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John Koenig is writing an original dictionary of made-up words.

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John Koenig has spent the last seven years writing an original dictionary of made-up words, The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, which fills gaps in the language with hundreds of new terms for emotions. This project seeks to restore sadness to its original meaning (from Latin satis, "fullness") by defining moments of melancholy that we may all feel, but never think to mention -- deepening our understanding of each other by broadening the emotional palette, from avenoir, "the desire to see memories in advance," to zenosyne, "the sense that time keeps going faster."

Each entry is a collage of word roots borrowed from languages all around the world. Some entries are even beginning to enter the language outright:

sonder n. The realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own -- populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness -- an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you'll never know existed, in which you might appear only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk.

His original YouTube series, The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, which he writes, edits and narrates himself, has drawn acclaim from John Green and Beyoncé to Michael from Vsauce. "Each episode is a soothing meditation on its subject, fortified by a hypnotic soundtrack and Koenig’s twistingly intelligent narration," writes The Daily Dot.

He currently works as a freelance video editor, voice actor, graphic designer, illustrator, photographer, director and writer. His writing has been published in countless tattoos, stories, song titles and band names, but never on paper -- though he is currently working on publishing a book adaptation. Originally from Minnesota and Geneva, Switzerland, John lives in Budapest with his wife.

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John Koenig: Beautiful new words to describe obscure emotions

John Koenig: Hermosas palabras nuevas para describir emociones oscuras.

