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Deeyah Khan: What we don't know about Europe's Muslim kids
Deeyah Khan: Čo nevieme o deťoch európskych moslimov
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Ako dieťa afgánskej matky a pakistanského otca, ktoré vyrastalo v Nórsku, vie Deeyah Khan, aké je byť mladým človekom zaseknutým medzi svojou komunitou a svojou krajinou. V tejto silnej, emotívnej prednáške filmárka odhaľuje odmietanie a izoláciu, ktorú cítia mnohé moslimské deti vyrastajúce na Západe – a smrteľné následky, ak neprijmeme našu mládež skôr než ju prijmú extrémistické skupiny.
Deeyah Khan - Filmmaker
Deeyah Khan is working to create intercultural dialogue and understanding by confronting the world's most complex and controversial topics. Full bio
Deeyah Khan is working to create intercultural dialogue and understanding by confronting the world's most complex and controversial topics. Full bio
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00:13
When I was a child,
I knew I had superpowers.
I knew I had superpowers.
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Keď som bola malá, vedela som,
že mám superschopnosti.
že mám superschopnosti.
00:18
That's right.
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Naozaj.
00:20
(Laughter)
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(smiech)
00:21
I thought I was absolutely amazing
because I could understand
because I could understand
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Myslela som si, že som totálne úžasná,
lebo som dokázala rozumieť
lebo som dokázala rozumieť
00:25
and relate to the feelings
of brown people,
of brown people,
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a stotožniť sa s pocitmi hnedých ľudí,
00:27
like my grandfather,
a conservative Muslim guy.
a conservative Muslim guy.
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ako bol môj starý otec,
konzervatívny moslim.
konzervatívny moslim.
00:31
And also, I could understand
my Afghan mother, my Pakistani father,
my Afghan mother, my Pakistani father,
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A tiež som rozumela mojej afgánskej mame,
môjmu pakistanskému otcovi,
môjmu pakistanskému otcovi,
00:36
not so religious
but laid-back, fairly liberal.
but laid-back, fairly liberal.
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ktorí neboli takí nábožní,
skôr umiernení, dosť liberálni.
skôr umiernení, dosť liberálni.
00:40
And of course, I could understand
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A samozrejme, vedela som pochopiť
00:42
and relate to the feelings
of white people.
of white people.
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a stotožniť sa s pocitmi bielych ľudí.
00:44
The white Norwegians of my country.
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Bielych Nórov v mojej krajine.
00:47
You know, white, brown, whatever --
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Viete, bielych, hnedých, akýchkoľvek –
00:50
I loved them all.
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mala som ich rada všetkých.
00:51
I understood them all,
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Všetkým som rozumela,
00:53
even if they didn't always
understand each other,
understand each other,
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hoci oni sa vždy nesnažili
porozumieť jeden druhému,
porozumieť jeden druhému,
00:55
they were all my people.
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všetci to boli moji ľudia.
00:57
My father, though,
was always really worried.
was always really worried.
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Môj otec si napriek tomu
vždy robil starosti.
vždy robil starosti.
01:00
He kept saying that
even with the best education,
even with the best education,
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Hovorieval, že dokonca
aj s najlepším vzdelaním
aj s najlepším vzdelaním
01:03
I was not going to get a fair shake.
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sa mi nedostane férových šancí.
01:07
I would still face discrimination,
according to him.
according to him.
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Podľa neho vraj stále
budem čeliť diskriminácii.
budem čeliť diskriminácii.
01:10
And that the only way
to be accepted by white people
to be accepted by white people
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A vraj jedinou cestou,
ako ma bieli ľudia môžu prijať,
ako ma bieli ľudia môžu prijať,
01:13
would be to become famous.
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bude stať sa slávnou.
01:15
Now, mind you, he had this conversation
with me when I was seven years old.
with me when I was seven years old.
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Predstavte si, že o tom sa so mnou bavil,
keď som mala 7 rokov.
keď som mala 7 rokov.
01:20
So while I'm seven years old, he said,
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Takže ja mám sedem rokov,
a on hovorí:
a on hovorí:
01:23
"Look, so it's either got to be sports,
or it's got to be music."
or it's got to be music."
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„Počuj, musí to byť buď šport,
alebo hudba.“
alebo hudba.“
01:26
He didn't know anything about sports --
bless him -- so it was music.
bless him -- so it was music.
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O športoch nič nevedel – chvalabohu –
takže to bola hudba.
takže to bola hudba.
01:31
So when I was seven years old,
he gathered all my toys, all my dolls,
he gathered all my toys, all my dolls,
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Takže keď som mala 7 rokov,
pozbieral všetky moje hračky, bábiky,
pozbieral všetky moje hračky, bábiky,
01:35
and he threw them all away.
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a odhodil ich.
01:38
In exchange he gave me
a crappy little Casio keyboard and --
a crappy little Casio keyboard and --
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Namiesto nich mi dal
otrasné malé klávesy Cassio a –
otrasné malé klávesy Cassio a –
01:42
(Laughter)
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(smiech)
01:43
Yeah. And singing lessons.
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Hej. A hodiny spevu.
01:45
And he forced me, basically, to practice
for hours and hours every single day.
for hours and hours every single day.
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A nútil ma cvičiť hodiny a hodiny,
každý jeden deň.
každý jeden deň.
01:50
Very quickly, he also had me performing
for larger and larger audiences,
for larger and larger audiences,
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Veľmi rýchlo ma tiež donútil
spievať pre stále väčšie publikum,
spievať pre stále väčšie publikum,
01:54
and bizarrely, I became
almost a kind of poster child
almost a kind of poster child
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a čo je zvláštne, takmer som
sa stala dieťaťom,
sa stala dieťaťom,
01:58
for Norwegian multiculturalism.
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ktoré stelesňuje nórsky
multikulzuralizmus.
multikulzuralizmus.
02:00
I felt very proud, of course.
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Samozrejme, bola som na seba hrdá.
02:02
Because even the newspapers at this point
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Pretože v tomto bode dokonca noviny
02:05
were starting to write
nice things about brown people,
nice things about brown people,
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začínali písať o hnedých
ľuďoch pekné veci,
ľuďoch pekné veci,
02:08
so I could feel
that my superpower was growing.
that my superpower was growing.
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takže som cítila,
že moje superschopnosti rastú.
že moje superschopnosti rastú.
02:12
So when I was 12 years old,
walking home from school,
walking home from school,
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Takže keď som mala 12 rokov,
raz som šla zo školy,
raz som šla zo školy,
02:15
I took a little detour
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urobila som si malú obchádzku,
02:17
because I wanted to buy
my favorite sweets called "salty feet."
my favorite sweets called "salty feet."
