Meaghan Ramsey: Why thinking you're ugly is bad for you
مگان رمزی: چرا تصور اینکه زشت هستین براتون بده
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و شروع کرده به راه رفتن.
one-year-olds do,
too-fast-for-my-legs kind of way.
بدنم از پاهام تندتر میره.
things to do at the moment
دوست داره بکنه
herself these big, wet kisses.
ماچ های گنده آبدار از خودش برمیداره.
tells me that I used to do this,
مادرم میگه منم این کارو میکردم،
the way that we look?
دیگه قیافه خودمونو دوست نداریم؟
lives in Denver.
be liked and to fit in.
دوستش داشته باشن و تأییدش کنن.
she's a bit confused because
that she's ugly.
یکی بهش میگه اون زشته.
tells her and what her friends
مامانش میگه و چیزی که دوستاش
She posts it to YouTube
اونو میفرسته یوتیوب
a comment:
over 13,000 comments.
bear thinking about.
ارزش فکر کردنو ندارن.
teenage girl receiving this feedback
times in her life.
and available at all times,
sharing, posting —
نظر دادن، به اشتراک گذاشتن، ارسال مطلب--
اینطور در سن پایین.
in their bedroom every night.
مثل اینه که هر شب تو اتاق خوابشون یه مهمونیه.
with that are relentless.
our kids to value themselves
به بچه های ما یاد میده به خودشون نمره بدن
hard to tell the difference between.
سخت بشه تفاوت بین اونا رو گفت.
between what's authentic
what's normal in the context of everyday.
در مقابل چیزی که تو زندگی روزمره عادیه.
that are covering the newsfeeds
تو خبرخوانهای
رانهای فاصله دار (thighgap)،
و پروآنا (لاغری مفرط).
شکل خفیف آنورکسی (بی اشتهایی).
stereotyping and flagrant objectification
benchmarking themselves against.
با اون مقیاس می سنجن سخت نیست.
of superhero-like sports stars
شکم ورزشکاری شبیه قهرمانهای بدنسازی
well balanced individuals.
بچه هامون افراد سالم و متعادلی بشن.
training our kids
ما بچه هامونو طوری بار میاریم
their appearance
of their identities.
of their physical abilities,
تواناییهای جسمی،
something because they don't
ترجیح میدن کاری نکنن چون
development as humans
به عنوان انسان
the workforce.
ضروری هستن.
three teenagers, are withdrawing
تقریباً یکی از هر سه نوجوان،
way that they look.
کلاً کلاس نمیان.
you actually weigh.
you actually look.
نه اونی که واقعاً داریم.
academic achievement.
موفقیت در دانشگاه رو مشکل میکنه.
do less physical activity,
فعالیت جسمانی کمتری دارن،
practices
برای کاهش وزن گرایش دارن
that they take more risks
که خطر
unprotected, earlier sex;
روابط جنسی پرخطر در سنین پایینتر؛
pressure on our healthcare systems
نظامهای سلامت ما رو تحت فشار گذاشته
dollars every year.
میلیاردها دلار هزینه داره.
about the way that they look.
to do this.
that the best programs
friends and relationships.
one another
our own circles.
و درباره شون صحبت میشه.
to her not being a looker.
نداشته باشه پایین میاد.
کارها و رفتارشون قضاوت کنیم،
for the types of pictures
their effort
this culture of ours
فرهنگ خودمون رو واقعاً تغییر بدیم
whole selves,
به تمام وجود خودشون بها بدن،
به رسمیت شناخته شدن، بها بدن.
making a real difference
who they are
for someone in your life.
تو زندگی تون هست تصور کنید.
a couple of seats away
که چند تا صندلی اون ور
ازش ایراد میگیره که باید
اگه به اون غلبه کنیم
برنامه های آموزشی مون بکنیم.
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Meaghan Ramsey - Self-esteem advocateMeaghan Ramsey believes in business growth that stems from real social change.
Why you should listen
Meaghan Ramsey helps businesses and brands shape their operations and organizations in a way that delivers both positive social change and business growth. She is a partner in the Business in Society Practice at the Brunswick Group.
With her origins in nutritional science, Ramsey has worked across FMCG, health as well as food and beverage sectors, and she has consulted to pharmaceutical, media, agricultural, tech start-ups, charities and non-government organizations.
Prior to joining Brunswick, Ramsey was the Global Director of the Dove Self-Esteem Project at Unilever in London. In her role, she developed global education programs and mass-media campaigns that encouraged the participation of millions of young girls and women around the world to improve individual confidence. Her TED Talk and speech at the UN's 59th Commission on the Status of Women helped highlight the importance of this particular work and the urgent need to address it. Ramsey speaks regularly on the role business can, and must, play in creating a sustainable, positive future.
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