Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin: A hilarious celebration of lifelong female friendship
جين فوندا وليلي توملين: إحتفال مضحك بمناسبة صداقة أنثوية طويلة الأمد
Jane Fonda has had three extraordinary careers (so far): Oscar-winning actor, fitness guru, impassioned activist. Full bioLily Tomlin - Comedian and actor
Lily Tomlin has been honored by the Kennedy Center and awarded the Mark Twain Prize -- and she's still making vital, hilarious comedy. Full bio
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about female friendship a lot,
لقد كنت أفكر كثيرا حول صداقات الإناث،
for a very long time, too.
that I read about female friendship
الصداقة بين الإناث
a lot about someone,"
sucks the life out of me.
look for in a friend?
ما هي مواصفات الصديق التي تبحثين عنها؟
who has a sense of fun,
of passion for the planet,
has a sense of justice
أفكر في هذا الصباح،
without my women friends.
therefore I am."
" بما أنه لديا أصدقائي, إذن أنا موجودة."
هذه الحقيقة.
my women friends. They --
الإناث. هن--
they make me smarter,
be in need of course-correcting.
الى تصحيح مسار.
a good deal younger than me, too.
LT: Thank you.
ليلي توملين: شكرا.
because listen, you know --
لأنه اسمعي, أتعلمين--
to play with and learn from
لتلعبي معه وتتعلمي منه
I'll be there sooner than you.
سأكون هناك أسرع منك.
parallel aging alongside me.
في السنّ وأنت بجانبي.
عندما نتقدّم في العمر،
different kinds of life's journeys,
في حياتنا،
your friendships vital and alive?
I'll tell you that.
ها أنا اقول لك.
الإجتماعي كثيرا--
I look through my texts
as quickly as possible,
are writers, or activists, or actors,
أو ناشطون، أو ممثلون،
of other descriptive phrases,
as soon as possible,
JF: No?
ج.ف: لا؟
JF: I'm really into emojis.
ج.ف: أنا أحبهم جدا.
and congratulations,
والتهاني،
the importance of friendships,
not let too much time go by.
حتى لا أترك الوقت يذهب سدى.
I send to my friends.
about women, female friendships,
وصداقات النساء،
to see how many books,
has been done recently --
LT: I was grateful.
ل.ت: أجل لقد كنت كذلك.
because this is another example
put aside, marginalized.
يوضعون جانبا، يتم تهميشهن.
research done on us,
and you all will be interested in this.
close female friendships
مع نساء أخريات
في السن،
to be living much more vital, exciting --
حيوية, مثيرة--
part is they found --
and so conclusive --
is detrimental to your health,
, لذلك...
because there's an additional thing.
لأنه يوجد أمر إضافي.
for years, decades --
لسنوات, لعقود--
were trying to understand stress,
لفهم ظاهرة التوتر،
what happens to women when we're stressed,
that when we're stressed -- women,
stress-reducing hormone.
وتقليل توترنا.
when we're with our women friends.
عندما نكون برفقة صديقاتنا الأناث.
why we live longer.
التي تجعلنا نعيش أكثر.
because they don't have that.
يملكون ذلك.
diminishes the effects of oxytocin.
يقلل عمل الأوكسيتوسين.
and Dolly made "9 to 5" ...
وأنت ودولي صنعنا "9 ل 5"...
we laughed so much,
and we're so different.
المشتركة بيننا مع أننا مختلفات جدا.
from a poor town in Tennessee,
في ولاية تينيسي،
at least a decade onto our lifespans.
crossed our legs a lot.
ساق على الأخرى كثيرا.
to our lives right now.
sent us both to read on female friendship
عن صداقات النساء
Sister Joan Chittister,
ألاخت جون تشيتستير،
are not just a social act,
ليس مجرد أمر أجتماعي،
spiritual to your lives?
you've known a long time,
essence inside them,
an element of love in the relationship.
عنصر للحب في العلاقة.
and party friends,
friendships have ...
because it's a heart opening, right?
ينفتح، أليس كذلك؟
with my intimate friends.
مع أصدقائي المقربين.
I'm so touched and inspired by them.
بأنني ملهمة كثيرا معهم.
is going to go soon.
Lily, which one are you talking about?
ليلي، عن أي واحدة منا تتكلمين؟
talk about their friendships,
عندما تتكلم النساء عن صداقاتهن،
and women friendships?
a lot of empathy for men --
are full disclosure, we go deep.
نحن نبحث بعمق.
this is something men don't do.
يقوم به الرجال.
have I asked you, "Am I doing OK?"
relationships as face-to-face,
كوجه لوجه،
are more side-by-side.
men don't want to reveal their emotions,
الرجال كشف مشاعرهم،
conventional thought.
and watch a game or hit golf balls,
أو لعب الغولف،
or hunting, or cars or have sex.