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pretože som si chcela kúpiť moje
obľúbené sladkosti, „slané nohy“.
obľúbené sladkosti, „slané nohy“.
02:20
I know they sound kind of awful,
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Viem, že to znie úplne nechutne,
02:23
but I absolutely love them.
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ale ja ich milujem.
02:25
They're basically these little
salty licorice bits in the shape of feet.
salty licorice bits in the shape of feet.
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Sú to také malé slané kúsky
zo sladkého drievka v tvare nôh.
zo sladkého drievka v tvare nôh.
02:30
And now that I say it out loud,
I realize how terrible that sounds,
I realize how terrible that sounds,
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A teraz, keď to hovorím nahlas,
mi dochádza, ako hrozne to znie,
mi dochádza, ako hrozne to znie,
02:36
but be that as it may,
I absolutely love them.
I absolutely love them.
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ale nech je ako chce,
ja ich úplne zbožňujem.
ja ich úplne zbožňujem.
02:38
So on my way into the store,
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Takže po ceste do obchodu
02:40
there was this grown white guy
in the doorway blocking my way.
in the doorway blocking my way.
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sa zjaví nejaký vysoký biely chlap
a vo dverách mi zatarasí cestu.
a vo dverách mi zatarasí cestu.
02:45
So I tried to walk around him,
and as I did that, he stopped me
and as I did that, he stopped me
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Snažila som sa prejsť okolo neho,
ale pritom ma zastavil,
ale pritom ma zastavil,
02:51
and he was staring at me,
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čumel na mňa,
02:54
and he spit in my face, and he said,
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potom mi napľul do tváre a povedal:
02:56
"Get out of my way
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„Uhni mi z cesty,
02:57
you little black bitch,
you little Paki bitch,
you little Paki bitch,
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ty malá čierna krava,
ty malá paki-krava,
ty malá paki-krava,
03:00
go back home where you came from."
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choď domov, odkiaľ si prišla.“
03:03
I was absolutely horrified.
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Bola som v úplnom šoku.
03:06
I was staring at him.
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Uprene som naňho hľadela.
03:08
I was too afraid
to wipe the spit off my face,
to wipe the spit off my face,
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Veľmi som sa bála zotrieť
si ten pľuvanec z tváre,
si ten pľuvanec z tváre,
03:11
even as it was mixing with my tears.
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aj vtedy, keď sa miešal s mojimi slzami.
03:14
I remember looking around,
hoping that any minute now,
hoping that any minute now,
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Pamätám si, ako som sa
obzerala v nádeji, že každú chvíľu
obzerala v nádeji, že každú chvíľu
03:17
a grown-up is going to come
and make this guy stop.
and make this guy stop.
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príde nejaký dospelý
a tohto chlapa zastaví.
a tohto chlapa zastaví.
03:21
But instead, people kept hurrying past me
and pretended not to see me.
and pretended not to see me.
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Ale ľudia sa okolo mňa ponáhľali
a predstierali, že ma nevidia.
a predstierali, že ma nevidia.
03:26
I was very confused
because I was thinking, well,
because I was thinking, well,
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Nevedela som, čo sa deje,
lebo som premýšľala:
lebo som premýšľala:
03:30
"My white people, come on!
Where are they? What's going on?
Where are they? What's going on?
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„Moji bieli ľudia, poďme!
Kde sú? Čo sa deje?
Kde sú? Čo sa deje?
03:33
How come they're not
coming and rescuing me?
coming and rescuing me?
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Ako to, že nikto neprichádza
a nezachraňuje ma?“
a nezachraňuje ma?“
03:36
So, needless to say,
I didn't buy the sweets.
I didn't buy the sweets.
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Iste netreba povedať,
že sladkosti som nekúpila.
že sladkosti som nekúpila.
03:39
I just ran home as fast as I could.
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Len som čo najrýchlejšie bežala domov.
03:42
Things were still OK, though, I thought.
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Aj tak boli veci v poriadku,
myslela som si.
myslela som si.
03:44
As time went on,
the more successful I became,
the more successful I became,
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Ako plynul čas, čím úspešnejšia som bola,
03:47
I eventually started also
attracting harassment from brown people.
attracting harassment from brown people.
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nakoniec som začala priťahovať
aj obťažovanie zo strany hnedých ľudí.
aj obťažovanie zo strany hnedých ľudí.
03:53
Some men in my parent's community
felt that it was unacceptable
felt that it was unacceptable
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Niektorí muži v komunite
rodičov si mysleli, že je neprijateľné
rodičov si mysleli, že je neprijateľné
03:56
and dishonorable for a woman
to be involved in music
to be involved in music
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a nehanebné, aby sa žena zaoberala hudbou
04:01
and to be so present in the media.
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a aby bola v súvislosti s ňou v médiách.
04:05
So very quickly, I was starting
to become attacked at my own concerts.
to become attacked at my own concerts.
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Takže veľmi rýchlo ma začínali napádať
na mojich vlastných koncertoch.
na mojich vlastných koncertoch.
04:10
I remember one of the concerts,
I was onstage, I lean into the audience
I was onstage, I lean into the audience
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Pamätám si na jeden koncert,
bola som na pódiu, nahla som sa do publika
bola som na pódiu, nahla som sa do publika
04:15
and the last thing I see
is a young brown face
is a young brown face
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a posledné, čo som videla,
je mladá hnedá tvár,
je mladá hnedá tvár,
04:19
and the next thing I know is some sort
of chemical is thrown in my eyes
of chemical is thrown in my eyes
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a potom som videla len nejakú chemikáliu,
ktorú mi hodili do očí,
ktorú mi hodili do očí,
04:23
and I remember I couldn't really see
and my eyes were watering
and my eyes were watering
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a pamätám si, že som nič nevidela,
oči mi slzili,
oči mi slzili,
04:26
but I kept singing anyway.
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ale aj tak som ďalej spievala.
04:28
I was spit in the face in the streets
of Oslo, this time by brown men.
of Oslo, this time by brown men.
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Napľuli mi do tváre v uliciach Osla,
tento raz to boli hnedí muži.
tento raz to boli hnedí muži.
04:34
They even tried to kidnap me at one point.
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Raz sa ma dokonca pokúsil niekto uniesť.
04:37
The death threats were endless.
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Vyhrážky smrťou nemali konca.
04:39
I remember one older bearded guy
stopped me in the street one time,
stopped me in the street one time,
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Spomínam si na jedného staršieho
bradatého muža, zastavil ma na ulici
bradatého muža, zastavil ma na ulici
04:42
and he said, "The reason
I hate you so much
I hate you so much
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a povedal: „Dôvod, prečo ťa tak nenávidím,
04:45
is because you make our daughters think
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je ten, že kvôli tebe
si naše dcéry myslia,
si naše dcéry myslia,
04:47
they can do whatever they want."
