EG 2008
Tim Ferriss: Smash fear, learn anything
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From the EG conference: Productivity guru Tim Ferriss' fun, encouraging anecdotes show how one simple question -- "What's the worst that could happen?" -- is all you need to learn to do anything.
Tim Ferriss - Investor, human guinea pig, author
Tim Ferriss is an early-stage tech investor, best-selling author and podcaster. Full bio
Tim Ferriss is an early-stage tech investor, best-selling author and podcaster. Full bio
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This is Tim Ferriss circa 1979 A.D. Age two.
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You can tell by the power squat, I was a very confident boy --
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and not without reason.
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I had a very charming routine at the time,
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which was to wait until late in the evening
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when my parents were decompressing from a hard day's work,
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doing their crossword puzzles, watching television.
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I would run into the living room, jump up on the couch,
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rip the cushions off, throw them on the floor,
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scream at the top of my lungs and run out
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because I was the Incredible Hulk.
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(Laughter)
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Obviously, you see the resemblance.
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And this routine went on for some time.
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When I was seven I went to summer camp.
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My parents found it necessary for peace of mind.
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And at noon each day
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the campers would go to a pond,
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where they had floating docks.
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You could jump off the end into the deep end.
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I was born premature. I was always very small.
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My left lung had collapsed when I was born.
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And I've always had buoyancy problems.
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So water was something that scared me to begin with.
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But I would go in on occasion.
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And on one particular day,
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the campers were jumping through inner tubes,
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They were diving through inner tubes. And I thought this would be great fun.
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So I dove through the inner tube,
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and the bully of the camp grabbed my ankles.
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And I tried to come up for air,
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and my lower back hit the bottom of the inner tube.
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And I went wild eyed and thought I was going to die.
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A camp counselor fortunately came over and separated us.
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From that point onward I was terrified of swimming.
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That is something that I did not get over.
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My inability to swim has been
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one of my greatest humiliations and embarrassments.
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That is when I realized that I was not the Incredible Hulk.
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But there is a happy ending to this story.
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At age 31 -- that's my age now --
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in August I took two weeks to re-examine swimming,
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and question all the of the obvious aspects of swimming.
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And went from swimming one lap --
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so 20 yards -- like a drowning monkey,
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at about 200 beats per minute heart rate --
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I measured it --
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to going to Montauk on Long Island,
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close to where I grew up,
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and jumping into the ocean and swimming one kilometer in open water,
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getting out and feeling better than when I went in.
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And I came out,
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in my Speedos, European style,
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feeling like the Incredible Hulk.
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And that's what I want everyone in here to feel like,
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the Incredible Hulk, at the end of this presentation.
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More specifically, I want you to feel like you're capable
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of becoming an excellent long-distance swimmer,
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a world-class language learner,
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and a tango champion.
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And I would like to share my art.
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If I have an art, it's deconstructing things
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that really scare the living hell out of me.
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So, moving onward.
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Swimming, first principles.
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First principles, this is very important.
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I find that the best results in life
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are often held back by false constructs and untested assumptions.
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And the turnaround in swimming came
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when a friend of mine said, "I will go a year without any stimulants" --
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this is a six-double-espresso-per-day type of guy --
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"if you can complete a one kilometer open water race."
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So the clock started ticking.
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I started seeking out triathletes
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because I found that lifelong swimmers often couldn't teach what they did.
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I tried kickboards.
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My feet would slice through the water like razors,
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I wouldn't even move. I would leave demoralized, staring at my feet.
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Hand paddles, everything.
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Even did lessons with Olympians -- nothing helped.
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And then Chris Sacca, who is now a dear friend mine,
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had completed an Iron Man with 103 degree temperature,
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said, "I have the answer to your prayers."
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And he introduced me to
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the work of a man named Terry Laughlin
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who is the founder of Total Immersion Swimming.
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That set me on the road to examining biomechanics.
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So here are the new rules of swimming,
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if any of you are afraid of swimming, or not good at it.
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The first is, forget about kicking. Very counterintuitive.
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So it turns out that propulsion isn't really the problem.
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Kicking harder doesn't solve the problem
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because the average swimmer only transfers about three percent
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of their energy expenditure into forward motion.
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The problem is hydrodynamics.
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So what you want to focus on instead
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is allowing your lower body to draft behind your upper body,
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much like a small car behind a big car on the highway.
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And you do that by maintaining a horizontal body position.
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The only way you can do that
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is to not swim on top of the water.
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The body is denser than water. 95 percent of it would be,
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at least, submerged naturally.
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So you end up, number three,
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not swimming, in the case of freestyle,
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on your stomach, as many people think, reaching on top of the water.
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But actually rotating from streamlined right
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to streamlined left,
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maintaining that fuselage position as long as possible.
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So let's look at some examples. This is Terry.
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And you can see that he's extending his right arm
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below his head and far in front.
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And so his entire body really is underwater.
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The arm is extended below the head.
