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Isabel Allende - Novelist
Isabel Allende writes stories of passion. Her novels and memoirs, including The House of the Spirits and Eva Luna, tell the stories of women and men who live with passionate commitment -- to love, to their world, to an ideal.

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As a novelist and memoirist, Isabel Allende writes of passionate lives, including her own. Born into a Chilean family with political ties, she went into exile in the United States in the 1970s—an event that, she believes, created her as a writer. Her voice blends sweeping narrative with touches of magical realism; her stories are romantic, in the very best sense of the word. Her novels include The House of the SpiritsEva Luna and The Stories of Eva Luna, and her latest, Maya's Notebook and Ripper. And don't forget her adventure trilogy for young readers— City of the BeastsKingdom of the Golden Dragon and Forest of the Pygmies.

As a memoirist, she has written about her vision of her lost Chile, in My Invented Country, and movingly tells the story of her life to her own daughter, in Paula. Her book Aphrodite: A Memoir of the Senses memorably linked two sections of the bookstore that don't see much crossover: Erotica and Cookbooks. Just as vital is her community work: The Isabel Allende Foundation works with nonprofits in the San Francisco Bay Area and Chile to empower and protect women and girls—understanding that empowering women is the only true route to social and economic justice.

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Isabel Allende: How to live passionately—no matter your age

伊莎貝·阿言德: 如何對生活充滿熱情—無論你幾歲

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伊莎貝·阿言德是一位七十一歲的作家。沒錯,她的確有一些皺紋,但同時也有很多不可思議的見解。在這率真,男女老少皆宜的演講中,她講述自己對於老化過程的恐懼與感慨,並與我們分享她如何繼續自己充滿熱情的生活。
- Novelist
Isabel Allende writes stories of passion. Her novels and memoirs, including The House of the Spirits and Eva Luna, tell the stories of women and men who live with passionate commitment -- to love, to their world, to an ideal. Full bio

