TEDGlobal 2010
Zainab Salbi: Women, wartime and the dream of peace
Zajnab Salbi: Žene, rat i san o miru
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Tokom rata, često čujemo samo goruće priče vojnika i borbi. Na TEDGlobal 2010, Zajnab Salbi predstavlja snažnu priču iz pozadine; žene koje tokom nemira upravljaju svakodnevnim životom, i poziva žene da zauzmu svoje mesto u pregovorima, jednom kada se borbe okončaju.
Zainab Salbi - Activist and social entrepreneur
Iraqi-born Zainab Salbi founded and runs Women for Women International, and has dedicated her life to helping women in war-torn regions rebuild their lives and communities. Full bio
Iraqi-born Zainab Salbi founded and runs Women for Women International, and has dedicated her life to helping women in war-torn regions rebuild their lives and communities. Full bio
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I woke up in the middle of the night
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Probudila sam se usred noći
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with the sound of heavy explosion.
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usled zvuka teške eksplozije.
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It was deep at night.
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Bila je duboka noć.
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I do not remember what time it was.
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Ne sećam se koliko je bilo sati.
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I just remember the sound
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Sećam se samo da je zvuk
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was so heavy
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bio toliko jak
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and so very shocking.
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da me je šokirao.
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Everything in my room was shaking --
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Sve u mojoj sobi se treslo -
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my heart, my windows,
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moje srce, prozori,
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my bed, everything.
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krevet - sve.
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I looked out the windows
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Pogledala sam kroz prozor,
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and I saw a full half-circle
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i videla pun polukrug
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of explosion.
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eksplozije.
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I thought it was just like the movies,
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Pomislila sam kako je baš kao u filmovima,
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but the movies had not conveyed them
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ali filmovi nisu preneli
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in the powerful image that I was seeing
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moćnu sliku koju sam gledala -
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full of bright red
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punu jasne crvene,
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and orange and gray,
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narandžaste i sive,
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and a full circle of explosion.
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pun krug eksplozije.
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And I kept on staring at it
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Buljila sam u nju
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until it disappeared.
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sve dok nije nestala.
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I went back to my bed,
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Vratila sam se u krevet,
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and I prayed,
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molila se,
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and I secretly thanked God
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i tajno zahvalila Bogu
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that that missile
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što raketa
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did not land on my family's home,
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nije pala na moju porodičnu kuću,
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that it did not kill my family that night.
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što nije pobila moju porodicu te noći.
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Thirty years have passed,
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30 godina je prošlo,
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and I still feel guilty about that prayer,
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i još uvek osećam krivicu zbog te molitve,
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for the next day, I learned that that missile
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jer sam sledećeg dana saznala da
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landed on my brother's friend's home
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je pogodila kuću prijatelja moga brata,
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and killed him
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ubila ga,
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and his father,
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i njegovog oca,
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but did not kill his mother or his sister.
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ali ne i majku i sestru.
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His mother showed up the next week
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Njegova majka se pojavila sledeće nedelje
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at my brother's classroom
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u učionici mog brata
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and begged seven-year-old kids
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i molila sedmogodišnju decu
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to share with her any picture they may have
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da podele sa njom sliku njenog sina,
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of her son,
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ako je imaju,
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for she had lost everything.
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jer je izgubila sve.
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This is not a story
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Ovo nije priča
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of a nameless survivor of war,
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brojnih preživelih,
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and nameless refugees,
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i brojnih izbeglica,
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whose stereotypical images we see in our newspapers
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čije stereotipne fotografije gledamo u novinama
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and our TV
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i na TVu
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with tattered clothes,
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sa dronjavom odećom,
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dirty face, scared eyes.
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prljavim licima, uplašenim očima.
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This is not a story of a nameless someone
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Ovo nije priča nekog bezimenog
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who lived in some war,
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koji je živeo u nekom ratu,
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who we do not know their hopes, their dreams,
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čije nade, snove, uspehe,
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their accomplishments, their families,
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porodice, uverenja, vrednosti
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their beliefs, their values.