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The head is held in line with the spine,
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so that you use strategic water pressure to raise your legs up --
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very important, especially for people with lower body fat.
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Here is an example of the stroke.
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So you don't kick. But you do use a small flick.
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You can see this is the left extension.
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Then you see his left leg.
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Small flick, and the only purpose of that
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is to rotate his hips so he can get to the opposite side.
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And the entry point for his right hand -- notice this,
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he's not reaching in front and catching the water.
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Rather, he is entering the water
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at a 45-degree angle with his forearm,
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and then propelling himself by streamlining -- very important.
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Incorrect, above, which is what almost every swimming coach will teach you.
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Not their fault, honestly.
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And I'll get to implicit versus explicit in a moment.
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Below is what most swimmers
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will find enables them to do what I did,
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which is going from 21 strokes per 20-yard length
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to 11 strokes
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in two workouts with no coach, no video monitoring.
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And now I love swimming. I can't wait to go swimming.
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I'll be doing a swimming lesson later, for myself, if anyone wants to join me.
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Last thing, breathing. A problem a lot of us have, certainly, when you're swimming.
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In freestyle, easiest way to remedy this is
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to turn with body roll,
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and just to look at your recovery hand as it enters the water.
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And that will get you very far.
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That's it. That's really all you need to know.
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Languages. Material versus method.
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I, like many people, came to the conclusion
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that I was terrible at languages.
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I suffered through Spanish for junior high, first year of high school,
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and the sum total of my knowledge
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was pretty much, "Donde esta el bano?"
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And I wouldn't even catch the response. A sad state of affairs.
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Then I transferred to a different school sophomore year, and
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I had a choice of other languages. Most of my friends were taking Japanese.
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So I thought why not punish myself? I'll do Japanese.
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Six months later I had the chance to go to Japan.
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My teachers assured me, they said, "Don't worry.
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You'll have Japanese language classes every day to help you cope.
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It will be an amazing experience." My first overseas experience in fact.
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So my parents encouraged me to do it. I left.
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I arrived in Tokyo. Amazing.
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I couldn't believe I was on the other side of the world.
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I met my host family. Things went quite well I think,
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all things considered.
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My first evening, before my first day of school,
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I said to my mother, very politely,
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"Please wake me up at eight a.m."
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So, (Japanese)
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But I didn't say (Japanese). I said, (Japanese). Pretty close.
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But I said, "Please rape me at eight a.m."
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(Laughter)
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You've never seen a more confused Japanese woman.
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(Laughter)
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I walked in to school.
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And a teacher came up to me and handed me a piece of paper.
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I couldn't read any of it -- hieroglyphics, it could have been --
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because it was Kanji,
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Chinese characters adapted into the Japanese language.
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Asked him what this said.
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And he goes, "Ahh, okay okay,
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eehto, World History, ehh, Calculus,
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Traditional Japanese." And so on.
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And so it came to me in waves.
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There had been something lost in translation.
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The Japanese classes were not Japanese instruction classes, per se.
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They were the normal high school curriculum for Japanese students --
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the other 4,999 students in the school, who were Japanese, besides the American.
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And that's pretty much my response.
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(Laughter)
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And that set me on this panic driven search for the perfect language method.
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I tried everything. I went to Kinokuniya.
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I tried every possible book, every possible CD.
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Nothing worked until I found this.
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This is the Joyo Kanji. This is a Tablet rather,
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or a poster of the 1,945 common-use characters
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as determined by the Ministry of Education in 1981.
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Many of the publications in Japan limit themselves to these characters,
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to facilitate literacy -- some are required to.
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And this became my Holy Grail, my Rosetta Stone.
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As soon as I focused on this material,
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I took off.
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I ended up being able to read Asahi Shinbu, Asahi newspaper,
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about six months later -- so a total of 11 months later --
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and went from Japanese I to Japanese VI.
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Ended up doing translation work at age 16 when I returned to the U.S.,
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and have continued to apply this material
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over method approach to close to a dozen languages now.
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Someone who was terrible at languages,
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and at any given time, speak, read and write five or six.
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This brings us to the point,
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which is, it's oftentimes what you do,
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not how you do it, that is the determining factor.
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This is the difference between being effective -- doing the right things --
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and being efficient -- doing things well whether or not they're important.
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You can also do this with grammar.
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I came up with these six sentences after much experimentation.
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Having a native speaker allow you to deconstruct their grammar,
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by translating these sentences into past, present, future,
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will show you subject, object, verb,
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placement of indirect, direct objects, gender and so forth.
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From that point, you can then, if you want to,
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acquire multiple languages, alternate them so there is no interference.
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We can talk about that if anyone in interested.
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And now I love languages.
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So ballroom dancing, implicit versus explicit --
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very important.
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You might look at me and say, "That guy must be a ballroom dancer."
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But no, you'd be wrong
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because my body is very poorly designed for most things --
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pretty well designed for lifting heavy rocks perhaps.
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I used to be much bigger, much more muscular.
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And so I ended up walking like this.