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A John Koenig le encanta encontrar palabras que expresen nuestros sentimientos no manifestados, como "lachesism," hambre de desastre, y "sonder," el reconocimiento que las vidas de todos los demás son tan complejas y desconocidas como la nuestra. En esta charla, él medita sobre el significado que damos a las palabras y cómo estos significados se aferran a nosotros.
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TodayHoy I want to talk
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Hoy quiero hablar del
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how we definedefinir them
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cómo las definimos,
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and how they, almostcasi as revengevenganza,
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y cómo, casi como en venganza,
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definedefinir us.
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ellas nos definen.
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El idioma inglés es una gran esponja.
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I love the EnglishInglés languageidioma.
I'm gladalegre that I speakhablar it.
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Amo el inglés y me encanta hablarlo.
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But for all that, it has a lot of holesagujeros.
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Pero por todo ello,
tiene muchos vacíos.
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In Greekgriego, there's a wordpalabra, "lachesismlachesismo"
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En griego, existe la palabra "lachesism"
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whichcual is the hungerhambre for disasterdesastre.
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que es "hambre de desastre".
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You know, when you see
a thunderstormtormenta on the horizonhorizonte
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Como cuando ven
una tormenta en el horizonte
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and you just find yourselftú mismo
rootingenraizamiento for the stormtormenta.
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y la alientan.
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In Mandarinmandarín, they have a wordpalabra "yù yī" --
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En mandarín, tiene la palabra "yù yī"
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I'm not pronouncingpronunciamiento that correctlycorrectamente --
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(No lo pronuncio bien)
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whichcual meansmedio the longinganhelo
to feel intenselyintensamente again
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que significa la nostalgia
de sentir de forma intensa
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the way you did when you were a kidniño.
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como cuando eran niños.
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In Polishpolaco, they have a wordpalabra "jouskajouska"
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En polaco, tienen la palabra "jouska"
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whichcual is the kindtipo of
hypotheticalhipotético conversationconversacion
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que es un tipo de conversación hipotética
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that you compulsivelycompulsivamente
playjugar out in your headcabeza.
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que compulsivamente tienes en tu cabeza.
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And finallyfinalmente, in Germanalemán,
of coursecurso in Germanalemán,
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Y en alemán, por supuesto,
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they have a wordpalabra calledllamado "zielschmerzzielschmerz"
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tienen la palabra "zielschmerz"
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whichcual is the dreadpavor
of gettingconsiguiendo what you want.
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que es el miedo a
obtener lo que quieres.
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(LaughterRisa)
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(Risas)
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FinallyFinalmente fulfillingcumpliendo a lifelongpara toda la vida dreamsueño.
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Finalmente cumpliendo
un sueño de toda la vida.
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I'm Germanalemán myselfmí mismo,
so I know exactlyexactamente what that feelssiente like.
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Soy alemán y sé cómo se siente.
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Now, I'm not sure
if I would use any of these wordspalabras
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No estoy seguro
si usaría alguna de estas palabras
en mi día a día,
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as I go about my day,
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but I'm really gladalegre they existexiste.
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pero me alegra que existan.
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But the only reasonrazón they existexiste
is because I madehecho them up.
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Pero la única razón de que existan
es que yo las inventé.
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I am the authorautor of "The DictionaryDiccionario
of ObscureOscuro SorrowsDolores,"
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Soy autor del
"Diccionario de Penas Oscuras",
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whichcual I've been writingescritura
for the last sevensiete yearsaños.
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que he estado escribiendo
durante los últimos 7 años.
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And the wholetodo missionmisión of the projectproyecto
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Y toda la meta del proyecto
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is to find holesagujeros
in the languageidioma of emotionemoción
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es encontrar vacíos
en el lenguaje de las emociones
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and try to fillllenar them
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y procurar llenarlos
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so that we have a way of talkinghablando
about all those humanhumano peccadilloespecadillos
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para tener una forma de hablar
sobre todos los pecadillos humanos
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and quirkspeculiaridades of the humanhumano conditioncondición
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y extravaganzas
de la condiciòn humana
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that we all feel
but maymayo not think to talk about
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que creemos sentir,
pero no pensamos discutir
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because we don't have the wordspalabras to do it.
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porque no tenemos
las palabras apropiadas.
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And about halfwayMedio camino throughmediante this projectproyecto,
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A la mitad del proyecto,
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I defineddefinido "sondersonder,"
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definí "sonder",
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the ideaidea that we all think of ourselvesNosotros mismos
as the mainprincipal characterpersonaje
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la idea en la que todos
nos consideramos protagonistas
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and everyonetodo el mundo elsemás is just extrasextras.
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y los demás son extras.
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But in realityrealidad,
we're all the mainprincipal characterpersonaje,
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Pero en realidad,
todos somos los protagonistas
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and you yourselftú mismo are an extraextra
in someonealguien else'sde otra manera storyhistoria.
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y tú mismo eres un extra
en la historia de otro.
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And so as soonpronto as I publishedpublicado that,
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Tan pronto lo publiqué,
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I got a lot of responserespuesta from people
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tuve muchas respuestas del público
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sayingdiciendo, "Thank you for givingdando voicevoz
to something I had feltsintió all my life
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diciendo "Gracias por nombrar
algo que sentí toda mi vida,
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but there was no wordpalabra for that."
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pero no sabìa como llamarlo".
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So it madehecho them feel lessMenos alonesolo.
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Los hizo menos solitarios.
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That's the powerpoder of wordspalabras,
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Es el poder de las palabras
para sentirnos menos solos.
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to make us feel lessMenos alonesolo.
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And it was not long after that
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Y al poco tiempo después
empecé a notar que "sonder"
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that I startedempezado to noticedarse cuenta sondersonder
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beingsiendo used earnestlyformalmente
in conversationsconversaciones onlineen línea,
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se estaba usando en
conversaciones en línea,
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and not long after I actuallyactualmente noticednotado it,
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y no mucho después de notarlo,
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I caughtatrapado it nextsiguiente to me
in an actualreal conversationconversacion in personpersona.
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lo escuché en una conversación real.
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There is no strangerdesconocido feelingsensación
than makingfabricación up a wordpalabra
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No hay sentimiento más raro
que inventar una palabra
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and then seeingviendo it
take on a mindmente of its ownpropio.
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y luego verla asumir una mente propia.
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I don't have a wordpalabra
for that yettodavía, but I will.
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No tengo palabra
para esto aún, pero la tendré
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(LaughterRisa)
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(Risas)
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I'm workingtrabajando on it.
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Estoy en ello.
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I startedempezado to think
about what makeshace wordspalabras realreal,
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Empecé a pensar sobre
qué hace real a las palabras
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because a lot of people askpedir me,
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porque muchos me preguntan,
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the mostmás commoncomún thing
I got from people is,
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lo más comùn que me dicen es:
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"Well, are these wordspalabras madehecho up?
I don't really understandentender."
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"Bueno, ¿estas palabras son inventadas?
De hecho no entiendo".
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And I didn't really know what to tell them
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Y no supe qué decirles
porque cuando "sonder" despegó
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because onceuna vez sondersonder startedempezado to take off,
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no podìa decir qué palabras
son o no reales.
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who am I to say what wordspalabras
are realreal and what aren'tno son.
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Así me sentí como Steve Jobs
describiendo su epifanía,
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And so I sortordenar of feltsintió like SteveSteve JobsTrabajos,
who describeddescrito his epiphanyEpifanía
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03:34
as when he realizeddio cuenta that mostmás of us,
as we go throughmediante the day,
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cuando vio que muchos de
nosotros en nuestro día a día
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we just try to avoidevitar
bouncingfuerte againsten contra the wallsmuros too much
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tratamos de evitar golpearnos
con las paredes a menudo
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and just sortordenar of get on with things.