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že si môžu robiť, čo chcú.“
04:50
A younger guy warned me to watch my back.
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Jeden mladík mi poradil,
aby som si dávala pozor.
aby som si dávala pozor.
04:53
He said music is un-Islamic
and the job of whores,
and the job of whores,
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Povedal, že hudba je neislamská,
že je to práca kuriev,
že je to práca kuriev,
04:56
and if you keep this up,
you are going to be raped
you are going to be raped
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a ak budem pokračovať,
znásilnia ma
znásilnia ma
04:59
and your stomach will be cut out so that
another whore like you will not be born.
another whore like you will not be born.
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a vyrežú mi brucho, aby sa ďalšia
kurva ako ja nemohla narodiť.
kurva ako ja nemohla narodiť.
05:05
Again, I was so confused.
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Znovu som bola zmätená.
05:07
I couldn't understand what was going on.
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Nechápala som, čo sa deje.
05:09
My brown people now starting
to treat me like this -- how come?
to treat me like this -- how come?
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Moji hnedí ľudia sa ku mne
začínali správať takto – ako to?
začínali správať takto – ako to?
05:13
Instead of bridging the worlds,
the two worlds,
the two worlds,
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Miesto toho, aby som
premostila svety, tie dva svety,
premostila svety, tie dva svety,
05:16
I felt like I was falling
between my two worlds.
between my two worlds.
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som sa cítila, akoby som
pomedzi moje dva svety padala.
pomedzi moje dva svety padala.
05:20
I suppose, for me, spit was kryptonite.
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Myslím, že pre mňa
boli pľuvance ako kryptonit.
boli pľuvance ako kryptonit.
05:24
So by the time I was 17 years old,
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Takže kým som mala 17 rokov,
05:26
the death threats were endless,
and the harassment was constant.
and the harassment was constant.
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vyhrážky smrťou boli nekonečné,
a neustále ma niekto obťažoval.
a neustále ma niekto obťažoval.
05:29
It got so bad, at one point
my mother sat me down and said,
my mother sat me down and said,
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Nakoniec to bolo také zlé, že
ma mama posadila a povedala:
ma mama posadila a povedala:
05:32
"Look, we can no longer protect you,
we can no longer keep you safe,
we can no longer keep you safe,
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„Pozri, už ťa nedokážeme ochraňovať,
ani udržať v bezpečí,
ani udržať v bezpečí,
05:35
so you're going to have to go."
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takže budeš musieť odísť.“
05:37
So I bought a one-way ticket to London,
I packed my suitcase and I left.
I packed my suitcase and I left.
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Tak som si kúpila jednosmerný lístok
do Londýna, zbalila si kufor a odišla som.
do Londýna, zbalila si kufor a odišla som.
05:44
My biggest heartbreak at that point
was that nobody said anything.
was that nobody said anything.
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Najviac sa ma vtedy dotklo,
že nikto nič nepovedal.
že nikto nič nepovedal.
05:47
I had a very public exit from Norway.
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Môj odchod z Nórska bol veľmi verejný.
05:51
My brown people, my white people --
nobody said anything.
nobody said anything.
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Moji hnedí ľudia, moji bieli ľudia –
nikto nič nepovedal.
nikto nič nepovedal.
05:54
Nobody said, "Hold on, this is wrong.
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Nikto nepovedal: „Počkať, toto je chyba.
05:57
Support this girl, protect this girl,
because she is one of us."
because she is one of us."
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Podporujte toto dievča, chráňte ho,
lebo ona je jedna z nás.“
lebo ona je jedna z nás.“
06:01
Nobody said that.
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Nikto to nepovedal.
06:03
Instead, I felt like --
you know at the airport,
you know at the airport,
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Namiesto toho som sa cítila –
viete, ako na letisku,
viete, ako na letisku,
06:07
on the baggage carousel
you have these different suitcases
you have these different suitcases
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kde máte na páse s kuframi rôzne kufre,
06:10
going around and around,
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ktoré idú dokola a dokola,
06:11
and there's always
that one suitcase left at the end,
that one suitcase left at the end,
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a vždy sa na konci zjavuje posledný kufor,
06:13
the one that nobody wants,
the one that nobody comes to claim.
the one that nobody comes to claim.
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ktorý nikto nechce,
ku ktorému sa nikto neprizná.
ku ktorému sa nikto neprizná.
06:16
I felt like that.
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Tak som sa cítila.
06:19
I'd never felt so alone.
I'd never felt so lost.
I'd never felt so lost.
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Nikdy som sa necítila taká sama,
nikto som sa necítila taká stratená.
nikto som sa necítila taká stratená.
06:24
So, after coming to London,
I did eventually resume my music career.
I did eventually resume my music career.
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Po príchode do Londýna som
nakoniec nadviazala na kariéru v hudbe.
nakoniec nadviazala na kariéru v hudbe.
06:29
Different place, but unfortunately
the same old story.
the same old story.
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Iné miesto, ale, žiaľ,
rovnaký starý príbeh.
rovnaký starý príbeh.
06:32
I remember a message sent to me
saying that I was going to be killed
saying that I was going to be killed
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Spomínam si na správu, čo som dostala,
kde sa písalo, že ma zabijú,
kde sa písalo, že ma zabijú,
06:36
and that rivers of blood
were going to flow
were going to flow
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a že sa prelejú rieky krvi,
06:39
and that I was going to be raped
many times before I died.
many times before I died.
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a že predtým, ako zomriem,
ma mnohokrát znásilnia.
ma mnohokrát znásilnia.
06:43
By this point, I have to say,
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Musím povedať, že v tomto bode
06:44
I was actually getting used
to messages like this,
to messages like this,
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som si vlastne zvykala na takéto správy,
06:47
but what became different was that
now they started threatening my family.
now they started threatening my family.
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ale zmenilo sa to, že teraz sa
začali vyhrážať mojej rodine.
začali vyhrážať mojej rodine.
06:52
So once again, I packed my suitcase,
I left music and I moved to the US.
I left music and I moved to the US.
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Takže som si znovu zbalila kufor,
opustila hudbu a presťahovala sa do USA.
opustila hudbu a presťahovala sa do USA.
06:58
I'd had enough.
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Už som toho mala dosť.
06:59
I didn't want to have anything
to do with this anymore.
to do with this anymore.
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Už som s týmto nechcela mať nič spoločné.
07:02
And I was certainly not
going to be killed for something
going to be killed for something
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A iste som sa nechystala
dať sa zabiť kvôli niečomu,
dať sa zabiť kvôli niečomu,
07:05
that wasn't even my dream --
it was my father's choice.
it was my father's choice.
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čo ani nebol môj sen –
bol to výber môjho otca.
bol to výber môjho otca.