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ne poznajemo.
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This is my story.
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Ovo je moja priča.
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I was that girl.
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Ja sam bila ta devojčica.
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I am another image and vision
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Ja sam još jedna slika i prilika
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of another survivor of war.
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onog ko je preživeo rat.
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I am that refugee,
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Ja sam ta izbeglica,
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and I am that girl.
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ja sam ta devojčica.
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You see,
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Znate,
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I grew up in war-torn Iraq,
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odrasla sam u ratom razorenom Iraku,
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and I believe that there are two sides of wars
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i verujem da postoje dve strane ratova
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and we've only seen
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a da vidimo samo
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one side of it.
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jednu.
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We only talk about
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Govorimo samo
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one side of it.
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o jednoj strani.
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But there's another side
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Ali postoji još jedna
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that I have witnessed
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čiji sam svedok,
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as someone who lived in it
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jer sam u njoj živela
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and someone who ended up working in it.
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jer sam u njoj na kraju i radila.
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I grew up with the colors of war --
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Odrasla sam sa bojama rata -
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the red colors of fire and blood,
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crvena boja vatre i krvi,
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the brown tones of earth
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smeđi tonovi zemlje
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as it explodes
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koja eksplodira
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in our faces
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u naša lica
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and the piercing silver
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i prodorna srebrna
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of an exploded missile,
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eksplodiranih raketa,
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so bright
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toliko jarkih
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that nothing can protect your eyes from it.
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da ničim niste mogli zaštiti oči.
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I grew up
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Odrasla sam
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with the sounds of war --
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uz zvuke rata -
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the staccato sounds of gunfire,
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nepovezani pucnjevi iz oružja,
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the wrenching booms of explosions,
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bolni zvukovi eksplozija,
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ominous drones of jets flying overhead
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zloslutno zujanje aviona koji lete iznad glava
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and the wailing warning sounds
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i zavijajući zvuci sirena
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of sirens.
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za uzbunu.
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These are the sounds you would expect,
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To su zvukovi koje očekujete,
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but they are also the sounds
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ali su tu takođe piskavi
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of dissonant concerts of a flock of birds
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zvuci neharmoničnih, noćnih koncerata
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screeching in the night,
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jata ptica,
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the high-pitched honest cries
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piskav, iskren plač
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of children
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dece
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and the thunderous,
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i gromoglasna,
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unbearable
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nepodnošljiva
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silence.
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tišina.
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"War," a friend of mine said,
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"Rat", rekao je moj prijatelj,
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"is not about sound at all.
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"uopšte nema veze sa zvukom.
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It is actually about silence,
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Radi se o tišini,
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the silence of humanity."
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ljudskoj tišini."
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I have since left Iraq
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Kad sam napustila Irak
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and founded a group called Women for Women International
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osnovala sam grupu "Women for Women International"
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that ends up working
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koja radi sa ženama
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with women survivors of wars.
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koje su preživele rat.
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In my travels and in my work,
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Tokom mojih putovanja i rada
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from Congo to Afghanistan,
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u Kongu i Avganistanu,
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from Sudan to Rwanda,
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Sudanu i Ruandi,
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I have learned not only
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shvatila sam, da
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that the colors and the sounds of war are the same,
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nisu samo boje i zvukovi rata isti,
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but the fears of war are the same.
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već je i strah isti.
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You know, there is a fear of dying,
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Znate, postoji strah od umiranja,
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and do not believe any movie character
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i ne verujte nijednoj filmskoj ulozi
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where the hero is not afraid.
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u kojoj se heroj ne plaši.
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It is very scary
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Vrlo je strašno
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to go through that feeling
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proći kroz osećanje,
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of "I am about to die"
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"Umreću"
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or "I could die in this explosion."
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ili "Mogu umreti u ovoj eksploziji".
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But there's also the fear
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Ali tu je i strah
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of losing loved ones,
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od gubitka voljenih,
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and I think that's even worse.
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i misliim da je to čak i strašnije.