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y completamos nuestros deberes.
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But onceuna vez you realizedarse cuenta de that people --
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Pero cuando te das cuenta que la gente,
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that this worldmundo was builtconstruido
by people no smartermás inteligente than you,
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que este mundo fue hecho por personas
no más inteligentes que tú,
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then you can reachalcanzar out
and touchtoque those wallsmuros
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puedes estirar tu mano
y tocar esas paredes
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and even put your handmano throughmediante them
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y aun atraversarlas con tus manos
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and realizedarse cuenta de that you have
the powerpoder to changecambio it.
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y ver que tienes el poder
de lograr cambios.
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And when people askpedir me,
"Are these wordspalabras realreal?"
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Cuando me preguntan,
"¿Son reales estas palabras?"
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I had a varietyvariedad of answersrespuestas
that I triedintentó out.
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Tenía varias respuestas que ensayé.
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Some of them madehecho sensesentido.
Some of them didn't.
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Algunas con sentido. Otras no.
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But one of them I triedintentó out was,
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Pero una que probé fue:
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"Well, a wordpalabra is realreal
if you want it to be realreal."
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"Bueno, es real si quieres que lo sea".
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The way that this pathcamino is realreal
because people wanted it to be there.
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Como este camino es real porque
la gente desea que esté ahí.
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(LaughterRisa)
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(Risas)
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It happenssucede on collegeUniversidad
campusescampus all the time.
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Sucede en universidades
todo el tiempo.
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It's calledllamado a "desiredeseo pathcamino."
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Se llama "camino de deseo".
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(LaughterRisa)
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But then I decideddecidido,
what people are really askingpreguntando
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Pero concluí, lo que
realmente preguntaban,
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when they're askingpreguntando if a wordpalabra is realreal,
they're really askingpreguntando,
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cuando preguntan si la palabra
es real, quieren saber
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"Well, how manymuchos brainssesos
will this give me accessacceso to?"
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"¿A cuántas mentes
tendré acceso con ella?"
Porque creo que se parece mucho
a cómo vemos al lenguaje.
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Because I think that's
a lot of how we look at languageidioma.
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A wordpalabra is essentiallyesencialmente a keyllave
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Una palabra es en esencia una llave
04:38
that getsse pone us into certaincierto people'sla gente headscabezas.
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que nos adentra en
las cabezas de la gente.
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And if it getsse pone us into one braincerebro,
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Y si entramos a una cabeza,
no vale la pena,
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it's not really worthvalor it,
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not really worthvalor knowingconocimiento.
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no sirve saberla.
04:47
Two brainssesos, eheh, it dependsdepende on who it is.
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Dos cerebros, depende de quiénes son.
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A millionmillón brainssesos, OK, now we're talkinghablando.
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Un millón de cerebros, bien, está bien.
Una palabra real es la que te da acceso
a tantas mentes como puedas.
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And so a realreal wordpalabra is one that getsse pone you
accessacceso to as manymuchos brainssesos as you can.
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That's what makeshace it worthvalor knowingconocimiento.
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Por eso vale la pena saberla.
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IncidentallyDe paso, the realestmás real wordpalabra of all
by this measuremedida is this.
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Luego, la palabra más real
con esta medida es esta:
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[O.K.]
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O.K.
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That's it.
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Eso es.
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The realestmás real wordpalabra we have.
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Tenemos la más real.
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That is the closestmás cercano thing we have
to a masterdominar keyllave.
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Es lo más cerca a
una llave maestra.
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That's the mostmás commonlycomúnmente
understoodentendido wordpalabra in the worldmundo,
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Es la palabra
más comprendida en el mundo,
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no matterimportar where you are.
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sin importar donde estés.
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The problemproblema with that is,
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El problema es que
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no one seemsparece to know
what those two lettersletras standestar for.
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nadie parece saber
lo que esas dos letras significan.
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(Risas)
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WhichCual is kindtipo of weirdextraño, right?
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Lo que es algo raro, ¿no?
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I mean, it could be a misspellingerror de ortografía
of "all correctcorrecto," I guessadivinar,
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Creo que podría ser
un error de "todo correcto"
05:29
or "oldantiguo kinderhookkinderhook."
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o "viejo gancho".
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No one really seemsparece to know,
but the facthecho that it doesn't matterimportar
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Nadie parece saberlo, pero
que en realidad no importa
05:34
saysdice something about
how we addañadir meaningsentido to wordspalabras.
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dice algo de cómo damos
significado a las palabras.
05:38
The meaningsentido is not
in the wordspalabras themselvessí mismos.
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Este no está
en las mismas palabras.
05:41
We're the onesunos
that pourverter ourselvesNosotros mismos into it.
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Somos quienes
les ponemos algo nuestro.
Pienso que cuando estamos
buscando sentido en nuestras vidas,
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And I think, when we're all searchingbuscando
for meaningsentido in our livesvive,
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y buscando sentido a la vida,
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and searchingbuscando for the meaningsentido of life,
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pienso que las palabras
tienen que ver en ello.
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I think wordspalabras have
something to do with that.
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And I think if you're looking
for the meaningsentido of something,
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Creo que si estás buscando
el significado de algo,
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the dictionarydiccionario is a decentbueno placelugar to startcomienzo.
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el diccionario es el lugar para empezar.
Da un sentido de orden
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It bringstrae a sensesentido of orderorden
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to a very chaoticcaótico universeuniverso.
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a un universo muy caótico.
06:06
Our viewver of things is so limitedlimitado
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Nuestra visión de las cosas
es tan limitada
06:09
that we have to come up
with patternspatrones and shorthandsshorthands
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que debemos inventar
patrones y abreviaturas
06:12
and try to figurefigura out
a way to interpretinterpretar it
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y tratar de descubrir
una forma de interpretarla
06:14
and be ablepoder to get on with our day.
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y poder seguir con tu día.
06:17
We need wordspalabras to containContiene us,
to definedefinir ourselvesNosotros mismos.
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necesitamos palabras
que nos incluyan, que nos definan.
Creo que muchos nos sentimos encasillados
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I think a lot of us feel boxeden caja in
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por cómo usamos estas palabras.
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by how we use these wordspalabras.
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We forgetolvidar that wordspalabras are madehecho up.
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Olvidamos que son inventadas.
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It's not just my wordspalabras.
All wordspalabras are madehecho up,
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No solo mis palabras.
Todas son inventadas,
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but not all of them mean something.
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pero no todas significan algo.
06:33
We're all just sortordenar of
trappedatrapado in our ownpropio lexiconsléxicos
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Estamos como atrapados
en nuestro léxico
06:38
that don't necessarilynecesariamente correlatecorrelación
with people who aren'tno son alreadyya like us,
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que casi no nos relacionamos
con gente que no es ya como nosotros
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and so I think I feel us driftingderiva apartaparte
a little more everycada yearaño,
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y pienso que nos estamos distanciando
un poco más año a año,
06:47
the more seriouslyseriamente we take wordspalabras.
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Cuando más en serio
tomamos las palabras.
06:51
Because rememberrecuerda, wordspalabras are not realreal.
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Recuerden, las palabras no son reales.
06:55
They don't have meaningsentido. We do.
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No tienen significado. Nosotros sí.
Y quiero dejarlos con una lectura
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And I'd like to leavesalir you with a readingleyendo
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07:01
from one of my favoritefavorito philosophersfilósofos,
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de uno de mis filósofos favoritos,
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BillCuenta WattersonWatterson, who createdcreado
"CalvinCalvin and HobbesHobbes."
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Bill Watterson, creador de
"Calvin y Hobbes".
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He said,
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Él dijo,
07:09
"CreatingCreando a life that reflectsrefleja
your valuesvalores and satisfiessatisface your soulalma
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"Crear una vida que refleje
tus valores y satisfaga tu alma
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is a rareraro achievementlogro.
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es un logro poco común.
07:14
To inventinventar your ownpropio life'sla vida meaningsentido
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Inventar el significado de tu propia vida
07:17
is not easyfácil,
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no es fácil,
07:18
but it is still allowedpermitido,
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pero aun está permitido,
07:20
and I think you'lltu vas a be
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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
John Koenig - Writer
John Koenig is writing an original dictionary of made-up words.

