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Dalia Mogahed: What it's like to be Muslim in America
Dalia Mogahed: Apa yang Anda pikirkan ketika melihat saya?
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Ketika Anda melihat cendekiawan muslim Dalia Mogahed, apa yang Anda lihat: seorang penganut agama? Seorang cendekiawan, seorang ibu, saudara? Atau seseorang yang tertindas, tercuci otak, calon teroris? Dalam ceramah yang menyentuh dan luar biasa ini, Mogahed menghimbau kita, di zaman yang terpolarisasi seperti sekarang, untuk memerangi persepsi negatif media terhadap agamanya -- dan untuk memilih empati alih-alih prasangka.
Dalia Mogahed - Muslim studies scholar
Researcher and pollster Dalia Mogahed is an author, advisor and consultant who studies Muslim communities. Full bio
Researcher and pollster Dalia Mogahed is an author, advisor and consultant who studies Muslim communities. Full bio
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00:13
What do you think when you look at me?
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Apa yang Anda pikirkan
ketika melihat saya?
ketika melihat saya?
00:16
A woman of faith? An expert?
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Penganut agama? Seorang ahli?
00:19
Maybe even a sister.
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Bahkan mungkin saudara.
00:21
Or oppressed,
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Atau seseorang yang tertindas,
00:23
brainwashed,
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tercuci otak,
00:25
a terrorist.
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seorang teroris.
00:28
Or just an airport security line delay.
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Atau sekedar seseorang yang menyebabkan
antrian panjang di pemeriksaan bandara.
antrian panjang di pemeriksaan bandara.
00:32
That one's actually true.
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Yang itu memang benar.
00:34
(Laughter)
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(Tertawa)
00:35
If some of your perceptions were negative,
I don't really blame you.
I don't really blame you.
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Jika persepsi Anda negatif,
saya tak begitu menyalahkan Anda.
saya tak begitu menyalahkan Anda.
00:38
That's just how the media
has been portraying
has been portraying
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Begitulah media menggambarkan
00:41
people who look like me.
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orang-orang seperti saya.
00:42
One study found
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Satu penelitian menemukan
00:44
that 80 percent of news coverage
about Islam and Muslims is negative.
about Islam and Muslims is negative.
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bahwa 80% liputan berita tentang
Islam dan Muslim bernada negatif.
Islam dan Muslim bernada negatif.
00:48
And studies show that Americans
say that most don't know a Muslim.
say that most don't know a Muslim.
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Penelitian juga menunjukkan kebanyakan
orang Amerika tak mengenal seorang Muslim.
orang Amerika tak mengenal seorang Muslim.
00:53
I guess people don't talk
to their Uber drivers.
to their Uber drivers.
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Sepertinya mereka tidak bercakap-cakap
dengan sopir Uber mereka.
dengan sopir Uber mereka.
00:55
(Laughter)
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(Tertawa)
00:59
Well, for those of you
who have never met a Muslim,
who have never met a Muslim,
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Bagi Anda yang belum pernah bertemu
dengan seorang Muslim,
dengan seorang Muslim,
01:02
it's great to meet you.
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saya senang bertemu dengan Anda.
01:05
Let me tell you who I am.
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Saya akan memperkenalkan diri saya
pada Anda.
pada Anda.
01:08
I'm a mom, a coffee lover --
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Saya seorang ibu, pecinta kopi --
01:11
double espresso, cream on the side.
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double espresso, pakai krim terpisah.
01:14
I'm an introvert.
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Saya seorang introvert.
01:16
I'm a wannabe fitness fanatic.
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Saya ingin jadi seorang
yang fanatik kebugaran.
yang fanatik kebugaran.
01:18
And I'm a practicing, spiritual Muslim.
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Dan saya seorang Muslim yang taat.
01:23
But not like Lady Gaga says,
because baby, I wasn't born this way.
because baby, I wasn't born this way.
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Namun tak seperti yang dibilang Lady Gaga,
karena saya tidak lahir seperti ini.
karena saya tidak lahir seperti ini.
01:28
It was a choice.
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Ini adalah pilihan.
01:31
When I was 17, I decided to come out.
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Ketika saya berusia 17, saya memutuskan
untuk membuka diri saya pada dunia.
untuk membuka diri saya pada dunia.
01:35
No, not as a gay person
like some of my friends,
like some of my friends,
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Bukan, bukan sebagai seorang gay
seperti beberapa teman saya,
seperti beberapa teman saya,
01:38
but as a Muslim,
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namun sebagai Muslim,
01:40
and decided to start wearing
the hijab, my head covering.
the hijab, my head covering.
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dan memutuskan untuk menggunakan jilbab,
penutup kepala saya.
penutup kepala saya.
01:44
My feminist friends were aghast:
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Teman-teman feminis saya kaget:
01:47
"Why are you oppressing yourself?"
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"Kenapa kamu menindas dirimu sendiri?"
