ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Khadija Gbla - Cross-cultural consultant
Khadija Gbla was born in Sierra Leone, spent her youth in Gambia, and as a teenager put down roots in Australia. She uses her cross-cultural heritage to promote understanding in both directions.

Why you should listen

Khadija Gbla was just 3-years-old when the war broke out in her country, Sierra Leone. While her family initially escaped to Gambia, 10 years later they attained refugee status and resettled in Adelaide, Australia. The transition was complex—Khadija experienced racism, illness and depression—but threw herself into her education. She discovered that she had a unique talent: the ability to translate across two very different cultures.

Khadija first used this talent as a peer educator for South Australia’s Women’s Heath Statewide program, where she talked to health professionals about female genital mutilation — helping them understand what it is, where it happens, and the cultural beliefs that surround it. She’s since used her multicultural voice to offer advice on policy through South Australian Government Minister’s Youth Council, to organize camps and activities for newly-arrived refugees and to raise awareness about both sexual and mental health issues among her peers. She has represented Australia in the international arena at the Harvard National Model United Nations, Commonwealth Youth Forum and Australian and Africa Dialogue, and speaks regularly at a wide variety of events to make sure that her perspective is heard.

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Khadija Gbla: My mother’s strange definition of empowerment

Kadidža Gbla (Khadija Gbla): Čudna definicija osnaživanja moje majke

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Kadidža Gbla je odrasla među dve definicije toga šta znači biti "osnažena žena". Dok je njena majka iz Sijera Leonea smatrala da je njeno obrezivanje - i gušenje njenih seksualnih nagona - najveći oblik osnaživanja, njena kultura kao tinejdžera u Australiji joj je govorila da zaslužuje zadovoljstvo i da se ono što se njoj dogodilo zove "sakaćenjem ženskih genitalija". U iskrenom i duhovitom govoru, ona deli kako je bilo naći svoj put u "klitoris-centričnom društvu" i kako radi da bi se postarala da druge žene ne moraju to da otkriju. (Upozorenje: ovaj govor sadrži detalje koje nije lako slušati).
- Cross-cultural consultant
Khadija Gbla was born in Sierra Leone, spent her youth in Gambia, and as a teenager put down roots in Australia. She uses her cross-cultural heritage to promote understanding in both directions. Full bio

