,
opisivanje nas kao povrijeđenih,
09:04
which can lead to a sense of defeatism,
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što može voditi do osjećaja poraza,
09:06
a kind of mental barrier to seeing
any opportunity for positivity or change
any opportunity for positivity or change
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mentalne barijere, spriječiti nas da
vidimo priliku za pozitivnost ili promjenu
vidimo priliku za pozitivnost ili promjenu
nakon negativne situacije.
09:10
after a negative situation.
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09:13
A couple of months
before the campaign started
before the campaign started
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Nekoliko mjeseci prije
početka kampanje
početka kampanje
09:15
or any of this happened to me,
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i ovoga što se meni dogodilo,
09:16
I went to a TEDx event in Oxford,
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bila sam na TEDx događaju u Oxfordu,
09:18
and I saw Zelda la Grange speak,
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i vidjela sam Zeldu le Grange kako priča,
09:20
the former private secretary
to Nelson Mandela.
to Nelson Mandela.
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bivšu tajnicu Nelsona Mandele.
09:22
One of the stories
she told really struck me.
she told really struck me.
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Jedna od priča koju je ispričala
zaista me pogodila.
zaista me pogodila.
09:25
She spoke of when
Mandela was taken to court
Mandela was taken to court
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Pričala je o tome kada je Mandela
odveden pred sud
odveden pred sud
09:27
by the South African Rugby Union
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od stranje Južnoafričkog ragbi sindikata
09:29
after he commissioned
an inquiry into sports affairs.
an inquiry into sports affairs.
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nakon što je postavio pitanje
u vezi sportskih afera.
u vezi sportskih afera.
09:32
In the courtroom,
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U sudnici,
09:33
he went up to the South African
Rugby Union's lawyers,
Rugby Union's lawyers,
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prišao je odvjetnicima Sindikata,
09:36
shook them by the hand
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pružio im ruku
09:37
and conversed with them,
each in their own language.
each in their own language.
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i pričao sa svakim,
na njihovom jeziku.
na njihovom jeziku.
09:39
And Zelda wanted to protest,
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Zelda je htjela prosvjedovati,
09:41
saying they had no right to his respect
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reći kako nemaju pravo na
njegovo poštovanje
njegovo poštovanje
09:43
after this injustice they had caused him.
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nakon nepravde koju
su mu nanijeli.
su mu nanijeli.
09:45
He turned to her and said,
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Okrenuo joj se i rekao,
09:48
"You must never allow the enemy
to determine the grounds for battle."
to determine the grounds for battle."
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"Nikad ne dozvoli neprijatelju
da određuje temelje za bitku."
da određuje temelje za bitku."
09:53
At the time of hearing these words,
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Čuvši te riječi,
09:55
I didn't really know why
they were so important,
they were so important,
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nisam znala zašto su tako važne,
09:57
but I felt they were, and I wrote them
down in a notebook I had on me.
down in a notebook I had on me.
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ali osjećala sam da jesu, i zapisala
sam ih u svoju bilježnicu.
sam ih u svoju bilježnicu.
10:01
But I've thought about this line
a lot ever since.
a lot ever since.
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I od tada puno razmišljam
o toj rečenici.
o toj rečenici.
10:04
Revenge, or the expression of hatred
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Osveta, ili izražavanje mržnje
prema
prema
10:06
towards those who have done us injustice
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onima koji su nam učinili nešto nažao
10:08
may feel like a human instinct
in the face of wrong,
in the face of wrong,
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možda se čini kao ljudski nagon
kada smo suočeni s nepravdom,
kada smo suočeni s nepravdom,
10:11
but we need to break out of these cycles
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ali moramo izaći iz tog ciklusa
10:13
if we are to hope to transform
negative events of injustice
negative events of injustice
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ako želimo transformirati
negativne događaje nepravde
negativne događaje nepravde
10:16
into positive social change.
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u pozitivnu društvenu promjenu.