01:51
The funny thing was,
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Lucunya adalah,
01:52
it was actually at that time
a feminist declaration of independence
a feminist declaration of independence
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saat itu sebenarnya adalah
deklarasi kemerdekaan feminis saya
deklarasi kemerdekaan feminis saya
01:58
from the pressure I felt as a 17-year-old,
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dari beban yang saya rasakan sebagai gadis
usia 17 tahun,
usia 17 tahun,
02:02
to conform to a perfect
and unattainable standard of beauty.
and unattainable standard of beauty.
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untuk mengikuti standar kecantikan
yang sempurna dan tidak terhingga.
yang sempurna dan tidak terhingga.
02:07
I didn't just passively accept
the faith of my parents.
the faith of my parents.
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Saya tidak sekadar pasrah menerima
agama orang tua saya.
agama orang tua saya.
02:12
I wrestled with the Quran.
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Saya bergumul dengan Quran.
02:14
I read and reflected
and questioned and doubted
and questioned and doubted
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Saya membaca, merenung, mempertanyakan,
dan meragukan
dan meragukan
02:20
and, ultimately, believed.
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dan akhirnya percaya.
02:23
My relationship with God --
it was not love at first sight.
it was not love at first sight.
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Hubungan saya dengan Tuhan --
bukanlah cinta pada pandangan pertama.
bukanlah cinta pada pandangan pertama.
02:29
It was a trust and a slow surrender
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Itu adalah rasa percaya dan
penyerahan diri perlahan
penyerahan diri perlahan
02:32
that deepened with every
reading of the Quran.
reading of the Quran.
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yang semakin dalam setiap saya
membaca Quran.
membaca Quran.
02:36
Its rhythmic beauty
sometimes moves me to tears.
sometimes moves me to tears.
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Itu adalah keanggunan penuh ritme yang
kadang membuat saya menitikkan air mata.
kadang membuat saya menitikkan air mata.
02:40
I see myself in it.
I feel that God knows me.
I feel that God knows me.
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Saya melihat diri saya di dalamnya.
Saya merasakan Tuhan mengenal saya.
Saya merasakan Tuhan mengenal saya.
02:45
Have you ever felt like someone sees you,
completely understands you
completely understands you
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Apakah Anda pernah merasa ketika seseorang
melihat Anda, dan memahami Anda sepenuhnya
melihat Anda, dan memahami Anda sepenuhnya
02:50
and yet loves you anyway?
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namun tetap mencintai Anda?
02:52
That's how it feels.
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Itulah yang saya rasakan.
02:55
And so later, I got married,
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Tidak lama kemudian, saya menikah,
02:58
and like all good Egyptians,
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dan seperti kebanyakan
orang Mesir yang baik,
orang Mesir yang baik,
03:00
started my career as an engineer.
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saya memulai karir sebagai insinyur.
03:02
(Laughter)
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(Tertawa)
03:06
I later had a child,
after getting married,
after getting married,
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Saya lalu mempunyai anak setelah menikah,
03:11
and I was living essentially
the Egyptian-American dream.
the Egyptian-American dream.
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dan hidup sebagaimana impian seorang
warga Amerika berdarah Mesir.
warga Amerika berdarah Mesir.
03:18
And then that terrible morning
of September, 2001.
of September, 2001.
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Lalu pagi mengerikan di bulan
September 2001 itu terjadi.
September 2001 itu terjadi.
03:24
I think a lot of you probably remember
exactly where you were that morning.
exactly where you were that morning.
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Saya pikir Anda mungkin ingat sekali
di mana Anda pagi itu.
di mana Anda pagi itu.
03:31
I was sitting in my kitchen
finishing breakfast,
finishing breakfast,
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Saya sedang duduk di dapur
hampir selesai sarapan,
hampir selesai sarapan,
03:34
and I look up on the screen
and see the words "Breaking News."
and see the words "Breaking News."
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saya menonton TV dan melihat
tulisan "Breaking News."
tulisan "Breaking News."
03:39
There was smoke,
airplanes flying into buildings,
airplanes flying into buildings,
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Ada asap, pesawat menabrak gedung,
03:42
people jumping out of buildings.
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orang melompat keluar dari dalam gedung.
03:45
What was this?
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Apa ini?
03:47
An accident?
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Kecelakaan?
03:49
A malfunction?
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Malfungsi?
03:53
My shock quickly turned to outrage.
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Keterkejutan saya lalu berubah
menjadi kemarahan.
menjadi kemarahan.
03:56
Who would do this?
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Siapa yang melakukan ini?
03:59
And I switch the channel and I hear,
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Dan saya mengganti saluran dan mendengar,
04:02
"... Muslim terrorist ...,"
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"... teroris Muslim..."
04:04
"... in the name of Islam ...,"
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"... dengan nama Islam...,"
04:06
"... Middle-Eastern descent ...,"
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"... keturunan Timur Tengah ...,"
04:08
"... jihad ...,"
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"... jihad ...,"
04:10
"... we should bomb Mecca."