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It's too painful. You don't want to think about it.
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Previše je bolno; ne želite da mislite na to.
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But I think the worst kind of fear is the fear --
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Ali mislim da je najgori -
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as Samia, a Bosnian woman, once told me,
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kao što je Samia, žena iz Bosne, jednom rekla,
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who survived the four-years besiege of Sarajevo;
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ona je preživela četvorogodišnju opsadu Sarajeva.
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she said, "The fear
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Rekla je:" Strah
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of losing
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od gubitka
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the 'I' in me,
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svog JA,
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the fear of losing
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strah od gubitka
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the 'I' in me."
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svog JA."
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That's what my mother in Iraq
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To mi je govorila majka
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used to tell me.
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u Iraku.
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It's like dying from inside-out.
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Kao da umirete iznutra.
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A Palestinian woman once told me,
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Palestinska žena mi je jednom rekla:
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"It is not about the fear of one death,"
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"Ne radi se o jednom strahu od smrti,
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she said, "sometimes I feel
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ponekad osećam da
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I die 10 times in one day,"
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sam umrla 10 puta u toku jednog dana",
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as she was describing the marches of soldiers
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i opisivala je marševe vojnika
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and the sounds of their bullets.
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i zvuke njihovih metaka.
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She said, "But it's not fair,
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I rekla je:" Nije fer,
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because there is only one life,
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jer postoji samo jedan život,
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and there should only be one death."
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i treba da bude samo jedna smrt.".
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We have been only seeing
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Viđali smo samo
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one side of war.
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jednu stranu rata.
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We have only been discussing and consumed
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Razgovarali smo o i bili okupirani
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with high-level preoccupations
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važnim zadacima vojnih trupa,
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over troop levels, drawdown timelines,
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zadacima ograničenim vremenom,
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surges and sting operations,
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iznenadnim i obmanljivim operacijama,
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when we should be examining the details
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kada bi trebalo da ispitamo detalje
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of where the social fabric
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o tome gde je socijalno tkivo
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has been most torn,
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najviše razrušeno,
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where the community has improvised
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gde je zajednica improvizovala
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and survived
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i preživela
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and shown acts of resilience
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i pokazala čin otpora
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and amazing courage
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i neverovatnu hrabrost
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just to keep life going.
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radi održanja života.
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We have been so consumed
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Toliko smo zatrpani sa,
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with seemingly objective discussions
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naizgled objektivnim razgovorima
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of politics, tactics,
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o politici, taktici,
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weapons, dollars
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oružju, novcu
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and casualties.
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i žrtvama.
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This is the language
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Ovo je jezik
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of sterility.
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izolovanosti.
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How casually
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Kako se odnosimo
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we treat casualties
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prema žrtvama
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in the context of this topic.
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u kontekstu ove teme.
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This is where we conceive of rape and casualties
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Ovo je mesto gde silovanje i žrtve zamišljamo
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as inevitabilities.
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kao neizbežnost.
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Eighty percent of refugees around the world
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80 odsto izbeglica širom sveta
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are women and children. Oh.
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čine žene i deca. Oh.
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Ninety percent of modern war casualties
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90 odsto žrtava modernog rata
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are civilians.
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jesu civili -
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Seventy-five percent of them are women and children.
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75 odsto od toga su žene i deca.
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How interesting.
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Vrlo zanimljivo.
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Oh, half a million women in Rwanda
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O, pola miliona žena u Ruandi
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get raped in 100 days.
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su silovane za 100 dana.
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Or, as we speak now,
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Ili, u ovom trenutku,
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hundreds of thousands of Congolese women
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stotine hiljada žena iz Konga
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are getting raped and mutilated.
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biva silovano ili osakaćeno.
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How interesting.
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Vrlo zanimljivo.
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These just become numbers that we refer to.
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I one postaju samo brojke na koje ukazujemo.
