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Ziauddin Yousafzai: My daughter, Malala
Ziauddin Yousafzai: Vajza ime, Malala
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Mesuesi Pakistanez Ziauddin Yousafzai na kujton boten e nje te vertete te vogel qe shume vete nuk duan te degjojne: Grate e burrat meritojne shanse te njejta per edukim, autonomi dhe identitet te pavarur. Ai tregon historine nga jeta e tij dhe jeta e vajzes se tij, Malala, i cili u qellua nga Talebanet ne 2012 thjeshte sepse guxoi te shkonte ne shkolle. "Pse vajza ime eshte kaq e forte?" pyet Yousafzai. "Sepse une nuk i preva flatrat e saj."
Ziauddin Yousafzai - Education activist
Despite an attack on his daughter Malala in 2012, Ziauddin Yousafzai continues his fight to educate children in the developing world. Full bio
Despite an attack on his daughter Malala in 2012, Ziauddin Yousafzai continues his fight to educate children in the developing world. Full bio
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In many patriarchal societies and tribal societies,
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Ne shume shoqeri patriakale dhe tribale
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fathers are usually known by their sons,
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baballaret njihen zakonisht prej djemve te tyre,
00:22
but I'm one of the few fathers
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por une jam nje nga te paktet baballare
00:25
who is known by his daughter,
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i cili njihet prej vajzes se tij,
00:27
and I am proud of it.
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dhe jam krenar per kete.
00:29
(Applause)
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(Duartrokitje)
00:35
Malala started her campaign for education
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Malala e nisi fushaten e saj per edukimin
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and stood for her rights in 2007,
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dhe u ngrit per te drejtat e saj ne 2007,
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and when her efforts were honored in 2011,
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dhe kur perpjekjet e saj u nderuan ne 2011,
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and she was given the national youth peace prize,
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e ju dha çmimi kombetar i paqes per te rinjte
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and she became a very famous,
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e ajo u be shume e famshme
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very popular young girl of her country.
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nje vajze e re shume e famshme
ne vendin e saj.
ne vendin e saj.
00:55
Before that, she was my daughter,
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Perpara kesaj, ajo ishte vajza ime,
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but now I am her father.
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por tani une jam babai i saj.
01:02
Ladies and gentlemen,
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Zonja e Zoterinj
01:04
if we glance to human history,
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nese verejme historine njerezore,
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the story of women
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historia e gruas
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is the story of injustice,
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eshte historia e padrejtesise,
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inequality,
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e pabarazise,
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violence and exploitation.
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e dhunes dhe e shfrytezimit.
01:21
You see,
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Ju vini re,
01:23
in patriarchal societies,
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ne shoqerite patriarkale
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right from the very beginning,
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qe fare ne fillim,
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when a girl is born,
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kur nje vajze lind,
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her birth is not celebrated.
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lindja e saj nuk festohet.
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She is not welcomed,
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Ajo nuk eshte e mireseardhur,
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neither by father nor by mother.
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as nga babai e as nga nena.
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The neighborhood comes
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Fqinjet vijne
01:43
and commiserates with the mother,
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dhe meshirojne me nene,
01:46
and nobody congratulates the father.
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dhe asnje nuk e uron babain.
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And a mother is very uncomfortable
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Dhe nje nene ndihet jo mire
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for having a girl child.
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qe ka lindur nje femije vajze.
01:59
When she gives birth to the first girl child,
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Ku ajo lind femijen e pare vajze,
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first daughter, she is sad.
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bija e pare, ajo eshte e trishte.
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When she gives birth to the second daughter,
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Kur ajo lind vajzen e dyte,
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she is shocked,
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ajo shokohet,
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and in the expectation of a son,
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dhe ne pritshmerine e nje djali,
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when she gives birth to a third daughter,
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kur ajo lind vajzen e trete,
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she feels guilty like a criminal.
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ajo ndihet fajtore si nje kriminel.
02:24
Not only the mother suffers,
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Jo vetem nena vuan,
02:27
but the daughter, the newly born daughter,
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por edhe vajza, vajza e sapolindur,
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when she grows old,
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kur ajo rritet,
02:32
she suffers too.
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ajo vuan gjithashtu.
02:34
At the age of five,
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Ne moshen pese vjeçare,
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while she should be going to school,
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ndersa ajo duhet te shkoje ne shkolle,
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she stays at home
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ajo rri ne shtepi
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and her brothers are admitted in a school.