10:18
To do otherwise
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Inače to
10:20
continues to let the enemy
determine the grounds for battle,
determine the grounds for battle,
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omogućuje neprijatelju
određivanja temelja za bitku,
određivanja temelja za bitku,
10:23
creates a binary,
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stvara binarni sustav,
10:24
where we who have suffered
become the affected,
become the affected,
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gdje mi koji smo patili
postajemo oni pod utjecajem,
postajemo oni pod utjecajem,
10:27
pitted against them, the perpetrators.
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nasuprot njih, počinitelja.
10:30
And just like we got back on our tubes,
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I kao što smo se vratili na podzemnu,
10:32
we can't let our platforms
for interconnectivity and community
for interconnectivity and community
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ne možemo dozvoliti da naše platforme
za komunikaciju i zajednicu
za komunikaciju i zajednicu
10:35
be the places that we settle for defeat.
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budu mjesta gdje se mirimo s
porazom.
porazom.
10:39
But I don't want to discourage
a social media response,
a social media response,
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Ali ne želim obeshrabriti
odgovor na društvenim mrežama,
odgovor na društvenim mrežama,
10:42
because I owe the development
of the #NotGuilty campaign
of the #NotGuilty campaign
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jer dugujem razvoj #NotGuilty kampanje
gotovo
gotovo
10:45
almost entirely to social media.
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u potpunosti društvenim mrežama.
10:46
But I do want to encourage
a more considered approach
a more considered approach
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Ali želim poticati promišljeniji pristup
načinu na
načinu na
koji ih koristimo
da odgovorimo na nepravdu.
da odgovorimo na nepravdu.
10:49
to the way we use it
to respond to injustice.
to respond to injustice.
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Za početak se zapitajmo dvije stvari.
10:51
The start, I think,
is to ask ourselves two things.
is to ask ourselves two things.
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Prvo: Zašto osjećam nepravdu?
10:54
Firstly: Why do I feel this injustice?
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10:56
In my case, there were
several answers to this.
several answers to this.
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U mom slučaju više je
odgovora na to pitanje.
odgovora na to pitanje.
10:58
Someone had hurt me and those who I loved,
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Netko je povrijedio mene
i ljude koje volim
i ljude koje volim
11:01
under the assumption they
wouldn't have to be held to account
wouldn't have to be held to account
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pod pretpostavkom da neće odgovarati
ili spoznati štetu koju je počinio.
11:04
or recognize the damage they had caused.
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Ne samo to, tisuće muškaraca
i žena pate svakog dana,
i žena pate svakog dana,
11:06
Not only that, but thousands
of men and women suffer every day
of men and women suffer every day
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11:08
from sexual abuse, often in silence,
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zlostavljani su, često u tišini,
11:10
yet it's still a problem we don't give
the same airtime to as other issues.
the same airtime to as other issues.
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ali je to i dalje problem koji nema
pozornost kao drugi problemi.
pozornost kao drugi problemi.
To je i dalje problem za koji
mnogi okrivljuju žrtve.
mnogi okrivljuju žrtve.
11:14
It's still an issue many people
blame victims for.
blame victims for.
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Sljedeće, zapitajte se:
Kako, u prepoznavanju tih razloga,
Kako, u prepoznavanju tih razloga,
11:16
Next, ask yourself: How,
in recognizing these reasons,
in recognizing these reasons,
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11:20
could I go about reversing them?
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ja mogu djelovati da ih obrnem?
11:22
With us, this was holding my attacker
to account -- and many others.
to account -- and many others.
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S nama, ovo je bilo pozivanje
krivca -- i mnogih drugih na odgovornost.
krivca -- i mnogih drugih na odgovornost.
11:25
It was calling them out
on the effect they had caused.
on the effect they had caused.
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Bilo je prozivanje
za učinak koji su imali.
za učinak koji su imali.