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The front of wars
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Ratne linije
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is increasingly non-human eyes
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su neljudske oči
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peering down on our perceived enemies
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koje posmatraju iz svemira
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from space,
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one koje smatramo neprijateljima,
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guiding missiles toward unseen targets,
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vodeći rakete ka nevidljivim metama,
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while the human conduct
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dok čovek upravlja
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of the orchestra of media relations
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orkestrom svih medija
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in the event that this particular drone attack
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u slučaju kada raketa pogodi
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hits a villager
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seljaka
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instead of an extremist.
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umesto ekstremistu.
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It is a chess game.
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To je šahovska igra.
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You learn to play an international relations school
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Učite da igrate međunarodno u školi međunarodnih odnosa
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on your way out and up
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na vašem putu dostizanja
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to national and international leadership.
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nacionalnog i internacionalnog vođstva.
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Checkmate.
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Šah - mat.
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We are missing
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Nedostaju nam
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a completely other side of wars.
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potpuno drugčije strane ratova.
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We are missing my mother's story,
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Nedostaje nam priča moje majke,
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who made sure with every siren, with every raid,
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koja se pobrinula da sa svakom sirenom, iznenadnim napadom,
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with every cut off-of electricity,
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svakom restrikcijom struje,
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she played puppet shows for my brothers and I,
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odigra lutkarsku predstavu za moju braću i mene,
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so we would not be scared
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kako se ne bismo uplašili
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of the sounds of explosions.
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zvuka eksplozija.
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We are missing the story of Fareeda,
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Nedostaje nam priča Faride,
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a music teacher,
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profesorke muzičkog,
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a piano teacher, in Sarajevo,
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učiteljice klavira iz Sarajeva,
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who made sure
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koja se pobrinula
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that she kept the music school open
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da muzička škola bude otvorena
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every single day
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svakoga dana
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in the four years of besiege in Sarajevo
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tokom okupacije Sarajeva.
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and walked to that school,
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Išla je peške do škole,
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despite the snipers shooting
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uprkos snajperskim pucnjevima
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at that school and at her,
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na tu školu i na nju,
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and kept the piano, the violin, the cello
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i nastavila da svira klavir, violinu,
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playing the whole duration of the war,
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violončelo tokom čitavog rata,
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with students wearing their gloves and hats and coats.
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sa studentima obučenim u rukavice, kape i kapute.
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That was her fight.
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To je bila njena borba.
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That was her resistance.
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To je bio njen otpor.
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We are missing the story of Nehia,
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Nedostaje nam priča Nehie,
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a Palestinian woman in Gaza
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palestinske žene iz Gaze,
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who, the minute there was a cease-fire in the last year's war,
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koja je, u momentu kada je došlo do prekida vatre prošle godine,
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she left out of home,
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napustila kuću,
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collected all the flour
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sakupila svo brašno
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and baked as much bread for every neighbor to have,
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i ispekla što više hleba za sve komšije,
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in case there is no cease-fire the day after.
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za slučaj da sutra prekida vatre ne bude.
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We are missing
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Nedostaju nam
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the stories of Violet,
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Violetine priče
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who, despite surviving genocide in the church massacre,
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koja je uprkos preživljavanju genocida u crkvenom masakru
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she kept on going on,
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nastavila,
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burying bodies, cleaning homes, cleaning the streets.
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zakopavala leševe, čistila kuće, ulice.
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We are missing stories of women
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Nedostaju nam priče žena
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who are literally keeping life going
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koje jednostavno vode svoje živote
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in the midst of wars.
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u sred rata.
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Do you know --
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Da li znate -
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do you know that people fall in love in war
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da li znate da se ljudi zaljubljuju tokom rata
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and go to school
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i idu u školu
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and go to factories and hospitals
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u fabrike i bolnice
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and get divorced and go dancing and go playing
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i da se razvode i da idu na ples, igraju
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and live life going?
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i žive život?
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And the ones who are keeping that life
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A one koje održavaju taj život
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are women.
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su žene.
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There are two sides of war.
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Postoje dve strane rata.
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There is a side that fights,
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Strana koja se bori,
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and there is a side that keeps the schools
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i strana koja osigurava da škole,
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and the factories and the hospitals open.