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dhe vellezerit e saj regjistrohen ne nje shkolle.
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Until the age of 12, somehow,
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Deri ne moshen 12 vjeçare, disi,
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she has a good life.
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ajo ka nje jete te mire.
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She can have fun.
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Ajo mund te zbavitet.
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She can play with her friends in the streets,
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Ajo mund te luaje me miqte neper rruge,
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and she can move around in the streets
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dhe ajo mund te levize neper rruge
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like a butterfly.
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si nje flutur.
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But when she enters her teens,
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Por kur ajo futet ne adoleshence,
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when she becomes 13 years old,
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kur ajo mbush 13 vjeç,
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she is forbidden to go out of her home
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asaj i ndalohet te dale nga shtepia e saj
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without a male escort.
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pa nje shoqerues mashkull.
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She is confined under the four walls of her home.
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Ajo eshte e kufizuar brenda
kater mureve te shtepise se saj.
kater mureve te shtepise se saj.
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She is no more a free individual.
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Ajo nuk eshte me nje individ i lire.
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She becomes the so-called honor
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Ajo behet i ashtuquajturi nder
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of her father and of her brothers
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i babait dhe vellezerve te saj,
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and of her family,
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dhe i familjes se saj
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and if she transgresses
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dhe nese ajo kundershton
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the code of that so-called honor,
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kodin e te ashtuquajturit nder,
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she could even be killed.
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ajo mundet edhe te vritet.
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And it is also interesting that this so-called
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Dhe, eshte interesante po ashtu
qe i ashtuquajturi
qe i ashtuquajturi
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code of honor,
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kod i nderit,
03:49
it does not only affect the life of a girl,
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nuk ndikon vetem jeten e nje vajze,
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it also affects the life
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por gjithashtu ndikon jeten
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of the male members of the family.
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e pjestareve meshkuj te familjes.
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I know a family of seven sisters and one brother,
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Une njoh nje familje
me shtate motra dhe nje vella,
me shtate motra dhe nje vella,
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and that one brother,
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dhe ai nje vella,
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he has migrated to the Gulf countries,
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ka emigruar ne vendet e Golfit
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to earn a living for his seven sisters
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per te fituar jetesen per shtate motrat e tij
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and parents,
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dhe prinderit,
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because he thinks that it will be humiliating
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sepse ai mendon qe do te ishte poshteruese
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if his seven sisters learn a skill
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nese shtate motrat e tij
do te mesonin nje aftesi
do te mesonin nje aftesi
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and they go out of the home
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dhe do te dilnin prej shtepie
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and earn some livelihood.
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edhe te fitonin jetesen.
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So this brother,
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Ndaj ky vella,
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he sacrifices the joys of his life
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sakrifikon gezimet e jetes se tij
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and the happiness of his sisters
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dhe lumturine e motrave te tij
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at the altar of so-called honor.
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per te ngritur ne altar
te ashtuquajturin nder.
te ashtuquajturin nder.
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And there is one more norm
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Dhe ka edhe nje norme tjeter
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of the patriarchal societies
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te shoqerive patriarkale
04:49
that is called obedience.
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qe quhet bindje.
04:53
A good girl is supposed to be
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Nje vajze e mire supozohet te jete
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very quiet, very humble
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shume e urte, shume e perulur
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and very submissive.
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dhe shume e nenshtruar.
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It is the criteria.
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Ky eshte kriteri.
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The role model good girl should be very quiet.
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Vajza e mire model duhet te jete
shume e urte.
shume e urte.
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She is supposed to be silent
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Ajo supozohet te jete e heshtur
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and she is supposed to accept the decisions
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dhe ajo supozohet te pranoje vendimet
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of her father and mother
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e babait dhe nenes se saj
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and the decisions of elders,
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dhe vendimet e me te vjeterve,
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even if she does not like them.
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edhe nese ajo nuk i pelqen ato.
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If she is married to a man she doesn't like
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Nese ajo martohet me nje burre
qe nuk i pelqen
qe nuk i pelqen
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or if she is married to an old man,
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apo nese ajo martohet
me nje burre te vjeter,
me nje burre te vjeter,
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she has to accept,
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ajo duhet te pranoje,
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because she does not want to be dubbed
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sepse ajo nuk do te konsiderohet
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as disobedient.
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si e pabindur.
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If she is married very early,
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Nese ajo martohet shume heret,
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she has to accept.
