Alexandra Sacks: A new way to think about the transition to motherhood
Aleksandra Saks (Alexandra Sacks): Novi način razmišljanja o prelasku u majčinstvo
Alexandra Sacks, M.D. is widely recognized as the leading clinical expert on matrescence: the developmental transition into motherhood. Full bio
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when you felt hormonal and moody?
pod uticajem hormona i neraspoloženo?
in strange places and very fast,
na čudnim mestima i veoma brzo,
grown-up in this new way.
da budete odrasli na nov način.
to a woman when she's having a baby.
ženi kada je trudna.
for teenagers to feel all over the place,
da se tinejdžeri osećaju izgubljeno,
pregnancy in the same way?
o trudnoći na isti način?
the developmental arc of adolescence,
o razvojnom putu adolescencije,
to describe the transition to motherhood.
za opis prelaska u majčinstvo.
i ženama u postporođajnom periodu,
with pregnant and postpartum women,
working in this field,
I'm not enjoying this.
of that diagnosis,
that she's not clinically depressed,
klinički depresivna
like this," she insists.
ovakav osećaj“, insistira ona.
expect it to feel like?"
Kakav si osećaj očekivala?“
would make feel whole and happy.
učiniti da se osećam ispunjeno i srećno.
would naturally tell me what to do.
prirodno govoriti šta da radim.
to put the baby first."
da stavim bebu na prvo mesto.“
to motherhood feels like.
prelaska u majčinstvo.
like this from hundreds of women,
sa ovakvim pitanjima,
da nešto nije u redu
that they weren't sick
to normalize this transition,
da normalizujem ovu promenu,
the same thing as disease.
nije uvek isto što i bolest.
the psychology of motherhood.
nešto više o psihologiji majčinstva.
in the medical textbooks,
u medicinskim udžbenicima,
write about disease.
but in an out-of-print essay
ali sam u eseju koji više nije u štampi,
napisala Dejna Rafael,
to frame this conversation:
da uokvirim ovaj razgovor:
sounds like "adolescence."
zvuči kao „adolescencija“.
and hormone shifting
kada promene tela i hormona
in how a person feels emotionally
u emocionalnom doživljaju osobe
matrescence is not a disease,
matrescencija nije bolest,
in the medical vocabulary,
educating people about it,
with a more serious condition
the anthropology literature
na antropološku literaturu
about matrescence with my patients
sa svojim pacijentima
the "push and pull."
„odbacivanje i povlačenje“.
are uniquely dependent.
su zavisne na jedinstveni način.
our babies can't walk,
naše bebe ne mogu da hodaju,
with this hormone called oxytocin.
hormonom po imenu oksitocin.
give birth to the baby.
čak i ako niste vi rodili bebu.
zoom in, pulling her attention in,
da se fokusira, povlačeći njenu pažnju,
at the center of her world.
her mind is pushing away,
all these other parts to her identity --
svi ti drugi delovi njenog identiteta -
tug-of-war of matrescence.
povlačenja konopca u matrescenciji.
the women calling me were feeling.
žene koje su me zvale.
progression of matrescence,
prirodan sled matrescencije,
hard to live inside this push and pull,
da žive u tom odbacivanju i povlačenju,
these circumstances,
and nothing to be ashamed of,
i da nije nešto čega se treba stideti,
rates of postpartum depression.
i stopu postporođajne depresije.
our culture understands
ovaj prelaz u majčinstvo,
jedna sa drugom,
o svojoj matrescenciji
their own transition
sopstvene promene
protecting your relationship.
o tome da se zaštite vaše veze.
a separate part of your identity,
svog identiteta,
for your child to develop their own.
da vaše dete razvije svoj.
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Alexandra Sacks - Reproductive psychiatristAlexandra Sacks, M.D. is widely recognized as the leading clinical expert on matrescence: the developmental transition into motherhood.
Why you should listen
Alexandra Sacks has spent the last decade of her career helping women navigate their emotional lives as a reproductive psychiatrist. She is a regular contributor to the New York Times, and her work has been featured in TIME, NPR and throughout Asia, Europe and Latin America.
Board-certified in psychiatry with specialty fellowship training in women's mental health via New York Presbyterian Cornell and Columbia, Sacks helms a private practice in New York City and serves on the advisory boards for the American Psychoanalytic Association and the Columbia Psychoanalytic Center for Training and Research. In April 2019, Dr. Sacks will publish her first co-authored book, What No One Tells You: A Guide to Your Emotions from Pregnancy to Motherhood (Simon and Schuster).
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