ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Angela Patton - Activist
Angela Patton is an ambassador for who she calls "at-promise" (as opposed to "at-risk") girls and a serial innovator.

Why you should listen

As the leader and CEO of Girls For A Change (GFAC), Angela Patton is committed to "preparing black girls for the world ... and the world for black Girls. Patton founded Camp Diva in Richmond, Virginia in 2004, to honor Diva Mstadi Smith-Roan, a five-year-old who died in a firearm accident earlier that year. That summer, Patton planned a two-week experience that gave Diva's mother an opportunity to share her motherly love with girls in need of a support system. The program grew and went national in October 2013, when Camp Diva merged with California-based Girls For A Change, a nonprofit through which 100 girls' groups throughout nation work together to envision and execute lasting change in their neighborhoods, cities or schools. In the summer of 2016, Patton lead her board and staff to retool the organization's focus and build a program structure to more accurately reflect GFAC's goal to work with black girls and to disseminate our programs using a specific, replicable approach.

Following the release of Patton's TED Talk describing a father-daughter dance for incarcerated dads and their "at-promise" girls, her work was featured on ABC World News, Inside Edition, NPR and This is Life Lisa Ling. She has spoken for corporations, at conferences on girls as well as colleges and universities throughout the country. When she isn't inspiring change, advocating gender equality and empowering girls, she enjoys festivals and concerts with her husband and motivator, Raymond Patton, and their loving children, Imhotep and Asani.

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TEDxWomen 2012

Angela Patton: A father-daughter dance ... in prison

Angela Patton: 監獄裡的父女共舞

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在 Camp Diva,Angela Patton 努力幫助女孩與她們的父親保持聯繫,進入彼此生活,但是因為父親還在服刑而不能出席,他們的女兒該怎麼辦?Patton 講述一個故事,這是關於一場非常特別的父女共舞。(於TEDxWomen拍攝)
- Activist
Angela Patton is an ambassador for who she calls "at-promise" (as opposed to "at-risk") girls and a serial innovator. Full bio