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ajo duhet te pranoje.
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Otherwise, she will be called disobedient.
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Ne te kundert, ajo do te quhet e pabindur.
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And what happens at the end?
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Dhe çfare ndodh ne fund?
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In the words of a poetess,
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Me fjalet e nje poeteshe
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she is wedded, bedded,
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ajo martohet, shtrohet,
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and then she gives birth
to more sons and daughters.
to more sons and daughters.
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pastaj lind me shume djem e vajza.
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And it is the irony of the situation
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Dhe ironia e kesaj situate eshte qe
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that this mother,
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kjo nene,
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she teaches the same lesson of obedience
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ajo i meson te njejtin mesim bindjeje
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to her daughter
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vajzes se saj
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and the same lesson of honor to her sons.
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dhe te njejtin mesim nderi djemve te saj.
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And this vicious cycle goes on, goes on.
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Dhe ky rreth vicios, vazhdon e vazhdon.
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Ladies and gentlemen,
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Zonja e Zoterinj,
06:20
this plight of millions of women
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kjo gjendje e veshtire e miliona grave
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could be changed
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mund te ndryshohet
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if we think differently,
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nese ne mendojme ndryshe,
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if women and men think differently,
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nese grate dhe burrat mendojne ndryshe,
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if men and women in the
tribal and patriarchal societies
tribal and patriarchal societies
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nese burrat dhe grate
ne shoqerite tribale dhe patriarkale
ne shoqerite tribale dhe patriarkale
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in the developing countries,
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ne vendet ne zhvillim,
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if they can break a few norms
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nese do te mund te thyenin disa norma
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of family and society,
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te familjes e te shoqerise
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if they can abolish the discriminatory laws
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nese do te mund te shfuqizonin
disa ligje diskriminuese
disa ligje diskriminuese
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of the systems in their states,
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te sistemeve ne shtetet e tyre,
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which go against the basic human rights
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te cilat shkojne kunder
te drejtave bazike njerezore
te drejtave bazike njerezore
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of the women.
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te gruas.
07:00
Dear brothers and sisters, when Malala was born,
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Te dashur vellezer e motra,
kur Malala lindi,
kur Malala lindi,
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and for the first time,
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dhe per here te pare,
07:08
believe me,
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besomeni,
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I don't like newborn children, to be honest,
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mua nuk me pelqejne femijet e porsalindur,
te jem i sinqerte,
te jem i sinqerte,
07:14
but when I went and I looked into her eyes,
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por kur shkova dhe pashe ne syte e saj,
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believe me,
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besomeni,
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I got extremely honored.
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une isha jashtezakonisht i nderuar.
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And long before she was born,
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E shume me perpara se ajo te lindte,
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I thought about her name,
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kisha menduar per emrin e saj,
07:29
and I was fascinated with a heroic
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dhe isha i magjepsur me nje legjende
07:32
legendary freedom fighter in Afghanistan.
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heroike te nje luftetareje lirie ne Afganistan.
07:36
Her name was Malalai of Maiwand,
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Emri i saj ishte Malalai i Maiwand,
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and I named my daughter after her.
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dhe une ia vura emrin vajzes time sipas saj.
07:45
A few days after Malala was born,
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Disa dite pas lindjes se Malalas
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my daughter was born,
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vajza ime lindi,
07:50
my cousin came --
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e kusheriri im erdhi--
07:52
and it was a coincidence --
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dhe qe nje rastesi--
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he came to my home
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ai erdhi ne shtepine time
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and he brought a family tree,
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dhe solli nje peme te familjes
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a family tree of the Yousafzai family,
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nje peme familajre te familjes Yousafzai,
08:03
and when I looked at the family tree,
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dhe kur e pashe pemen familjare
08:05
it traced back to 300 years of our ancestors.
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gjurmonte paraardhesit tane
deri 300 vjet me pare.
deri 300 vjet me pare.
08:11
But when I looked, all were men,
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Por kur e pashe, te gjithe ishin burra,
08:16
and I picked my pen,
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dhe mora shkronjesin tim
08:18
drew a line from my name,
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vizatova nje vije prej emrit tim
08:20
and wrote, "Malala."
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dhe shkruajta, "Malala".
08:25
And when she grow old,
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Dhe kur ajo u rrit,
08:28
when she was four and a half years old,
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kur ajo ishte kater vjeç e gjysem,
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I admitted her in my school.
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e pranova ate ne shkollen time.
