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David Steindl-Rast: Want to be happy? Be grateful
Dejvid Stendl-Rast (David Steindl-Rast): Želite da budete srećni? Budite zahvalni.
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Sva ljudska bića imaju jednu zajedničku stvar, a to je da žele da budu srećna, kaže brat Dejvid Stendl-Rast, monah i stručnjak o međuverskim pitanjima. Kako on predlaže, sreća se rađa iz zahvalnosti. Inspirativna lekcija o tome kako da usporimo, razgledamo kuda idemo, i iznad svega, budemo zahvalni.
David Steindl-Rast - Monk
Brother David Steindl-Rast, a Benedictine monk, meditates and writes on "the gentle power" of gratefulness. Full bio
Brother David Steindl-Rast, a Benedictine monk, meditates and writes on "the gentle power" of gratefulness. Full bio
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There is something
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Postoji nešto
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you know about me, something very personal,
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što već znate o meni,
nešto vrlo lično.
nešto vrlo lično.
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and there is something I know about
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Postoji nešto što znam
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every one of you
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o svakom od vas ponaosob
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and that's very central to your concerns.
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i to je nešto što je
u središtu vašeg života.
u središtu vašeg života.
00:28
There is something that we know
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Postoji nešto što znamo
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about everyone we meet anywhere in the world,
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o svakome koga sretnemo
bilo gde na svetu,
bilo gde na svetu,
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on the street,
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na ulici,
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that is the very mainspring
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što je glavni pokretač
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of whatever they do
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svega što rade,
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and whatever they put up with,
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kroz šta god da prolaze.
00:46
and that is that all of us
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To je da svi mi
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want to be happy.
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želimo da budemo srećni.
00:52
In this, we are all together.
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U tome smo svi mi zajedno.
00:55
How we imagine our happiness,
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Kako mi zamišljamo
našu sreću,
našu sreću,
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that differs from one another,
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to se razlikuje
od osobe do osobe,
od osobe do osobe,
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but it's already a lot that we have all in common,
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ali to je dosta onoga
što svi imamo zajedničko,
što svi imamo zajedničko,
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that we want to be happy.
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da želimo da budemo srećni.
01:09
Now my topic is gratefulness.
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Moja tema je zahvalnost.
01:12
How is the connection between
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Kako su povezane
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happiness and gratefulness?
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sreća i zahvalnost?
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Many people would say, well, that's very easy.
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Mnogi ljudi bi rekli,
pa da, to je lako.
pa da, to je lako.
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When you are happy, you are grateful.
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Kada ste srećni,
vi ste zahvalni.
vi ste zahvalni.
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But think again.
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Ali razmislite opet.
01:29
Is it really the happy people that are grateful?
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Da li su zaista srećni
ljudi zahvalni?
ljudi zahvalni?
01:34
We all know quite a number of people
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Svi znamo dosta ljudi
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who have everything that it would take to be happy,
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koji imaju sve što
je potrebno da budi srećni,
je potrebno da budi srećni,
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and they are not happy,
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a oni nisu srećni,
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because they want something else
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jer oni žele nesto drugo,
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or they want more of the same.
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ili žele više od tog istog.
01:50
And we all know people
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Isto tako svi mi znamo ljude
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who have lots of misfortune,
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koji se bore sa nedaćama,
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misfortune that we ourselves would not want to have,
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nevoljama kroz koje mi sami
ne bismo voleli da prolazimo,
ne bismo voleli da prolazimo,
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and they are deeply happy.
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i oni su iskreno srećni.
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They radiate happiness. You are surprised.
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Oni zrače srećom.
Vi ste iznenađeni.
Vi ste iznenađeni.
02:07
Why? Because they are grateful.
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Zašto?
Jer su zahvalni.
Jer su zahvalni.
02:10
So it is not happiness that makes us grateful.
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Nije sreća ta koja nas čini zahvalnim,
02:14
It's gratefulness that makes us happy.
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već zahvalnost je ta
koja nas čini srećnim.
koja nas čini srećnim.