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I was sitting坐在 with my girls女孩,
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當時我跟組織裡的小女孩們坐在一起
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and Joy喜悅 said,
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喬伊說
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"Dang, I wish希望 he'd他會 get off my back.
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「我希望他不要再打來煩我」
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My daddy, he calls電話 me all the time."
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「我爸爸每次都會打給我」
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"Lucky幸運 for you he calls電話 at all," said Jasmine茉莉花.
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潔絲米說「你還算幸運,他都會打給你」
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"I haven't沒有 heard聽說 from my dad in years年份."
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「我好久沒聽到我爸爸的聲音了」
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At this moment時刻, I knew知道 the girls女孩 needed需要 a way
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此刻,我知道這些女孩需要有一個管道
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to connect with their fathers父親.
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聯絡她們的父親
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At Camp Diva女神, my non-profit非盈利 organization組織,
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在Camp Diva,我們的非營利組織
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we have these types類型 of conversations對話 all the time
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我們有持續在做各式對談
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as a way to help girls女孩 of African非洲人 descent降落
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當作是一種方法,幫助非裔美國女孩
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prepare準備 for their passage通道 into womanhood女大十八變.
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為她們即將邁向成年做準備
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These girls女孩 just needed需要
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這些女孩只是需要
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a way to invite邀請 their fathers父親 into their lives生活
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邀請她們的父親進入她們的生活
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on their own擁有 terms條款.
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用她們自己的方式
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So I asked the girls女孩,
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所以我問這些女孩
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"How can we help other girls女孩
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「我們能如何幫助其他女孩
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develop發展 healthy健康 relationships關係 with their fathers父親?"
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跟她們的父親發展出健全的關係?」
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"Let's have a dance舞蹈," one girl女孩 shouted喝道,
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一位女孩大聲喊說「大家一起來跳舞」
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and all the girls女孩 quickly很快 backed已備份 her up.
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所有女孩都支持她的想法
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They started開始 dreaming做夢 about the decorations,
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她們開始幻想要如何佈置場地
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invitations邀請函, the dresses禮服 they were going to wear穿,
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邀請事宜,要穿什麼衣服
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and what their fathers父親 could and could not wear穿. (Laughter笑聲)
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還有她們的父親可能或可能不會穿的(笑聲)
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It was off and running賽跑 before I could even blink my eyes眼睛,
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彈指之間,她們就開始討論了
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but even if I could have slowed放緩 down those girls女孩,
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即使我能夠讓那些女孩冷靜下來
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I wouldn't不會 have,
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我也不會這麼做
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because one thing that I have learned學到了
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因為我學到一件事
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from over a decade of working加工 with girls女孩
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我跟這群女孩在一起,已經超過十年
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is that they already已經 know what they need.
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她們都已經知道自己需要什麼
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The wisdom智慧 lives生活 inside of them.
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她們本身就擁有這種智慧
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As long as they have infrastructure基礎設施,
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只要她們有基本概念
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mentorship導師 and resources資源,
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有人引導,有資源
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they can build建立 what they need,
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就能構築出她們需要的東西
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not only to survive生存, but to thrive興旺.
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不僅能獨立自主,也能更成功
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So we had a dance舞蹈,
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所以我們辦了一場舞會
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and girls女孩 and their fathers父親 came來了 in multitudes眾人.
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很多對父女一起來參加活動
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They were dressed連衣裙的 to the nines花枝招展.
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他們都穿著正式服裝
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They acted行動 sweet.
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她們的姿勢很可愛
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(Laughter笑聲)
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(笑聲)
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They acted行動 silly愚蠢.
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他們的動作很笨拙
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They really enjoyed享受 each other's其他 company公司.
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他們非常享受彼此的陪伴
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It was a huge巨大 success成功.
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活動非常成功
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And the girls女孩 decided決定 to make it an annual全年 event事件.
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這些女孩決定每年都要舉辦這種活動
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So as the seasons季節 changed,
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隨著時間流逝
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and it was time to plan計劃 the dance舞蹈 again,
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又到該再次籌備舞會的時候了
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one girl女孩 named命名 Brianna布賴恩 spoke up,
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有一名叫布莉安娜的女孩
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and she said,
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她說
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"My dad can't come to the dance舞蹈,
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「我爸爸不能來參加舞會」
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and this whole整個 thing is making製造 me sad傷心."
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「這件事讓我很難過」
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"Why not?" the girls女孩 asked.
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「為什麼?」女孩們問
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"Because he's in jail監獄," she bravely勇敢地 admitted承認.
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「因為他在監獄服刑」,她勇敢承認
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"Well, can he just get out for a day?" one of the girls女孩 asked. (Laughter笑聲)
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「那他能夠出來一天嗎?」 其中一位女孩問道(笑聲)
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"And come in shackles鐐銬?
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「戴著腳鐐來?」
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That's worse更差 than not having him here at all."
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「他乾脆不要參加好了」
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At this moment時刻, I saw an opportunity機會
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此刻,我看到一個機會
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for the girls女孩 to rise上升 to the occasion場合
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能讓女孩們舉辦這場舞會
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and to become成為 their own擁有 heroes英雄.
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讓她們為自己作主
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So I asked, "What do you think we should do about this?
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所以我問說「你們認為我們應該要怎麼做才好?」
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We want every一切 girl女孩 to experience經驗 the dance舞蹈, right?"
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「我們想讓每個女孩都能參加舞會,對嗎?」
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So the girls女孩 thought for a moment時刻,
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所以這群女孩又想了一下
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and one girl女孩 suggested建議,
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然後有一位女孩建議
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"Why don't we just take the dance舞蹈 in the jail監獄?"
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「為什麼我們不在監獄裡辦舞會呢?」
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Most of the girls女孩 doubted懷疑 the possibility可能性 of that,
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大多數女孩都質疑這種方法的可行性
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and said, "Are you crazy?
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說「你瘋了嗎?」
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Who is going to allow允許 a bunch of little girls女孩,
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「誰會讓一群小女孩
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dressed連衣裙的 up — " (Laughter笑聲)
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盛裝打扮
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" — to come inside a jail監獄 and dance舞蹈 with their daddies爸爸 in Spongebob海綿寶寶 suits西裝?"
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進監獄和父親跳舞,父親還穿得像海綿寶寶」
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Because that's what they called them.