07:10
So I kind of got lost.
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Takže som sa celkom stratila.
07:13
I kind of fell apart.
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V podstate sa zrútila.
07:14
But I decided that what I wanted to do
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Ale rozhodla som sa, že chcem
07:17
is spend the next
however many years of my life
however many years of my life
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niekoľko, hocikoľko rokov môjho života
07:20
supporting young people
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stráviť podporou mladých ľudí,
07:22
and to try to be there in some small way,
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pokúsiť sa byť tam pre nich,
akokoľvek krátko,
akokoľvek krátko,
07:25
whatever way that I could.
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ako len budem môcť.
07:27
I started volunteering
for various organizations
for various organizations
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Začala som s dobrovoľníctvom
pre rôzne organizácie,
pre rôzne organizácie,
07:30
that were working
with young Muslims inside of Europe.
with young Muslims inside of Europe.
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ktoré pracovali s mladými
moslimami v Európe.
moslimami v Európe.
07:36
And, to my surprise, what I found was
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A na svoje prekvapenie som zistila,
07:39
so many of these young people
were suffering and struggling.
were suffering and struggling.
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že mnohí títo mladí ľudia trpia a bojujú.
07:44
They were facing so many problems
with their families and their communities
with their families and their communities
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Čelili mnohým problémom
so svojimi rodinami a spoločenstvami,
so svojimi rodinami a spoločenstvami,
07:48
who seemed to care more
about their honor and their reputation
about their honor and their reputation
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ktoré, ako sa zdalo, sa zaujímali
viac o svoju česť a dobré meno
viac o svoju česť a dobré meno
07:51
than the happiness
and the lives of their own kids.
and the lives of their own kids.
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než o šťastie a život
svojich vlastných detí.
svojich vlastných detí.
07:55
I started feeling like maybe I wasn't
so alone, maybe I wasn't so weird.
so alone, maybe I wasn't so weird.
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Začala som mať pocit, že možno nie
som taká sama, že nie som taká divná.
som taká sama, že nie som taká divná.
08:00
Maybe there are more
of my people out there.
of my people out there.
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Možno že na svete je viac mojich ľudí.
08:03
The thing is, what most people
don't understand
don't understand
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Problém je, že väčšina ľudí nerozumie,
08:05
is that there are so many of us
growing up in Europe
growing up in Europe
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že v Európe vyrastalo tak veľa z nás,
08:09
who are not free to be ourselves.
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ktorí nemôžeme byť sami sebou.
08:12
We're not allowed to be who we are.
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Nedovolia nám byť tým, kým sme.
08:15
We are not free to marry
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Nesmieme si vziať za muža či ženu
08:19
or to be in relationships
with people that we choose.
with people that we choose.
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alebo mať vzťah s tými,
ktorých si vyberieme my.
ktorých si vyberieme my.
Nesmieme si dokonca vybrať povolanie.
08:22
We can't even pick our own career.
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08:24
This is the norm in the Muslim
heartlands of Europe.
heartlands of Europe.
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Toto je v moslimských centrách
Európy štandardom.
Európy štandardom.
08:27
Even in the freest societies
in the world, we're not free.
in the world, we're not free.
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Hoci sme v najslobodnejších
spoločnostiach na svete, nie sme slobodní.
spoločnostiach na svete, nie sme slobodní.
08:31
Our lives, our dreams, our future
does not belong to us,
does not belong to us,
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Naše životy, sny, naša budúcnosť
nám nepatria,
nám nepatria,
08:35
it belongs to our parents
and their community.
and their community.
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patria našim rodičom a ich komunite.
08:38
I found endless stories of young people
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Našla som nekonečne veľa
príbehov mladých ľudí,
príbehov mladých ľudí,
08:42
who are lost to all of us,
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ktorí sú od nás ďaleko,
08:45
who are invisible to all of us
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ktorí sú nám všetkým neviditeľní,
08:47
but who are suffering,
and they are suffering alone.
and they are suffering alone.
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ale ktorí trpia, a trpia osamotení.
08:51
Kids we are losing to forced marriages,
to honor-based violence and abuse.
to honor-based violence and abuse.
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Deti, čo prehrávajú s núteným manželstvom,
násilím a zneužívaním kvôli cti.
násilím a zneužívaním kvôli cti.
08:57
Eventually, I realized after several
years of working with these young people,
years of working with these young people,
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Po niekoľkých rokoch práce
s týmito mladými som nakoniec pochopila,
s týmito mladými som nakoniec pochopila,
09:01
that I will not be able to keep running.
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že už nebudem ďalej vládať utekať.
09:03
I can't spend the rest of my life
being scared and hiding
being scared and hiding
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Nemôžem stráviť zvyšok svojho
života v strachu a v úkryte,
života v strachu a v úkryte,
09:07
and that I'm actually
going to have to do something.
going to have to do something.
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a že skutočne niečo budem musieť urobiť.
09:11
And I also realized
that my silence, our silence,
that my silence, our silence,
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A pochopila som tiež,
že moje ticho, naše ticho,
že moje ticho, naše ticho,
09:14
allows abuse like this to continue.
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umožňuje, aby sa
v tomto zneužívaní pokračovalo.
v tomto zneužívaní pokračovalo.
09:18
So I decided that I wanted to put
my childhood superpower to some use
my childhood superpower to some use
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Takže som sa rozhodla, že chcem
svoje detské superschopnosti trochu využiť
svoje detské superschopnosti trochu využiť
09:22
by trying to make people on the different
sides of these issues understand
sides of these issues understand
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a pokúsim sa, aby ľudia na opačných
stranách týchto problémov pochopili,
stranách týchto problémov pochopili,
09:27
what it's like to be a young person stuck
between your family and your country.
between your family and your country.
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aké to je byť mladým človekom
zakliesneným medzi rodinou a krajinou.
zakliesneným medzi rodinou a krajinou.
09:32
So I started making films,
and I started telling these stories.
and I started telling these stories.
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Tak som začala natáčať filmy
a začala som rozprávať tieto príbehy.
a začala som rozprávať tieto príbehy.
09:36
And I also wanted people to understand
the deadly consequences of us
the deadly consequences of us
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A tiež som chcela, aby ľudia pochopili
smrteľné následky toho,
smrteľné následky toho,
09:41
not taking these problems seriously.
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keď tieto problémy nebudeme brať vážne.
09:44
So the first film I made was about Banaz.
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Prvý film, ktorý som natočila,
bol o Banaz.
bol o Banaz.
09:47
She was a 17-year-old
Kurdish girl in London.
Kurdish girl in London.
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Bola 17-ročným kurdským
dievčaťom v Londýne.
dievčaťom v Londýne.
09:51
She was obedient, she did
whatever her parents wanted.
whatever her parents wanted.
