Michele L. Sullivan: Asking for help is a strength, not a weakness
ミシェル・L・サリバン: 助けを求められるのは強みであり、弱みではない
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that we remember so vividly.
鮮明に記憶に残る出来事があるものです
was when I was entering kindergarten.
幼稚園に入ったときの出来事です
and by golly, it was my time.
ついに私の時代がやってきたのです
with a warm welcome,
little cubbyholes, don't we --
忘れられないですよね
「皆のところに行って
until class starts."
お友だちと遊んでおいで」
and plopped down like I owned the place,
我が物顔で腰を下ろしました
with blue shorts.
言ったのです
I didn't think he was talking to me.
話しかけられていると気づかなくて
もっと大きな声で言います
Let's just play. We're happy.
楽しいじゃない
and about a minute later,
でも1分ほどすると
in a white shirt and a pink skirt,
白いシャツとピンクのスカートの女の子が
腰に手を当てて言いました
why do you look so different?"
あんたは そんなに違うのよ」
「何のことよ?
Again, let's just play."
いいから遊びましょうよ」
all around the circle I was in,
まわりを ぐるっと見渡すと
and they were all looking at me.
私のことをじっと見ていました
it would be "OMG" or "WTF."
「なんてこった!」というところです
that I went in with that morning
教室に入ってきたのに
その自信は崩れ去り
before I went home,
家に帰る前のこと
輪にしましたが
outside of the circle.
理解できませんでした
感じるようになり
like nobody could see me.
両親の後ろに隠れたものです
another child's curiosity,
分からなければ
理解できません
that the real world was not built
この世の中は 物理的にも精神的にも
both literally or figuratively.
できていない ということを
as you can probably tell,
私は匿名ではいられないのです
through our lifetime.
立ち向かっています
目に見えるものもあります
with a mental illness,
with their gender identity,
分かりません
闘っていると分かったとしても
or what I go through.
真に理解したことにはなりません
walk in someone else's shoes,
そもそも できないと思うんです
a new way of giving of ourselves.
学ばねばなりません
what it's like to be you
どんなか知りえませんし
what it's like to be me.
どんなか知りえないのです
or chase your dreams,
私にはできませんし
できません
支え合うことはできるでしょう
in each other's shoes,
of giving of ourselves.
学ばねばならないのです
different than most people,
と気づきました
I was on equal footing with,
あることを知りました
I excelled in the classroom.
良い成績をおさめました
I discovered as I grew older
大きくなるにつれ 実感しました
to do a physical job.
学士号を取得しました
of everyone for employment,
皆より もう一歩先に行き
an advanced university degree,
What am I going to wear?
何を着ていこう?
who I've known all my life
the building you're going in has steps."
階段があるわよ」
教えてくれたのです
心配せねばなりません
about how am I going to get there?
and got in and had a great interview.
会場にたどり着き 面接は成功しました
for the day and that's OK.
それで良いのです
challenge that day was the interview,
その日 私の最大の挑戦は面接か
とお思いでしょう
without getting run over.
ひかれずに行くことでした
in certain situations:
すごく危険な状況があるのです
素早く動かないといけません
I travel quite a bit.
かなりの出張をこなしています
for all of us these days.
出張は ある種の挑戦でしょう
run through security, get to the gate.
搭乗口へ行きますよね
Did I get my upgrade?
アップグレードされたかと思いながら
I don't run through anything.
何も通り抜けません
通りません
the personal patdown.
受けないといけないからです
that my parents said I was born with,
"By the way, my scooter weighs this much,
「ねえ このスクーターはこんなに重いの
to the door of the plane."
the city where I'm traveling to
出張先の街に電話して
in case mine gets broken on the way.
自分のが壊れたときのためにね
it's a little bit different.
ちょっと違うでしょう
to put my bag up, and they graciously do.
荷物を上にあげてもらいますが 皆 親切です
get up and walk on the plane,
歩き回りたくないからです
it knocked and I answered.
私は応えました
I can't reach the lock."
鍵に手が届かなくて」とお願いしました
and the door flies open.
ドアがパーンと開き
that he was sitting right across from me,
ちょうど通路の反対側だと気づきました
私は そっと言いました
as much as I am?"
お互い様かしらね?」
not talking about it publicly, I am.
私は違います
到着までずっと話し込んでいました
our families, sports, work,
お互いについて知りました
someone put your bag up.
上にあげてもらったでしょう
with that embarrassment,
気まずい経験とともに
ではありません
私だってそうです
互いの考え方のはずです
in certain ways.
小さくて金髪の白人です
I start to talk to the agent.
職員の人と話し始めました
about their culture and so forth,
彼らの文化などについて聞きます
ないことに気づくと
getting up the steps."
助かるわ」
while we waited for the flight,
1時間ほどを共にし
過ごしました
for both of us that day.
変わりました
and wished me well,
幸運を祈ってくれました
to remember that experience more
ためらいを感じたことよりも
and there was a bit of hesitation.
より覚えていることになるでしょう
私は たくさんの助けを借ります
my friends, my colleagues
手助けしてくれたからです
that we all have a support system.
重要なことです
強みであって
生きていく上で助けが必要です
of other people's support systems.
ということです
お返ししないといけません
in our own successes,
果たす役割があるのは当然ですが
in other people's successes,
何ができるか考えないといけません
every single day.
日々 手を貸してくれた人たちがいるように
that we help each other,
placing people in silos
人々がますます
なってきています
物事の本質を見据え
という真実にです
that you cannot see.
私たちは抱えています
人生を生きることで
those experiences together
共有することができ
することができます
I mentioned earlier in my stories.
そうでした
あなたは
いられないのです
背を低くできないでしょう
courage and understanding,
勇気と理解を持ち
人を判断するのをやめて
on only what you can see.
想像してみてください
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Michele L. Sullivan - Social innovatorMichele L. Sullivan is known for her sustainable and collaborative approach to philanthropic investing.
Why you should listen
Michele L. Sullivan has held various globally influential leadership positions at Caterpillar during her 29-year career. She currently is Caterpillar's Director of Corporate Social Innovation and President of the Caterpillar Foundation, the philanthropic arm of Caterpillar Inc.
Throughout Sullivan's career, she has dramatically grown the reach, influence and impact of each role. Her time with the Caterpillar Foundation is no different. She has taken the Caterpillar Foundation from a transactional Foundation into a global and strategic Foundation. She has moved the Foundation from Corporate Social Responsibility into Corporate Social Innovation. This strategy places the human need first, not as an afterthought of profit. Sullivan is well known for her global expertise and sustainable and collaborative approach to philanthropic investing.
Sullivan strongly believes monumental and sustainable change in our largest global challenges can only happen through partnerships and collaboration between public, private and non-profit entities. This strategy resulted in the Caterpillar Foundation's transformation into one of the most influential corporate foundations and, ultimately, the launch of the Foundation's collaborative impact platform, Together.Stronger.
Determination and resilience have been present throughout Sullivan;s life. She endured many years of orthopedic surgeries and other challenges. She provided leadership starting in the Little Prairie Chapter of Little People of America as a teenager. She was named by Inside Philanthropy as one of the 50 most powerful women in philanthropy and she served as a US delegate to the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women. She is a member of the ONE board of directors and chairs the Greater Peoria Local Initiatives Support Corporation (LISC) Advisory Board. She earned her MBA from Bradley University, and she is the first woman to be President of the Caterpillar Foundation.
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