08:35
You will be asking, then, why should I mention about
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Ju po pyesni se perse duhet t'a permend
08:38
the admission of a girl in a school?
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pranimin ne shkolle te nje vajze?
08:40
Yes, I must mention it.
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Po, duhet t'a permend kete gje.
08:42
It may be taken for granted in Canada,
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Shihet si nje e drejte ne Kanada,
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in America, in many developed countries,
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ne Amerike, ne shume vende te zhvilluara,
08:49
but in poor countries,
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por ne vendet e varfera,
08:52
in patriarchal societies, in tribal societies,
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ne shoqerite patriarkale, ne shoqerite tribale,
08:55
it's a big event for the life of girl.
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eshte nje ngjarje e madhe per jeten e nje vajze.
08:59
Enrollment in a school means
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Regjistrimi ne nje shkolle do te thote
09:03
recognition of her identity and her name.
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njohje e identitetit te saj dhe emrit te saj.
09:08
Admission in a school means
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Pranimi ne shkolle do te thote
09:10
that she has entered the world of dreams
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qe ajo ka hyre ne boten e enderrave
09:14
and aspirations
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dhe te aspirimeve
09:15
where she can explore her potentials
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ku ajo mund te eksploroje potencialet e saj
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for her future life.
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per te jeten e saj te ardhme.
09:22
I have five sisters,
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Une kam pese motra,
09:24
and none of them could go to school,
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dhe asnje nga ato nuk mundi
te shkoje ne shkolle,
te shkoje ne shkolle,
09:28
and you will be astonished,
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dhe ju do te mbeteni te habitur,
09:29
two weeks before,
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dy jave me pare,
09:33
when I was filling out the Canadian visa form,
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kur po plotesoja formularin e vizes Kanadeze,
09:38
and I was filling out the family part of the form,
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dhe po plotesoja pjesen ne formular mbi familjen
09:42
I could not recall
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nuk mund te kujtoja
09:44
the surnames of some of my sisters.
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disa nga mbiemrat e motrave te mija.
09:48
And the reason was
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E arsyeja ishte
09:50
that I have never, never seen the names
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qe nuk kam pare kurre, kurre emrat
09:53
of my sisters written on any document.
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e motrave te mija te shkruara
ne ndonje dokument.
ne ndonje dokument.
09:59
That was the reason that
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Kjo ishte arsyeja perse
10:02
I valued my daughter.
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e vleresova vajzen time.
10:06
What my father could not give to my sisters
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Ate çka babai im nuk mund t'ua jepte
motrave te mija
motrave te mija
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and to his daughters,
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dhe vajzave te tij,
10:12
I thought I must change it.
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une mendova se duhej t'a ndryshoja.
10:16
I used to appreciate the intelligence
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Une e vleresoja inteligjencen
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and the brilliance of my daughter.
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dhe shkelqimin e vajzes time.
10:23
I encouraged her to sit with me
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E inkurajoja ate te ulej me mua
10:25
when my friends used to come.
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kur miqte e mij vinin.
10:27
I encouraged her to go with
me to different meetings.
me to different meetings.
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E inkuraroja ate te vinte me mua
ne takime te ndryshme.
ne takime te ndryshme.
10:32
And all these good values,
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E te gjitha keto vlera te mira,
10:33
I tried to inculcate in her personality.
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u mundova t'ia ngulisja
ne personalitetin e saj.
ne personalitetin e saj.
10:37
And this was not only she, only Malala.
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Dhe kjo nuk ishte vetem ajo, vetem Malala.
10:40
I imparted all these good values
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Une i ndava te gjitha keto vlera te mira
10:43
to my school, girl students
and boy students as well.
and boy students as well.
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ne shkollen time, studenteve
vajza e djem gjithashtu.
vajza e djem gjithashtu.
10:48
I used education for emancipation.
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Une e perdora edukimin per emancipim,
10:52
I taught my girls,
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I mesova vazjat e mija,
10:54
I taught my girl students,
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I mesova vajzat e mija studnete,
10:56
to unlearn the lesson of obedience.
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ta ç'mesonin leksionin e bindjes.
11:01
I taught my boy students
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I mesova studentet e mij djem
11:04
to unlearn the lesson of so-called pseudo-honor.
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t'a çmesonin leksionin
e te ashtu-quajturit pseudo-nder.
e te ashtu-quajturit pseudo-nder.