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"... kita harus bom Mekah."
04:12
Oh my God.
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Ya Tuhan.
04:15
Not only had my country been attacked,
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Tidak hanya negara saya baru diserang,
04:19
but in a flash,
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namun dalam sekejap,
04:20
somebody else's actions
had turned me from a citizen
had turned me from a citizen
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perbuatan seseorang telah mengubah saya
dari seorang warga negara
dari seorang warga negara
04:24
to a suspect.
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menjadi tersangka.
04:27
That same day, we had to drive
across Middle America
across Middle America
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Pada hari yang sama, kami harus berkendara
melalui Amerika Tengah
melalui Amerika Tengah
04:31
to move to a new city
to start grad school.
to start grad school.
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untuk pindah ke kota baru, untuk
memulai kuliah pasca sarjana.
memulai kuliah pasca sarjana.
04:36
And I remember sitting
in the passenger seat
in the passenger seat
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Dan saya ingat duduk di kursi penumpang
04:39
as we drove in silence,
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ketika kami mengemudi dalam diam,
04:41
crouched as low as I could go in my seat,
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saya meringkuk serendah mungkin
di kursi saya,
di kursi saya,
04:44
for the first time in my life,
afraid for anyone to know I was a Muslim.
afraid for anyone to know I was a Muslim.
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untuk pertama kalinya dalam hidup saya,
takut jika orang tahu saya seorang Muslim.
takut jika orang tahu saya seorang Muslim.
04:50
We moved into our apartment
that night in a new town
that night in a new town
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Kami pindah ke apartemen kami
di kota baru malam itu,
di kota baru malam itu,
04:54
in what felt like
a completely different world.
a completely different world.
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yang terasa seakan berada di dunia
yang sama sekali berbeda.
yang sama sekali berbeda.
04:57
And then I was hearing
and seeing and reading
and seeing and reading
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Lalu saya mendengar, melihat dan membaca
05:01
warnings from national
Muslim organizations
Muslim organizations
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peringatan dari organisasi Muslim nasional
05:04
saying things like,
"Be alert," "Be aware,"
"Be alert," "Be aware,"
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antara lain, "Waspadalah,"
"Hati-hati,"
"Hati-hati,"
05:08
"Stay in well-lit areas,"
"Don't congregate."
"Don't congregate."
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"Jangan ke tempat remang-remang,"
"Jangan berkumpul."
"Jangan berkumpul."
05:12
I stayed inside all week.
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Seminggu itu saya tidak keluar rumah.
05:14
And then it was Friday that same week,
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Lalu hari Jumat minggu itu tiba,
05:17
the day that Muslims
congregate for worship.
congregate for worship.
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hari dimana umat Islam berkumpul
untuk sholat Jumat.
untuk sholat Jumat.
05:22
And again the warnings were,
"Don't go that first Friday,
"Don't go that first Friday,
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Lagi-lagi ada peringatan,
"Jangan datang pada Jumat minggu pertama,
"Jangan datang pada Jumat minggu pertama,
05:26
it could be a target."
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siapa tahu bisa jadi target."
05:29
And I was watching the news,
wall-to-wall coverage.
wall-to-wall coverage.
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Sementara saya menonton berita,
liputannya sangat detil.
liputannya sangat detil.
05:32
Emotions were so raw, understandably,
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Emosi tumpah ruah, tentu saja,
05:35
and I was also hearing
about attacks on Muslims,
about attacks on Muslims,
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lalu saya juga mendengar serangan
terhadap orang Muslim,
terhadap orang Muslim,
05:38
or people who were perceived
to be Muslim, being pulled out
to be Muslim, being pulled out
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atau orang yang terlihat seperti Muslim,
ditarik dan dipukuli di jalanan.
05:41
and beaten in the street.
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05:42
Mosques were actually firebombed.
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Masjid-masjid dibom molotov.
05:45
And I thought, we should just stay home.
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Dan saya pikir, lebih baik
kita tinggal di rumah saja.
kita tinggal di rumah saja.
05:47
And yet, something didn't feel right.
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Namun rasanya ada yang ganjil.
05:51
Because those people
who attacked our country
who attacked our country
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Karena orang-orang yang menyerang
negara kita
negara kita
05:53
attacked our country.
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telah mengusik negara kita semua.
05:58
I get it that people were angry
at the terrorists.
at the terrorists.
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Saya mengerti bahwa
orang-orang marah pada teroris.
orang-orang marah pada teroris.
06:01
Guess what? So was I.
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Tahu tidak? Saya juga marah.
06:04
And so to have to explain yourself
all the time isn't easy.
all the time isn't easy.
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Jadi tidak mudah untuk harus menjelaskan
diri saya setiap saat.
diri saya setiap saat.
06:10
I don't mind questions. I love questions.
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Saya tidak keberatan dengan pertanyaan.
Saya suka pertanyaan.
Saya suka pertanyaan.
06:13
It's the accusations that are tough.
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Yang berat itu tuduhannya.
