Hannah Fry: The mathematics of love
Hannah Fry: Matematika ljubavi
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about the mathematics of love.
ponešto o matematici ljubavi.
are famously excellent at finding love.
po tome da s lakoćom pronalaze ljubav.
because of our dashing personalities,
naših očaravajućih osobnosti,
and excellent pencil cases.
i izvrsnih pernica,
an awful lot of work into the maths
stvarno puno radili na tome da izračunamo
on the subject, which is entitled,
na tu temu, čiji je naslov
(Laughter) --
(Smijeh)
his chances of finding love.
svoje izglede da pronađe ljubav.
u Ujedinjenoj Kraljevini,
is somebody who lives near him,
to find him attractive.
of 26 women in the whole of the UK.
u cijeloj državi ima 26 takvih žena.
is it Peter?
than the best estimates
od najboljih procjena
extraterrestrial life forms there are.
izvanzemaljskih oblika života.
a 1 in 285,000 chance
u omjeru 1 : 285 000
of these special ladies
naleti na jednu
that's why mathematicians
going on nights out anymore.
to such a pessimistic view.
just as well as all of you do,
and rational and easily predictable.
i ne može ih se lako predvidjeti.
that it can offer us
tu ne može ništa ponuditi
is full of patterns
često odvija po određenim uzorcima,
all about the study of patterns.
proučavanje uzoraka,
to the fluctuations in the stock market,
do fluktuacija na tržištu dionica,
or the growth of cities.
none of those things
and easily predictable, either.
niti se može lako predvidjeti.
is so powerful that it has the potential
toliko moćna da nam može
at almost anything.
and relevant mathematics is,
divna, odlična i relevantna.
mathematically verifiable tips for love.
matematički provjerljiva savjeta za ljubav.
website is OkCupid,
stranica za traženje partnera,
by a group of mathematicians.
pokrenula skupina matematičara.
for almost a decade.
koji koriste njihovu stranicu.
to search for patterns
interact with each other
za traženje partnera.
seriously interesting findings.
stvarno zanimljive stvari.
that on an online dating website,
stranicama za traženje partnera
does not dictate how popular you are,
o tome koliko ste privlačni
think that you're ugly
section of OkCupid,
how attractive you think people are
ljude smatrate privlačnima,
the average score,
selection of people receive,
primaju određeni ljudi,
on an online dating website.
na stranicama za traženje partnera.
have come up with.
is that it's not totally true
da nije potpuno istina
the more messages you get.
ako ste privlačniji.
of what is it about people up here
po čemu su to ljudi ovdje gore
than people down here,
same score of attractiveness?
straightforward looks that are important.
findings with an example.
ilustraciju onoga što su otkrili.
Portia de Rossi, for example,
is a very beautiful woman.
vrlo zgodna žena.
but she's not a supermodel, either.
ali nije ni supermodel.
to someone like Sarah Jessica Parker,
s nekime poput Sarah Jessice Parker,
myself included, I should say,
is seriously fabulous
stvarno fantastična
most beautiful creatures
on the face of the Earth.
i.e., most of the Internet,
recimo većina ljudi na internetu,
a bit like a horse. (Laughter)
how attractive they thought
za njihovo mišljenje o privlačnosti
or Portia de Rossi were,
them a score between 1 and 5,
ocijene od 1 do 5,
to have roughly the same score.
otprilike jednak rezultat.
would be very different.
na vrlo različite načine.
all be clustered around the 4
that she's very beautiful,
completely divides opinion.
mišljenja potpuno razlikuju.
that makes you more popular
think that you're attractive,
think that you're a massive minger.
than everybody just thinking
makes a bit more sense
who are sending these messages.
kao ljudi koji šalju te poruke.
somebody's attractive,
won't necessarily be that interested.
neće nužno biti toliko zainteresirani.
less competition for you
for you to get in touch.
da stupite u kontakt s tom osobom.
to if you think somebody is attractive
is going to think they're attractive.
biti privlačna i svima drugima.
humiliating yourself, let's be honest?
interesting part comes.
that they use on an online dating website,
koriste na stranicama za traženje partnera,
will find unattractive.
nekima biti neprivlačne.
who are, perhaps, a little bit overweight
koji su možda malo pretili
a very cropped photo,
vrlo odrezane fotografije.
where they're wearing hats.
na kojima nose kapu.
of what you should do
trebalo bi raditi
whatever it is that makes you different,
na ono što vas čini drugačijim,
will find it unattractive.
to neće biti privlačno.
are just going to fancy you anyway,
sviđat ćete se ionako,
well, they only play up to your advantage.
samo vam idu u korist.
How to pick the perfect partner.
Kako izabrati savršenog partnera.
that you're a roaring success
of how do you then convert that success
kako taj uspjeh pretvoriti
and in particular,
when is the right time to settle down?
pravo vrijeme za skrasiti se?
it's not advisable to just cash in
who comes along
want to leave it too long
ni predugo čekati
chance of long-term happiness.
za dugoročnu sreću.
Jane Austen, puts it,
moje najdraže spisateljice,
inspire affection again."
ljubav niti nadahnuti koga ljubavlju.”
