ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Meaghan Ramsey - Self-esteem advocate
Meaghan Ramsey believes in business growth that stems from real social change.

Why you should listen

Meaghan Ramsey helps businesses and brands shape their operations and organizations in a way that delivers both positive social change and business growth. She is a partner in the Business in Society Practice at the Brunswick Group.

With her origins in nutritional science, Ramsey has worked across FMCG, health as well as food and beverage sectors, and she has consulted to pharmaceutical, media, agricultural, tech start-ups, charities and non-government organizations.

Prior to joining Brunswick, Ramsey was the Global Director of the Dove Self-Esteem Project at Unilever in London. In her role, she developed global education programs and mass-media campaigns that encouraged the participation of millions of young girls and women around the world to improve individual confidence. Her TED Talk and speech at the UN's 59th Commission on the Status of Women helped highlight the importance of this particular work and the urgent need to address it. Ramsey speaks regularly on the role business can, and must, play in creating a sustainable, positive future.

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Meaghan Ramsey: Why thinking you're ugly is bad for you

梅根·拉姆齐: 为什么认为自己丑会对你不利

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每个月大约会有10000个人在谷歌上搜索“我丑吗?”Dove Self-Esteem Project 的梅根·拉姆齐感觉到其中大多数是年轻的女孩。在这个深深令人不安的演讲中,她带我们领略了因对自己的身材和长相不够自信而产生的惊人影响——从更低的平均分到更高的滥用酒精和毒品的危险。然后她为我们分享了如何打破这一现实的一些关键事项。
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This is my niece侄女, Stella斯特拉.
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这是我的侄女,斯特拉。
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She's just turned转身 one and started开始 to walk步行.
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她刚满一岁并开始学走路了。
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And she's walking步行 in that really cool way that
one-year-olds一岁的孩子 do,
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她正在用一岁的小孩通常使用的非常酷的方式走路,
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a kind of teetering摇摇欲坠, my-body's-moving-我-身体上,moving-
too-fast-for-my-legs过于快速换我的腿 kind of way.
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那种摇摇晃晃、身体比腿移动得快得多的方式。
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It is absolutely绝对 gorgeous华丽.
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这真的很有意思。
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And one of her favorite喜爱
things to do at the moment时刻
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她最喜欢做的事情之一
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is to stare at herself她自己 in the mirror镜子.
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就是盯着镜子里的自己。
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She absolutely绝对 loves her reflection反射.
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她非常喜欢自己在镜子里的影像。
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She giggles笑声 and squeals尖叫声, and gives
herself她自己 these big, wet湿 kisses.
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她边笑边叫,然后给了镜子中的自己一些大大的、湿湿的吻。
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It is beautiful美丽.
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很漂亮。
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Apparently显然地, all of her friends朋友 do this and my mom妈妈
tells告诉 me that I used to do this,
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很显然,她所有的朋友都这样做,然后我妈说我小时候也是这样的,
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and it got me thinking思维:
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这让我想到一个问题:
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When did I stop doing this?
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我是什么时候停止这样做的?
00:55
When is it suddenly突然 not okay to love
the way that we look?
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从什么时候开始,突然间我们不再喜欢自己的长相了?
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Because apparently显然地 we don't.
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因为很显然我们不再那样做。
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Ten thousand people every一切 month google谷歌,
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每个月都有一万人在谷歌上搜索
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"Am I ugly丑陋?"
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“我丑吗?“
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This is Faye王菲. Faye王菲 is 13 and she
lives生活 in Denver丹佛.
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这是法耶,她13岁,住在丹佛。
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And like any teenager青少年, she just wants to
be liked喜欢 and to fit适合 in.
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就像所有的青少年一样,她也想被别人喜欢并与人相处融洽。
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It's Sunday星期日 night.
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这是星期天晚上。
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She's getting得到 ready准备 for the week ahead at school学校.
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她正在为下周的学校生活做准备。
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And she's slightly dreading害怕 it, and
she's a bit confused困惑 because
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她有些害怕,并且有一点困惑,因为
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despite尽管 her mom妈妈 telling告诉 her all the time
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尽管她妈妈一直告诉她说
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that she's beautiful美丽,
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她很漂亮,
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every一切 day at school学校, someone有人 tells告诉 her
that she's ugly丑陋.
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但是每天在学校都会有人说她长得难看。
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Because of the difference区别 between之间 what her mom妈妈
tells告诉 her and what her friends朋友
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因为她妈妈告诉她的和她在学校的朋友
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at school学校, or her peers同行 at school学校 are telling告诉 her,
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或同龄人告诉她的是不同的,
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she doesn't know who to believe.
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所以她不知道该相信谁。
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So, she takes a video视频 of herself她自己.
She posts帖子 it to YouTubeYouTube的
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因此,她为自己拍摄了一个视频并放到了YouTube上,
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and she asks people to please leave离开
a comment评论:
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然后她让大家来评论:
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"Am I pretty漂亮 or am I ugly丑陋?"
