Michele L. Sullivan: Asking for help is a strength, not a weakness
Мишeл Л. Салливан: Тусламж хүсэх нь сул дорой биш, хүчтэй зан чанарын илрэл
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that we remember so vividly.
үлдсэн чухал үйл явдлууд байдаг.
was when I was entering kindergarten.
анхны тийм нэгэн мөч байлаа.
and by golly, it was my time.
жам ёсоор миний ээлж ирлээ.
өмдөө норгочихоогүй.
with a warm welcome,
little cubbyholes, don't we --
санаж байгаа биз дээ?
until class starts."
гэж хэллээ.
and plopped down like I owned the place,
ирж байгаа мэт сууж аваад
with blue shorts.
цэнхэр шорттой байсныг
I didn't think he was talking to me.
бодсонгүй тоглосоор л байв.
гэж асуулаа.
Let's just play. We're happy.
тоглоцгооё. Сайхан л байна шүү дээ.
and about a minute later,
минут орчмын дараа
in a white shirt and a pink skirt,
ягаан юбкатай охин
why do you look so different?"
харагдаад байгаа юм бэ?" гэв.
Би өөр биш.
Again, let's just play."
тоглоцгооё л доо" гэж хэллээ.
all around the circle I was in,
and they were all looking at me.
харж байгааг мэдэрсэн юм.
it would be "OMG" or "WTF."
эсвэл "WTF" гэсэн л болов уу.
that I went in with that morning
өөртөө итгэх итгэл минь
бага багаар алга болж,
before I went home,
outside of the circle.
буйгаа мэдэрч билээ.
явахыг үзэн яддаг байв.
мэдэрдэг байлаа.
like nobody could see me.
аав ээжийхээ араар нуугдана.
another child's curiosity,
томчуудын үл тоомсорлосон байдлыг
that the real world was not built
аль ч утгаараа над шиг хэмжээтэй хүмүүст
both literally or figuratively.
тодорхой болсоор байлаа.
as you can probably tell,
байдгийг та бүхэн анзаарсан байх.
through our lifetime.
саад бэрхшээлтэй тулгардаг.
with a mental illness,
шаналж байгааг,
with their gender identity,
чадахгүй зовж байгааг,
чадаж байгаа эсэхийг,
та бүхэн харж байна.
or what I go through.
юуг даван туулдгыг ойлгоно гэсэн үг биш.
хэлэхээр энд ирсэн юм.
walk in someone else's shoes,
орлуулж тавьж чадна гэдэгт би итгэдэггүй.
a new way of giving of ourselves.
шинэ арга замд суралцах хэрэгтэй.
what it's like to be you
чи байхыг мэдэж чадахгүй.
what it's like to be me.
би байхыг мэдэхгүй.
or chase your dreams,
мөрөөдлийг чинь дагаж чадахгүй.
in each other's shoes,
of giving of ourselves.
арга замд суралцах хэрэгтэй.
different than most people,
өөрөөр хийх ёстой гэдгээ мэдэх болсон.
I was on equal footing with,
бусадтай адилхан гэдгээ ойлгосон.
I excelled in the classroom.
маш сайн байсан юм.
I discovered as I grew older
хийж чадахгүй гэдгээ ойлгож байв.
to do a physical job.
дипломтой болсон ч
of everyone for employment,
өмнө байх ёстой гэдгээ мэдэж байлаа.
an advanced university degree,
хэрэгтэй байсан тул
What am I going to wear?
санаж байгаа биз дээ? Юу өмсөх вэ?
who I've known all my life
найз маань залгаад
the building you're going in has steps."
шатаар ордог юм байна" гэж хэлэв.
гэдгийг тэр мэднэ.
about how am I going to get there?
чухал асуудал болж хувирав.
and got in and had a great interview.
орж чадсан, ярилцлага ч амжилттай болсон.
for the day and that's OK.
мэдээгүйд би эмзэглээгүй ээ.
challenge that day was the interview,
хамгийн хүнд сорил нь ярилцлага, эсвэл
хэцүү сорил миний хувьд
without getting run over.
дээр тогтож явах байсан юм.
in certain situations:
маш эмзэг болдог.
машины зогсоол,
хурдан хөдлөх хэрэг гарна.
I travel quite a bit.
үе үе аялах хэрэгтэй болсон.
for all of us these days.
амаргүй зүйл болсон.
run through security, get to the gate.
гүйж гараад гарцан дээрээ очдог байх.
Did I get my upgrade?
Нэмэлт үйлчилгээ авсан бил үү гээд л...
I don't run through anything.
the personal patdown.
шалгуулах хэрэгтэй болдог.
that my parents said I was born with,
төрөлхийн ярих авьяасаа ашиглан
"By the way, my scooter weighs this much,
"Миний тэргэнцэр төдий хэмжээний жинтэй,
to the door of the plane."
the city where I'm traveling to
очих хот руугаа холбогдож
in case mine gets broken on the way.