06:16
Today we hear people actually
saying things like,
saying things like,
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Kini kita mendengar orang bilang,
06:20
"There's a problem in this country,
and it's called Muslims.
and it's called Muslims.
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"Negara kita punya masalah,
dan itu disebut Muslim.
dan itu disebut Muslim.
06:23
When are we going to get rid of them?"
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Kapan kita akan mengusir mereka?"
06:25
So, some people want to ban Muslims
and close down mosques.
and close down mosques.
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Beberapa orang ingin melarang Muslim masuk
dan menutup masjid.
dan menutup masjid.
06:29
They talk about my community
kind of like we're a tumor
kind of like we're a tumor
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Mereka bicara tentang komunitas saya
seolah-olah kami ini tumor
seolah-olah kami ini tumor
06:32
in the body of America.
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di tubuh negara Amerika ini.
06:33
And the only question is,
are we malignant or benign?
are we malignant or benign?
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Satu-satunya pertanyaan adalah,
kami tumor ganas atau jinak?
kami tumor ganas atau jinak?
06:37
You know, a malignant tumor
you extract altogether,
you extract altogether,
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Kalau ganas, mesti dicabut semuanya,
06:40
and a benign tumor
you just keep under surveillance.
you just keep under surveillance.
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kalau jinak, mesti dipantau
(dimata-matai).
(dimata-matai).
06:47
The choices don't make sense,
because it's the wrong question.
because it's the wrong question.
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Pilihannya tidak masuk akal,
karena itu pertanyaan yang salah.
karena itu pertanyaan yang salah.
06:51
Muslims, like all other Americans,
aren't a tumor in the body of America,
aren't a tumor in the body of America,
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Muslim, seperti kebanyakan warga Amerika,
bukanlah tumor di tubuh negara ini,
bukanlah tumor di tubuh negara ini,
06:55
we're a vital organ.
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kami organ penting.
06:58
(Applause)
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(Tepuk tangan)
06:59
Thank you.
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Terima kasih.
07:00
(Applause)
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(Tepuk tangan)
07:05
Muslims are inventors and teachers,
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Muslim adalah penemu dan guru,
07:08
first responders and Olympic athletes.
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responden pertama dan atlet Olimpiade.
07:12
Now, is closing down mosques
going to make America safer?
going to make America safer?
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Apakah menutup masjid akan membuat
Amerika lebih aman?
Amerika lebih aman?
07:16
It might free up some parking spots,
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Mungkin itu akan membuat
beberapa tempat parkir kosong,
beberapa tempat parkir kosong,
07:19
but it will not end terrorism.
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tapi tidak akan menghentikan terorisme.
07:22
Going to a mosque regularly
is actually linked
is actually linked
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Mengunjungi masjid secara reguler
sebenarnya terkait
sebenarnya terkait
07:24
to having more tolerant views
of people of other faiths
of people of other faiths
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dengan mempunyai pandangan yang
lebih toleran terhadap penganut agama lain
lebih toleran terhadap penganut agama lain
07:28
and greater civic engagement.
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dan keterlibatan lebih besar
di masyarakat.
di masyarakat.
07:31
And as one police chief
in the Washington, DC area
in the Washington, DC area
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Seorang kepala polisi di
area Washington, DC
area Washington, DC
baru-baru ini memberi tahu saya,
07:34
recently told me,
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07:36
people don't actually
get radicalized at mosques.
get radicalized at mosques.
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orang-orang tidak dibuat radikal
di masjid-masjid.
di masjid-masjid.
07:38
They get radicalized in their basement
or bedroom, in front of a computer.
or bedroom, in front of a computer.
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Tapi di dalam ruang bawah tanah,
ruang tidur, dan di depan komputer mereka.
ruang tidur, dan di depan komputer mereka.
07:44
And what you find
about the radicalization process
about the radicalization process
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Proses radikalisasi itu sendiri
07:47
is it starts online,
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dimulai secara online,
07:49
but the first thing that happens
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namun hal pertama yang terjadi
07:50
is the person gets cut off
from their community,
from their community,
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adalah orang tersebut menyendiri
dari masyarakat,
dari masyarakat,
07:53
from even their family,
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bahkan dari keluarga mereka,
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so that the extremist group
can brainwash them
can brainwash them
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sehingga grup ekstrimis dapat
mencuci otak mereka
mencuci otak mereka
07:58
into believing that they,
the terrorists, are the true Muslims,
the terrorists, are the true Muslims,
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dan membuat mereka percaya bahwa teroris
adalah Muslim yang sebenarnya,
adalah Muslim yang sebenarnya,
08:02
and everyone else who abhors
their behavior and ideology
their behavior and ideology
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dan orang lain yang tidak menyukai
perilaku dan ideologi mereka
perilaku dan ideologi mereka
08:06
are sellouts or apostates.
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adalah para pengkhianat dan orang murtad.