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“我长得漂亮还是难看?”
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Well, so far, Faye王菲 has received收到
over 13,000 comments注释.
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截止目前,法耶共收到了超过13000个评论。
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Some of them are so nasty讨厌, they don't
bear thinking思维 about.
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它们中的一些很下流,不值一提。
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This is an average平均, healthy-looking健康的前瞻性
teenage青少年 girl女孩 receiving接收 this feedback反馈
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这是一个普通的、看起来很健康的少女
在她生命中情感最脆弱的时光收到的回复。
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at one of the most emotionally感情上 vulnerable弱势
times in her life.
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Thousands成千上万 of people are posting发帖 videos视频 like this,
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有成千上万的人们上传这样的视频,
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mostly大多 teenage青少年 girls女孩, reaching到达 out in this way.
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他们中大部分都是十几岁的女孩,用这种方式来接触外界。
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But what's leading领导 them to do this?
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然而是什么导致他们这样做的呢?
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Well, today's今天的 teenagers青少年 are rarely很少 alone单独.
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今天的青少年很少独处。
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They're under pressure压力 to be online线上
and available可得到 at all times,
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他们被迫上网并随时保持在线,
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talking, messaging消息, liking喜欢, commenting评论,
sharing分享, posting发帖
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聊天、发信息、点赞、评论、分享、上传——
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it never ends结束.
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无休无止。
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Never before have we been so connected连接的,
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我们之前从来没有如此被紧密地联系,
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so continuously一直, so instantaneously瞬间, so young年轻.
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而且是如此地无休无止、如此快速,如此年轻。
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And as one mom妈妈 told me, it's like there's a party派对
in their bedroom卧室 every一切 night.
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正如一位妈妈跟我说的,似乎每天晚上他们的卧室里都有聚会。
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There's simply只是 no privacy隐私.
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简直毫无隐私。
而由此伴随而来的社会压力也是残酷的。
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And the social社会 pressures压力 that go along沿
with that are relentless.
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This always-on永远在线 environment环境 is training训练
our kids孩子 to value themselves他们自己
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这种永远在线的环境将我们的孩子训练成
要靠通过他们获得的点赞数量
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based基于 on the number of likes喜欢 they get
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and the types类型 of comments注释 that they receive接收.
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和收到的评论来肯定自己的价值。
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There's no separation分割 between之间 online线上 and offline离线 life.
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没有线上和线下之分,
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What's real真实 or what isn't is really
hard to tell the difference区别 between之间.
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很难区分什么是真实的什么不是真实的,
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And it's also really hard to tell the difference区别
between之间 what's authentic真实
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也很难区分现实
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and what's digitally数字 manipulated操纵.
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和虚拟世界。
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What's a highlight突出 in someone's谁家 life versus
what's normal正常 in the context上下文 of everyday每天.
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也分不清日常生活和精彩时光。
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And where are they looking to for inspiration灵感?
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那他们又从哪里去获得灵感呢?
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Well, you can see the kinds of images图片
that are covering覆盖 the newsfeeds新闻推送
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你可以看看那些今天出现在各种新闻中
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of girls女孩 today今天.
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女孩的形象。
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Size尺寸 zero models楷模 still dominate支配 our catwalks走秀.
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“零号尺寸”模特仍然统治着T形台。
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Airbrushing喷枪 is now routine常规.
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修饰照片现在也很常见。
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And trends趋势 like #thinspirationthinspiration, #thighgapthighgap,
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现在的趋势是#励瘦、#大腿间距、
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#bikinibridgebikinibridge and #proanaproana.
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#比基尼桥和#安娜运动。
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For those who don't know, #proanaproana means手段 pro-anorexia亲厌食.
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要跟那些不明白这些的人提一下,#安娜运动的意思是支持厌食。
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These trends趋势 are teamed联手 with the
stereotyping定型 and flagrant明目张胆 objectification客观
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这些趋势与今天的流行文化中对女性的刻板印象
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of women妇女 in today's今天的 popular流行 culture文化.
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和公然物化结合在一起。
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It is not hard to see what girls女孩 are
benchmarking标杆 themselves他们自己 against反对.
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从中不难看出女孩子们是怎样定位自己的。
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But boys男孩 are not immune免疫的 to this either.
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但是男孩子们对此也不能幸免。
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Aspiring抱负 to the chiseled轮廓分明 jaw lines线 and ripped撕开 six packs
of superhero-like超级英雄般的 sports体育 stars明星
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他们渴望拥有轮廓分明的下巴线条和像英雄般的体育明星
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and playboy花花公子 music音乐 artists艺术家.
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以及花花公子音乐艺术家所拥有的六块腹肌。