Why you should listen

John Koenig has spent the last seven years writing an original dictionary of made-up words, The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, which fills gaps in the language with hundreds of new terms for emotions. This project seeks to restore sadness to its original meaning (from Latin satis, "fullness") by defining moments of melancholy that we may all feel, but never think to mention -- deepening our understanding of each other by broadening the emotional palette, from avenoir, "the desire to see memories in advance," to zenosyne, "the sense that time keeps going faster."

Each entry is a collage of word roots borrowed from languages all around the world. Some entries are even beginning to enter the language outright:

sonder n. The realization that each random passerby is living a life as vivid and complex as your own -- populated with their own ambitions, friends, routines, worries and inherited craziness -- an epic story that continues invisibly around you like an anthill sprawling deep underground, with elaborate passageways to thousands of other lives that you'll never know existed, in which you might appear only once, as an extra sipping coffee in the background, as a blur of traffic passing on the highway, as a lighted window at dusk.

His original YouTube series, The Dictionary of Obscure Sorrows, which he writes, edits and narrates himself, has drawn acclaim from John Green and Beyoncé to Michael from Vsauce. "Each episode is a soothing meditation on its subject, fortified by a hypnotic soundtrack and Koenig’s twistingly intelligent narration," writes The Daily Dot.

He currently works as a freelance video editor, voice actor, graphic designer, illustrator, photographer, director and writer. His writing has been published in countless tattoos, stories, song titles and band names, but never on paper -- though he is currently working on publishing a book adaptation. Originally from Minnesota and Geneva, Switzerland, John lives in Budapest with his wife.

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John Koenig | Speaker | TED.com

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