08:09
So if we want to prevent radicalization,
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Jadi kalau kita ingin
mencegah radikalisasi,
mencegah radikalisasi,
08:11
we have to keep people
going to the mosque.
going to the mosque.
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kita harus membuat orang pergi ke masjid.
08:16
Now, some will still argue
Islam is a violent religion.
Islam is a violent religion.
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Tapi beberapa orang akan terus berargumen
bahwa Islam adalah agama yang bengis.
bahwa Islam adalah agama yang bengis.
08:20
After all, a group like ISIS
bases its brutality on the Quran.
bases its brutality on the Quran.
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Lagipula, kelompok seperti ISIS
mendasarkan kebrutalan mereka atas Quran.
mendasarkan kebrutalan mereka atas Quran.
08:26
Now, as a Muslim, as a mother,
as a human being,
as a human being,
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Sebagai seorang Muslim, sebagai ibu,
sebagai manusia, saya pikir kita perlu
sebagai manusia, saya pikir kita perlu
08:29
I think we need to do everything we can
to stop a group like ISIS.
to stop a group like ISIS.
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melakukan semua yang kita bisa untuk
menghentikan kelompok seperti ISIS.
menghentikan kelompok seperti ISIS.
08:35
But we would be giving in
to their narrative
to their narrative
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Kita hanya akan menuruti narasi mereka
08:40
if we cast them as representatives
of a faith of 1.6 billion people.
of a faith of 1.6 billion people.
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jika kita menganggap mereka sebagai
representasi dari agama 1,6 milyar orang.
representasi dari agama 1,6 milyar orang.
08:46
(Applause)
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(Tepuk tangan)
08:49
Thank you.
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Terima kasih.
08:53
ISIS has as much to do with Islam
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ISIS terhadap Islam adalah sama
08:57
as the Ku Klux Klan has to do
with Christianity.
with Christianity.
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seperti Ku Klux Klan terhadap Kristen.
09:00
(Applause)
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(Tepuk tangan)
09:06
Both groups claim to base
their ideology on their holy book.
their ideology on their holy book.
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Kedua kelompok mengaku mendasarkan
ideologi mereka atas kitab suci mereka.
ideologi mereka atas kitab suci mereka.
09:12
But when you look at them,
they're not motivated
they're not motivated
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Namun jika kita mengamati mereka,
mereka tidak termotivasi
mereka tidak termotivasi
09:15
by what they read in their holy book.
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oleh apa yang mereka baca di kitab suci.
09:17
It's their brutality that makes them
read these things into the scripture.
read these things into the scripture.
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Kebrutalan merekalah yang membuat mereka
menyalah artikan kitab suci.
menyalah artikan kitab suci.
09:24
Recently, a prominent imam
told me a story that really took me aback.
told me a story that really took me aback.
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Baru-baru ini, seorang imam terkemuka
menceritakan satu cerita mengejutkan.
menceritakan satu cerita mengejutkan.
09:27
He said that a girl came to him
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Seorang perempuan mendatanginya
09:29
because she was thinking
of going to join ISIS.
of going to join ISIS.
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karena ia hendak bergabung dengan ISIS.
09:32
And I was really surprised and asked him,
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Saya sangat terkejut dan bertanya,
09:34
had she been in contact
with a radical religious leader?
with a radical religious leader?
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apakah perempuan itu berhubungan
dengan pemimpin agama yang radikal?
dengan pemimpin agama yang radikal?
09:37
And he said the problem
was quite the opposite,
was quite the opposite,
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Beliau bilang, justru kebalikannya,
09:40
that every cleric that she had
talked to had shut her down
talked to had shut her down
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setiap imam yang ia ajak bicara
mengindahkannya,
mengindahkannya,
09:43
and said that her rage,
her sense of injustice in the world,
her sense of injustice in the world,
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dan mengatakan bahwa kemarahannya dan
rasa ketidak-adilan yang ia rasakan
rasa ketidak-adilan yang ia rasakan
09:47
was just going to get her in trouble.
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hanya akan membuatnya dalam masalah.
09:49
And so with nowhere to channel
and make sense of this anger,
and make sense of this anger,
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Karena ia tidak bisa memahami
dan menyalurkan kemarahannya,
dan menyalurkan kemarahannya,
09:53
she was a prime target to be exploited
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ia adalah target empuk untuk dieksploitasi
09:55
by extremists promising her a solution.
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oleh para ekstremis yang
menjanjikannya solusi.
menjanjikannya solusi.
09:58
What this imam did was to connect her
back to God and to her community.
back to God and to her community.
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Imam tersebut mengajaknya kembali
ke (jalan) Tuhan dan ke dalam komunitas.
ke (jalan) Tuhan dan ke dalam komunitas.
10:03
He didn't shame her for her rage --
instead, he gave her constructive ways
instead, he gave her constructive ways
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Beliau tidak mempermalukannya
-- tapi memberi solusi konstruktif
-- tapi memberi solusi konstruktif
10:08
to make real change in the world.
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untuk membuat perubahan berarti di dunia.