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But, what's the problem问题 with all of this?
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但是, 所有的这些表现的问题是什么呢?
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Well, surely一定 we want our kids孩子 to grow增长 up as healthy健康,
well balanced均衡 individuals个人.
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我们当然希望我们的孩子成长为一个健康、均衡发展的个人。
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But in an image-obsessed图像痴迷 culture文化, we are
training训练 our kids孩子
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但是在这样一个对相貌着迷的文化中,我们正将我们的孩子训练成
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to spend more time and mental心理 effort功夫 on
their appearance出现
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将更多的时间和精力花在外貌上,
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at the expense费用 of all of the other aspects方面
of their identities身份.
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而对于其他方面的身份认同关注更少的人。
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So, things like their relationships关系, the development发展
of their physical物理 abilities能力,
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因此,他们会在人际关系、体能发展
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and their studies学习 and so on begin开始 to suffer遭受.
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和学习等方面开始受挫。
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Six out of 10 girls女孩 are now choosing选择 not to do
something because they don't
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现在10个女孩中有6个会因为她们觉得自己不够好看
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think they look good enough足够.
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而不去做某事。
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These are not trivial不重要的 activities活动.
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这些都不是琐事。
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These are fundamental基本的 activities活动 to their
development发展 as humans人类
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作为人类以及社会和职场的参与者的发展来说,
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and as contributors贡献者 to society社会 and to
the workforce劳动力.
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这些都是基本的。
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Thirty-one三十一 percent百分, nearly几乎 one in
three teenagers青少年, are withdrawing撤销
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有31%,也就是说将近三分之一的青少年
会从课堂辩论中退出。
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from classroom课堂 debate辩论. They're failing失败
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to engage从事 in classroom课堂 debate辩论 because
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他们退出是因为
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they don't want to draw attention注意 to the
way that they look.
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不想让别人注意到他们的长相。
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One in five are not showing展示 up to class at all
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有五分之一的青少年在感觉不是很好的时候
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on days when they don't feel good about it.
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甚至都不会在班级里露面。
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And when it comes to exams考试,
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考试的时候,
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if you don't think you look good enough足够,
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如果你觉得自己不够好看,
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specifically特别 if you don't think you are thin enough足够,
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特别是如果你觉得自己不够苗条的话,
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you will score得分了 a lower降低 grade年级 point average平均
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那么跟那些不关心这些的同学比起来
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than your peers同行 who are not concerned关心 with this.
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你可能得到的平均分数要比他们低。
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And this is consistent一贯 across横过 Finland芬兰, the U.S.
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这一点不管是在芬兰、美国
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and China中国, and is true真正 regardless而不管 of how much
you actually其实 weigh称重.
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还是中国都是一致的,而且不管你真实的体重是多少。
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So to be super clear明确, we're talking about the
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所以非常清楚,我们是在讨论
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way you think you look, not how
you actually其实 look.
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你所认为的自己的长相,而不是你的真实长相。
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Low body身体 confidence置信度 is undermining破坏
academic学术的 achievement成就.
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对身体的信心不足会削弱学业成绩。
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But it's also damaging有害 health健康.
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而且也会有损健康。
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Teenagers青少年 with low body身体 confidence置信度
do less physical物理 activity活动,
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那些对自己身体信心不足的青少年会更少参加体育活动,
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eat less fruits水果 and vegetables蔬菜,
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吃更少的水果和蔬菜,
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partake参加 in more unhealthy不良 weight重量 control控制
practices做法
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而会更多参加那些不健康的可能导致饮食失调的
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that can lead to eating disorders障碍.
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体重控制训练。
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They have lower降低 self-esteem自尊.
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他们的自尊心也会更低。
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They're more easily容易 influenced影响 by people around them
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他们更容易受到周围人的影响,
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and they're at greater更大 risk风险 of depression萧条.
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并且有更高的抑郁的风险。
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And we think it's for all of these reasons原因
that they take more risks风险
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基于以上理由,我们认为他们有更高的风险去做
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with things like alcohol and drug药物 use;
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那些像酗酒、吸毒、
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crash紧急 dieting节食; cosmetic化妆品 surgery手术;
unprotected无保护, earlier sex性别;