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Hi你好, kids孩子.
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嗨,孩子們。
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(Laughter笑聲)
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(笑聲)
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I'm 71.
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我七十一歲了。
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(Applause掌聲)
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(掌聲)
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My husband丈夫 is 76.
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我的丈夫七十六歲了。
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My parents父母 are in their late晚了 90s,
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我的父母年歲近百,
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and Olivia奧利維亞, the dog, is 16.
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那隻狗奧莉維亞十六歲。
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So let's talk about aging老化.
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所以今晚我們來談談老化。
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Let me tell you how I feel
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讓我告訴你當我在鏡子裡
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when I see my wrinkles皺紋 in the mirror鏡子
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看到皺紋時的感受,
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and I realize實現 that some parts部分 of me have dropped下降
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就是發覺自己掉了某些東西
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and I can't find them down there.
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卻在下面也遍尋不著。
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(Laughter笑聲)
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(笑聲)
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Mary瑪麗 Oliver奧利弗 says in one of her poems,
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瑪麗·奧利佛在她的詩裡曾說:
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"Tell me, what is it that you plan計劃 to do
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「告訴我,你打算用你瘋狂、寶貴的人生
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with your one wild野生 and precious珍貴 life?"
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來做些什麼?」
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Me, I intend打算 to live生活 passionately熱情.
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我呢,想要過得很有熱情。
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When do we start開始 aging老化?
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我們從何時開始老化呢?
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Society社會 decides決定 when we are old,
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這取決於我們的社會,
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usually平時 around 65, when we get Medicare醫保,
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這通常是六十五歲
獲得聯邦醫療保險後,
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but we really start開始 aging老化 at birth分娩.
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但其實我們自出生以來
就一直在老化。
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We are aging老化 right now,
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我們現在正老著,
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and we all experience經驗 it differently不同.
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但我們每個人的經驗
都略有不同。
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We all feel younger更年輕 than our real真實 age年齡,
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我們都覺得自己
比實際年齡要來的年輕,
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because the spirit精神 never ages年齡.
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因為精神永不變老。
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I am still 17.
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我仍只有十七歲。
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Sophia索菲亞 Loren洛倫. Look at her.
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這位是蘇菲亞·羅倫,看看她。
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She says that everything you see
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她說你所看到她的一切
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she owes to spaghetti意大利面.
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都歸功於義大利麵。
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I tried試著 it and gained獲得 10 pounds英鎊
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我試著學她,
反倒在不對的地方
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in the wrong錯誤 places地方.
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增了十磅。
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But attitude態度, aging老化 is also attitude態度 and health健康.
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態度,老化也有關態度和健康。
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But my real真實 mentor導師 in this journey旅程 of aging老化
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但真正成為我老化歷程嚮導的人
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is Olga奧爾加 Murray穆雷.
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是奧加·莫瑞。
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This California加州 girl女孩 at 60
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這個加州女孩在六十歲時
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started開始 working加工 in Nepal尼泊爾 to save保存 young年輕 girls女孩
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開始在尼泊爾救濟少女,
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from domestic國內 bondage束縛.
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幫助她們遠離奴隸販賣。
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At 88, she has saved保存 12,000 girls女孩,
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八十八歲時,
她救了十二萬名少女,
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and she has changed the culture文化 in the country國家.
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並改變了當地的文化。
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(Applause掌聲)
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Now it is illegal非法 for fathers父親
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現在當地的父親
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to sell their daughters女兒 into servitude奴役.
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不能將自己的女兒
賣去當奴隸,否則違法。
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She has also founded成立 orphanages孤兒
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她還發起了幾所孤兒院
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and nutritional營養 clinics診所.
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以及營養門診。
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She is always happy快樂
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她總是很快樂,
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and eternally萬古 young年輕.
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心靈上也總是很年輕。
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What have I lost丟失 in the last decades幾十年?
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幾十年來,我喪失了什麼?
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People, of course課程,
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當然是人,
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places地方, and the boundless漫漫 energy能源 of my youth青年,
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還有地方和年輕時候無限的精力,
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and I'm beginning開始 to lose失去 independence獨立,
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此時的我開始喪失
自我獨立的能力,
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and that scares恐慌 me.
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那真的很嚇人。
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Ram內存 Dass達斯 says that dependency依賴 hurts傷害,
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朗·達斯說,需要依賴別人很痛心,
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but if you accept接受 it, there is less suffering痛苦.
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但若你能接受事實,
那麼就能受少些苦。
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After a very bad stroke行程,
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他中了風以後,
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his ageless永恆 soul靈魂 watches手錶 the changes變化
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用他那不老的心靈
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in the body身體 with tenderness壓痛,
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去細心關照自己體內的變化,
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and he is grateful感激 to the people who help him.
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並由衷感激
那些曾幫助過他的人。
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What have I gained獲得?
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那我又得到了甚麼?
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Freedom自由: I don't have to prove證明 anything anymore.
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那就是:不必向任何人證明的自由。