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Bola poslušná, urobila všetko,
čo chceli jej rodičia.
čo chceli jej rodičia.
09:54
She tried to do everything right.
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Snažila sa všetko urobiť správne.
09:57
She married some guy
that her parents chose for her,
that her parents chose for her,
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Vydala sa za nejakého chlapa,
ktorého jej vybrali rodičia,
ktorého jej vybrali rodičia,
09:59
even though he beat
and raped her constantly.
and raped her constantly.
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hoci ju neustále mlátil a znásilňoval.
10:03
And when she tried to go
to her family for help, they said,
to her family for help, they said,
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A keď sa pokúsila ísť
po pomoc k rodine, povedali:
po pomoc k rodine, povedali:
10:06
"Well, you got to go back
and be a better wife."
and be a better wife."
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„No, musíš sa vrátiť
a byť lepšou manželkou.“
a byť lepšou manželkou.“
10:09
Because they didn't want
a divorced daughter on their hands
a divorced daughter on their hands
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Pretože nechceli mať
na svedomí rozvedenú dcéru,
na svedomí rozvedenú dcéru,
10:11
because, of course, that would
bring dishonor on the family.
bring dishonor on the family.
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pretože by to, samozrejme,
prinieslo rodine zneuctenie.
prinieslo rodine zneuctenie.
10:15
She was beaten so badly
her ears would bleed,
her ears would bleed,
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Bil ju tak strašne, až jej krvácali uši,
10:19
and when she finally left
and she found a young man that she chose
and she found a young man that she chose
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a keď konečne utiekla a našla
mladého muža, ktorého si vybrala
mladého muža, ktorého si vybrala
10:24
and she fell in love with,
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a zaľúbila sa doňho,
10:26
the community and the family found out
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zistila to jej komunita a rodina
10:28
and she disappeared.
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a ona zmizla.
10:30
She was found three months later.
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Našla sa o 3 mesiace.
10:33
She'd been stuffed into a suitcase
and buried underneath the house.
and buried underneath the house.
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Napchali ju do kufra
a pochovali pod domom.
a pochovali pod domom.
10:40
She had been strangled,
she had been beaten to death
she had been beaten to death
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Škrtili ju, zbili až na smrť,
10:44
by three men, three cousins,
on the orders of her father and uncle.
on the orders of her father and uncle.
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a urobili to traja muži, traja bratranci,
na rozkaz jej otca a strýka.
na rozkaz jej otca a strýka.
10:49
The added tragedy of Banaz's story
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K tragédii príbehu Banaz ešte pridáva,
10:52
is that she had gone to the police
in England five times asking for help,
in England five times asking for help,
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že predtým v Anglicku žiadala
políciu o pomoc päťkrát,
políciu o pomoc päťkrát,
10:58
telling them that she was
going to be killed by her family.
going to be killed by her family.
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hovorila im, že sa ju
jej rodina chystá zabiť.
jej rodina chystá zabiť.
11:01
The police didn't believe her
so they didn't do anything.
so they didn't do anything.
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Policajti jej neverili,
takže nič neurobili.
takže nič neurobili.
11:05
And the problem with this
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A problém s týmto je ten,
11:06
is that not only are so many of our kids
facing these problems
facing these problems
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že nielen že sa s takýmito problémami
potýka tak veľa našich detí
potýka tak veľa našich detí
11:10
within their families
and within their families' communities,
and within their families' communities,
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v rámci svojich rodín
a komunít svojich rodín,
a komunít svojich rodín,
11:13
but they're also meeting misunderstandings
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ale že sa stretávajú s nepochopením
11:18
and apathy in the countries
that they grow up in.
that they grow up in.
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a apatiou krajín, v ktorých vyrastajú.
11:23
When their own families betray them,
they look to the rest of us,
they look to the rest of us,
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Keď ich zradí ich vlastná rodina,
obracajú sa na nás ostatných,
obracajú sa na nás ostatných,
11:28
and when we don't understand,
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a keď im my nerozumieme,
11:30
we lose them.
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strácame ich.
11:33
So while I was making this film,
several people said to me,
several people said to me,
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Počas natáčania filmu mi
povedalo niekoľko ľudí:
povedalo niekoľko ľudí:
11:36
"Well, Deeyah, you know,
this is just their culture,
this is just their culture,
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„No, Deeyah, vieš,
toto je prosto ich kultúra,
toto je prosto ich kultúra,
11:38
this is just what those people
do to their kids
do to their kids
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toto títo ľudia robia svojim deťom
11:41
and we can't really interfere."
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a my vlastne nevieme zasiahnuť.“
11:43
I can assure you
being murdered is not my culture.
being murdered is not my culture.
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Môžem vás ubezpečiť,
že vražda nie je moja kultúra.
že vražda nie je moja kultúra.
11:48
You know?
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Chápete?
A iste, ľudia, ktorí vyzerajú ako ja,
11:49
And surely people who look like me,
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11:51
young women who come
from backgrounds like me,
from backgrounds like me,
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mladé ženy, ktoré pochádzajú
z prostredia ako ja,
z prostredia ako ja,
11:53
should be subject to the same rights,
the same protections
the same protections
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by mali mať rovnaké práva,
rovnakú ochranu
rovnakú ochranu
11:57
as anybody else in our country, why not?
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ako hocikto iný v našej krajine, pravda?
12:02
So, for my next film,
I wanted to try and understand
I wanted to try and understand
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Takže pri svojom ďalšom filme
som sa chcela pokúsiť pochopiť,
som sa chcela pokúsiť pochopiť,
12:07
why some of our young
Muslim kids in Europe
Muslim kids in Europe
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prečo niektorých z našich
mladých moslimov v Európe
mladých moslimov v Európe
12:10
are drawn to extremism and violence.
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priťahuje extrémizmus a násilie.
12:12
But with that topic,
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Ale pri tejto téme
12:14
I also recognized that I was going
to have to face my worst fear:
to have to face my worst fear:
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som zistila, že musím čeliť
svojmu najhoršiemu strachu:
svojmu najhoršiemu strachu:
12:19
the brown men with beards.
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hnedým chlapom s bradami.
12:22
The same men, or similar men,
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Rovnakí muži alebo podobní tým,
12:25
to the ones that have hounded me
for most of my life.
for most of my life.
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ktorí ma prenasledovali
väčšinu môjho života.
väčšinu môjho života.
12:29
Men that I've been afraid of
most of my life.
most of my life.
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Muži, ktorých som sa bála
väčšinu svojho života.
väčšinu svojho života.
12:32
Men that I've also deeply disliked,
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Muži, ktorých som zhlboka neznášala,
12:35
for many, many years.
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a to dlhé, dlhé roky.