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快速减肥、整容、无防护措施以及过早的性交
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and self-harm自残.
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和自残这样的事情。
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The pursuit追求 of the perfect完善 body身体 is putting
pressure压力 on our healthcare卫生保健 systems系统
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对完美身材的追求正使医保系统饱受压力
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and costing成本核算 our governments政府 billions数十亿 of
dollars美元 every一切 year.
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并且每年要花费政府数十亿美元。
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And we don't grow增长 out of it.
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而且我们并不会因为长大而放弃追求完美身材。
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Women妇女 who think they're overweight超重 — again,
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那些认为自己超重的妇女——不管她们
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regardless而不管 of whether是否 they are or are not —
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是否真的超重——
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have higher更高 rates利率 of absenteeism旷工.
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会有更高的缺勤率。
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Seventeen十七 percent百分 of women妇女 would
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17%的女性会因为
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not show显示 up to a job工作 interview访问 on
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某天感觉对自己的长相不自信
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a day when they weren't feeling感觉 confident信心
about the way that they look.
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而不去参加那天的面试。
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Have a think about what this is doing
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想一下这对我们的经济
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to our economy经济.
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会有什么影响。
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If we could overcome克服 this, what that
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如果我们能克服这些,将会带来
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opportunity机会 looks容貌 like.
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哪些机会。
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Unlocking解锁 this potential潜在 is in the interest利益
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释放这个潜能将有益于
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of every一切 single one of us.
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我们每一个人。
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But how do we do that?
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但是我们该如何去做呢?
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Well, talking, on its own拥有, only gets得到 you so far.
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单独的空谈,也就只能到此为止了。
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It's not enough足够 by itself本身.
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它本身是不够的。
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If you actually其实 want to make a difference区别,
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如果你真的想有所改变,
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you have to do something.
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你得去做点什么。
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And we've我们已经 learned学到了 there are three key ways方法:
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而我们了解到这里有三个关键的方法:
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The first is we have to educate教育 for body身体 confidence置信度.
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首先我们得培养自己对身体充满信心。
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We have to help our teenagers青少年 develop发展
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strategies策略 to overcome克服 image-related图像相关 pressures压力
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策略去克服跟形象有关的压力
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and build建立 their self-esteem自尊.
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并且建立他们的自尊心。
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Now, the good news新闻 is that there are
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好消息是现在已经有
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many许多 programs程式 out there available可得到
to do this.
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许多这样的项目。
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The bad news新闻 is that most of them don't work.
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坏消息是大多数这样的项目没有效。
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I was shocked吃惊 to learn学习 that many许多 well-meaning善意
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我很震惊地了解到许多善意的
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programs程式 are inadvertently不经意间 actually其实
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项目却无意中
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making制造 the situation情况 worse更差.
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使得情况更糟糕了。
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So we need to make damn该死的 sure that
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因此我们要确保
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the programs程式 that our kids孩子 are receiving接收
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我们的孩子们正在接受的项目
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are not only having a positive impact碰撞,
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不仅是对他们有积极影响的,
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but having a lasting持久 impact碰撞 as well.
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而且还要有持续的影响。
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And the research研究 shows节目
that the best最好 programs程式
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研究表明最好的项目
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address地址 six key areas:
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跟六个关键领域有关:
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The first is the influence影响 of family家庭,
friends朋友 and relationships关系.
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首先是家人和亲朋好友的影响。
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The second第二 is media媒体 and celebrity名人 culture文化,
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其次是媒体和名人文化,
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then how to handle处理 teasing戏弄 and bullying欺凌,
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然后是如何处理调侃和欺凌,
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the way we compete竞争 and compare比较 with
one another另一个
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同其他人基于长相的