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I looked a lot like an orangutan, our close cousins, or the Incredible Hulk.
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Not very good for ballroom dancing.
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I found myself in Argentina in 2005,
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decided to watch a tango class -- had no intention of participating.
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Went in, paid my ten pesos,
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walked up -- 10 women two guys, usually a good ratio.
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The instructor says, "You are participating."
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Immediately: death sweat.
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(Laughter)
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Fight-or-flight fear sweat, because I tried ballroom dancing in college --
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stepped on the girl's foot with my heel. She screamed.
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I was so concerned with her perception of what I was doing,
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that it exploded in my face,
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never to return to the ballroom dancing club.
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She comes up, and this was her approach, the teacher.
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"Okay, come on, grab me."
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Gorgeous assistant instructor.
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She was very pissed off that I had pulled her from her advanced practice.
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So I did my best. I didn't know where to put my hands.
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And she pulled back, threw down her arms,
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put them on her hips, turned around and yelled across the room,
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"This guy is built like a god-damned mountain of muscle,
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and he's grabbing me like a fucking Frenchman,"
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(Laughter)
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which I found encouraging.
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(Laughter)
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Everyone burst into laughter. I was humiliated.
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She came back. She goes, "Come on. I don't have all day."
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As someone who wrestled since age eight, I proceeded to crush her,
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"Of Mice and Men" style.
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And she looked up and said,
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"Now that's better."
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So I bought a month's worth of classes.
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(Laughter)
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And proceeded to look at --
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I wanted to set competition so I'd have a deadline --
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Parkinson's Law,
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the perceived complexity of a task will expand to fill the time you allot it.
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So I had a very short deadline for a competition.
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I got a female instructor first,
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to teach me the female role, the follow,
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because I wanted to understand the sensitivities and abilities
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that the follow needed to develop, so I wouldn't have a repeat of college.
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And then I took an inventory of the characteristics,
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along with her, of the
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of the capabilities and elements of different dancers who'd won championships.
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I interviewed these people because they all taught in Buenos Aires.
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I compared the two lists,
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and what you find is that there is explicitly,
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expertise they recommended, certain training methods.
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Then there were implicit commonalities
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that none of them seemed to be practicing.
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Now the protectionism of Argentine dance teachers aside,
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I found this very interesting. So I decided to focus on three of those commonalities.
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Long steps. So a lot of milongueros --
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the tango dancers will use very short steps.
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I found that longer steps were much more elegant.
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So you can have --
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and you can do it in a very small space in fact.
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Secondly, different types of pivots.
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Thirdly, variation in tempo.
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These seemed to be the three areas that I could exploit to compete
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if I wanted to comptete against people who'd been practicing for 20 to 30 years.
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That photo is of the
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semi-finals of the Buenos Aires championships, four months later.
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Then one month later, went to the world championships,
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made it to the semi-final. And then set a world record, following that,
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two weeks later.
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I want you to see part of what I practiced.
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I'm going to jump forward here.
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This is the instructor that Alicia and I chose for the male lead.
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His name is Gabriel Misse.
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One of the most elegant dancers of his generation,
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known for his long steps, and his tempo changes
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and his pivots.
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Alicia, in her own right, very famous.
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So I think you'll agree, they look quite good together.
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Now what I like about this video
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is it's actually a video of the first time they ever danced together
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because of his lead. He had a strong lead.
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He didn't lead with his chest, which requires you lean forward.
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I couldn't develop the attributes in my toes,
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the strength in my feet, to do that.
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So he uses a lead that focuses on
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his shoulder girdle and his arm.
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So he can lift the woman to break her, for example.
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That's just one benefit of that.
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So then we broke it down.
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This would be an example of one pivot.
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This is a back step pivot.
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There are many different types.
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I have hundreds of hours of footage --
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all categorized, much like George Carlin
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categorized his comedy.
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So using my arch-nemesis,
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Spanish, no less, to learn tango.
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So fear is your friend. Fear is an indicator.
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Sometimes it shows you what you shouldn't do.
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More often than not it shows you exactly what you should do.
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And the best results that I've had in life,
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the most enjoyable times, have all been from asking a simple question:
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what's the worst that can happen?
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Especially with fears you gained when you were a child.
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Take the analytical frameworks,
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the capabilities you have, apply them to old fears.
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Apply them to very big dreams.
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And when I think of what I fear now, it's very simple.
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When I imagine my life,
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what my life would have been like
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without the educational opportunities that I had,
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it makes me wonder.
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I've spent the last two years trying to deconstruct
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the American public school system,
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to either fix it or replace it.
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And have done experiments with about 50,000 students thus far --
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built, I'd say, about a half dozen schools,
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my readers, at this point.
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And if any of you are interested in that,
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I would love to speak with you.
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I know nothing. I'm a beginner.
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But I ask a lot of questions, and I would love your advice.
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Thank you very much.
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(Applause)
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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Tim Ferriss - Investor, human guinea pig, authorTim Ferriss is an early-stage tech investor, best-selling author and podcaster.
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