хаанаас түрээсэлж болохыг асуудаг.
it's a little bit different.
бүх зүйл бага зэрэг өөр.
to put my bag up, and they graciously do.
өгөхийг гуйна, тэд ч дуртайяа тусална.
get up and walk on the plane,
алхаад яваад байхыг хүсдэггүй.
it knocked and I answered.
би аргагүй байдалд орсон.
I can't reach the lock."
хүрдэггүй ээ" гэж хүслээ.
and the door flies open.
сэвхийн онгойж хаалганы цаана
that he was sitting right across from me,
харалдаа сууж байсныг анзаарлаа.
газаргүй болсон харагдсан.
очоод аяархнаар асуув:
as much as I am?"
мартаж чадахгүй л байх даа?"
not talking about it publicly, I am.
ярихгүй л байгаа байх л даа.
өөрсдийнхөө талаар,
our families, sports, work,
someone put your bag up.
дээш тавиулахыг харсан.
хүсэцгээсэн.
with that embarrassment,
өгчихөөгүйд байгаа юм.
бодлын талаар санах байх.
in certain ways.
тэргэнцэртэй эмэгтэй.
I start to talk to the agent.
авъяасаараа нислэгийн ажилтантай ярилцан
about their culture and so forth,
бусад зүйлсийг асуух зуураа
байхгүй байгааг анзаарсан юм.
getting up the steps."
while we waited for the flight,
бид цаг гаран ярилцлаа.
for both of us that day.
тэр өдөр өөрчлөгдсөн.
and wished me well,
сайн сайхныг хүссэн юм.
талархсанаа илэрхийлсэн.
to remember that experience more
төрсөн эвгүй мэдрэмжээс илүү
and there was a bit of hesitation.
ой санаанд үлдэх байх.
авдгийг анзаарсан байх.
my friends, my colleagues
танихгүй хүмүүс байгаагүйсэн бол
надад тусалсаар ирсэн.
that we all have a support system.
дэмжиж байх нь маш чухал.
чадлын илрэл болохоос
туслалцаа хэрэг болдог.
of other people's support systems.
зарчимд суралцах хэрэгтэй.
in our own successes,
шалтгаална гэдэг нь ойлгомжтой.
in other people's successes,
чадна гэдгээ бодоод үзээрэй.
every single day.
тэдгээр хүмүүс шиг.
that we help each other,
гэдэг амин чухал зүйл.
placing people in silos
харилцаанд ан цав суусаар байдаг.
өөр болохыг ойлгох болно.
that you cannot see.
тулгардаг болохоор бидэнд хэцүү байдаг.
амьдарч чадвал
those experiences together
өөрчлөх боломжтой болно.
I mentioned earlier in my stories.
алхаж чадахгүйг мэднэ.
courage and understanding,
ойлголт ухаарал байхад
төдийгөөр шүүн дүгнэлгүй,
on only what you can see.
бодоод нэг үзээрэй!
ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Michele L. Sullivan - Social innovatorMichele L. Sullivan is known for her sustainable and collaborative approach to philanthropic investing.
Why you should listen
Michele L. Sullivan has held various globally influential leadership positions at Caterpillar during her 29-year career. She currently is Caterpillar's Director of Corporate Social Innovation and President of the Caterpillar Foundation, the philanthropic arm of Caterpillar Inc.
Throughout Sullivan's career, she has dramatically grown the reach, influence and impact of each role. Her time with the Caterpillar Foundation is no different. She has taken the Caterpillar Foundation from a transactional Foundation into a global and strategic Foundation. She has moved the Foundation from Corporate Social Responsibility into Corporate Social Innovation. This strategy places the human need first, not as an afterthought of profit. Sullivan is well known for her global expertise and sustainable and collaborative approach to philanthropic investing.
Sullivan strongly believes monumental and sustainable change in our largest global challenges can only happen through partnerships and collaboration between public, private and non-profit entities. This strategy resulted in the Caterpillar Foundation's transformation into one of the most influential corporate foundations and, ultimately, the launch of the Foundation's collaborative impact platform, Together.Stronger.
Determination and resilience have been present throughout Sullivan;s life. She endured many years of orthopedic surgeries and other challenges. She provided leadership starting in the Little Prairie Chapter of Little People of America as a teenager. She was named by Inside Philanthropy as one of the 50 most powerful women in philanthropy and she served as a US delegate to the United Nations Commission on the Status of Women. She is a member of the ONE board of directors and chairs the Greater Peoria Local Initiatives Support Corporation (LISC) Advisory Board. She earned her MBA from Bradley University, and she is the first woman to be President of the Caterpillar Foundation.
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