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based基于 on looks容貌,
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竞争和比较的方式,
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talking about appearance出现 — some people
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对相貌的讨论——有些人
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call this "body身体 talk" or "fat脂肪 talk" —
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称之为"身材谈话“或”肥胖谈话“——
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and finally最后, the foundations基金会 of respecting关于
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最后一点,是你尊重
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and looking after yourself你自己.
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和看待自己的基础。
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These six things are crucial关键 starting开始 points
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这六件事对于那些
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for anyone任何人 serious严重 about delivering交付
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真正想要实现有效的身体信心教育的人来说
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body-confidence身体的自信 education教育 that works作品.
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是至关重要的起点。
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An education教育 is critical危急,
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教育是很重要的,
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but tackling抢断 this problem问题 is going
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但是解决这个问题需要
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to require要求 each and everyone大家 of us
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我们所有人
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to step up and be better role角色 models楷模
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提升自己并且成为
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for the women妇女 and girls女孩 in our own拥有 lives生活.
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我们生活中的妇女和女孩们更好的榜样。
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Challenging具有挑战性的 the status状态 quo现状 of how
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挑战我们在圈子中
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women妇女 are seen看到 and talked about in
our own拥有 circles.
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如何看待和谈论女性的现状。
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It is not okay that we judge法官 the contribution贡献
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我们不能仅凭
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of our politicians政治家 by their haircuts理发
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政治家的发型和胸围
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or the size尺寸 of their breasts乳房,
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去判断她的贡献大小,
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or to infer推断 that the determination决心 or the success成功
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或者因为长相不佳而推断
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of an Olympian奥林匹亚 is down
to her not being存在 a looker旁观者.
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一个奥运会运动员不会成功。
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We need to start开始 judging判断 people by what they do,
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我们需要根据人们的所做所为去评判一个人,
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not what they look like.
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而不是他们的长相。
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We can all start开始 by taking服用 responsibility责任
for the types类型 of pictures图片
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我们可以从对我们
发布在社交网络上的图片和评论
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and comments注释 that we post岗位
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on our own拥有 social社会 networks网络.
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担起责任开始做起。
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We can compliment赞扬 people based基于 on
their effort功夫
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我们可以基于人们的努力
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and their actions行动
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和行动去赞美他们
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and not on their appearance出现.
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而不是他们的相貌。
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And let me ask you,
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让我来问问你,
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when was the last time that you
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你上一次对着镜子亲吻
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kissed a mirror镜子?
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是什么时候?
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Ultimately最终,, we need to work together一起
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最终,我们需要跟
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as communities社区, as governments政府
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社区、政府
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and as businesses企业 to really change更改
this culture文化 of ours我们的
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和企业一起努力去改变我们的这些文化,
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so that our kids孩子 grow增长 up valuing价值评估 their
whole整个 selves自我,
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这样我们的孩子才能在成长中获得完整的自我,
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valuing价值评估 individuality个性, diversity多样, inclusion包容.
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重视个性、多元和包容。
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We need to put the people that are
making制造 a real真实 difference区别
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我们要让那些正在改变
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on our pedestals基座, making制造 a difference区别
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我们的现状的人去改变
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in the real真实 world世界.
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真实的世界。
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Giving给予 them the airtime通话时间, because only then
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给他们时间,因为只有这样
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will we create创建 a different不同 world世界.
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我们才能创造一个不同的世界,
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A world世界 where our kids孩子 are free自由 to become成为
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一个我们的孩子可以自由地成为
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the best最好 versions版本 of themselves他们自己,
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最好的自己的世界,
