Andrew Solomon: How the worst moments in our lives make us who we are
Endru Solomon (Andrew Solomon): Kako nas najteži trenuci u našim životima čine onim što jesmo
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stvaranjem smisla.
sa raznim vrstama
multiple severe disabilities,
i teškim invaliditetima,
more than you can handle,'
sa čime možemo da se izborimo,'
had been some sort of error,
da je u pitanju
da se nisam sviđao Bobiju
događaje u životu
planove za karijeru
imala je 50 godina,
koji te je silovao?"
mislila s besom,
da uradi tu groznu stvar.
žrtva silovanja,
političke zatvorenike,
za prava ljudi
svojim tamničarima
svoje veštine meditacije.
do ključnog identiteta.
nego što sam očekivao
koji se dešavao
ispod glamura,"
potpuno ludi.
remotely approaching
što je i blizu
da budem strejt.
da zovem doktorima
da zovem vežbama
da zovem surogatima,
nakon što je upala u nevolju
dozvolila da imam
sa svim zadovoljstvima,
u slabostima", napisao je
poslanici Korinćanima,
sovjetskog podzemlja
zapravo je počivao
u društvo
mi je rekao:
da budemo umetnici, već anđeli."
front of one of the barricades,
ispred jedne od barikada,
osim da vas pregazimo."
zašto smo ovde."
Jeffersonian panegyric to democracy
u džefersonsku pohvalu demokratiji
da se okrenemo,
odakle smo došli."
od ružičastog uverenja
koja mu se suprotstavlja,
kao okosnicu
da me spasi od tuge.
na dva fronta:
kojima je dat problem
samo zato što je njihova.
jedni za druge.
to hate that part of myself
da mrzim taj deo sebe
da budem gej bez naglašavanja,
je ostavio prazninu
svoj lični dug melanholije,
će biti potrebne decenije.
će biti jednostavna činjenica,
da se gej ponos
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ili da mi odbiju boravak
koja su skoro
prava na brak,
na neprihvatljivim mestima,
što smo se sreli,
remarkable part of it to me.
manje izuzetna.
da izjavimo svoju ljubav
u njihovim životima,
objasnio mi je
radošću iz prošlosti.
ono do čega dolaziš
kome se raduješ
ili da sam sada mlad,
kojim sam se bavio
u običnim radostima,
brakove i porodice,
zapanjujuće sveži
Imaš četiri godine."
do ovog trenutka,
da mogu da ga promenim.
ko želi da konfiskuje
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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Andrew Solomon - WriterAndrew Solomon writes about politics, culture and psychology.
Why you should listen
Andrew Solomon is a writer, lecturer and Professor of Clinical Psychology at Columbia University. He is president of PEN American Center. He writes regularly for The New Yorker and the New York Times.
Solomon's newest book, Far and Away: Reporting from the Brink of Change, Seven Continents, Twenty-Five Years was published in April, 2016. His previous book, Far From the Tree: Parents, Children, and the Search for Identity won the National Book Critics Circle award for nonfiction, the Wellcome Prize and 22 other national awards. It tells the stories of parents who not only learn to deal with their exceptional children but also find profound meaning in doing so. It was a New York Times bestseller in both hardcover and paperback editions. Solomon's previous book, The Noonday Demon: An Atlas of Depression, won the 2001 National Book Award for Nonfiction, was a finalist for the 2002 Pulitzer Prize and was included in The Times of London's list of one hundred best books of the decade. It has been published in twenty-four languages. Solomon is also the author of the novel A Stone Boat and of The Irony Tower: Soviet Artists in a Time of Glasnost.
Solomon is an activist in LGBT rights, mental health, education and the arts. He is a member of the boards of directors of the National LGBTQ Force and Trans Youth Family Allies. He is a member of the Board of Visitors of Columbia University Medical Center, serves on the National Advisory Board of the Depression Center at the University of Michigan, is a director of Columbia Psychiatry and is a member of the Advisory Board of the Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance. Solomon also serves on the boards of the Metropolitan Museum of Art, Yaddo and The Alex Fund, which supports the education of Romani children. He is also a fellow of Berkeley College at Yale University and a member of the New York Institute for the Humanities and the Council on Foreign Relations.
Solomon lives with his husband and son in New York and London and is a dual national. He also has a daughter with a college friend; mother and daughter live in Texas but visit often.
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