Sofia Jawed-Wessel: The lies we tell pregnant women
ソフィア・ジャウェド=ウェスル: あなたの知らない 妊娠中の常識のウソ
Sofia Jawed-Wessel's teachings utilize a sex-positive and pleasure-inclusive approach to providing medically accurate, comprehensive sexuality education. Full bio
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a lot of secrets today, you and I,
秘密をたくさん お教えします
大抵の人が感じている—
少しでも解消できればと思います
many of us feel about sex.
catcalled by a stranger?
飛んできた経験のある方はいますか?
was a student of mine.
実は私の生徒だったときのことです
問題の生徒がやって来て
what I already knew:
I would never have said those things."
あんなことは言いませんでした」
until I was his professor.
彼は私を人とは見ていなかったのです
through every aspect of our lives.
繰り返されています
to sell an entirely unrelated product?
見たことがある方はいますか?
登場しない映画が
as only love interests?
inconsequential and harmless,
取るに足らない無害なものに見えて
that refuses to see women as people.
文化の一部としてじわじわ勢いを増しています
服を着ているからと
that sends home a 10-year-old girl
a distraction to boys trying to learn,
見られるものですし
to punish men for raping women
処罰しようとしない国の
grinding on her on the dance floor.
女性が殺されるのも同様の現象です
the objectification of women.
女性の性的モノ化が続くのです
the classic romantic comedy.
to two kinds of women in these movies,
ありがちなタイプは2種類あります
with the perfect body.
信じられないほど美しい女性です
has no trouble identifying her
その魅力に難なく気づき
our leading man falls in love with
主人公の男性と恋に落ちる筋書きですが
魅力的だけど謙虚なので
of our leading man's future babies.
ふさわしいタイプです
言われますが
that women have two roles,
existing within the same woman.
難しいことです
私がセックスの研究をしていることを
that I share with a new acquaintance
the conversation right then,
in studying the sexual behaviors
夫婦がとる性行動を
a different kind of response.
最初と違う反応を受けます
about studying sexual desire
オーガズムの研究なんてしてみたら?
話題性もあるよ」
that come to mind
in a survey of over 500 adults,
この質問をしたところ
「お腹」 「丸い」
他に何がありますか?
複雑性が大きく削がれてしまいます
partnered with is pregnant,
妊娠中だと想像してもらい
想像してもらい
to imagine that they are pregnant,
the first words that come to mind
どんな言葉が浮かぶか
"Not worth the risk."
「危険を冒すほどでない」
pregnant women and moms from sexuality,
セックスと切り離して考えられるため
of sexual objectification.
思うかもしれません
is a different kind of objectification.
性的モノ化が起こります
led to the Venus of Willendorf,
話になったことがあります
was a goddess of love and beauty,
愛と美の女神だと考え
the sculptor's obvious focus
強調されているという
considered ideal for nursing;
大きな乳房や
妊娠中と考えられるお腹
alluding to menstruation or birth.
月経や出産を連想させます
meant to be held or placed lying down
作られたとも考えられました
don't allow her to be freestanding.
立てておけないからです
that she was a representation of fertility
この小像は人をかたどったものではなく
of ideal beauty and love
who have interpreted her purpose
of the figurine herself.
学者たちについてだと思います
of men's sexual desire
and child-rearing role.
すげ替えられます
but only because she's pregnant. Right?
ただ単に妊婦だからという理由です
the Willendorf effect,
呼んでいますが
in many aspects of her life.
登場し 刷り込まれていきます
ever been visibly pregnant?
お腹が出たことのある方は?
touch your belly during pregnancy,
お腹を触られた方?
your permission first?
言われなかった方?
世話にもなっていない人から
your medical care provider?
などと言われたことは?
about your birth plan?
踏み込んだ質問をされたことは?
those choices are all wrong?
とまで言われたことは?
to bring you a glass of wine?
ウェイターに断られたことは?
まあ 聞いててください
I know, but stay with me.
in moderation during pregnancy.
安全なのです
pregnant women with this secret --
医者が思っているからです
or a woman of color.
有色人種の女性に対しては特にそうです
it's also classist and racist.
階級差別や人種差別も含まれていることです
the government reminds women
中絶を禁止する法案を次々と出して
その女性のものではないのだと
are not her own,
to have sex during pregnancy,
安全なのですが
and bodily autonomy
基本的なプライバシーを否定されるのです
to make her own decisions.