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where the way they think they look
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一个他们不会因自己的长相
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never holds持有 them back from being存在
who they are
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而阻碍他们成为自己想要成为的人
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or achieving实现 what they want in life.
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或者获得想要的东西的世界。
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Think about what this might威力 mean
for someone有人 in your life.
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想一下这对你生命中的某个人可能意味着什么。
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Who have you got in mind心神?
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你脑海中出现了谁?
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Is it your wife妻子?
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你的妻子?
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Your sister妹妹?
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你妹妹?
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Your daughter女儿?
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你女儿?
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Your niece侄女?
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你侄女?
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Your friend朋友? It could just be the woman女人
a couple一对 of seats away
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还是你的某个朋友?也可能只是今天
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from you today今天.
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跟你隔着几个座位的某个女性。
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What would it mean for her
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这将对她意味着什么呢?
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if she were freed释放 from that voice语音
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如果她能摆脱内心挑剔的声音
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of her inner critic评论家, nagging唠叨 her to have
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唠叨她要有
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longer legs, thinner更薄 thighs大腿, smaller stomach,
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更长更细的大腿,更瘦的肚子
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shorter feet?
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和更短的脚。
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What could it mean for her if we overcame克服了 this
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如果我们能克服这些并打开
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and unlocked解锁 her potential潜在 in that way?
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她在那方面的潜力,那对她来说又将意味着什么?
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Right now, our culture's文化的 obsession困扰
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现在,我们的文化中对形象的痴迷
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with image图片 is holding保持 us all back.
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阻碍了我们所有人。
但是让我们向孩子们展示真相。
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But let's show显示 our kids孩子 the truth真相.
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Let's show显示 them that the way you look
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让我们向他们表明长相
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is just one part部分 of your identity身分
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只是身份的一部分,
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and that the truth真相 is we love them
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而事实是我们爱他们是因为
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for who they are
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他们是谁
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and what they do
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和他们的所做所为
以及他们给我们的感觉。
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and how they make us feel.
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让我们在学校的课程中设置自尊心科目。
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Let's build建立 self-esteem自尊 into our school学校 curriculums课程.
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让我们每一个人改变
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Let's each and every一切 one of us change更改 the way
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我们谈论自己和跟他人比较的方式。
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we talk and compare比较 ourselves我们自己 to other people.
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11:42
And let's work together一起 as communities社区,
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让我们作为团体一起努力,
从基层到政府,
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from grassroots基层 to governments政府,
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so that the happy快乐 little one-year-olds一岁的孩子
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以便这些今天一岁大的快乐的孩子
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of today今天 become成为 the confident信心
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成为
明天自信的变革者。
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changemakersChangemakers计划 of tomorrow明天.
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Let's do this.
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让我们这样做吧。
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(Applause掌声)
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(掌声)
Translated by chunhua zhang
Reviewed by Chenyang Lin

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Meaghan Ramsey - Self-esteem advocate
Meaghan Ramsey believes in business growth that stems from real social change.

Why you should listen

Meaghan Ramsey helps businesses and brands shape their operations and organizations in a way that delivers both positive social change and business growth. She is a partner in the Business in Society Practice at the Brunswick Group.

With her origins in nutritional science, Ramsey has worked across FMCG, health as well as food and beverage sectors, and she has consulted to pharmaceutical, media, agricultural, tech start-ups, charities and non-government organizations.

Prior to joining Brunswick, Ramsey was the Global Director of the Dove Self-Esteem Project at Unilever in London. In her role, she developed global education programs and mass-media campaigns that encouraged the participation of millions of young girls and women around the world to improve individual confidence. Her TED Talk and speech at the UN's 59th Commission on the Status of Women helped highlight the importance of this particular work and the urgent need to address it. Ramsey speaks regularly on the role business can, and must, play in creating a sustainable, positive future.

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