02:17
If you think it's happiness that makes you grateful,
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Ako mislite da vas sreća
čini zahvalnim,
čini zahvalnim,
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think again.
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razmislite opet.
02:22
It's gratefulness that makes you happy.
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Zahvalnost vas čini srećnim.
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Now, we can ask,
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Sada, možemo da se zapitamo,
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what really do we mean by gratefulness?
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šta zapravo mislimo
da je zahvalnost?
da je zahvalnost?
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And how does it work?
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Kako funkcioniše?
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I appeal to your own experience.
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Obraćam se vašem iskustvu.
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We all know from experience how it goes.
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Svi znamo iz iskustva
kako to ide.
kako to ide.
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We experience something
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Mi doživimo nešto
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that's valuable to us.
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što je nama vredno.
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Something is given to us that's valuable to us.
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Nešto nam je dodeljeno,
što ima ličnu vrednost.
što ima ličnu vrednost.
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And it's really given.
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Zaista vam je dodeljeno.
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These two things have to come together.
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Ove dve stvari moraju da se spoje.
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It has to be something valuable,
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Mora da bude nešto što je vredno,
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and it's a real gift.
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i što je istinski dar.
03:03
You haven't bought it. You haven't earned it.
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Niste ga kupili.
Niste ga zaradili.
Niste ga zaradili.
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You haven't traded it in. You haven't worked for it.
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Niste ga razmenili.
Niste radili za njega,
Niste radili za njega,
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It's just given to you.
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već vam je poklonjeno.
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And when these two things come together,
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Kada se te dve stvari spoje,
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something that's really valuable to me
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nešto što je zaista meni vredno,
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and I realize it's freely given,
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i kad shvatim da je to dar,
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then gratefulness spontaneously
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onda se zahvalnost spontano
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rises in my heart,
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uspinje u mom srcu,
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happiness spontaneously rises in my heart.
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sreća spontano raste u mom srcu.
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That's how gratefulness happens.
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Tako se zahvalnost dešava.
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Now the key to all this is that
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Ključna stvar u svemu tome je da
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we cannot only experience this once in a while.
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mi ne možemo da ovo
iskusimo povremeno.
iskusimo povremeno.
03:44
We cannot only have grateful experiences.
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Ne možemo da imamo
samo iskustva zahvalnosti.
samo iskustva zahvalnosti.
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We can be people who live gratefully.
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Mi možemo da budemo ljudi koji žive
kroz neprekidan izraz zahvalnosti.
kroz neprekidan izraz zahvalnosti.
03:52
Grateful living, that is the thing.
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Živeti sa zahvalnošću, to je to.
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And how can we live gratefully?
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Kako možemo da živimo
kroz neprekidan izraz zahvalnosti?
kroz neprekidan izraz zahvalnosti?
04:00
By experiencing, by becoming aware
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Kroz iskustvo, kroz stvaranje svesti
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that every moment is a given moment, as we say.
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da je svaki trenutak
poklonjeni trenutak, kako mi to kažemo.
poklonjeni trenutak, kako mi to kažemo.
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It's a gift. You haven't earned it.
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To je poklon. Niste ga zaradili.
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You haven't brought it about in any way.
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Niste ga prouzrokovali
ni na koji način.
ni na koji način.
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You have no way of assuring that there will be
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Nemate način da znate
da ćete doživeti
da ćete doživeti
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another moment given to you,
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još jedan poklonjeni trenutak.
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and yet, that's the most valuable thing
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Pritom, to je najdragocenija stvar
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that can ever be given to us,
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koja nam može biti data,
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this moment, with all the opportunity that it contains.
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ovaj trenutak, sa svim
mogućnostima koje on sadrži.
mogućnostima koje on sadrži.
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If we didn't have this present moment,
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Ukoliko ne bismo
imali ovaj trenutak,
imali ovaj trenutak,
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we wouldn't have any opportunity to do anything
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ne bismo imali nijednu
priliku da uradimo
priliku da uradimo
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or experience anything,
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ili doživimo bilo šta,
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and this moment is a gift.