12:37
So I spent the next two years
interviewing convicted terrorists,
interviewing convicted terrorists,
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Takže ďalšie dva roky som strávila
rozhovormi s odsúdenými teroristami,
rozhovormi s odsúdenými teroristami,
12:41
jihadis and former extremists.
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džihádistami a niekdajšími extrémistami.
12:43
What I already knew,
what was very obvious already,
what was very obvious already,
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Už som vedela, pretože to bolo zreteľné,
12:47
was that religion, politics,
Europe's colonial baggage,
Europe's colonial baggage,
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že náboženstvo, politika,
koloniálna minulosť Európy,
koloniálna minulosť Európy,
12:52
also Western foreign policy
failures of recent years,
failures of recent years,
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aj zlyhania západnej zahraničnej
politiky v posledných rokoch
politiky v posledných rokoch
12:56
were all a part of the picture.
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boli súčasťou problému.
12:58
But what I was more interested
in finding out was what are the human,
in finding out was what are the human,
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Ale mňa skôr zaujímalo
zistiť, aké boli ľudské,
zistiť, aké boli ľudské,
13:01
what are the personal reasons
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aké boli osobné dôvody,
13:03
why some of our young people
are susceptible to groups like this.
are susceptible to groups like this.
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prečo niektorí naši mladí ľudia
podliehajú takýmto skupinám.
podliehajú takýmto skupinám.
13:09
And what really surprised me
was that I found wounded human beings.
was that I found wounded human beings.
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A čo ma naozaj prekvapilo, bol fakt,
že som našla zranené ľudské bytosti.
že som našla zranené ľudské bytosti.
13:15
Instead of the monsters
that I was looking for,
that I was looking for,
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Namiesto tých monštier, ktoré som hľadala,
13:18
that I was hoping to find --
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ktoré som dúfala, že nájdem –
13:19
quite frankly because
it would have been very satisfying --
it would have been very satisfying --
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naozaj, úprimne, pretože
to by bolo veľmi uspokojivé –
to by bolo veľmi uspokojivé –
13:22
I found broken people.
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našla som zlomených ľudí.
13:25
Just like Banaz,
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Rovnako ako Banaz,
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I found that these young men
were torn apart
were torn apart
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zistila som, že títo mladí
muži boli rozháraní
muži boli rozháraní
13:30
from trying to bridge the gaps
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od snahy preklenúť priepasti
13:32
between their families
and the countries that they were born in.
and the countries that they were born in.
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medzi svojimi rodinami a krajinami,
v ktorých sa narodili.
v ktorých sa narodili.
13:37
And what I also learned
is that extremist groups, terrorist groups
is that extremist groups, terrorist groups
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A zistila som tiež,
že extrémistické teroristické skupiny
že extrémistické teroristické skupiny
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are taking advantage
of these feelings of our young people
of these feelings of our young people
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využívajú tieto pocity našich mladých ľudí
13:44
and channeling that -- cynically --
channeling that toward violence.
channeling that toward violence.
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a presmerúvajú ich – čo je cynické –
smerom k násiliu.
smerom k násiliu.
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"Come to us," they say.
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„Poďte k nám,“ hovoria im.
13:50
"Reject both sides,
your family and your country
your family and your country
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„Zavrhnite obe strany,
vašu rodinu aj vašu krajinu,
vašu rodinu aj vašu krajinu,
13:53
because they reject you.
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pretože oni zavrhli vás.
13:54
For your family, their honor
is more important than you
is more important than you
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Lebo pre vašu rodinu je
jej česť dôležitejšia ako vy
jej česť dôležitejšia ako vy
13:57
and for your country,
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a pre vašu krajinu
13:59
a real Norwegian, Brit or a French person
will always be white and never you."
will always be white and never you."
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bude skutočný Nór, Brit či Francúz
vždy beloch a nikdy nie ako vy.“
vždy beloch a nikdy nie ako vy.“
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They're also promising our young people
the things that they crave:
the things that they crave:
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Sľubujú našim mladým ľuďom
veci, po ktorých prahnú:
veci, po ktorých prahnú:
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significance, heroism,
a sense of belonging and purpose,
a sense of belonging and purpose,
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dôležitosť, hrdinstvo,
pocit, že niekam patrím a mám cieľ,
pocit, že niekam patrím a mám cieľ,
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a community that loves and accepts them.
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komunita, ktorá ich miluje a prijíma.
14:17
They make the powerless feel powerful.
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Vďaka nim sa bezmocní cítia mocní.
14:20
The invisible and the silent
are finally seen and heard.
are finally seen and heard.
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Neviditeľných a tichých
je konečne vidieť a počuť.
je konečne vidieť a počuť.
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This is what they're doing
for our young people.
for our young people.
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Toto robia s našimi mladými ľuďmi.
14:29
Why are these groups doing this
for our young people and not us?
for our young people and not us?
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Prečo to tieto skupiny robia
našim mladým, a nie nám?
našim mladým, a nie nám?
14:34
The thing is,
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Vec sa má tak,
14:36
I'm not trying to justify
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že sa nesnažím odôvodniť
14:39
or excuse any of the violence.
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alebo ospravedlniť akékoľvek násilie.
14:43
What I am trying to say
is that we have to understand
is that we have to understand
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Snažím sa povedať,
že musíme porozumieť tomu,
že musíme porozumieť tomu,
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why some of our young people
are attracted to this.
are attracted to this.
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prečo toto priťahuje
niektorých našich mladých ľudí.
niektorých našich mladých ľudí.
14:51
I would like to also show you, actually --
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Chcela by som vám tiež ukázať –
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these are childhood photos
of some of the guys in the film.
of some of the guys in the film.
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toto sú fotky z detstva
niektorých chlapcov z toho filmu.
niektorých chlapcov z toho filmu.
14:59
What really struck me
is that so many of them --
is that so many of them --
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Skutočne ma zasiahlo,
že toľko veľa z nich –
že toľko veľa z nich –
15:02
I never would have thought this --
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toto by som si nikdy nepomyslela –
15:04
but so many of them
have absent or abusive fathers.
have absent or abusive fathers.
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tak veľa z nich má
žiadnych alebo hrubých otcov.
žiadnych alebo hrubých otcov.
15:08
And several of these young guys
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A niekoľkí z týchto mladých chlapcov
15:10
ended up finding caring
and compassionate father figures
and compassionate father figures
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nakoniec našli starostlivých
a milosrdných zástupcov otcov
a milosrdných zástupcov otcov
15:14
within these extremist groups.
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v týchto extrémistických skupinách.