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I'm not stuck卡住 in the idea理念 of who I was,
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我不再拘泥於對自己的看法,
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who I want to be,
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和理想中的自己,
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or what other people expect期望 me to be.
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或是別人對我的期望。
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I don't have to please men男人 anymore,
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我不再需要討好男人,
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only animals動物.
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只要討好動物就好。
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I keep telling告訴 my superego超我 to back off
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我總告訴自己的超我意識退下
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and let me enjoy請享用 what I still have.
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且讓我享受僅存的時間。
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My body身體 may可能 be falling落下 apart距離,
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我的身體可能大不如前,
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but my brain is not, yet然而.
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但我的腦袋仍很健壯。
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I love my brain.
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我喜歡我的腦袋。
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I feel lighter打火機.
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我覺得輕鬆。
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I don't carry攜帶 grudges結怨, ambition志向, vanity虛榮,
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我不帶憎恨、野心或是虛榮心,
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none沒有 of the deadly致命 sins that are not even
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這些事情根本不值得
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worth價值 the trouble麻煩.
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我們花費心思。
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It's great to let go.
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懂得放下很好。
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I should have started開始 sooner.
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早知道,我會更早學習放下。
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And I also feel softer柔和
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同時,我也感到更溫柔,
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because I'm not scared害怕 of being存在 vulnerable弱勢.
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因為我再也不害怕受傷害。
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I don't see it as weakness弱點 anymore.
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我再也不認為這是個弱點。
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And I've gained獲得 spirituality靈性.
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還有,我得到了靈性。
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I'm aware知道的 that before,
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我之前就明白
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death死亡 was in the neighborhood鄰里.
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處處都有死亡的風險。
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Now, it's next下一個 door, or in my house.
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現在,死亡可能
就在隔壁,或是我家。
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I try to live生活 mindfully正念
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我試著踏實的過活
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and be present當下 in the moment時刻.
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並活在當下。
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By the way, the Dalai達賴 Lama喇嘛
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順道一提,達賴喇嘛
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is someone有人 who has aged beautifully精美,
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是個老得很精彩的人,
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but who wants to be vegetarian and celibate獨身?
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不過有誰想吃素又禁慾?
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(Laughter笑聲)
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(笑聲)
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Meditation冥想 helps幫助.
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靜坐很有幫助。
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(Video視頻) Child兒童: OmmmOmmm. OmmmOmmm. OmmmOmmm.
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(影片)小孩:唵,唵,唵。
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Isabel伊莎貝爾 Allende阿連德: OmmmOmmm. OmmmOmmm. There it is.
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伊莎貝兒:唵,唵。就是這樣。
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And it's good to start開始 early.
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早點開始很好。
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You know, for a vain徒然 female like myself,
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知道嗎,對於像我這樣
愛慕虛榮的女性來說,
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it's very hard to age年齡 in this culture文化.
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要在這社會老化是很不容易的。
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Inside, I feel good, I feel charming迷人, seductive妖媚, sexy性感的.
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我個人覺得自己很好,
很迷人且性感誘人。
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Nobody沒有人 else其他 sees看到 that. (Laughter笑聲)
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但沒人看得見。(笑聲)
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I'm invisible無形.
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我是隱形的。
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I want to be the center中央 of attention注意.
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我想要成為焦點。
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I hate討厭 to be invisible無形.
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我很討厭自己是隱形的。
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(Laughter笑聲) (Applause掌聲)
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(笑聲)(掌聲)
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This is Grace恩典 Dammann達曼.
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這是葛雷絲·達曼。
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She has been in a wheelchair輪椅 for six years年份
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一場意外的車禍
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after a terrible可怕 car汽車 accident事故.
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使得她六年來依靠輪椅生活。
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She says that there is nothing more sensual聲色
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她說,沒有什麼比熱水澡
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than a hot shower淋浴,
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要來得令人滿足,
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that every一切 drop下降 of water
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因為每一滴水
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is a blessing祝福 to the senses感官.
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都是感官上的享受。
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She doesn't see herself她自己 as disabled.
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她不視自己為殘障人士。
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In her mind心神, she's still surfing衝浪 in the ocean海洋.
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在她的認知裡,
她仍暢遊大海。
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Ethel埃塞爾 SeidermanSeiderman, a feisty易怒的, beloved心愛 activist活動家
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活躍的伊索·瑟德曼,
一個倍受愛戴的活動家,
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in the place地點 where I live生活 in California加州.
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跟我住在加州的同一區。
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She wears穿 red patent專利 shoes,
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她總穿著紅色漆皮鞋,
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and her mantra口頭禪 is that one scarf圍巾 is nice不錯
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她的口頭禪是
一條圍巾不錯,
但兩條更好。
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but two is better.
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She has been a widow寡婦 for nine years年份,
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她當了九年的寡婦,
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but she's not looking for another另一個 mate伴侶.
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但她並沒有尋找
另個配偶的意願。
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She says that there is only a limited有限 number
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她說世界上
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of ways方法 you can screw
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上床的招數有限。