10:10
What she learned at that mosque
prevented her from going to join ISIS.
prevented her from going to join ISIS.
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Yang ia pelajari di masjid mencegahnya
dari bergabung dengan ISIS.
dari bergabung dengan ISIS.
10:16
I've told you a little bit
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Saya telah cerita sedikit
10:18
about how Islamophobia
affects me and my family.
affects me and my family.
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bagaimana Islamofobia mempengaruhi
saya dan keluarga saya.
saya dan keluarga saya.
10:21
But how does it impact ordinary Americans?
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Namun apa pengaruhnya
bagi orang Amerika kebanyakan?
bagi orang Amerika kebanyakan?
10:23
How does it impact everyone else?
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Apa pengaruhnya bagi orang lain?
10:25
How does consuming fear 24 hours a day
affect the health of our democracy,
affect the health of our democracy,
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Apa pengaruh mengkonsumsi rasa takut
24 jam/hari terhadap kesehatan demokrasi,
24 jam/hari terhadap kesehatan demokrasi,
10:31
the health of our free thought?
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dan kebebasan berpikir kita?
10:33
Well, one study -- actually,
several studies in neuroscience --
several studies in neuroscience --
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Satu studi -- sebenarnya beberapa studi
di bidang neurosains --
di bidang neurosains --
10:37
show that when we're afraid,
at least three things happen.
at least three things happen.
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menunjukkan bahwa ketika kita takut,
paling tidak ada 3 hal yang terjadi.
paling tidak ada 3 hal yang terjadi.
10:41
We become more accepting
of authoritarianism,
of authoritarianism,
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Kita menjadi lebih menerima
otoritarianisme,
otoritarianisme,
10:46
conformity and prejudice.
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kepatuhan dan prasangka.
10:49
One study showed that when subjects
were exposed to news stories
were exposed to news stories
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Satu studi menunjukkan ketika seseorang
dihadapkan pada
dihadapkan pada
berita negatif tentang Muslim,
10:55
that were negative about Muslims,
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10:58
they became more accepting
of military attacks on Muslim countries
of military attacks on Muslim countries
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mereka jadi lebih menyetujui
serangan militer terhadap negara Muslim
serangan militer terhadap negara Muslim
11:02
and policies that curtail the rights
of American Muslims.
of American Muslims.
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dan kebijakan yang membatasi
hak-hak warga muslim Amerika.
hak-hak warga muslim Amerika.
11:06
Now, this isn't just academic.
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Ini bukan hanya temuan akademis.
11:08
When you look at when
anti-Muslim sentiment spiked
anti-Muslim sentiment spiked
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Kalau Anda lihat ketika
sentimen anti-Muslim mencuat
sentimen anti-Muslim mencuat
11:13
between 2001 and 2013,
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antara tahun 2001 dan 2013,
11:17
it happened three times,
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hal ini terjadi 3 kali,
11:18
but it wasn't around terrorist attacks.
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namun bukan setelah serangan teroris.
11:21
It was in the run up to the Iraq War
and during two election cycles.
and during two election cycles.
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Hal ini terjadi sebelum Perang Irak dan
selama dua periode pemilu.
selama dua periode pemilu.
11:26
So Islamophobia isn't just
the natural response to Muslim terrorism
the natural response to Muslim terrorism
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Islamofobia bukanlah respon alami
terhadap terorisme Muslim
terhadap terorisme Muslim
11:30
as I would have expected.
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seperti yang saya perkirakan.
11:33
It can actually be a tool
of public manipulation,
of public manipulation,
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Ia bisa digunakan sebagai
alat manipulasi publik,
alat manipulasi publik,
11:37
eroding the very foundation
of a free society,
of a free society,
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yang menggerus pondasi dari
masyarakat bebas,
masyarakat bebas,
11:41
which is rational
and well-informed citizens.
and well-informed citizens.
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yaitu warga negara yang rasional
dan berpengetahuan luas.
dan berpengetahuan luas.
11:46
Muslims are like canaries
in the coal mine.
in the coal mine.
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Umat muslim mirip dengan
pendeteksi bahaya.
pendeteksi bahaya.
11:49
We might be the first to feel it,
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Kami mungkin yang pertama merasakannya,
11:51
but the toxic air of fear
is harming us all.
is harming us all.
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namun rasa ketakutan yang beracun ini
membahayakan kita semua.
membahayakan kita semua.
11:56
(Applause)
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(Tepuk tangan)
12:03
And assigning collective guilt
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Menanam rasa bersalah kolektif
12:06
isn't just about having
to explain yourself all the time.
to explain yourself all the time.
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bukan hanya tentang menjelaskan diri
Anda setiap saat.
Anda setiap saat.
12:09
Deah and his wife Yusor
were a young married couple
were a young married couple
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Deah dan istrinya Yusor adalah
pasangan muda yang tinggal
pasangan muda yang tinggal
12:13
living in Chapel Hill, North Carolina,
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di Chapel Hill, Carolina Utara,
12:15
where they both went to school.