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fabrike i bolnice budu otvorene.
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There is a side that is focused on winning battles,
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Postoji strana koja je usmerena na dobijanje bitaka,
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and there is a side that is focused
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i strana koja je fokusirana na
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on winning life.
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pobedu života
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There is a side that leads the front-line discussion,
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Tu je strana koja vodi razgovore na prvoj liniji,
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and there is a side
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i strana koja
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that leads the back-line discussion.
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obavlja diskusiju u pozadini.
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There is a side that thinks
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Strana koja misli
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that peace is the end of fighting,
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da je mir kraj borbama,
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and there is a side that thinks
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i strana koja misli
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that peace is the arrival
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da mir donosi
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of schools and jobs.
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škole i poslove.
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There is a side
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Strana
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that is led by men,
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koju vode muškarci,
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and there is a side
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strana
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that is led by women.
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koju vode žene.
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And in order for us to understand
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I da bismo razumeli
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how do we build lasting peace,
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kako da sagradimo trajni mir,
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we must understand war and peace
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moramo razumeti rat i mir
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from both sides.
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sa obe strane.
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We must have a full picture
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Moramo imati čitavu sliku
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of what that means.
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toga šta to znači.
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In order for us to understand
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Da bismo razumeli
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what actually peace means,
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šta mir (zapravo) znači,
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we need to understand,
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moramo razumeti,
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as one Sudanese woman once told me,
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kao što je žena iz Sudana jednom rekla:
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"Peace is the fact that my toenails
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"MIr je činjenica da nokti na mojim
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are growing back again."
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nogama ponov rastu."
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She grew up in Sudan, in Southern Sudan,
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Ona je rasla u Sudanu, južnom Sudanu,
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for 20 years of war,
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tokom 20 godina rata,
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where it killed one million people
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gde je pobijeno milion ljudi
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and displaced five million refugees.
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i izmešteno pet miliona izbeglica.
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Many women were taken as slaves
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Mnoge žene su načinjene robovima
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by rebels and soldiers,
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od strane pobunjenika i vojnika,
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as sexual slaves who were forced also
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kao seksualni robovi koji su prisiljeni
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to carry the ammunition and the water
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da nose municiju, vodu
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and the food for the soldiers.
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i hranu za vojnike.
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So that woman walked for 20 years,
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Ta žena je hodala 20 godina,
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so she would not be kidnapped again.
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kako ne bi ponovo bila oteta.
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And only when there was some sort of peace,
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I samo onda kada je postojala neka vrsta mira,
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her toenails grew back again.
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njeni nokti na nogama su ponovo rasli.
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We need to understand peace
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Moramo da razumemo mir
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from a toenail's perspective.
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iz perspektive nokta na nogama.
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We need to understand
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Moramo razumeti
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that we cannot actually have negotiations
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da zapravo ne možemo imati pregovore
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of ending of wars or peace
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o završetku rata
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without fully including women
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bez potpune uključenosti žena
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at the negotiating table.
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u proces pregovora.
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I find it amazing
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Zapanjuje me
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that the only group of people
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da jedina grupa ljudi
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who are not fighting and not killing
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koja se ne bori i ne ubija
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and not pillaging and not burning and not raping,
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ne pljačka, ne pali i ne siluje,
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and the group of people who are mostly --
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i grupa ljudi koja uglavnom -
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though not exclusively --
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mada ne isključivo -
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who are keeping life going in the midst of war,
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održava život u sred rata,
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are not included in the negotiating table.
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nije uključena u proces pregovora.
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And I do argue that women lead the back-line discussion,
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Tvrdim da žene upravljaju razgovorima u pozadni,
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but there are also men
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ali postoje i muškarci
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who are excluded from that discussion.
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koji su iz toga isključeni.
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The doctors who are not fighting,
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Doktori koji se ne bore,
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the artists, the students, the men who refuse to pick up the guns,
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umetnici, studenti, oni koji odbijaju da uzmu oružje u ruku,
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they are, too, excluded
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i oni su isključeni
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from the negotiating tables.
