Elizabeth Lesser: Say your truths and seek them in others
伊丽莎白·雷思尔: 说出你的真相,并探寻他人的真相
Elizabeth Lesser helps her readers and students transform their lives after brushes with pain, adversity and life's myriad problems. Full bio
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for all of them.
所有的工作奠定了基石。
throughout my 20s.
valuable and sometimes surprising things,
乃至不可思议的事情,
当气温是零下十度的时候,
who's fainted at the sight of blood.
that stuck with me or guided me
and started other jobs.
with a unique worth.
to describe that spark,
that comes close to naming
as a snowflake,
of things happen to us
eccentricities and authenticity.
灵魂上的独特和真实。
of our time uncomfortable in our own skin,
authenticity deficit disorder.
from laboring women.
it has to stretch from this
that would happen
并要张开宫口时,
of the universe took notice
or painful things happen to me
what I learned from the mothers:
from Albert Einstein.
Albert Einstein concluded
experience of life
is this whole other dimension
and the future merge
this state, this dimension,
hours and hours,
I took with me from midwifery.
or painful, try to stay open.
step off your hamster wheel
throughout my life,
最重要的工作时,
important job of my life thus far.
came out of remission
was a bone marrow transplant.
we found a match for her,
I was my sister's perfect genetic match,
我是妹妹的最佳配型时,
there's lots of things.
会发生很多事情。
and there's protection.
assembling many of those first layers
is pretty straightforward.
in the cancer patient
marrow cells from a donor.
engraft in the patient.
transplants are fraught with danger.
through the near-lethal chemotherapy,
a long history of love,
of rejection and attack,
to bigger betrayals.
the kind of the relationship
in all kinds of relationships,
the dangers of rejection or attack,
transplant up to the doctors,
to call our "soul marrow transplant?"
“灵魂骨髓移植”会怎样?
we had caused each other,
给彼此造成的伤痛,
I turned to my parents' holy text:
我像我父母的圣经寻求帮助:
why we should visit a therapist
骨髓取出并植入她身体之前
and transplanted into her body.
I made up in my head."
臆想出他做过的那件事。”
in our heads that kept us separate.
彼此分离。
of each of those cells
for the rest of your life,"
our relationship."
do all sorts of risky things,
各种各样危险的事情,
or jumping out of an airplane
to undergo the bone marrow harvest,
能够进行骨髓移植手术,
of harvest and transplant,
with another human being,
our vulnerable souls.
after the harvest.
我和我的骨髓细胞拍的照片。
farm-to-table event --
more and more time together.
this kind of work.
of real life and important work.
和重要工作的破坏。
and the financial cost --
金钱上的花销感到担忧——
seems to have forgotten all about.
was the best year of her life,
她人生中最好的一年,
we had done with each other,
she'd always needed to say.
with the people in my life.
I sought the truth of others.
我搜寻他人的真相。
the final chapter of this story
midwifery had trained me.
the doctors could do.
a couple of months to live.
to the pain of our past,
with just one of them.
for a life-or-death situation
that matter to you,
of first responder,
the first courageous step
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Elizabeth Lesser - Wellness specialistElizabeth Lesser helps her readers and students transform their lives after brushes with pain, adversity and life's myriad problems.
Why you should listen
Elizabeth Lesser is a bestselling author and the cofounder of Omega Institute, the renowned conference and retreat center located in Rhinebeck, New York. Lesser's first book, The Seeker's Guide, chronicles her years at Omega and distills lessons learned into a potent guide for growth and healing. Her New York Times bestselling book, Broken Open: How Difficult Times Can Help Us Grow (Random House), has sold more than 300,000 copies and has been translated into 20 languages. Her latest book, Marrow: A Love Story (Harper Collins/September 2016), is a memoir about Elizabeth and her younger sister, Maggie, and the process they went through when Elizabeth was the donor for Maggie’s bone marrow transplant.
Lesser cofounded Omega Institute in 1977 -- a time when a variety of fresh ideas were sprouting in American culture. Since then, the institute has been at the forefront of holistic education, offering workshops and trainings in: integrative medicine, prevention, nutrition, and the mind/body connection; meditation and yoga; cross-cultural arts and creativity; ecumenical spirituality; and social change movements like women's empowerment and environmental sustainability. Lesser is also the cofounder of Omega's Women's Leadership Center, which grew out of the popular Women & Power conference series featuring women leaders, activists, authors and artists from around the world. Each year more than 30,000 people participate in Omega's programs on its campus in Rhinebeck, New York and at urban and travel sites, and more than a million people visit its website for online learning.
A student of the Sufi master, Pir Vilayat Inayat Khan, for many years, Lesser has also studied with spiritual teachers, healers, psychologists and philosophers from other traditions. In 2008 she helped Oprah Winfrey produce a ten-week online seminar based on Eckhart Tolle's book, A New Earth. The webinar was viewed by more than 8 million people worldwide. She was a frequent host on Oprah's "Soul Series," a weekly radio show on Sirius/XM, and a guest on Oprah's "Super Soul Sunday." In 2011, she gave a TED Talk, "Take 'the Other' to lunch ," in which she called for civility and understanding as we negotiate our differences as human beings.
Lesser attended Barnard College, where she studied literature, and San Francisco State University, where she received a teaching degree. In 2011 she received an honorary doctorate from the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, in Palo Alto, California. Early in her career she was a midwife and birth educator. Today, besides writing and her work at Omega Institute, she lends her time to social and environmental causes and is an avid walker, cook and gardener. She lives with her family in New York's Hudson River Valley.
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