見られているのです
isn't worth the risk during pregnancy,
セックスする価値はないという発言は
her sexual pleasure doesn't matter.
言っているのと同じです
is that she in fact doesn't matter,
どうでもいいという意味なのです
are not at odds with her own needs.
害にならないはずなのにです
of Obstetricians and Gynecologists
教えることができる立場にありますが
about the safety of sex during pregnancy.
no public official statement
妊娠中のセックスの安全性について
is generally positive
概ね肯定的な見解ですが
have sex throughout pregnancy,
セックスしても安全ですが
to have sex during pregnancy,
女性もいるでしょう
to have sex during pregnancy,
女性もいるでしょう
is society telling women
社会が女性に対し
with their bodies.
口出しすることです
identity-less vessels of reproduction
一人で立つこともできない—
their sexual pleasure doesn't matter.
あらゆる女性が言われていることです
that women who have sex with women
子供が欲しくない女性は
want children even exist.
認められていないのです
to come along."
と言われます
against society's insistence
男性の快楽や生殖に限られると
her sexual needs is scary,
恐ろしいものなのです
her sexual needs prioritizes herself.
まず先に考えるからです
that she be treated as an equal.
主張するような女性であり
at the table of power,
要求するような女性であり
the extra space we hold.
諦めなければいけないからです
男性は女性を対等な存在として
to recognize women as equals
言い聞かせているし
実践してくれていますが
to reinforce what happens in our home.
世の中でも実践される必要があります
or a women's problem.
女性の問題でもなく
in dismantling systems of inequality.
誰もが その一端を担うのです
to stop telling women
自分の体にしていいことや
with their bodies.
押し付けるのはやめましょう
like community property.
扱うのもやめましょう
don't even ask to touch her belly.
お腹を触っていいか聞くのすら失礼です
what she can and cannot eat.
指図しないでください
about her medical decisions.
詮索しないでください
personally against abortion,
闘ったっていいのです
for a woman's right to choose.
the two need not oppose one another.
この2つのニーズは相反しません
聞いてあげてください
as early as possible,
セックスについて話してあげてください
in the dictionary anymore.
辞書で引くような時代ではありません
those conversations about sex,
子供に話すときには
こだわらないでください
because it feels good.
セックスするのです
you have children or not,
that doesn't shame our teenagers.
総合的な性教育を支援しましょう
恥だと思わせたところで
いい結果は何一つ生まれません
and pregnancy tests.
性感染症や妊娠検査の結果くらいです
we are all given the opportunity
不平等のパターンを乱すチャンスを
that it's worth the trouble to do so.
誰もが 思えるはずです
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Sofia Jawed-Wessel - Sex researcherSofia Jawed-Wessel's teachings utilize a sex-positive and pleasure-inclusive approach to providing medically accurate, comprehensive sexuality education.
Why you should listen
Dr. Sofia Jawed-Wessel teaches and generates new knowledge in the area of public health through scientific studies. Her research has focused on understanding and improving the sexual health of women and couples as they transition into parenthood by documenting sexual behaviors, sexual function, relationship adjustment and overall sexual changes during pregnancy and after childbirth. Jawed-Wessel's teachings utilize a sex-positive and pleasure-inclusive approach to providing medically accurate, comprehensive sexuality education to undergraduate students as well as in the local Omaha, Nebraska community. She teaches graduate level courses such as Research Methods, Health Behavior Theory, and Leadership and Advocacy. Jawed-Wessel also fights for women's rights and reproductive justice. She has provided expert testimony for the Nebraska Unicameral, the Nebraska School Board of Education and the Omaha Public School Board of Education. She has successfully argued in favor of comprehensive sex education in Omaha Public Schools and fought against restrictive anti-choice legislation in Nebraska.
Jawed-Wessel is an Assistant Professor in the School of Health, Physical Education and Recreation at the University of Nebraska at Omaha (UNO) and the Associate Director of the Midlands Sexual Health Research Collaborative. She also holds a joint appointment with the Women and Gender Studies program at UNO and a courtesy appointment in the College of Public Health at the University of Nebraska Medical Center. Jawed-Wessel holds both a Master of Science in Public Health (MPH) degree and a Doctor of Philosophy (PhD) degree in Health Behavior from the School of Public Health at Indiana University Bloomington.
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