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iz procesa pregovora.
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There is no way we can talk about a lasting peace,
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Ne možemo razgovarati o održivom miru,
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building of democracy, sustainable economies,
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izgradnji demokratije, održive ekonomije,
13:29
any kind of stabilities,
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bilo koje stabilnosti,
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if we do not fully include women
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ako u potpunosti ne uključimo žene
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at the negotiating table.
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u pregovore.
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Not one, but 50 percent.
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Ne jedan, nego 50 odsto.
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There is no way we can talk about the building of stability
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Ne možemo govoriti o izgradnji stabilnosti
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if we don't start investing
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ako ne počnemo da ulažemo
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in women and girls.
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u žene i devojčice.
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Did you know
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Da li ste znali
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that one year
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da jednogodišnja
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of the world's military spending
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vojna potrošnja
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equals 700 years
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odgovara UN budžetu
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of the U.N. budget
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za 700 godina,
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and equals 2,928 years
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i jednak je UN budžetu
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of the U.N. budget allocated for women?
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namenjenom ženama za 2928 godina?
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If we just reverse
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Ako preokrenemo
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that distribution of funds,
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distribuciju sredstava,
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perhaps we could have
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možda bismo mogli imati
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a better lasting peace in this world.
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bolji održivi mir u svetu.
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And last, but not least,
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I na kraju, ali ne i manje važno,
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we need to invest in peace and women,
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moramo da ulažemo u mir i žene,
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not only because it is the right thing to do,
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ne samo zato što je to ispravno,
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not only because it is the right thing to do,
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ne zbog toga što je za nas dobro
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for all of us to build sustainable and lasting peace today,
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da izgradimo održivi i trajni mir za sve nas,
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but it is for the future.
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već i za budućnost.
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A Congolese woman,
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Žena iz Konga,
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who was telling me about
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koja mi je ispričala
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how her children saw their father killed in front of them
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kako su njena deca videla kako njihov otac gine
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and saw her raped in front of them
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i kako nju siluju
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and mutilated in front of them,
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i sakate je,
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and her children saw their nine-year-old sibling
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videla su i kako je njihov devetogodišnji brat
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killed in front of them,
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ubijen pred njihovim očima,
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how they're doing okay right now.
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i sada su dobro.
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She got into Women for Women International's program.
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Uključila se u program " Women for Women International".
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She got a support network.
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Dobila je mrežu podrške.
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She learned about her rights.
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Naučila je svoja prava.
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We taught her vocational and business skills. We helped her get a job.
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Naučila je stručne i poslovne veštine. Pomogli smo joj da nađe posao.
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She was earning 450 dollars. She was doing okay.
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Zarađivala je 450 dolara. Bila je dobro.
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She was sending them to school. Have a new home.
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Deca su išla u školu - imaju novi dom.
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She said, "But what I worry about the most
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Rekla je: " Ono što me najviše brine
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is not any of that.
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nisu te stvari.
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I worry that my children
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Brine me da moja deca
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have hate in their hearts,
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imaju mržnju u svojim srcima,
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and when they want to grow up, they want to fight again
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i da će kad odrastu, želeti ponovo da se bore
15:21
the killers of their father and their brother."
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sa ubicama nihovog oca i brata."
15:25
We need to invest in women,
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Moramo ulagati u žene,
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because that's our only chance
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jer su one naša jedina šansa
15:31
to ensure that there is no more war
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da osiguramo da u budućnosti više
15:33
in the future.
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ne bude rata.
15:35
That mother has a better chance to heal her children
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Ova majka ima bolje šanse da oporavi svoju decu,
15:38
than any peace agreement can do.
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nego bilo koji dogovor o primirju.
15:42
Are there good news? Of course, there are good news. There are lots of good news.
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Ima li dobrih vesti? Naravno da ima. Ima ih mnogo.