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di mana mereka berdua bersekolah.
12:17
Deah was an athlete.
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Deah adalah seorang atlet.
12:20
He was in dental school,
talented, promising ...
talented, promising ...
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Ia kuliah di kedokteran gigi, berbakat,
menjanjikan ...
menjanjikan ...
12:24
And his sister would tell me
that he was the sweetest,
that he was the sweetest,
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Kakaknya memberitahu saya bahwa ia
adalah orang yang terbaik,
adalah orang yang terbaik,
12:28
most generous human being she knew.
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yang paling murah hati yang ia kenal.
12:30
She was visiting him there
and he showed her his resume,
and he showed her his resume,
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Ia mengunjungi Deah dan
Deah menunjukkan resumenya,
Deah menunjukkan resumenya,
12:34
and she was amazed.
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dan ia terkejut.
12:35
She said, "When did my baby brother
become such an accomplished young man?"
become such an accomplished young man?"
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Ia bilang, "Sejak kapan adik kecil saya
jadi pemuda hebat seperti ini?"
jadi pemuda hebat seperti ini?"
12:41
Just a few weeks after Suzanne's visit
to her brother and his new wife,
to her brother and his new wife,
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Hanya beberapa hari setelah kunjungan
Suzanne ke adik dan istrinya,
Suzanne ke adik dan istrinya,
12:46
their neighbor,
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tetangga mereka,
12:48
Craig Stephen Hicks,
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Craig Stephen Hicks,
12:50
murdered them,
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membunuh mereka,
12:52
as well as Yusor's sister, Razan,
who was visiting for the afternoon,
who was visiting for the afternoon,
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dan juga adik Yusor, Razan, yang
sedang berkunjung siang itu,
sedang berkunjung siang itu,
12:57
in their apartment,
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di apartemen mereka,
12:59
execution style,
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seperti mengeksekusi mereka,
13:01
after posting anti-Muslim statements
on his Facebook page.
on his Facebook page.
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setelah memposting pernyataan anti-Muslim
di halaman Facebooknya.
di halaman Facebooknya.
13:06
He shot Deah eight times.
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Ia menembak Deah delapan kali.
13:09
So bigotry isn't just immoral,
it can even be lethal.
it can even be lethal.
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Sikap bigot (fanatik/rasis)
tidak hanya jahat, ia juga mematikan.
tidak hanya jahat, ia juga mematikan.
13:14
So, back to my story.
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Kembali ke cerita saya.
13:15
What happened after 9/11?
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Apa yang terjadi setelah 9/11?
13:17
Did we go to the mosque
or did we play it safe and stay home?
or did we play it safe and stay home?
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Pergi ke masjid atau cari aman
dan tinggal di rumah?
dan tinggal di rumah?
13:21
Well, we talked it over,
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Kami membicarakannya,
13:23
and it might seem like
a small decision, but to us,
a small decision, but to us,
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dan mungkin terlihat seperti
keputusan kecil, namun bagi kami,
keputusan kecil, namun bagi kami,
13:26
it was about what kind of America
we wanted to leave for our kids:
we wanted to leave for our kids:
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ini tentang Amerika seperti apa yang
akan kita wariskan pada anak-anak kita:
akan kita wariskan pada anak-anak kita:
13:29
one that would control us by fear
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negara yang menggunakan rasa takut untuk
mengontrol warganya
mengontrol warganya
13:33
or one where we were practicing
our religion freely.
our religion freely.
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atau negara di mana kita bisa menjalankan
agama dengan bebas.
agama dengan bebas.
13:36
So we decided to go to the mosque.
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Jadi kami putuskan untuk pergi ke masjid.
13:39
And we put my son in his car seat,
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Kami taruh anak kami di kursi mobil,
13:41
buckled him in, and we drove silently,
intensely, to the mosque.
intensely, to the mosque.
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pasang sabuk pengamannya, dan mengemudi
ke masjid dalam diam dan ketegangan.
ke masjid dalam diam dan ketegangan.
13:45
I took him out, I took off my shoes,
I walked into the prayer hall
I walked into the prayer hall
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Saya menggendongnya, melepas sepatu saya,
berjalan ke ruang sholat,
berjalan ke ruang sholat,
13:50
and what I saw made me stop.
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dan yang saya lihat membuat saya terhenti.
13:53
The place was completely full.
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Tempatnya sangat penuh.
13:55
And then the imam made an announcement,
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Lalu imam membuat pengumuman,
13:57
thanking and welcoming our guests,
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berterima kasih dan menyambut tamu kami,
14:02
because half the congregation
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karena setengah dari jemaah
14:05
were Christians, Jews,
Buddhists, atheists,
Buddhists, atheists,
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adalah umat Kristen, Yahudi,
Buddha, dan atheis,
Buddha, dan atheis,
14:08
people of faith and no faith,
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penganut agama maupun bukan,
14:11
who had come not to attack us,
but to stand in solidarity with us.
but to stand in solidarity with us.
