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Matthew O'Reilly: “Am I dying?” The honest answer.

馬修.歐瑞利: 面對「我快死了嗎?」的最誠實回答

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馬修.歐瑞利在紐約長島擔任緊急救護技術員,擁有豐富的經驗。在演說中歐瑞利敘述重傷病人問他:「我快死了嗎?」之後發生的事。
- Emergency medical technician
Matthew O’Reilly is a veteran emergency medical technician on Long Island, New York. Full bio

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I've been a critical危急 care關心 EMTEMT for the past過去
seven years年份 in Suffolk薩福克 County, New York紐約.
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我在紐約蘇福克郡擔任
重症緊急救護技術員至今七年了。
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I've been a first responder響應 in a number of incidents事故
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我是各種意外的第一線急救員,
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ranging不等 from car汽車 accidents事故 to Hurricane颶風 Sandy.
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從車禍到桑迪颶風都碰過。
如果你跟大家一樣,
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If you are like most people, death死亡 might威力 be
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死亡大概會是你最怕的事之一。
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one of your greatest最大 fears恐懼.
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Some of us will see it coming未來.
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有些人能料到自己將死;
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Some of us won't慣於.
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有些人不行。
有個醫學名詞鮮為人知,
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There is a little-known鮮為人知的 documented記錄 medical term術語
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called impending即將到來的 doom厄運.
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稱為瀕臨死亡。
那幾乎算是種症狀。
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It's almost幾乎 a symptom症狀.
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身為醫療人員,訓練讓我
以平常心面對這種症狀。
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As a medical provider提供商, I'm trained熟練 to respond響應
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to this symptom症狀 like any other,
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so when a patient患者 having a heart attack攻擊 looks容貌 at me
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因此當心臟病人看著我說:
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and says, "I'm going to die today今天,"
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「我今天就會死。」
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we are trained熟練 to reevaluate重新評估 the patient's耐心 condition條件.
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訓練要我們重新評估病人的情況。
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Throughout始終 my career事業, I have responded回應
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在我的職涯中,
我去過一些意外現場急救,
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to a number of incidents事故 where the patient患者
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當中有些病人還有幾分鐘可以活,
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had minutes分鐘 left to live生活
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and there was nothing I could do for them.
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而我卻無能為力。
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With this, I was faced面對 with a dilemma困境:
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因此我常面對進退兩難的問題:
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Do I tell the dying垂死 that they are about to face面對 death死亡,
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我要告訴臨終病患,他們快死了嗎?
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or do I lie謊言 to them to comfort安慰 them?
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還是我應該說謊來安撫他們?
我還是菜鳥時,
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Early in my career事業, I faced面對 this dilemma困境
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碰到這種問題只會說謊。
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by simply只是 lying說謊.
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I was afraid害怕.
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當時我很害怕。
我害怕如果我說了實話,
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I was afraid害怕 if I told them the truth真相,
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that they would die in terror恐怖, in fear恐懼,
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他們就會在害怕和恐懼中死去,
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just grasping for those last moments瞬間 of life.
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只能緊抓生命的最後時刻。
一場事件改變了我的觀點。
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That all changed with one incident事件.
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五年前,我到摩托車意外現場急救。
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Five years年份 ago, I responded回應 to a motorcycle摩托車 accident事故.
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The rider騎士 had suffered遭遇 critical危急, critical危急 injuries受傷.
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騎士受的傷非常嚴重。
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As I assessed評估 him, I realized實現 that there was nothing
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我評估他的傷勢,
發現完全束手無策,
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that could be doneDONE for him,
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就像許多傷患一樣,
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and like so many許多 other cases,
he looked看著 me in the eye
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他看著我的雙眼問那個問題:
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and asked that question: "Am I going to die?"
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「我要死了嗎?」
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In that moment時刻, I decided決定 to do something different不同.
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在那當下 ,我決定改變作法。
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I decided決定 to tell him the truth真相.
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我決定告訴他實情。
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I decided決定 to tell him that he was going to die
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我決定告訴他,他快死了,
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and that there was nothing I could do for him.
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而且我完全無能為力。
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His reaction反應 shocked吃驚 me to this day.
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他的反應至今仍讓我震驚。
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He simply只是 laid鋪設 back and had a look
