Elizabeth Lesser: Say your truths and seek them in others
伊莉莎白.雷斯兒: 說出你的真相,並探詢其他人的真理
Elizabeth Lesser helps her readers and students transform their lives after brushes with pain, adversity and life's myriad problems. Full bio
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for all of them.
奠定了往後工作的基礎。
throughout my 20s.
valuable and sometimes surprising things,
令人驚嘆的事情,
who's fainted at the sight of blood.
看到血就暈倒的爸爸。
that stuck with me or guided me
and started other jobs.
with a unique worth.
獨特的意義來到這個世界。
to describe that spark,
that comes close to naming
as a snowflake,
of things happen to us
eccentricities and authenticity.
of our time uncomfortable in our own skin,
多數時間都過得不如意,
authenticity deficit disorder.
from laboring women.
it has to stretch from this
that would happen
of the universe took notice
or painful things happen to me
what I learned from the mothers:
從媽媽們那邊學到的:
from Albert Einstein.
Albert Einstein concluded
experience of life
is this whole other dimension
and the future merge
this state, this dimension,
hours and hours,
無比的神聖敬畏。
I took with me from midwifery.
的三堂助產士課程。
or painful, try to stay open.
盡量保持開放。
step off your hamster wheel
throughout my life,
important job of my life thus far.
came out of remission
was a bone marrow transplant.
就只剩骨髓移植。
we found a match for her,
我們找到了符合她配型的人,
I was my sister's perfect genetic match,
我是我妹的最佳配型時,
there's lots of things.
and there's protection.
assembling many of those first layers
is pretty straightforward.
in the cancer patient
marrow cells from a donor.
engraft in the patient.
transplants are fraught with danger.
through the near-lethal chemotherapy,
幾近死亡的化療過程,
a long history of love,
of rejection and attack,
和攻擊對方的歷史,
to bigger betrayals.
the kind of the relationship
in all kinds of relationships,
其他處與各種關係的人們一樣,
the dangers of rejection or attack,
transplant up to the doctors,
to call our "soul marrow transplant?"
we had caused each other,
造成對方受傷的事情,
I turned to my parents' holy text:
我找上了爸媽拜讀的聖經:
why we should visit a therapist
and transplanted into her body.
I made up in my head."
我自己腦袋瞎掰出來的事。
in our heads that kept us separate.
讓彼此斷絕關係。
of each of those cells
for the rest of your life,"
our relationship."
do all sorts of risky things,
可以讓人做出任何冒險的決定,
or jumping out of an airplane
to undergo the bone marrow harvest,
動骨髓移植的手術,
of harvest and transplant,
with another human being,
our vulnerable souls.
after the harvest.
farm-to-table event --
more and more time together.
this kind of work.
of real life and important work.
或重要工作中的絆腳石。
and the financial cost --
seems to have forgotten all about.
was the best year of her life,
是她生命中最棒的一年,
we had done with each other,
she'd always needed to say.
with the people in my life.
變得更加勇敢真誠。
I sought the truth of others.
the final chapter of this story
midwifery had trained me.
the doctors could do.
a couple of months to live.
to the pain of our past,
with just one of them.
for a life-or-death situation
that matter to you,
of first responder,
the first courageous step
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Elizabeth Lesser - Wellness specialistElizabeth Lesser helps her readers and students transform their lives after brushes with pain, adversity and life's myriad problems.
Why you should listen
Elizabeth Lesser is a bestselling author and the cofounder of Omega Institute, the renowned conference and retreat center located in Rhinebeck, New York. Lesser's first book, The Seeker's Guide, chronicles her years at Omega and distills lessons learned into a potent guide for growth and healing. Her New York Times bestselling book, Broken Open: How Difficult Times Can Help Us Grow (Random House), has sold more than 300,000 copies and has been translated into 20 languages. Her latest book, Marrow: A Love Story (Harper Collins/September 2016), is a memoir about Elizabeth and her younger sister, Maggie, and the process they went through when Elizabeth was the donor for Maggie’s bone marrow transplant.
Lesser cofounded Omega Institute in 1977 -- a time when a variety of fresh ideas were sprouting in American culture. Since then, the institute has been at the forefront of holistic education, offering workshops and trainings in: integrative medicine, prevention, nutrition, and the mind/body connection; meditation and yoga; cross-cultural arts and creativity; ecumenical spirituality; and social change movements like women's empowerment and environmental sustainability. Lesser is also the cofounder of Omega's Women's Leadership Center, which grew out of the popular Women & Power conference series featuring women leaders, activists, authors and artists from around the world. Each year more than 30,000 people participate in Omega's programs on its campus in Rhinebeck, New York and at urban and travel sites, and more than a million people visit its website for online learning.
A student of the Sufi master, Pir Vilayat Inayat Khan, for many years, Lesser has also studied with spiritual teachers, healers, psychologists and philosophers from other traditions. In 2008 she helped Oprah Winfrey produce a ten-week online seminar based on Eckhart Tolle's book, A New Earth. The webinar was viewed by more than 8 million people worldwide. She was a frequent host on Oprah's "Soul Series," a weekly radio show on Sirius/XM, and a guest on Oprah's "Super Soul Sunday." In 2011, she gave a TED Talk, "Take 'the Other' to lunch ," in which she called for civility and understanding as we negotiate our differences as human beings.
Lesser attended Barnard College, where she studied literature, and San Francisco State University, where she received a teaching degree. In 2011 she received an honorary doctorate from the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, in Palo Alto, California. Early in her career she was a midwife and birth educator. Today, besides writing and her work at Omega Institute, she lends her time to social and environmental causes and is an avid walker, cook and gardener. She lives with her family in New York's Hudson River Valley.
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