11:28
It was giving airtime
to the issue of sexual assault,
to the issue of sexual assault,
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Davanje medijskog prostora
seksualnom zlostavljanju,
seksualnom zlostavljanju,
11:31
opening up discussions amongst friends,
amongst families, in the media
amongst families, in the media
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pokrećući rasprave među prijateljima,
obiteljima, u medijima
obiteljima, u medijima
11:34
that had been closed for too long,
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koje su predugo zatvorene,
naglašavajući da žrtve
ne smiju osjećati krivicu
ne smiju osjećati krivicu
11:36
and stressing that victims
shouldn't feel to blame
shouldn't feel to blame
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za ono što im se dogodilo.
11:38
for what happened to them.
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Imamo dalek put pred nama
u rješavanju ovog problema u cijelosti,
u rješavanju ovog problema u cijelosti,
11:39
We might still have a long way to go
in solving this problem entirely.
in solving this problem entirely.
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ali ovako
11:43
But in this way,
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možemo koristiti društvene mreže
kao aktivan alat za društvenu pravdu,
kao aktivan alat za društvenu pravdu,
11:44
we can begin to use social media
as an active tool for social justice,
as an active tool for social justice,
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kao alat za edukaciju,
poticanje dijaloga,
poticanje dijaloga,
11:47
as a tool to educate,
to stimulate dialogues,
to stimulate dialogues,
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da bi ljudi na vlasti
bili svjesni problema
bili svjesni problema
11:49
to make those in positions
of authority aware of an issue
of authority aware of an issue
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slušajući one na koje to direktno utječe.
11:52
by listening to those
directly affected by it.
directly affected by it.
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11:56
Because sometimes these questions
don't have easy answers.
don't have easy answers.
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Jer nekad pitanja nemaju lak odgovor.
12:00
In fact, they rarely do.
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Zapravo, rijetko imaju.
12:02
But this doesn't mean we still
can't give them a considered response.
can't give them a considered response.
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Ali to ne znači da ne možemo
dati promišljeni odgovor.
dati promišljeni odgovor.
12:06
In situations where
you can't go about thinking
you can't go about thinking
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U situacijama gdje
ne možete ići i razmišljati
ne možete ići i razmišljati
12:08
how you'd reverse
this feeling of injustice,
this feeling of injustice,
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kako biste obrnuli
ovaj osjećaj nepravde,
ovaj osjećaj nepravde,
12:10
you can still think,
maybe not what you can do,
maybe not what you can do,
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još uvijek možete misliti,
možda ne što možete učiniti,
možda ne što možete učiniti,
12:13
but what you can not do.
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već nešto što možete ne učiniti.
12:15
You can not build further walls
by fighting injustice with more prejudice,
by fighting injustice with more prejudice,
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Možete ne graditi zidove
boreći se protiv nepravde predrasudama,
boreći se protiv nepravde predrasudama,
12:19
more hatred.
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mržnjom.
12:20
You can not speak over those
directly affected by an injustice.
directly affected by an injustice.
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Možete ne pričati mimo onih
na koje nepravda direktno utječe.
na koje nepravda direktno utječe.
12:25
And you can not react to injustice,
only to forget about it the next day,
only to forget about it the next day,
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Možete ne reagirati na nepravdu,
samo da biste ju zaboravili sljedeći dan,
samo da biste ju zaboravili sljedeći dan,
12:29
just because the rest
of Twitter has moved on.
of Twitter has moved on.
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jer je ostatak Twittera nastavio dalje.
12:32
Sometimes not reacting
instantly is, ironically,
instantly is, ironically,
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Nekad je, ironično, ne reagiranje odmah
12:36
the best immediate course
of action we can take.
of action we can take.
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najbolja prva reakcija koju možemo imati.
12:39
Because we might be angry, upset
and energized by injustice,
and energized by injustice,
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Jer možda smo ljuti, uznemireni
i energizirani zbog nepravde,
i energizirani zbog nepravde,
12:44
but let's consider our responses.
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ali promislimo naš odgovor.
12:47
Let us hold people to account,
without descending into a culture
without descending into a culture
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Pozovimo ljude na odgovornost,
bez upadanja u kulturu
bez upadanja u kulturu
12:50
that thrives off shaming
and injustice ourselves.
and injustice ourselves.