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他只是躺在那,
臉上露出接受的表情。
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of acceptance驗收 on his face面對.
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他沒有面臨我想像中
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He was not met會見 with that terror恐怖 or fear恐懼
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that I thought he would be.
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那樣的恐懼和害怕。
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He simply只是 laid鋪設 there, and as I looked看著 into his eyes眼睛,
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他只是躺在那裡,
我在他的眼裡看見
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I saw inner peace和平 and acceptance驗收.
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接受與內心的平靜。
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From that moment時刻 forward前鋒, I decided決定
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從那個時刻開始,
我決定自己沒有立場
用謊言安撫垂死的人。
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it was not my place地點 to comfort安慰 the dying垂死 with my lies.
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Having responded回應 to many許多 cases since以來 then
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自此之後,我回覆許多臨終病患,
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where patients耐心 were in their last moments瞬間
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and there was nothing I could do for them,
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我無法幫他們做任何事,
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in almost幾乎 every一切 case案件,
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幾乎每一位病患
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they have all had the same相同 reaction反應 to the truth真相,
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面對實話的反應都一樣,
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of inner peace和平 and acceptance驗收.
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接受,以及內心的平靜。
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In fact事實, there are three patterns模式
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其實我在所有案例中
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I have observed觀察到的 in all these cases.
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觀察到三種模式。
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The first pattern模式 always kind of shocked吃驚 me.
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第一種總會讓我吃驚。
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Regardless而不管 of religious宗教 belief信仰 or cultural文化 background背景,
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不論哪種宗教信仰或是文化背景,
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there's a need for forgiveness饒恕.
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他們都需要饒恕。
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Whether是否 they call it sin
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不管他們自認犯了罪
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or they simply只是 say they have a regret後悔,
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或只是有個遺憾,
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their guilt有罪 is universal普遍.
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他們全都感到內疚。
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I had once一旦 cared照顧 for an elderly老年 gentleman紳士
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我照顧過一位年長紳士,
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who was having a massive大規模的 heart attack攻擊.
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他的心臟病發,非常嚴重。
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As I prepared準備 myself and my equipment設備
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我做好心理準備,打點好器材,
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for his imminent即將來臨 cardiac心臟的 arrest逮捕,
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因為他的心跳就快停止了。
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I began開始 to tell the patient患者 of his imminent即將來臨 demise讓位.
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我開始告訴他,死亡即將降臨。
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He already已經 knew知道 by my tone
of voice語音 and body身體 language語言.
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他從我的聲調和動作中
已經預知了這件事。
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As I placed放置 the defibrillator除顫器 pads on his chest胸部,
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我把電擊器放在他胸前,
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prepping預備 for what was going to happen發生,
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準備好面對即將發生的事。
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he looked看著 me in the eye and said,
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他直視著我的雙眼說:
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"I wish希望 I had spent花費 more time with
my children孩子 and grandchildren孫子
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「我好希望過去
能多花點時間陪陪兒孫,
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instead代替 of being存在 selfish自私 with my time."
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而不是自私地享受獨處時光。」
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Faced面對 with imminent即將來臨 death死亡,
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面對即將來臨的死亡,
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all he wanted was forgiveness饒恕.
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他只想要得到原諒。
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The second第二 pattern模式 I observe
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我觀察到的第二種模式
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is the need for remembrance紀念.
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就是被緬懷的需要。
不論是在我或是
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Whether是否 it was to be remembered記得 in my thoughts思念
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他的愛人記憶中被緬懷。
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or their loved喜愛 ones'那些', they needed需要 to feel
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他們都需要感到生命能延續。
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that they would be living活的 on.
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There's a need for immortality不朽
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他們需要永恆不朽地
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within the hearts心中 and thoughts思念 of their loved喜愛 ones那些,
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存在愛人的心裡和腦海中,
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myself, my crew船員, or anyone任何人 around.