15:17
I also found men
brutalized by racist violence,
brutalized by racist violence,
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Našla som tiež mužov
zhrubnutých rasistickým násilím,
zhrubnutých rasistickým násilím,
takých, ktorí našli cestu,
ako sa prestať cítiť obeťou,
ako sa prestať cítiť obeťou,
15:21
but who found a way
to stop feeling like victims
to stop feeling like victims
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15:24
by becoming violent themselves.
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keď sa sami stali násilníkmi.
15:25
In fact, I found something,
to my horror, that I recognized.
to my horror, that I recognized.
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Vlastne, na svoje zdesenie som
našla niečo, čo som spoznala.
našla niečo, čo som spoznala.
15:30
I found the same feelings that I felt
as a 17-year-old as I fled from Norway.
as a 17-year-old as I fled from Norway.
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Našla som rovnaké pocity, ako keď som
mala 17 rokov, keď som utiekla z Nórska.
mala 17 rokov, keď som utiekla z Nórska.
15:38
The same confusion, the same sorrow,
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Rovnaký zmätok, rovnaký smútok,
15:41
the same feeling of being betrayed
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rovnaký pocit, že ma zrádzajú
15:46
and not belonging to anyone.
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a že k nikomu nepatrím.
15:50
The same feeling of being lost
and torn between cultures.
and torn between cultures.
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Rovnaký pocit stratenosti
a rozháranosti medzi kultúrami.
a rozháranosti medzi kultúrami.
15:54
Having said that,
I did not choose destruction,
I did not choose destruction,
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Ako som povedala,
nevybrala som si ničenie,
nevybrala som si ničenie,
15:57
I chose to pick up a camera
instead of a gun.
instead of a gun.
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zvolila som si vziať
do ruky kameru a nie zbraň.
do ruky kameru a nie zbraň.
16:00
And the reason I did that
is because of my superpower.
is because of my superpower.
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A dôvodom na to bola moja supermoc.
16:03
I could see that understanding
is the answer, instead of violence.
is the answer, instead of violence.
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Videla som, že práve porozumenie
je odpoveďou, a nie násilie.
je odpoveďou, a nie násilie.
16:08
Seeing human beings
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Že treba vidieť ľudí
16:10
with all their virtues and all their flaws
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so všetkými ich cnosťami a ich chybami,
16:13
instead of continuing the caricatures:
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a nie pokračovať s karikatúrami:
16:15
the us and them, the villains and victims.
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my a oni, zloduchovia a obete.
16:18
I'd also finally
come to terms with the fact
come to terms with the fact
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A tiež som sa zmierila s faktom,
16:20
that my two cultures
didn't have to be on a collision course
didn't have to be on a collision course
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že moje dve kultúry
nemusia na seba narážať,
nemusia na seba narážať,
16:24
but instead became a space
where I found my own voice.
where I found my own voice.
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namiesto toho sa stali priestorom,
kde som našla svoj hlas.
kde som našla svoj hlas.
16:27
I stopped feeling
like I had to pick a side,
like I had to pick a side,
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Prestala som cítiť,
že si potrebujem vybrať stranu,
že si potrebujem vybrať stranu,
16:30
but this took me many, many years.
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ale trvalo mi to mnoho, mnoho rokov.
16:33
There are so many
of our young people today
of our young people today
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Dnes je tu mnoho mladých ľudí,
16:35
who are struggling with these same issues,
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ktorí bojujú s rovnakými problémami,
16:37
and they're struggling with this alone.
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a bojujú s nimi osamote.
16:41
And this leaves them open like wounds.
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A preto sú otvorení ako rany.
16:44
And for some, the worldview
of radical Islam
of radical Islam
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A pre niektorých sa pohľad
radikálneho islamu
radikálneho islamu
16:47
becomes the infection
that festers in these open wounds.
that festers in these open wounds.
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stane infekciou,
ktorej sa v týchto ranách darí.
ktorej sa v týchto ranách darí.
16:53
There's an African proverb that says,
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Jedno africké príslovie hovorí:
16:57
"If the young are not
initiated into the village,
initiated into the village,
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„Ak sa mladí nezačlenia do dediny,
17:01
they will burn it down
just to feel its warmth."
just to feel its warmth."
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zapália ju, len aby cítili teplo z nej.“
17:05
I would like to ask --
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Chcela by som sa spýtať –
17:07
to Muslim parents and Muslim communities,
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moslimských rodičov
a moslimských komunít –
a moslimských komunít –
17:10
will you love and care for your children
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budete milovať a starať sa o svoje deti
17:12
without forcing them
to meet your expectations?
to meet your expectations?
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bez toho, aby ste ich nútili
do splnenia vašich očakávaní?
do splnenia vašich očakávaní?
17:15
Can you choose them instead of your honor?
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Viete si vybrať ich, a nie vašu česť?
17:18
Can you understand
why they're so angry and alienated
why they're so angry and alienated
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Dokážete pochopiť, prečo sú
takí nahnevaní a cítia sa sami,
takí nahnevaní a cítia sa sami,
keď je vám vaša česť
dôležitejšia ako ich šťastie?
dôležitejšia ako ich šťastie?
17:21
when you put your honor
before their happiness?
before their happiness?
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17:24
Can you try to be a friend to your child
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Viete sa pokúsiť byť vášmu
dieťaťu priateľom,
dieťaťu priateľom,
17:27
so that they can trust you
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aby vám mohlo dôverovať
17:28
and want to share with you
their experiences,
their experiences,
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a aby sa s vami chcelo deliť
o svoje zážitky,
o svoje zážitky,
17:31
rather than having
to seek it somewhere else?
to seek it somewhere else?
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a nie nútiť ho,
aby si to hľadalo niekde inde?
aby si to hľadalo niekde inde?
17:34
And to our young people
tempted by extremism,
tempted by extremism,
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A vy, mladí ľudia zvádzaní extrémizmom,
17:38
can you acknowledge
that your rage is fueled by pain?
that your rage is fueled by pain?
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dokážete priznať,
že vašu zúrivosť poháňa bolesť?
že vašu zúrivosť poháňa bolesť?
17:43
Will you find the strength
to resist those cynical old men
to resist those cynical old men
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Nájdete v sebe silu
odolať tým cynickým starcom,
odolať tým cynickým starcom,
17:47
who want to use your blood
for their own profits?
for their own profits?
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ktorí chcú zneužiť vašu krv
pre svoj vlastný prospech?
pre svoj vlastný prospech?
17:51
Can you find a way to live?
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Dokážete nájsť spôsob,
akým žiť?
akým žiť?
17:53
Can you see that the sweetest revenge
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Dokážete vidieť, že najsladšia pomsta
17:56
is for you to live
a happy, full and free life?
a happy, full and free life?
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je žiť svoj život šťastne,
plne a slobodne?
plne a slobodne?
17:59
A life defined by you and nobody else.
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Život, ktorý určujete vy a nikto iný.