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i ovaj trenutak je poklon.
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It's a given moment, as we say.
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To je poklonjeni trenutak,
kako mi kažemo.
kako mi kažemo.
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Now, we say the gift within this gift
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Sada, mi kažemo da je
dar unutar ovog dara
dar unutar ovog dara
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is really the opportunity.
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u stvari jedna prilika.
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What you are really grateful for is the opportunity,
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Ta prilika je ono
za šta ste u stvari zahvalni,
za šta ste u stvari zahvalni,
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not the thing that is given to you,
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ne za stvar koja vam je data,
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because if that thing were somewhere else
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je ako bi ta stvar
bila negde drugde
bila negde drugde
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and you didn't have the opportunity to enjoy it,
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a vi nemate priliku
da uživate u njoj,
da uživate u njoj,
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to do something with it,
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da nešto uradite sa njom,
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you wouldn't be grateful for it.
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vi ne biste bili
zahvalni za taj dar.
zahvalni za taj dar.
05:07
Opportunity is the gift within every gift,
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Prilika je dar
unutar svakog dara.
unutar svakog dara.
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and we have this saying,
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Mi imamo ovu izreku:
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opportunity knocks only once.
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"Prilika kuca na vrata
samo jedanput".
samo jedanput".
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Well, think again.
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Razmislite opet.
05:20
Every moment is a new gift, over and over again,
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Svaki trenutak je novi dar, iznova.
05:24
and if you miss the opportunity of this moment,
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Ako propustite jednu priliku
u ovom trenutku,
u ovom trenutku,
05:28
another moment is given to us, and another moment.
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drugi trenutak nam je
poklonjen, i još jedan trenutak.
poklonjen, i još jedan trenutak.
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We can avail ourselves of this opportunity,
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Mi možemo iskoristiti
ovu priliku za sebe,
ovu priliku za sebe,
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or we can miss it,
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ili je možemo propustiti.
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and if we avail ourselves of the opportunity,
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Ako iskoristimo tu priliku za sebe,
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it is the key to happiness.
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to je glavni faktor sreće.
05:43
Behold the master key to our happiness
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Vidite da je glavni ključ naše sreće
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in our own hands.
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u našim rukama.
05:48
Moment by moment,
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Trenutak po trenutak,
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we can be grateful for this gift.
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mi možemo da budemo
zahvalni za taj dar.
zahvalni za taj dar.
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Does that mean
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Da li to znači
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that we can be grateful for everything?
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da možemo da budemo
zahvalni za sve?
zahvalni za sve?
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Certainly not.
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Svakako ne.
06:01
We cannot be grateful for violence, for war,
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Ne možemo da budemo
zahvalni za nasilje, rat,
zahvalni za nasilje, rat,
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for oppression, for exploitation.
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za ugnjetavanje, za eksploataciju.
06:09
On the personal level, we cannot be grateful
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Na ličnom nivou,
ne možemo biti zahvalni
ne možemo biti zahvalni
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for the loss of a friend, for unfaithfulness,
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za smrt prijatelja, za neverstvo,
06:15
for bereavement.
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za težak gubitak.
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But I didn't say we can be grateful for everything.
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Ali ja nisam rekao da
možemo da budemo zahvalni za sve.
možemo da budemo zahvalni za sve.
06:22
I said we can be grateful in every given moment
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Ja sam rekao da mi možemo biti
biti zahvalni za svaki poklonjeni trenutak,
biti zahvalni za svaki poklonjeni trenutak,
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for the opportunity,
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za priliku,
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and even when we are confronted
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i čak i kada se suočavamo
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with something that is terribly difficult,
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sa nečim što je jako teško,
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we can rise to this occasion
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mi možemo da se
uzdignemo iznad situacije
uzdignemo iznad situacije
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and respond to the opportunity that is given to us.
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i odazovemo se prilici
koja nam je data.
koja nam je data.
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It isn't as bad as it might seem.