15:45
To start with, these women that I told you about
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Da počnemo, ove žene o kojima sam vam pričala
15:48
are dancing and singing every single day,
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igraju i pevaju svakog dana,
15:51
and if they can,
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i ako mogu,
15:53
who are we not to dance?
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ko smo mi da to zabranimo.
15:55
That girl that I told you about
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Devojka o kojoj sam vam pričala
15:57
ended up starting Women for Women International Group
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je osnovala grupu "Women for Women International"
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that impacted one million people, sent 80 million dollars,
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koja je uticala na milion ljudi, poslala 80 miliona dolara,
16:03
and I started this from zero,
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a počela sam od nule,
16:05
nothing, nada, [unclear].
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ništa, nada ( nejasno).
16:08
(Laughter)
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( smeh )
16:11
They are women who are standing on their feet
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To su žene koje stoje na svojim nogama
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in spite of their circumstances,
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uprkos svojim okolnostima,
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not because of it.
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a ne zbog njih.
16:20
Think of how the world can be a much better place
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Pomislite kako bi svet bilo bolje mesto
16:23
if, for a change,
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ako bi, za promenu,
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we have a better equality,
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imali veću ravnopravnost,
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we have equality,
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da je imamo,
16:29
we have a representation
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da imamo predstavnicu žena
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and we understand war,
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i razumemo rat,
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both from the front-line
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sa obe strane, ratne
16:35
and the back-line discussion.
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i svakodnevne.
16:37
Rumi, a 13th-century Sufi poet,
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Rumi, Sufi pesnik iz 13. veka,
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says, "Out beyond the worlds
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kaže:" Izvan svetova
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of right-doings and wrong-doings,
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ispravnih i pogrešnih dela,
16:45
there is a field.
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postoji polje.
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I will meet you there.
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Srešćemo se tamo.
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When the soul lies down in that grass,
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Kada duša leži u toj travi,
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the world is too full
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svet je prepun
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to talk about.
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razgovora.
16:56
Ideas, language,
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Ideje, jezik,
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even the phrase 'each other'
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čak i izraz "jedno za drugo"
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no longer makes any sense."
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više nema smisla.".
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I humbly add -- humbly add --
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Skromno dodajem - ponizno -
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that out beyond
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da izvan
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the worlds of war and peace,
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svetova rata i mira,
17:12
there is a field,
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postoji polje,
17:14
and there are many women and men
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gde postoji mnogo žena i muškaraca
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[who] are meeting there.
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koji se tu sreću.
17:20
Let us make this field a much bigger place.
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Hajde da to polje načinimo većim.
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Let us all meet in that field.
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Hajde da se svi tu sretnemo.
17:26
Thank you.
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Hvala vam.
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(Applause)
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( aplauz )
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Zainab Salbi - Activist and social entrepreneurIraqi-born Zainab Salbi founded and runs Women for Women International, and has dedicated her life to helping women in war-torn regions rebuild their lives and communities.
Why you should listen
In her memoir Hidden in Plain Sight: Growing Up in the Shadow of Saddam, Zainab Salbi writes of being raised in Saddam Hussein's inner circle -- her father was Saddam's personal pilot. She left Iraq for an arranged marriage in the US, which quickly became another form of tyranny. But in 1993, when she heard of the rape and concentration camps in Bosnia, she realized she could no longer remain passive. Salbi founded Women for Women International to help women who are victims of war in every way -- from those who've been physically harmed to those who suffer from the poverty that war and strife inevitably bring. WFWI provides economic and emotional aid, job-skills training, and rights education, empowering women to stop the cycle of violence and create social change.
In her latest book, The Other Side of War, she shares personal stories of women's experience in conflict. As she writes: "War is not a computer-generated missile striking a digital map. War is the color of earth as it explodes in our faces, the sound of child pleading, the smell of smoke and fear. Women survivors of war are not the single image portrayed on the television screen, but the glue that holds families and countries together. Perhaps by understanding women, and the other side of war ... we will have more humility in our discussions of wars... perhaps it is time to listen to women's side of history."
Zainab Salbi | Speaker | TED.com