Emilie Wapnick: Why some of us don't have one true calling
Emilie Wapnick: Por que algúns non temos unha vocación?
Career coach Emilie Wapnick celebrates the "multipotentialite" -- those of us with many interests, many jobs over a lifetime, and many interlocking potentials. Full bio
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been asked the question
vos preguntaron:
when you were first asked this question?
que oístes esta pregunta.
been able to answer the question
that I didn't have any interests --
and math and art and I built websites
a arte e facer páxinas web.
chamada "Frustrated Telephone Operator".
called Frustrated Telephone Operator.
to notice this pattern in myself
a decatarme dese patrón.
at whatever it was,
where I'd start to get bored.
en que comezaba a enfastiarme.
and persist anyway,
so much time and energy
this isn't challenging anymore --
conseguino, xa non é un desafío".
in something else,
and I would dive into that,
no que tamén me submerxía.
and I'd be like, "Yes! I found my thing,"
"si, isto é o meu".
where I'd start to get bored.
en que comezaba a aborrecer.
something new and totally different,
any of this into a career.
have to pick one thing,
unha soa cousa,
so much anxiety
was something wrong with this,
for being unable to stick with anything.
de aferrarme a unha soa cousa.
or that I was self-sabotaging,
ser unha autosabotadora,
and to these feelings,
vos soan familiares
the meaning of wrong or abnormal
a asignar o concepto de errado ou anormal
"What do you want to be when you grow up?"
"que queres ser de maior?"
what you say when you're that age.
o que contestades a esa idade.
to elicit cute replies,
respostas graciosas
or "I want to be a ballerina,"
"quero ser bailarina"
again and again as we get older
de diversas formas mentres medras.
high school students might get asked
escollerán na universidade.
to pick in college.
the cute exercise it once was
a soñar co que poderían ser,
to dream about what they could be,
about all that they could be.
con todo o que poderían ser.
what you want to be,
will likely chuckle and be like,
esbozarían un sorriso:
a violin maker and a psychologist.
fabricante de violíns e psicólogo.
turned illustrator, entrepreneur,
convertida en ilustradora, empresaria,
about people like this.
non oen falar de xente así.
or the one true calling,
during our time on this earth,
o noso paso por esta terra,
what that thing is
who isn't wired this way?
subjects that you're curious about,
por multitude de materias,
like you in this framework.
have a purpose.
there's something wrong with you.
with many interests and creative pursuits.
moitos intereses e ocupacións creativas.
into three parts:
that connote the same idea,
que implique a mesma idea,
a xente do Renacemento.
to be well-versed in multiple disciplines.
estar versado en varias disciplinas.
or invent your own.
that as a community,
ten un senso de comunidade,
that you need to overcome.
unha aflición que tes que superar.
through speaking with people
ideas on my website,
strengths to being this way.
at the intersection.
from their shared interests
dos seus intereses compartidos
travel, mathematics and design,
viaxes, matemáticas e deseño
custom geographically-inspired jewelry.
na xeografía para crear xoias á carta.
with this unique idea
mix of skills and experiences.
das súas habelencias e experiencias.
with all of their backgrounds,
points of intersection.
become interested in something,
se interesan por algo,
we can get our hands on.
so many times in the past,
of trying new things
are transferable across disciplines,
son transversais entre disciplinas
to every new area we pursue,
a cada nova área que exploramos,
and freelance writer.
e escritora free-lance.
she honed an incredible ability
perfeccionou unha incrible habilidade
Nora was a financial planner.
Nora foi planificadora financeira.
the finer mechanics of sales
write compelling pitches to editors.
convincentes discursos aos editores.
to pursue something you're drawn to,
nunca é unha perda de tempo
in a different field entirely,
nun campo completamente diferente
have anticipated.
into whatever you need to be
no que precises
sometimes a web designer,
outras deseñador de páxinas web.
outras veces é un profesor
sometimes a teacher,
because he can take on various roles,
pode ter varias funcións
identified adaptability
identificou a adaptabilidade
to develop in order to thrive
que debemos desenvolver
so quickly and unpredictably
tan rápido e tan impredecible
and organizations that can pivot
que poden pivotar
that are really going to thrive.
son as que realmente van medrar.
and adaptability:
e adaptabilidade.
are very adept at,
as multipotenciais.
if pressured to narrow their focus.
se somos forzados a estreitar a atención.
in encouraging multipotentialites
en alentar os multipotenciais
problems in the world right now,
e multidimensionais actualmente
out-of-the-box thinkers to tackle them.
fóra do común, para solucionalos.
in your heart, a specialist.
no fondo, un especialista.
you wanted to be a pediatric neurosurgeon.
ser neurocirurxáns pediátricos.
wrong with you, either.
problema grave.
are comprised of a specialist
están compostos dun especialista
and implement ideas,
e implementar ideas
a breadth of knowledge to the project.
un abano de coñecementos ao proxecto.
lives and careers
as nosas vidas e carreiras
are largely being encouraged
son animados con frecuencia
like their specialist peers.
seus homólogos especialistas.
you take away from this talk,
sexa cal for.
whatever that may be.
desta sala,
who may have just realized
down those rabbit holes.
to a happier, more authentic life.
lévanos a unha vida máis feliz e plena.
"multipotenciais",
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Emilie Wapnick - Writer, coach, artist ...Career coach Emilie Wapnick celebrates the "multipotentialite" -- those of us with many interests, many jobs over a lifetime, and many interlocking potentials.
Why you should listen
Emilie Wapnick has been a musician/songwriter, a web designer, filmmaker, writer, law student and entrepreneur. "This is how I’ve always lived," she writes, "moving from interest to interest, building on my skills in different areas, and synthesizing the knowledge I acquire along the way."
As a career and life coach, she helps other people with wide and varied interests understand and appreciate who they are, in a society that asks us to pick a lane and stay in it. Her work with "multipotentialites" has resulted in the book Renaissance Business and the interesting website Puttylike.
Wapnick's new book, How to Be Everything: A Guide for Those Who (Still) Don't Know What They Want to Be When They Grow Up, is due out in May 2017.
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