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well, she says it in another另一個 way —
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好吧,她沒有說得這麼委婉,
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and she has tried試著 them all.
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不過她全試過了。
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(Laughter笑聲)
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(笑聲)
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I, on the other hand,
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而我呢,
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I still have erotic好色之徒 fantasies幻想 with Antonio安東尼奧 Banderas班德拉斯
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我還有一些和
安東尼奧·班德拉斯激情的幻想。
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(Laughter笑聲) —
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(笑聲)
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and my poor較差的 husband丈夫 has to put up with it.
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我可憐的丈夫則得忍受。
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So how can I stay passionate多情?
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所以我到底如何保有熱情呢?
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I cannot不能 will myself to be passionate多情 at 71.
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我不能光用意志讓
七十一歲的自己保有熱情。
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I have been training訓練 for some time,
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這一陣子我訓練自己
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and when I feel flat平面 and bored無聊, I fake it.
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在覺得乏味無趣的時候,
假裝自己很快樂。
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Attitude態度, attitude態度.
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態度,態度很重要。
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How do I train培養? I train培養 by saying yes
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我是怎麼訓練自己的呢?
我對任何朝我而來的
事物都說「好」:
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to whatever隨你 comes my way:
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drama戲劇, comedy喜劇, tragedy悲劇,
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悲歡離合,
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love, death死亡, losses損失.
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愛戀、死亡和種種的失去。
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Yes to life.
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對生命說「好」。
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And I train培養 by trying to stay in love.
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我也會試著讓自己儘量去愛。
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It doesn't always work,
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雖然並不是每次都管用,
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but you cannot不能 blame me for trying.
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但你不能怪我嘗試。
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And, on a final最後 note注意,
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最後,
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retirement退休 in Spanish西班牙語 is jubilacijubilación.
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退休的西班牙語是 Jubilación。
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Jubilation歡騰. Celebration慶典.
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Jubilación 代表慶祝。
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We have paid支付 our dues.
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我們最終了了職責。
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We have contributed貢獻 to society社會.
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最終回饋了社會。
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Now it's our time, and it's a great time.
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現在是我們的時間,
一個美好的時候。
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Unless除非 you are ill生病 or very poor較差的,
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除非你殘疾或生活貧困,
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you have choices選擇.
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不然你擁有許多選擇。
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I have chosen選擇 to stay passionate多情,
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我選擇保持熱情,
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engaged訂婚 with an open打開 heart.
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樂觀開明的去看待世界。
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I am working加工 on it every一切 day.
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現在的我,天天都在練習。
07:09
Want to join加入 me?
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你想要參與嗎?
07:12
Thank you.
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謝謝。
07:14
(Applause掌聲)
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(掌聲)
07:19
June六月 Cohen科恩: So Isabel伊莎貝爾
IAIA: Thank you.
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朱恩·可恩:那麼伊莎貝——
伊莎貝:謝謝。
07:23
JCJC: First of all,
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朱恩:第一,
07:26
I never like to presume假設 to
speak說話 for the TEDTED community社區,
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我從來就不喜歡
假定自己為 TED 的發言人,
07:29
but I would like to tell you that I have a feeling感覺
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但我想說,我覺得
07:31
we can all agree同意 that you are still charming迷人,
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大家都能認同你還是迷人、
07:33
seductive妖媚 and sexy性感的. Yes?
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性感且誘人的。對不對?
07:35
IAIA: Aww, thank you.
(Applause掌聲)
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伊莎貝:哦,謝謝。(掌聲)
07:37
JCJC: Hands down.
IAIA: No, it's makeup化妝.
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朱恩:甘拜下風。
伊莎貝:不,其實是靠化妝。
07:40
Moderator主席: Now, would it be awkward尷尬
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主持人:現在,
假設我追加一個
07:41
if I asked you a follow-up跟進 question
about your erotic好色之徒 fantasies幻想?
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有關你激情幻想的問題,
你會很尷尬嗎?
07:44
IAIA: Oh, of course課程. About what?
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伊莎貝:哦,當然了。
有關什麼?
07:46
(Laughter笑聲)
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(笑聲)
07:47
Moderator主席: About your erotic好色之徒 fantasies幻想.
IAIA: With Antonio安東尼奧 Banderas班德拉斯.
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主持人:有關你的激情幻想。
伊莎貝:跟安東尼奧·班德拉斯。
07:50
Moderator主席: I was just wondering想知道
if you have anything more to share分享.
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主持人:我只是在想
你有沒有其他想分享的?
07:52
IAIA: Well, one of them is that — (Laughter笑聲)
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伊莎貝:呃,其中一個是——(笑聲)
其中一個是,
我會把全裸的安東尼奧
07:58
One of them is that I place地點 a naked Antonio安東尼奧 Banderas班德拉斯
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on a Mexican墨西哥人 tortilla玉米餅,
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放在一片墨西哥捲餅上,
08:03
I slather塗滿 him with guacamole鱷梨 and salsa莎莎,
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並把他塗滿酪梨醬和墨西哥辣醬,
08:06
I roll him up, and I eat him. (Laughter笑聲)
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我會把他捲起來,
再把他給吃了。(笑聲)
08:10
Thank you.
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謝謝。
08:12
(Applause掌聲)
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(掌聲)
Translated by Klare Hu
Reviewed by Adrienne Lin

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Isabel Allende - Novelist
Isabel Allende writes stories of passion. Her novels and memoirs, including The House of the Spirits and Eva Luna, tell the stories of women and men who live with passionate commitment -- to love, to their world, to an ideal.

Why you should listen

As a novelist and memoirist, Isabel Allende writes of passionate lives, including her own. Born into a Chilean family with political ties, she went into exile in the United States in the 1970s—an event that, she believes, created her as a writer. Her voice blends sweeping narrative with touches of magical realism; her stories are romantic, in the very best sense of the word. Her novels include The House of the SpiritsEva Luna and The Stories of Eva Luna, and her latest, Maya's Notebook and Ripper. And don't forget her adventure trilogy for young readers— City of the BeastsKingdom of the Golden Dragon and Forest of the Pygmies.

As a memoirist, she has written about her vision of her lost Chile, in My Invented Country, and movingly tells the story of her life to her own daughter, in Paula. Her book Aphrodite: A Memoir of the Senses memorably linked two sections of the bookstore that don't see much crossover: Erotica and Cookbooks. Just as vital is her community work: The Isabel Allende Foundation works with nonprofits in the San Francisco Bay Area and Chile to empower and protect women and girls—understanding that empowering women is the only true route to social and economic justice.

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