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Nije tako teško
kako nam se čini.
kako nam se čini.
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Actually, when you look at it and experience it,
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Kad se suočite sa tom prilikom,
i iskusite je,
i iskusite je,
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you find that most of the time, what is given to us
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vi ćete videti da u većini slučajeva,
ono što nam je dato
ono što nam je dato
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is opportunity to enjoy,
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je prilika u kojoj
treba uživati,
treba uživati,
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and we only miss it because
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i mi je propustimo zato što
06:56
we are rushing through life
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jurimo kroz život,
06:58
and we are not stopping to see the opportunity.
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i ne zastanemo
da primetimo prilike.
da primetimo prilike.
07:01
But once in a while,
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Ali ponekad,
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something very difficult is given to us,
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neka teškoća nam je data.
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and when this difficult thing occurs to us,
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Kada se susretnemo
sa teškoćom,
sa teškoćom,
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it's a challenge to rise to that opportunity,
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nije lako da se izdignemo
iznad situacije,
iznad situacije,
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and we can rise to it by learning something
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i možemo da se izdignemo
tako što ćemo da naučimo nešto,
tako što ćemo da naučimo nešto,
07:17
which is sometimes painful.
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a to je ponekad bolno.
07:19
Learning patience, for instance.
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Lekcija iz strpljenja, na primer.
07:21
We have been told that the road to peace
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Rečeno nam je
da put ka unutrašnjem miru
da put ka unutrašnjem miru
07:24
is not a sprint,
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nije trka,
07:26
but is more like a marathon.
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već više kao maraton.
07:28
That takes patience. That's difficult.
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Za to je potrebno strpljenje.
To je naporno.
To je naporno.
07:32
It may be to stand up for your opinion,
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To može biti da stanete
iza svog mišljenja.
iza svog mišljenja.
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to stand up for your conviction.
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da stanete iza
svojih ubeđenja.
svojih ubeđenja.
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That's an opportunity that is given to us.
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To je prilika
koja vam je data.
koja vam je data.
07:42
To learn, to suffer, to stand up,
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Da naučimo, da patimo,
da ustanemo,
da ustanemo,
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all these opportunities are given to us,
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sve te prilike su nam date,
07:48
but they are opportunities,
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ali to su prilike,
07:49
and those who avail themselves
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i oni koji iskoriste
07:51
of those opportunities
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te prilike za sebe
07:53
are the ones that we admire.
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su oni kojima se divimo.
07:55
They make something out of life.
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Oni postignu nešto u životu.
07:57
And those who fail get another opportunity.
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A oni koji ne uspeju,
dobiju novu priliku.
dobiju novu priliku.
08:02
We always get another opportunity.
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Mi uvek dobijemo novu priliku.
08:05
That's the wonderful richness of life.
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To je divno bogatstvo života.
08:10
So how can we find a method
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Kako da nađemo metodu
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that will harness this?
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kojom bi se ovo kanalisalo?
08:16
How can each one of us find a method
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Kako da svako od nas
pronađe metod
pronađe metod
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for living gratefully,
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za život sa zahvalnošću,
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not just once in a while being grateful,
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ne samo da ponekad
budemo zahvalni
budemo zahvalni
08:23
but moment by moment to be grateful.
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već svakog trenutka?
08:26
How can we do it?
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Kako možemo to da uradimo?
08:27
It's a very simple method.
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To je veoma jednostavan način.
08:29
It's so simple that it's actually what we were told
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Vrlo je jednostavan.
U stvari saopšten nam je
U stvari saopšten nam je
08:34
as children when we learned to cross the street.
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dok smo bili deca,
kad smo učili da prelazimo ulicu.
kad smo učili da prelazimo ulicu.
08:37
Stop. Look. Go.
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Stanite. Pogledajte levo
i desno. Krenite.
i desno. Krenite.
08:41
That's all.
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To je sve.
08:42
But how often do we stop?
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Koliko često zastanemo?
08:45
We rush through life. We don't stop.
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Žurimo kroz život.
Ne stajemo.
Ne stajemo.