11:13
Dear brothers and sisters,
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Te dashur vellezer e motra,
11:17
we were striving for more rights for women,
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ne po mundoheshim per me shume
te drejta per grate,
te drejta per grate,
11:22
and we were struggling to have more,
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dhe ne po mundoheshim te kishim me shume,
11:25
more and more space for the women in society.
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shume e me shume hapesire
per grate ne shoqeri.
per grate ne shoqeri.
11:30
But we came across a new phenomenon.
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Por ne ndeshem nje fenoment te ri.
11:33
It was lethal to human rights
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Ishte vdekje prurese per te drejtat njerezore
11:35
and particularly to women's rights.
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dhe veçanerisht per te drejtat e grave.
11:39
It was called Talibanization.
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Quhej Talibanizim.
11:43
It means a complete negation
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Do te thote nje mohim i plote
11:47
of women's participation
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i pjesemarrjes se gruas
11:49
in all political, economical and social activities.
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ne te gjithe aktivitetet politike,
ekonomike dhe sociale.
ekonomike dhe sociale.
11:56
Hundreds of schools were lost.
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Qindra shkolla u mbyllen.
11:59
Girls were prohibited from going to school.
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Vajzave iu ndalua te shkonin ne shkolle.
12:05
Women were forced to wear veils
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Grate u detyruan te vishin perçe
12:09
and they were stopped from going to the markets.
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dhe iu ndalua te dilnin ne tregje.
12:13
Musicians were silenced,
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Muzika u pushua,
12:15
girls were flogged
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vajzat u fshikulluan
12:17
and singers were killed.
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dhe kengentaret u vrane.
12:21
Millions were suffering,
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Miliona po vuanin,
12:22
but few spoke,
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por shume pak folen,
12:26
and it was the most scary thing
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dhe ishte gjeja me e frikshme
12:28
when you have all around such people
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kur ju keni rrotull njerez te tille
12:34
who kill and who flog,
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qe vrasin dhe qe fshikullojne
12:36
and you speak for your rights.
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dhe ju flisni per te drejtat tuaja.
12:37
It's really the most scary thing.
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Eshte me te vertete gjeja me e frikshme.
12:42
At the age of 10,
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Ne moshen 10 vjeçare,
12:43
Malala stood, and she stood for the right
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Malala u ngrit per te drejten
12:48
of education.
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e edukimit.
12:50
She wrote a diary for the BBC blog,
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Ajo shkruajti ditarin e saj per blogun e BBC-se,
12:55
she volunteered herself
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ajo doli vullnetare
12:57
for the New York Times documentaries,
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per dokumentarin e New York Times
13:01
and she spoke from every platform she could.
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dhe ajo foli per çdo platforme qe mundt'te.
13:05
And her voice was the most powerful voice.
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Dhe zeri i saj ishte zeri me i fuqishem.
13:10
It spread like a crescendo all around the world.
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Perhapej si nje "crescendo" ne te gjithe boten.
13:16
And that was the reason the Taliban
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E kjo qe arsyeja qe Talebanet
13:18
could not tolerate her campaign,
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nuk mund t'a toleronin fushaten e saj
13:22
and on October 9 2012,
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dhe ne 9 Tetor 2012,
13:25
she was shot in the head at point blank range.
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ajo u qellua ne koke
nga nje distance shume e vogel.
nga nje distance shume e vogel.
13:31
It was a doomsday for my family and for me.
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Ishte fundi i botes
per familjen time dhe per mua.
per familjen time dhe per mua.
13:35
The world turned into a big black hole.
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Bota u shnderrua
ne nje vrime te madhe te zeze.
ne nje vrime te madhe te zeze.
13:41
While my daughter was
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Nderkohe qe vajza ime
13:43
on the verge of life and death,
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ishte midis jetes e vdekjes,
13:46
I whispered into the ears of my wife,
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Une pershperita ne veshin e gruas time,
13:50
"Should I be blamed for what happened
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" A duhet te fajsohem per çka i ndodhi
13:53
to my daughter and your daughter?"
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vajzes time dhe vajzes tende?"
13:57
And she abruptly told me,
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E ajo befas me tha,
13:59
"Please don't blame yourself.
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"Mos e fajso veten.
14:02
You stood for the right cause.
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Ti qendrove per nje kauze te drejte.