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或是在我、同仁或任何人的心上。
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Countless無數 times, I have had a
patient患者 look me in the eyes眼睛
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有無數次,病人看著我的雙眼問:
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and say, "Will you remember記得 me?"
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「你會記得我嗎?」
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The final最後 pattern模式 I observe
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我觀察到的最後一種模式
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always touched感動 me the deepest最深, to the soul靈魂.
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總會觸動我的內心深處,
觸動我的靈魂。
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The dying垂死 need to know that their life had meaning含義.
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他們渴望知道自己的生命有意義。
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They need to know that they did not waste浪費 their life
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他們需要知道自己沒有浪費生命
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on meaningless無意義的 tasks任務.
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在無意義的事情上。
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This came來了 to me very, very early in my career事業.
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這種情況在我入行沒多久就出現了。
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I had responded回應 to a call.
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我曾接過一個急救任務,
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There was a female in her late晚了 50s
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有位快 60 歲的女性,
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severely嚴重 pinned固定 within a vehicle車輛.
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被卡在車裡動彈不得。
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She had been t-bonedT-去骨 at a high rate of speed速度,
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她的車子從側邊被高速撞上,
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critical危急, critical危急 condition條件.
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情況非常危急。
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As the fire department worked工作
to remove去掉 her from the car汽車,
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消防隊要從車子裡救出她的同時,
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I climbed爬上 in to begin開始 to render給予 care關心.
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我爬進去開始急救。
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As we talked, she had said to me,
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我們對話時,她對我說:
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"There was so much more
I wanted to do with my life."
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「我這輩子還有好多事情想做。」
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She had felt she had not left her mark標記 on this Earth地球.
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她覺得還沒在這世上留下印記。
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As we talked further進一步, it would turn out
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我們談得更深入後,
我才知道她領養了兩個小孩,
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that she was a mother母親 of two adopted採用 children孩子
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who were both on their way to medical school學校.
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而且他們都準備要唸醫學院。
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Because of her, two children孩子
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因為她,這兩個小孩
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had a chance機會 they never would have had otherwise除此以外
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擁有本來不可能得到的機會。
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and would go on to save保存 lives生活 in the medical field領域
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而且還能從醫,拯救許多生命,
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as medical doctors醫生.
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結果花了 45 分鐘,
才將她從車子裡救出來。
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It would end結束 up taking服用 45 minutes分鐘
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to free自由 her from the vehicle車輛.
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However然而, she perished遇難 prior to freeing自由化 her.
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但是她在那之前就已經死了。
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I believed相信 what you saw in the movies電影:
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我過去相信電影上演的:
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when you're in those last moments瞬間
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你在臨終前
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that it's strictly嚴格 terror恐怖, fear恐懼.
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會感到非常恐懼、 害怕。
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I have come to realize實現,
regardless而不管 of the circumstance環境,
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後來我才了解,不論在什麼情況下,
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it's generally通常 met會見 with peace和平 and acceptance驗收,
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通常都會變得平靜也能接受。
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that it's the littlest點點 things, the littlest點點 moments瞬間,
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是最微不足道的那些事、那些時刻,
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the littlest點點 things you brought into the world世界
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你帶到世上最微不足道的那些事,
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that give you peace和平 in those final最後 moments瞬間.
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讓你在臨終時刻得到平靜。
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Thank you.
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謝謝。
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(Applause掌聲)
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(掌聲)
Translated by Marssi Draw
Reviewed by Justine Bai

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Matthew O'Reilly - Emergency medical technician
Matthew O’Reilly is a veteran emergency medical technician on Long Island, New York.

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 When first responders are honest with the gravely injured, what happens? Watch this short, moving talk to find out.

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