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We miss the opportunity because we don't stop.
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Mi propuštamo prilike
jer ne zastajemo.
jer ne zastajemo.
08:53
We have to stop. We have to get quiet.
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Moramo da stanemo.
Moramo da se primirimo.
Moramo da se primirimo.
08:58
And we have to build stop signs
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Moramo da izgradimo zaustavni znak
09:01
into our lives.
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u našim životima.
09:03
When I was in Africa some years ago
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Posetio sam
Afriku pre nekoliko godina.
Afriku pre nekoliko godina.
09:07
and then came back,
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Kad sam se na vratio,
09:08
I noticed water.
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primetio sam tekuću vodu.
09:11
In Africa where I was, I didn't have drinkable water.
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Mesto gde sam bio u Africi,
nije imalo pijaću vodu.
nije imalo pijaću vodu.
09:15
Every time I turned on the faucet,
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Svaki put kad bih odvrnuo slavinu,
09:17
I was overwhelmed.
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ja sam bio preneražen.
09:20
Every time I clicked on the light,
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Svaki put kada sam
uključio svetlo,
uključio svetlo,
09:22
I was so grateful. It made me so happy.
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bio sam jako zahvalan.
To me je učinilo srećnim.
To me je učinilo srećnim.
09:25
But after a while, this wears off.
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Ali posle izvesnog vremena,
to je isčezlo.
to je isčezlo.
09:27
So I put little stickers on the light switch
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Onda sam stavio nalepnice
na prekidač za svetlo,
na prekidač za svetlo,
09:31
and on the water faucet,
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i na slavinu,
09:32
and every time I turned it on, water.
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i svaki put kad je odvrnem, voda.
09:35
So leave it up to your own imagination.
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Ostalo ostavljam vašoj mašti.
09:38
You can find whatever works best for you,
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Možete da nađete
šta vam najviše odgovara,
šta vam najviše odgovara,
09:40
but you need stop signs in your life.
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ali vam trebaju
zaustavni znaci u vašem životu.
zaustavni znaci u vašem životu.
09:44
And when you stop,
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I kad stanete,
09:46
then the next thing is to look.
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sledeća stvar je da gledate.
09:48
You look. You open your eyes.
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Gledajte. Otvorite vaše oči.
09:50
You open your ears. You open your nose.
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Otvorite vaše uši. Otvorite vaš nos.
09:53
You open all your senses
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Otvorite sva vaša čula
09:55
for this wonderful richness that is given to us.
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za ovo predivno bogatstvo
koje nam je poklonjeno.
koje nam je poklonjeno.
09:58
There is no end to it,
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Tome nema kraja,
10:00
and that is what life is all about,
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i to je svrha života,
10:03
to enjoy, to enjoy what is given to us.
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da uživamo u onome
što nam je dato.
što nam je dato.
10:06
And then we can also open our hearts,
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Onda možemo da
otvorimo naša srca,
otvorimo naša srca,
10:09
our hearts for the opportunities,
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naša srca za prilike,
10:12
for the opportunities also to help others,
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za prilike da takođe
pomognemo drugima,
pomognemo drugima,
10:15
to make others happy, because
nothing makes us more happy
nothing makes us more happy
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da učinimo druge srećnim,
jer nas ništa ne čini srećnijim
jer nas ništa ne čini srećnijim
10:19
than when all of us are happy.
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nego kada smo svi mi srećni.
10:22
And when we open our hearts to the opportunities,
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Kada otvorimo srca prilikama,
10:26
the opportunities invite us to do something,
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prilike nas pozivaju da uradimo nešto.
10:30
and that is the third.
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To je treće.
10:31
Stop, look, and then go, and really do something.
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Zastanite, razgledajte, i onda krenite,
i zaista uradite nešto.
i zaista uradite nešto.
10:36
And what we can do is
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Ono što možemo da uradimo
10:38
whatever life offers to you in that present moment.
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je to šta god vam život nudi
u tom sadašnjem trenutku.
u tom sadašnjem trenutku.