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koja uživa u posramljivanju
i nepravdi nas samih.
i nepravdi nas samih.
12:54
Let us remember that distinction,
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Sjetimo se te podjele,
12:56
so often forgotten by internet users,
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koju korisnici interneta često
zaboravljaju,
zaboravljaju,
12:58
between criticism and insult.
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između kritike i uvrede.
13:01
Let us not forget
to think before we speak,
to think before we speak,
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Ne zaboravimo
misliti prije nego kažemo,
misliti prije nego kažemo,
13:03
just because we might
have a screen in front of us.
have a screen in front of us.
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jer možda imamo ekran ispred nas.
13:05
And when we create noise on social media,
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Kada stvaramo buku na društvenim mrežama,
13:07
let it not drown out the needs
of those affected,
of those affected,
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ne dozvolimo da uguši potrebe pogođenih,
13:10
but instead let it amplify their voices,
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dozvolimo joj da pojača njihove glasove,
13:12
so the internet becomes a place
where you're not the exception
where you're not the exception
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tako da Internet postane mjesto
gdje niste iznimka
gdje niste iznimka
ako govorite o nečem
što vam se zaista dogodilo.
što vam se zaista dogodilo.
13:15
if you speak out about something
that has actually happened to you.
that has actually happened to you.
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Svi ovi promišljeni pristupi
nepravdi
nepravdi
13:18
All these considered
approaches to injustice
approaches to injustice
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pozivaju temelje na kojima
je izgrađen internet:
je izgrađen internet:
13:20
evoke the very keystones
on which the internet was built:
on which the internet was built:
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13:24
to network, to have signal, to connect --
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da se povežemo, imamo signal,
da se spojimo --
da se spojimo --
13:26
all these terms that imply
bringing people together,
bringing people together,
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svi ovi izrazi impliciraju
zbližavanje ljudi,
zbližavanje ljudi,
13:29
not pushing people apart.
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ne udaljavanje,
13:31
Because if you look up the word
"justice" in the dictionary,
"justice" in the dictionary,
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Jer ako u rječniku potražite riječ
"pravda",
"pravda",
13:35
before punishment,
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prije kazne,
13:37
before administration of law
or judicial authority,
or judicial authority,
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prije primjene zakona ili ovlasti,
13:41
you get:
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dobijete:
13:42
"The maintenance of what is right."
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"Održavanje onoga što je pravo."
13:45
And I think there are a few things
more "right" in this world
more "right" in this world
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I mislim da ima nema puno stvari
koje su "pravije" u ovom svijetu
koje su "pravije" u ovom svijetu
13:49
than bringing people together,
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od zbližavanja ljudi,
13:51
than unions.
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od zajednica.
13:53
And if we allow social media
to deliver that,
to deliver that,
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I ako dozvolimo društvenim mrežama
da to isporuče,
da to isporuče,
13:55
then it can deliver a very powerful
form of justice, indeed.
form of justice, indeed.
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onda mogu stvoriti vrlo snažan oblik
pravde.
pravde.
14:00
Thank you very much.
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Hvala vam puno.
14:01
(Applause)
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(Pljesak)
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Ione Wells - Writer, activistUniversity student Ione Wells is the founder of the international #NotGuilty campaign against sexual violence and misdirected victim blaming.
Why you should listen
Ione Wells is a student at the University of Oxford in the UK, where she just started her third year reading for a degree in English Language and Literature, and a keen writer and journalist.
After being the victim of an assault in London in early 2015, she published a letter to her assaulter in a student newspaper, which went viral, attracting enormous attention and prompting the sharing of countless experiences by others around the world on social media.
That reaction prompted her to set up the international #NotGuilty campaign against sexual violence and misdirected victim-blaming, which has a website providing a platform for people to speak out. Since then, she has written about these issues for multiple publications, commented on radio and television, spoken at several festivals, hosted support groups and workshops for survivors of assault, and led workshops in schools.
She is the former editor of Oxford University’s student magazine, The Isis, and has an active interest in human rights, international relations, theatre, and wild swimming.
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