Alexandra Sacks: A new way to think about the transition to motherhood
亚历山大 · 赛克斯: 以新的角度思考从女人到母亲的转变
Alexandra Sacks, M.D. is widely recognized as the leading clinical expert on matrescence: the developmental transition into motherhood. Full bio
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when you felt hormonal and moody?
心情烦躁和郁郁寡欢?
in strange places and very fast,
开始发育并快速生长,
grown-up in this new way.
to a woman when she's having a baby.
也会发生同样的变化。
for teenagers to feel all over the place,
困惑和敏感很正常,
pregnancy in the same way?
the developmental arc of adolescence,
青春期发展曲线的教科书,
to describe the transition to motherhood.
由女人变为母亲的术语。
with pregnant and postpartum women,
打交道的精神科医生,
working in this field,
I'm not enjoying this.
of that diagnosis,
that she's not clinically depressed,
like this," she insists.
expect it to feel like?"
认为应该是怎样的感觉呢?”
would make feel whole and happy.
会让我感到完整和快乐;
would naturally tell me what to do.
告诉我应该怎么做;
to put the baby first."
把孩子放在首位。”
从女人转变成母亲的
to motherhood feels like.
like this from hundreds of women,
问题的女士打来的电话,
担心自己出了问题,
that they weren't sick
to normalize this transition,
更加正常化的方法,
the same thing as disease.
与疾病其实是两码事。
the psychology of motherhood.
关于母性心理的知识,
in the medical textbooks,
write about disease.
是关于疾病的知识。
but in an out-of-print essay
1973 年的绝版文章中,
to frame this conversation:
方式来概括这段对话:
sounds like "adolescence."
很像 "青春期",但这并非巧合,
and hormone shifting
和激素变化同时作用所致,
in how a person feels emotionally
matrescence is not a disease,
in the medical vocabulary,
并不存在于医学词汇中,
educating people about it,
with a more serious condition
the anthropology literature
about matrescence with my patients
the "push and pull."
are uniquely dependent.
our babies can't walk,
我们的婴儿不会走路、
with this hormone called oxytocin.
来帮助我们解决这个难题。
也会释放催产素,
give birth to the baby.
身体也会分泌催产素。
zoom in, pulling her attention in,
精力、 把她的注意力“拉”过来,
at the center of her world.
her mind is pushing away,
把她从宝宝身上“推”开,
all these other parts to her identity --
身份还包含了其他内容——
tug-of-war of matrescence.
the women calling me were feeling.
女士们所感受到的不安,
progression of matrescence,
孕乳期的自然发展过程,
hard to live inside this push and pull,
在这种“推和拉”的矛盾中生活,
these circumstances,
在这种情形之下,
and nothing to be ashamed of,
没有什么可羞愧的,
rates of postpartum depression.
降低产后抑郁症的发病率。
our culture understands
谈论你的孕乳期感受吧,
伴侣交流自己的感受,
their own transition
自己的角色转变,
protecting your relationship.
保护你和周围人的关系,
a separate part of your identity,
for your child to develop their own.
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Alexandra Sacks - Reproductive psychiatristAlexandra Sacks, M.D. is widely recognized as the leading clinical expert on matrescence: the developmental transition into motherhood.
Why you should listen
Alexandra Sacks has spent the last decade of her career helping women navigate their emotional lives as a reproductive psychiatrist. She is a regular contributor to the New York Times, and her work has been featured in TIME, NPR and throughout Asia, Europe and Latin America.
Board-certified in psychiatry with specialty fellowship training in women's mental health via New York Presbyterian Cornell and Columbia, Sacks helms a private practice in New York City and serves on the advisory boards for the American Psychoanalytic Association and the Columbia Psychoanalytic Center for Training and Research. In April 2019, Dr. Sacks will publish her first co-authored book, What No One Tells You: A Guide to Your Emotions from Pregnancy to Motherhood (Simon and Schuster).
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