10:42
Mostly it's the opportunity to enjoy,
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Uglavnom je to prilika da se uživa,
10:47
but sometimes it's something more difficult.
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ali nekada je to nešto teže.
10:51
But whatever it is, if we take this opportunity,
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Ali šta god da je,
ako prihvatimo tu priliku,
ako prihvatimo tu priliku,
10:55
we go with it, we are creative,
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kreativniji smo.
10:58
those are the creative people,
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To su kreativni ljudi.
11:00
and that little stop, look, go,
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Zastanite, razgledajte, krenite
11:04
is such a potent seed
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je tako moćno seme
11:06
that it can revolutionize our world.
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da može da preokrene svet.
11:10
Because we need, we are at the present moment
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Mi smo u sadašnjem trenutku
11:15
in the middle of a change of consciousness,
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u sred promene toka svesti,
11:19
and you will be surprised if you --
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i bićete iznenađeni -
11:21
I am always surprised when I hear how many times
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ja sam uvek iznenađen
kad čujem koliko puta
kad čujem koliko puta
11:24
this word "gratefulness" and "gratitude" comes up.
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reč "zahvalnost" iskrsne.
11:27
Everywhere you find it,
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Naći ćete je svugde,
11:29
a grateful airline, a restaurant gratefulness,
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zahvalna avio kompanija,
restoran zahvalnosti,
restoran zahvalnosti,
11:32
a cafe gratefulness, a wine that is gratefulness.
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kafić zahvalnosti,
zahvalno vino.
zahvalno vino.
11:35
Yes, I have even come across a toilet paper
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Naišao sam na toalet papir
11:39
that the brand is called Thank You. (Laughter)
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marke "Hvala".
(Smeh)
(Smeh)
11:43
There is a wave of gratefulness because
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Postoji talas zahvalnosti zato što
11:45
people are becoming aware how important this is
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ljudi postaju svesni koliko je to bitno
11:48
and how this can change our world.
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i kako zahvalnost može
da promeni naš svet.
da promeni naš svet.
11:51
It can change our world
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Može da promeni naš svet
11:54
in immensely important ways,
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na neizmerno bitne načine,
11:58
because if you're grateful, you're not fearful,
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jer ako ste zahvalni,
onda niste bojažljivi,
onda niste bojažljivi,
12:02
and if you're not fearful, you're not violent.
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i ako niste bojažljivi,
vi niste nasilni.
vi niste nasilni.
12:05
If you're grateful, you act out of a sense of enough
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Ako ste zahvalni, ponašate se iz
osećaja da imate dovoljno svega
osećaja da imate dovoljno svega
12:09
and not of a sense of scarcity,
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a ne iz osećaja da vam sve nedostaje,
12:11
and you are willing to share.
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i onda ste spremni da delite.
12:13
If you are grateful, you are enjoying
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Ako ste zahvalni, vi uživate
12:16
the differences between people,
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u razlikama među ljudima,
12:17
and you are respectful to everybody,
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onda se obraćate sa
poštovanjem prema svima.
poštovanjem prema svima.
12:20
and that changes this power pyramid
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To menja ovu piramidu moći
12:22
under which we live.
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ispod koje živimo.
12:23
And it doesn't make for equality,
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Zahvalnost ne nadokađuje
nedostatak jednakosti,
nedostatak jednakosti,
12:26
but it makes for equal respect,
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ali doprinosi jednakom poštovanju.
12:29
and that is the important thing.
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To je jako važna stvar.
12:31
The future of the world will be a network,
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Budućnost sveta će biti jedna mreža,
12:34
not a pyramid, not a pyramid turned upside down.
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a ne piramida izokrenuta naopačke.