أو الاصطياد، أوالسيارات أو إقامة علاقة.
it's a more manly behavior.
إنه تصرف ذكوري.
LT: They talk about sex.
ل.ت: أنهم يتكلمون عن العلاقات.
أن يقيموا علاقة
in their man cave to --
that I find very interesting --
أنه مثير للاهتمام --
until relatively recently --
إلا مؤخرا--
as relational as women are.
من العلاقات مثل النساء.
of newborn baby boys and girls,
الذين ولدوا حديثا،
just like the girls,
مثلهم مثل الإناث،
exchange of energy.
من الطاقة،
they could see the dismay on the child,
على الطفل،
as they grow older, does that change?
يتغير ذلك؟
to be emotional with someone is girly.
أنثوي.
directions or express a need,
أو يعبر عن حاجته،
بالمرض.
will erase his 'I'."
ال 'أنا' خاصتهم."
has always been kind of porous.
من المسامي.
تنقذنا،
our masculinity to prove.
LT: I know who Gloria Steinem is.
ل.ت: أنا أعلم من تكون.
but I think it's a --
لكنني أعتقد أنه --
don't have our masculinity to prove.
أنه ليس علينا أثبات رجولتنا.
so inculcated in the culture
something different happen.
are like a renewable source of power.
للتجدد.
about this subject.
للاهتمام.
are just a hop to our sisterhood,
a very powerful force,
demographic in the world,
إنتشارا في العالم ديموغرافيا،
we can change the world.
العالم.
that we need to do --
the consumer standards.
need to consume less
buy things that are made locally,
التي صنعت محليا،
that's grown locally.
الذي زرع محليا.
that need to get off the grid.
independent from fossil fuels.
and those bad guys --
وأولئك الأشرار--
without going back to the Stone Age.
العودة للعصر الحجري.
just aren't quite there yet,
energy and doing just fine.
wean ourselves from fossil fuel
back in the Stone Age,
to use renewable energy,
المتجددة،
and not drill --
وليس حفرة--
in the Alberta tar sands --
and more jobs and more well-being,
من الوظائف والمزيد من السعادة،
going to lead the way.
to start a third-wave feminist movement
ثالثة من الحركة النسوية.
women we may never meet,
ويمكن أن لا نقابلها أبدا،
should be between equals
ناس تساويهم
we had souls even, the Greeks.
اليونانين.
just how limited Aristotle was.
محدود الفكر.
men do need women now.
بحاجة للنساء الآن.
the Equal Rights Amendment.
since the end of World War II
العالمية الثانية
citizens of equal stature,
on how to do that.
in different ways,
women can be friends --
لصداقات--
ABOUT THE SPEAKERS
Jane Fonda - Actor and activistJane Fonda has had three extraordinary careers (so far): Oscar-winning actor, fitness guru, impassioned activist.
Why you should listen
Jane Fonda is an actor, author, producer and activist supporting environmental issues, peace and female empowerment. She founded the Georgia Campaign for Adolescent Pregnancy Prevention, and established the Jane Fonda Center for Adolescent Reproductive Health at Emory. She cofounded the Women’s Media Center, and sits on the board of V-Day, a global effort to stop violence against women and girls.
Fonda's remarkable screen and stage career includes two Best Actress Oscars, an Emmy, a Tony Award nomination and an Honorary Palme d’Or from the Cannes Film Festival. Offstage, she revolutionized the fitness industry in the 1980s with Jane Fonda’s Workout — the all-time top-grossing home video. She has written a best-selling memoir, My Life So Far, and Prime Time, a comprehensive guide to living life to the fullest.
Jane Fonda | Speaker | TED.com
Lily Tomlin - Comedian and actor
Lily Tomlin has been honored by the Kennedy Center and awarded the Mark Twain Prize -- and she's still making vital, hilarious comedy.
Why you should listen
Throughout her extraordinary career, Lily Tomlin has won seven Emmys; a Tony for her one-woman Broadway show, Appearing Nitely; a second Tony for Best Actress; a Drama Desk Award and an Outer Critics' Circle Award for her one-woman performance in Jane Wagner’s The Search for Signs of Intelligent Life in the Universe; a Grammy for her comedy album, This Is a Recording; and two Peabody Awards, the first for the ABC television special, Edith Ann’s Christmas: Just Say Noël, and the second for narrating and executive producing the HBO film, The Celluloid Closet. In 2003, she received the Mark Twain Prize for American Humor, and in December 2014 she was the recipient of the prestigious Kennedy Center Honors in Washington DC.
She made her film debut in Robert Altman's Nashville, and gave a generation-defining performance alongside Dolly Parton and Jane Fonda in the workplace revenge comedy 9 to 5.
Lily Tomlin | Speaker | TED.com