14:05
You put your life at stake
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Vendose jeten tende ne rrezik
14:07
for the cause of truth,
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per kauzen e te vertetes
14:08
for the cause of peace,
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per kauzen e paqes,
14:10
and for the cause of education,
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per kauzen e edukimit,
14:12
and your daughter in inspired from you
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dhe vajza jote e frymezuar nga ti
14:14
and she joined you.
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t'u bashkua.
14:16
You both were on the right path
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Ju te dy ishit ne rrugen e duhur
14:18
and God will protect her."
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dhe Zoti do t'a mbroje ate."
14:21
These few words meant a lot to me,
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Keto pak fjale kishin
domethenie te madhe per mua,
domethenie te madhe per mua,
14:24
and I didn't ask this question again.
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dhe nuk e bere me kurre ate pyetje.
14:28
When Malala was in the hospital,
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Kur Malala ishte ne spital,
14:33
and she was going through the severe pains
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dhe po kalonte dhimbje shume te forta
14:36
and she had had severe headaches
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dhe kishte dhimbje shume te forta koke
14:38
because her facial nerve was cut down,
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per shkak se nervi i saj facial ishte prere,
14:42
I used to see a dark shadow
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une shikoja nje hije te zeze
14:44
spreading on the face of my wife.
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qe perhapej ne fytyren e sime shoqe.
14:50
But my daughter never complained.
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Por vajza ime nuk u ankua kurre.
14:56
She used to tell us,
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Ajo na thoshte,
14:58
"I'm fine with my crooked smile
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"Jam ne rregull me buzeqeshjen
time te shtrember
time te shtrember
15:00
and with my numbness in my face.
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dhe me pandjesine time ne fytyre.
15:02
I'll be okay. Please don't worry."
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Do te behem mire. Ju lutem, mos u shqetesoni."
15:05
She was a solace for us,
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Ajo ishte nje lehtesim per ne,
15:07
and she consoled us.
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dhe ajo na ngushellonte.
15:12
Dear brothers and sisters,
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Te dashur vellezer e motra,
15:16
we learned from her how to be resilient
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ne mesuam nga ajo si te jemi te qendrueshem,
15:18
in the most difficult times,
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ne kohet me te veshtira,
15:22
and I'm glad to share with you
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dhe jam i lumtur t'a ndaj me ju
15:25
that despite being an icon
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qe pavaresisht te qenurit nje ikone
15:31
for the rights of children and women,
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per te drejtat e femijeve dhe te grave
15:33
she is like any 16-year old girl.
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ajo eshte si çdo 16 vjeçare tjeter.
15:39
She cries when her homework is incomplete.
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Ajo qan kur s'ka mbaruar detyrat te shtepise.
15:44
She quarrels with her brothers,
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Ajo grindet me vellezerit e saj,
15:46
and I am very happy for that.
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dhe une jam shume i lumtur per kete.
15:50
People ask me,
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Njerezit me pyesin,
15:52
what special is in my mentorship
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çfare veçantie ka ne mentorimin tim
15:56
which has made Malala so bold
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qe e ka bere Malalan kaq te forte
15:58
and so courageous and so vocal and poised?
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dhe ka guximtare dhe kaq te zeshme
e te gatshme?
e te gatshme?
16:03
I tell them, don't ask me what I did.
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U them atyre, mos me pyesni çfare kam bere.
16:09
Ask me what I did not do.
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Me pyesni çfare nuk kam bere.
16:13
I did not clip her wings, and that's all.
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Une nuk i preva flatrat e saj, vetem kaq.
16:18
Thank you very much.
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Faleminderit shume.
16:21
(Applause)
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(Duartrokitje)
16:26
Thank you. Thank you very much. Thank you. (Applause)
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Faleminderit. Faleminderit shume. Faleminderit. (Duartrokitje)
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Ziauddin Yousafzai - Education activistDespite an attack on his daughter Malala in 2012, Ziauddin Yousafzai continues his fight to educate children in the developing world.
Why you should listen
Ziauddin Yousafzai is an educator, human rights campaigner and social activist. He hails from Pakistan's Swat Valley where, at great personal risk among grave political violence, he peacefully resisted the Taliban's efforts to shut down schools and kept open his own school. He also inspired his daughter, Malala Yousafzai, to raise her voice to promote the rights of children to an education. Ziauddin is the co-founder and serves as the Chairman of the Board for the Malala Fund.
He also serves as the United Nations Special Advisor on Global Education and also the educational attaché to the Pakistani Consulate in Birmingham, UK.
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