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yang datang bukan untuk menyerang kami,
namun datang karena rasa solidaritas.
namun datang karena rasa solidaritas.
14:16
(Applause)
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(Tepuk tangan)
14:25
I just break down at this time.
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Saya tak kuasa menahan tangis.
14:28
These people were there because they chose
courage and compassion
courage and compassion
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Orang-orang ini datang karena mereka
memilih keberanian dan kasih sayang
memilih keberanian dan kasih sayang
14:33
over panic and prejudice.
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alih-alih kepanikan dan prasangka.
14:36
What will you choose?
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Apa yang akan Anda pilih?
14:39
What will you choose
at this time of fear and bigotry?
at this time of fear and bigotry?
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Apa yang akan Anda pilih di masa
ketakutan dan bigot sekarang ini?
ketakutan dan bigot sekarang ini?
14:45
Will you play it safe?
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Apakah Anda akan cari aman?
14:47
Or will you join those who say
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Atau Anda akan mengikuti mereka
yang mengatakan
yang mengatakan
14:50
we are better than that?
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kita lebih baik dari itu?
14:52
Thank you.
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Terima kasih.
14:53
(Applause)
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(Tepuk tangan)
15:07
Thank you so much.
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Terima kasih banyak.
15:12
Helen Walters: So Dalia,
you seem to have struck a chord.
you seem to have struck a chord.
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Helen Walters: Dalia, sepertinya pidato
Anda telah menggugah emosi.
Anda telah menggugah emosi.
15:16
But I wonder,
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Namun saya penasaran,
15:18
what would you say to those
who might argue
who might argue
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apa yang akan Anda bilang pada orang
yang berargumen
yang berargumen
15:20
that you're giving a TED Talk,
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bahwa Anda berbicara di TED,
15:22
you're clearly a deep thinker,
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jelas Anda seorang pemikir,
15:24
you work at a fancy think tank,
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Anda bekerja di organisasi bergengsi,
15:26
you're an exception, you're not the rule.
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Anda pengecualian,
tak seperti Muslim kebanyakan.
tak seperti Muslim kebanyakan.
15:28
What would you say to those people?
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Apa yang Anda akan katakan?
Dalia Mogahed: Saya akan bilang,
jangan terpengaruh oleh panggung ini,
jangan terpengaruh oleh panggung ini,
15:30
Dalia Mogahed: I would say,
don't let this stage distract you,
don't let this stage distract you,
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15:33
I'm completely ordinary.
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Saya hanya orang biasa.
15:35
I'm not an exception.
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Saya bukan pengecualian.
15:37
My story is not unusual.
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Kisah saya banyak terjadi.
15:39
I am as ordinary as they come.
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Saya sama saja seperti yang lain.
15:42
When you look at Muslims
around the world --
around the world --
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Ketika Anda melihat Muslim
di seluruh dunia --
di seluruh dunia --
dan saya telah melakukan studi,
studi terbesar yang pernah dibuat
studi terbesar yang pernah dibuat
15:46
and I've done this, I've done
the largest study ever done
the largest study ever done
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15:49
on Muslims around the world --
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tentang Muslim di seluruh dunia --
15:51
people want ordinary things.
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mereka ingin hal biasa.
15:52
They want prosperity for their family,
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Mereka ingin kesejahteraan
bagi keluarganya,
bagi keluarganya,
15:54
they want jobs
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pekerjaan
15:55
and they want to live in peace.
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dan hidup dalam damai.
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So I am not in any way an exception.
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Saya sama sekali bukan pengecualian.
Ketika Anda bertemu seseorang yang tampak
berbeda dari kebanyakan,
berbeda dari kebanyakan,
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When you meet people who seem
like an exception to the rule,
like an exception to the rule,
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oftentimes it's that the rule is broken,
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seringkali definisi dari kebanyakan itu
yang salah,
yang salah,
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not that they're an exception to it.
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bukannya mereka yang berbeda.
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HW: Thank you so much.
Dalia Mogahed.
Dalia Mogahed.
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HW: Terima kasih banyak.
Dalia Mogahed.
Dalia Mogahed.
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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Dalia Mogahed - Muslim studies scholarResearcher and pollster Dalia Mogahed is an author, advisor and consultant who studies Muslim communities.
Why you should listen
As director of research at the Institute for Social Policy and Understanding, Dalia Mogahed keeps her finger on the pulse of the Muslim world. She served on Obama’s Advisory Council on Faith-Based and Neighborhood Partnerships in 2009, advising the president on how faith-based organizations can help government solve persistent social problems.
Mogahed is a former director of the Gallup Center for Muslim Studies, where her surveys of Muslim opinion skewered myths and stereotypes while illuminating the varied attitudes of Muslims toward politics, religion, and gender issues. Her 2008 book with John Esposito, Who Speaks for Islam? What a Billion Muslims Really Think, outlines these surprising findings.
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