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因為她們就是這樣說的
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I said, "Girls女孩, well, well,
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我說,「大家冷靜一下」
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you never know unless除非 you ask."
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「除非你們去問,否則永遠也不會知道答案」
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So a letter was written書面 to the Richmond里士滿 City Sheriff郡治安官,
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所以大家寫一封信,寄給里奇蒙市的警長
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signed collectively by each girl女孩,
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每位女孩都在上面簽名連署
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and I would have to say, he is a very special特別 sheriff郡治安官.
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我必須說,他是一位很特別的警長
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He contacted聯繫 me immediately立即 and said,
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他馬上就與我連繫,表示
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whenever每當 there is an opportunity機會 to bring帶來 families家庭 inside,
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若有機會帶小朋友們進去探視
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his doors are always open打開.
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他的大門隨時都會為我們敞開
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Because one thing he did know,
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因為他確信一件事
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that when fathers父親 are connected連接的 to their children孩子,
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父親能與自己小孩建立關係時
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it is less likely容易 that they will return返回.
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就表示他們不太可能再走回頭路
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So,
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所以
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16 inmates囚犯 and 18 girls女孩 were invited邀請.
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16名受刑人與18名女孩受到邀請
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The girls女孩 were dressed連衣裙的 in their Sunday星期日 best最好,
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女孩們穿著正式服裝
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and the fathers父親 traded交易 in their yellow黃色 and blue藍色 jumpsuits囚服
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父親們將黃藍相間的工作服
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for shirts襯衫 and ties聯繫.
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換成襯衫和領帶
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They hugged擁抱.
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他們相互擁抱
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They shared共享 a full充分 catered照顧 meal膳食 of chicken and fish.
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他們一起享用有雞有魚的大餐
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They laughed笑了 together一起.
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他們一起歡笑
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It was beautiful美麗.
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景象非常溫馨
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The fathers父親 and daughters女兒 even experienced有經驗的
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父親們和女兒們甚至能
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an opportunity機會 to have a physical物理 connection連接,
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有肢體接觸的機會
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something that a lot of them didn't even have
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他們多數人已經沒有過這種互動
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for a while.
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有一段時間了
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Fathers父親 were in a space空間 where they were able能夠 to
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父親們會到一個活動空間
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make their daughters女兒 play,
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他們能與女兒互動
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and pull out her chair椅子 and extend延伸 his hand for a dance舞蹈.
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拉出她的椅子,伸出手邀請女兒跳舞
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Even the guards衛士 cried哭了.
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甚至連守衛都哭了
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But after the dance舞蹈,
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但是舞會結束之後
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we all realized實現 that Dad still would be in jail監獄.
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我們都意識到爸爸還在服刑
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So we needed需要 to create創建 something
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所以我們需要做些東西
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that they could take with them.
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讓他們能夠帶在身邊
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So we brought in Flip翻動 cams凸輪,
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所以我們將攝影機帶來
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and we had them look at the Flip翻動 cams凸輪
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讓女孩能拍攝父親
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and just interview訪問 each other --
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互相訪問
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their messages消息, their thoughts思念.
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錄下彼此想傳達的訊息、想法
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This was going to be used as a touchstone試金石
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這能夠當作是一種新的嘗試
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so when they started開始 to miss小姐 each other
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在他們開始思念彼此的時候
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and feel disconnected斷開的,
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心情落寞的時候
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they could reconnect重新連接 through通過 this image圖片.
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他們就能藉由影像想起當時情景
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I'll never forget忘記 that one girl女孩 looked看著 in her father's父親的 eyes眼睛
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我絕不會忘記,一名女孩看著她父親的眼睛
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with that camera相機 and said,
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對著錄影機說
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"Daddy, when you look at me, what do you see?"
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「爸爸,你看著我眼睛時,你看到什麼?」
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Because our daddies爸爸 are our mirrors鏡子
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因為我們的父親就是我們的榜樣
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that we reflect反映 back on
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我們會受到他們影響
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when we decide決定 about what type類型 of man we deserve值得,
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我們在選自己未來另一半的時候
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and how they see us for the rest休息 of our lives生活.
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還有他們會如何看待我們接下來的人生
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I know that very well,
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我非常清楚
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because I was one of the lucky幸運 girls女孩.
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因為我就是其中一位幸運的女孩
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I have had
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在我的一生中
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my father父親 in my life always.
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我的父親一直都陪伴著我
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He's even here today今天.
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甚至今天他也來到現場
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(Applause掌聲)
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(掌聲)
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And that is why it is extremely非常 special特別
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這就是為什麼這件事對我來說會如此特別
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for me to make sure that these girls女孩
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確保這些女孩
07:42
are connected連接的 to their fathers父親,
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能夠連繫他們的父親
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especially特別 those who are separated分離
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特別是那些父親遭到隔離的女孩
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because of barbed帶刺 wires電線 and metal金屬 doors.
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因為隔著一道刺鐵絲網和金屬門
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We have just created創建 a form形成
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我們只是創造一種方法給女孩
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for girls女孩 who have heavy questions問題 on their heart
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她們都有潛藏許久的問題
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to be in a position位置 to ask their fathers父親 those questions問題
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給她們機會問她們父親那些問題
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and given特定 the fathers父親 the freedom自由 to answer回答.
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同時能讓父親們有自由空間能回答
08:08
Because we know that the fathers父親
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因為我們都知道這些父親
08:12
are even leaving離開 with this one thought:
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甚至都只剩一個想法
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What type類型 of woman女人 am I preparing準備 to put in the world世界?
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我的女兒長大會是什麼樣子?
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Because a father父親 is locked鎖定 in
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就因為一位父親在監獄服刑
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does not mean he should be locked鎖定 out
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不表示他應該被排除
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of his daughter's女兒的 life.
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在他的女兒生活之外
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(Applause掌聲)
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(掌聲)
Translated by Bert Chen
Reviewed by Jui-Hsin Chen