18:02
Why do you want to become
just another dead Muslim kid?
just another dead Muslim kid?
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Prečo sa chcete stať ďalším
mŕtvym moslimským deckom?
mŕtvym moslimským deckom?
18:07
And for the rest of us, when will we start
listening to our young people?
listening to our young people?
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A my, zvyšok, kedy začneme
počúvať našich mladých?
počúvať našich mladých?
18:12
How can we support them
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Ako im vieme pomôcť
18:13
in redirecting their pain
into something more constructive?
into something more constructive?
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premeniť ich bolesť
na niečo konštruktívnejšie?
na niečo konštruktívnejšie?
Oni si myslia, že ich nemáme radi.
18:18
They think we don't like them.
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18:20
They think we don't care
what happens to them.
what happens to them.
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Myslia si, že nám je jedno,
čo sa s nimi stane.
čo sa s nimi stane.
18:23
They think we don't accept them.
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Myslia si, že ich neprijímame.
18:24
Can we find a way
to make them feel differently?
to make them feel differently?
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Vieme to zmeniť, aby sa cítili inak?
18:29
What will it take for us
to see them and notice them
to see them and notice them
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Čo potrebujeme na to,
aby sme ich uvideli a všimli si ich,
aby sme ich uvideli a všimli si ich,
18:32
before they become either the victims
or the perpetrators of violence?
or the perpetrators of violence?
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kým sa stanú obeťami
alebo páchateľmi násilia?
alebo páchateľmi násilia?
18:37
Can we make ourselves care about them
and consider them to be our own?
and consider them to be our own?
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Vieme sa prinútiť starať sa
o nich a považovať ich za svojich?
o nich a považovať ich za svojich?
18:40
And not just be outraged when the victims
of violence look like ourselves?
of violence look like ourselves?
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A nielen cítiť sa pobúrene,
keď obete tohto násilia vyzerajú ako my?
keď obete tohto násilia vyzerajú ako my?
18:45
Can we find a way to reject hatred
and heal the divisions between us?
and heal the divisions between us?
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Vieme nájsť spôsob, ako odmietnuť
nenávisť a preklenúť hranice medzi nami?
nenávisť a preklenúť hranice medzi nami?
18:50
The thing is we cannot afford
to give up on each other or on our kids,
to give up on each other or on our kids,
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Vec sa má tak, že si nemôžeme dovoliť
vzdať sa jeden druhého či našich detí,
vzdať sa jeden druhého či našich detí,
18:54
even if they've given up on us.
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hoci oni na nás už rezignovali.
18:56
We are all in this together.
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Sme v tom všetci spoločne.
18:59
And in the long term, revenge and violence
will not work against extremists.
will not work against extremists.
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A z dlhodobého hľadiska pomsta
a násilie na extrémistov nebudú fungovať.
a násilie na extrémistov nebudú fungovať.
19:05
Terrorists want us
to huddle in our houses in fear,
to huddle in our houses in fear,
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Teroristi chcú, aby sme sa krčili
strachom v našich domovoch,
strachom v našich domovoch,
19:09
closing our doors and our hearts.
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aby sme zavreli naše dvere aj srdcia.
19:11
They want us to tear open
more wounds in our societies
more wounds in our societies
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Chcú rozjatriť v našich
spoločnostiach viac rán,
spoločnostiach viac rán,
19:15
so that they can use them
to spread their infection more widely.
to spread their infection more widely.
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aby ich mohli zneužiť na väčšie
rozšírenie ich infekcie.
rozšírenie ich infekcie.
19:18
They want us to become like them:
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Chcú, aby sme sa stali takými, ako oni:
19:21
intolerant, hateful and cruel.
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netolerantnými, nenávistnými a krutými.
19:26
The day after the Paris attacks,
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Deň po útokoch v Paríži
19:28
a friend of mine
sent this photo of her daughter.
sent this photo of her daughter.
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mi jedna moja priateľka
poslala túto fotku svojej dcéry.
poslala túto fotku svojej dcéry.
19:32
This is a white girl and an Arab girl.
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Toto je biele dievča a arabské dievča.
19:35
They're best friends.
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Sú najlepšie priateľky.
19:37
This image is the kryptonite
for extremists.
for extremists.
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Tento obrázok je
pre extrémistov ako kryptonit.
pre extrémistov ako kryptonit.
19:43
These two little girls
with their superpowers
with their superpowers
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Tieto dve dievčatká
so svojimi superschopnosťami
so svojimi superschopnosťami
19:46
are showing the way forward
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ukazujú cestu vpred,
19:47
towards a society
that we need to build together,
that we need to build together,
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k spoločnosti, ktorú musíme
spolu vybudovať,
spolu vybudovať,
19:52
a society that includes and supports,
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spoločnosť, ktorá začleňuje a podporuje,
19:56
rather than rejects our kids.
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a nie odmieta svoje deti.
19:59
Thank you for listening.
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Ďakujem, že ste ma vypočuli.
20:01
(Applause)
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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Deeyah Khan - FilmmakerDeeyah Khan is working to create intercultural dialogue and understanding by confronting the world's most complex and controversial topics.
Why you should listen
Deeyah Khan is an Emmy and Peabody award-winning documentary film director and founder of Fuuse, a media and arts company that puts women, people from minorities and third-culture kids at the heart of telling their own stories. In 2016, Khan became the first UNESCO Goodwill Ambassador for artistic freedom and creativity. She has received many honors for her work supporting freedom of expression, human rights and peace, including the Ossietzky Prize, the University of Oslo's Human Rights Award and the Peer Gynt Prize from the Parliament of Norway.
Born in Norway to immigrant parents of Pashtun and Punjabi ancestry, Khan's experience of living between different cultures, both the beauty and the challenges, shapes her artistic vision. Her 2012 multi-award winning documentary, Banaz: A Love Story, chronicles the life and death of Banaz Mahmod, a young British Kurdish woman murdered by her family in a so-called honor killing. Khan's second film, the Grierson and Bafta award-nominated Jihad, involved two years of interviews and filming with Islamic extremists, convicted terrorists and former jihadis. One of Fuuse's recent initiatives, born of Deeyah’s own experiences, is sister-hood, a digital magazine and series of live events spotlighting the voices of women of Muslim heritage. Khan has also produced a number of critically acclaimed albums, including Listen to the Banned, a compilation that brought together musicians from around the world who have been subject to persecution, 'censorship and imprisonment.
The focus of Khan's work and access to voices that are often overlooked and misunderstood has led to increasing demand as a speaker at international human rights events and platforms including the United Nations. She was described by The Times of London thus: "To say Deeyah Khan is an inspiration is an understatement. She is one of the bravest, most indomitable women … facing down bullies and extremists with intelligence and unflinching spirit."
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