12:38
The revolution of which I am speaking
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Revolucija o kojoj govorim
12:40
is a nonviolent revolution,
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je nenasilna revolucija,
12:42
and it's so revolutionary
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koja je toliko revolucionarna
12:44
that it even revolutionizes
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da preokreće
12:46
the very concept of a revolution,
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sam koncept revolucije,
12:49
because a normal revolution is one
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zato što je regularna revolucija
12:51
where the power pyramid is turned upside down
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gde je moćna piramida
izokrenuta naopačke
izokrenuta naopačke
12:54
and those who were on the bottom
are now on the top
are now on the top
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i oni koji su na dnu
sada su na vrhu,
sada su na vrhu,
12:57
and are doing exactly the same thing
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i čine istu stvar
12:59
that the ones did before.
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koju su radili prethodnici.
13:02
What we need is a networking of smaller groups,
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Ono što nama treba je
mreža manjih grupa ljudi,
mreža manjih grupa ljudi,
13:06
smaller and smaller groups who know one another,
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manje grupe ljudi
koji se međusobno poznaju,
koji se međusobno poznaju,
13:09
who interact with one another,
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koji međusobno komuniciraju,
13:12
and that is a grateful world.
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i to je svet ispunjen zahvalnošću.
13:14
A grateful world is a world of joyful people.
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Svet ispunjen zahvalnošću
je svet radosnih ljudi.
je svet radosnih ljudi.
13:18
Grateful people are joyful people,
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Ljudi koji su zahvalni su radosni ljudi,
13:21
and joyful people,
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što je više
13:23
the more and more joyful people there are,
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radosnih ljudi,
13:26
the more and more we'll have a joyful world.
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svet će biti radosniji.
13:30
We have a network for grateful living,
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Imamo mrežu za zahvalan život
13:34
and it has mushroomed.
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koja niče kao pečurke.
13:36
We couldn't understand why it mushroomed.
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Nismo mogli da razumemo
zašto se tako razvila.
zašto se tako razvila.
13:39
We have an opportunity for people to light a candle
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Dali smo priliku ljudima
da zapale sveću
da zapale sveću
13:42
when they are grateful for something.
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kada su zahvalni za nešto.
13:45
And there have been 15 million candles lit
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15 miliona sveća je zapaljeno
13:50
in one decade.
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tokom jedne decenije.
13:52
People are becoming aware
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Ljudi postaju svesni
13:54
that a grateful world is a happy world,
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da je zahvalan svet jedan srećan svet.
13:58
and we all have the opportunity
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Mi svi imamo priliku
14:01
by the simple stop, look, go,
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da jednostavno zastanemo,
razgledamo, i krenemo
razgledamo, i krenemo
14:04
to transform the world,
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i promenimo svet,
14:06
to make it a happy place.
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da ga učinimo
jednim mestom sreće.
jednim mestom sreće.
14:08
And that is what I hope for us,
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To je ono čemu se
nadam za sve nas.
nadam za sve nas.
14:09
and if this has contributed a little
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Ako je ovaj govor
doprineo barem malo
doprineo barem malo
14:12
to making you want to do the same,
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da želite da učinite isto,
14:14
stop, look, go.
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zastanite, razgledajte, i krenite.
14:16
Thank you.
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Hvala vam.
14:17
(Applause)
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(Aplauz)
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
David Steindl-Rast - MonkBrother David Steindl-Rast, a Benedictine monk, meditates and writes on "the gentle power" of gratefulness.
Why you should listen
Many first met Brother David Steindl-Rast through a viral video called "Nature. Beauty. Gratitude," where Louie Schwartzberg's footage of time-lapse flowers in bloom is narrated by Brother David's moving words asking us to simply be ... grateful. Since 1953, Brother David has been a monk of Mount Saviour Benedictine monastery in New York, dividing his time between hermitic contemplation, writing and lecturing. He's the cofounder of gratefulness.org, supporting ANG*L (A Network for Grateful Living).
He was one of the first Roman Catholics to participate in Buddhist-Christian dialogue, and is the author of The Ground We Share, a text on Buddhist and Christian practice, written with Robert Aitken Roshi. His other books include Gratefulness, the Heart of Prayer and Deeper Than Words. His most recent book is 99 Blessings, a series of prayers for the general reader -- whether people of faith, agnostics, or uncertain.
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