What do you know about love?
is the right time to settle down
pravo vrijeme da se skrasite,
that you can date in your lifetime?
možete izlaziti u životu?
of mathematics that we can use
poslužiti krasnim dijelom matematike:
optimal stopping theory.
by the time that you're 35.
do 35. godine htjeli biti vjenčani.
date across your lifetime,
potencijalno mogli izlaziti
levels of goodness.
više ili manje odgovarati.
you cash in and get married,
kad se povučete i vjenčate,
what you could have had,
and change your mind.
ne možete ni predomisliti.
much like being recalled
kad ih se netko sjeti
for somebody else, or that's just me.
nekim drugim. Ili je možda samo meni tako.
that what you should do
of your dating window,
as serious marriage potential.
smatrati potencijalnim supružnikom.
next person that comes along
sljedeću osobu koja naiđe
that you've seen before.
koga ste dotad vidjeli.
mathematically proven, in fact,
matematički dokazati
of finding the perfect partner.
pronalaženje savršenog partnera.
this method does come with some risks.
da ta metoda ima i određene rizike.
your perfect partner appeared
vaš savršeni partner pojavio
you'd have to reject them.
you've seen before,
koga ste vidjeli prije
rejecting everyone and die alone.
odbijati svakoga i umrijeti sami.
nibbling at your remains.
koje će pojesti vaše ostatke.
let's imagine, instead,
in your first 37 percent
u svojih prvih 37 % vremena
boring, terrible people.
you're in your rejection phase,
you can reject them.
person to come along
dull and terrible
I'm afraid you have to marry them
da ćete se morati vjenčati s tom osobom
which is, frankly, suboptimal.
an opportunity here
and really cater for this market.
(Laughter)
(Smijeh)
are marginally less terrible
of people I dated."
than I normally manage.
nego što ja obično zvučim.
you a 100 percent success rate,
ne postiže se stopostotni uspjeh,
strategy that can do any better.
there are certain types
employ this exact strategy.
suitor that turns up
of the mating season,
that comes along after that window
koja naiđe nakon toga
that they've seen before.
humans, we do sort of do this anyway.
podsvjesno ionako radimo.
to play the field,
da izlazimo s više ljudi
or whatever when we're young.
at potential marriage candidates
počnemo ozbiljno tražiti
if ever it were needed,
ako je uopće bio potreban,
to be just a little bit mathematical.
matematički nastrojen.
that you picked your perfect partner
izabrali savršenog partnera
a lifelong relationship with them.
krećete u doživotnu vezu.
would ideally like to avoid divorce,
nitko ne želi razvesti,
Piers Morgan's wife, maybe?
supruge Piersa Morgana?
States ends in divorce,
not being far behind.
that precede a marital breakup
prethode raskidu braka
for mathematical investigation.
matematička istraživanja.
or what you should be quantifying.
što bi trebalo brojiti.
John Gottman, who did exactly that.
Johna Gottmana da učini upravo to.
having a conversation
stotine parova koji su razgovarali
everything you can think of.
in the conversation,
or not the wife was actually always right,
stvarno uvijek u pravu ili nije,
most important predictors
is going to get divorced
određeni par razvesti
partner was being in the conversation.
pozitivan ili negativan tijekom razgovora.
on Gottman's scale than negative.
negativnih bodova na Gottmanovoj ljestvici.
going to get divorced,
vjerojatno završiti razvodom,
into a spiral of negativity.
vrlo jednostavnih pretpostavki
uspjeli su predvidjeti
was going to get divorced
with a mathematician, James Murray,
s matematičarom Jamesom Murrayjem
and how they occur.
i kako do nje dolazi.
impressively simple and interesting.
jednostavni i zanimljivi.
the wife or husband is going to respond
kako će žena ili muž reagirati
they're going to be.
when they're on their own,
they're with their partner,
influence one another.
utječu jedno na drugo.
to point out at this stage,
have also been shown
countries in an arms race.
dvije zemlje utrkuju u naoružanju.
spiraling into negativity
postaje sve negativniji
the beginning of a nuclear war.
početku nuklearnog rata.
in this equation
have on one another,
imaju jedni na druge,
the negativity threshold.
što se zove prag negativnosti.
how annoying the husband can be
really pissed off, and vice versa.
stvarno naljuti, i obratno.
were about compromise and understanding
puni kompromisa i razumijevanja
have the space to be themselves.
da bude kakav stvarno jest.
the most successful relationships
da su najuspješnije veze
a really high negativity threshold.
vrlo visok prag negativnosti.
they really were a big deal.
samo ako je stvar zaista bitna.
and subsequent findings by the team
do kojih je tim došao
or the most successful couples,
negativity threshold.
nizak prag negativnosti.
let anything go unnoticed
ne prolazi nezamijećeno
some room to complain.
trying to repair their own relationship,
nastoje popraviti svoju vezu,
outlook on their marriage.
sliku o svojem braku.
end up being a really big deal.
da se sitnice prenapušu.
just a low negativity threshold
have a successful relationship.
nisu dovoljni za uspješnu vezu.
mathematical evidence
let the sun go down on your anger.
ostati ljuti preko noći.
with love and relationships.
može pomoći u ljubavi i vezama.
that aside from their use as tips,
into the power of mathematics.
prikažu moć matematike.
and symbols aren't just a thing.
nisu samo stvari.
about the incredible richness of nature
nevjerojatnom bogatstvu prirode
and warp and evolve all around us,
izvrću i razvijaju svuda oko nas,
do načina na koji se ponašamo.
for just a couple of you,
the mathematics of love
a little bit more love for mathematics.
malo više ljubavi za matematiku.
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Hannah Fry - Complexity theoristHannah Fry researches the trends in our civilization and ways we can forecast its future.
Why you should listen
Hannah Fry completed her PhD in fluid dynamics in early 2011 with an emphasis on how liquid droplets move. Then, after working as an aerodynamicist in the motorsport industry, she began work on an interdisciplinary project in complexity sciences at University College London. Hannah’s current research focusses on discovering new connections between mathematically described systems and human interaction at the largest scale.
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