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Angela Patton - Activist
Angela Patton is an ambassador for who she calls "at-promise" (as opposed to "at-risk") girls and a serial innovator.

Why you should listen

As the leader and CEO of Girls For A Change (GFAC), Angela Patton is committed to "preparing black girls for the world ... and the world for black Girls. Patton founded Camp Diva in Richmond, Virginia in 2004, to honor Diva Mstadi Smith-Roan, a five-year-old who died in a firearm accident earlier that year. That summer, Patton planned a two-week experience that gave Diva's mother an opportunity to share her motherly love with girls in need of a support system. The program grew and went national in October 2013, when Camp Diva merged with California-based Girls For A Change, a nonprofit through which 100 girls' groups throughout nation work together to envision and execute lasting change in their neighborhoods, cities or schools. In the summer of 2016, Patton lead her board and staff to retool the organization's focus and build a program structure to more accurately reflect GFAC's goal to work with black girls and to disseminate our programs using a specific, replicable approach.

Following the release of Patton's TED Talk describing a father-daughter dance for incarcerated dads and their "at-promise" girls, her work was featured on ABC World News, Inside Edition, NPR and This is Life Lisa Ling. She has spoken for corporations, at conferences on girls as well as colleges and universities throughout the country. When she isn't inspiring change, advocating gender equality and empowering girls, she enjoys festivals and concerts with her husband and motivator, Raymond Patton, and their loving children, Imhotep and Asani.

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Angela Patton | Speaker | TED.com

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