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HiZdravo.
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Zdravo.
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TodayDanas I'm going to shareОбјави
my personalлични journeyпутовање
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Danas ću podeliti svoj lični put
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with femaleзенски пол genitalгенитал mutilationмутилација, FGMFGM.
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sa sakaćem ženskih genitalija, SŽG.
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Feel freeбесплатно to cryплач, laughсмех, crossкрст your legsноге,
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Slobodno plačite, smejte se,
prekrstite noge,
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or do anything your bodyтело feelsосећа like doing.
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ili radite šta god da se vašem telu radi.
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I'm not going to nameиме
the things your bodyтело does.
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Neću imenovati ono što vaše telo radi.
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I was bornрођен in SierraSijera LeoneLeone.
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Rođena sam u Sijera Leoneu.
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Did anybodyбило ко watch "BloodKrv DiamondDijamant"?
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Da li je neko gledao "Krvavi dijamant"?
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If you have any thoughtsмисли --
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Ako imate bilo kakvih pomisli -
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I don't have any diamondsдијаманти
on me, by the way.
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nemam dijamante na sebi, uzgred.
00:42
If you have heardслушао of EbolaEbola,
well, that's in SierraSijera LeoneLeone as well.
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Ako ste čuli za ebolu,
to je takođe u Sijera Leoneu.
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I don't have EbolaEbola. You're all safeсигурно.
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Ja nemam ebolu. Bezbedni ste.
00:47
Don't rushжурба to the doorврата.
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Ne jurite ka vratima.
00:48
Be seatedседи. You're fine.
I was checkedцхецкед before I got here.
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Ostanite u sedištu. U redu je.
Pregledana sam
pre nego što sam došla ovde.
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My grandfatherдеда had threeтри wivesжене.
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Moj deda je imao tri žene.
Ne pitajte me zašto
čoveku treba više od jedne žene.
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Don't askпитати me why a man
needsпотребе more than one wifeжена.
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MenLjudi, do you need more than one wifeжена?
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Muškarci, da li vam treba
više od jedne žene?
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I don't think so. There you go.
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Ne bih rekla. Eto.
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He was looking for a heartсрце attackнапад,
that's what I say.
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Tražio je srčani udar, kažem ja.
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Oh yeah, he was.
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O da, tražio ga je.
01:08
When I was threeтри, warрат brokeсломио out
in SierraSijera LeoneLeone in 1991.
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Kada sam imala tri godine, izbio je rat
u Sijera Leoneu 1991. godine.
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I rememberзапамтити literallyбуквално going to bedкревет
one night, everything was good.
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Sećam se bukvalno da sam jedne noći
otišla u krevet, sve je bilo dobro.
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The nextследећи day, I wokeпробудио се up,
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Sledećeg dana, probudila sam se,
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bombsбомбе were droppingopada everywhereсвуда,
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bombe su padale na sve strane,
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and people were tryingпокушавајући
to killубиј me and my familyпородица.
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i ljudi su pokušavali
da ubiju mene i moju porodicu.
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We escapedпобегла the warрат and endedзавршио up
in GambiaGambija, in WestZapad AfricaAfrika.
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Pobegli smo od rata i završili u Gambiji,
u zapadnoj Africi.
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EbolaEbola is there as well. StayOstani away from it.
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Ebola je i tamo.
Držite se podalje odatle.
Dok smo tamo boravili kao izbeglice,
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While we were there as refugeesизбеглице,
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we didn't know what
was going to becomeпостати of us.
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nismo znali šta će biti sa nama.
Moja mama se prijavila
za status izbeglice.
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My momмама appliedпримењено for refugeeизбеглица statusстатус.
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She's a wonderfulДивно, smartпаметан womanжена, that one,
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Ona je divna, pametna žena,
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and we were luckyСрећно.
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i imali smo sreće.
01:42
AustraliaAustralija said, we will take you in.
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Australija je rekla: primam vas.
01:45
Good jobпосао, AussiesAustralijanci.
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Bravo Australijanci.
01:48
Before we were meantмислио to travelпутовање,
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Pre nego što je trebalo da otputujemo,
moja mama je došla kući
jednog dana i rekla:
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my momмама cameДошао home one day, and said,
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"We're going on
a little holidayодмор, a little tripпутовање."
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"Idemo na mali odmor, malo putovanje."
01:56
She put us in a carауто,
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Smestila nas je u auto,
01:57
and we droveвозио for hoursсати
and endedзавршио up in a bushгрм
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vozili smo se satima i završili u grmu
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in a remoteремоте areaподручје in GambiaGambija.
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u udaljenoj oblasti Gambije.
02:05
In this bushгрм, we foundнашао two hutsколибе.
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U tom grmu smo našli dve kolibe.
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An oldстари ladyдама cameДошао towardsка us.
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Prišla nam je starija dama.
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She was ethnic-lookingetničkoj pripadnosti u potrazi, very oldстари.
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Bila je etničkog izgleda, veoma stara.
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She had a chatЋаскање with my momмама, and wentотишао back.
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Proćaskala je sa mojom mamom i vratila se.
02:17
Then she cameДошао back and walkedходао
away from us into a secondдруго hutхут.
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Onda se vratila i otišla u drugu kolibu.
02:22
I'm standingстојећи there thinkingразмишљање,
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Stojim ja tamo i mislim:
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"This is very confusingзбуњујуће.
I don't know what's going on."
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"Ovo je vrlo zbunjujuće.
Ne znam šta se dešava."
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The nextследећи thing I knewзнала,
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Sledeće čega se sećam,
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my momмама tookузела me into this hutхут.
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mama me vodi u tu kolibu.
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She tookузела my clothesОдећа off,
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Skinula mi je odeću
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and then she pinnedprikačen me down on the floorпод.
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i zatim me je prikovala za pod.
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I struggledборио се and triedПокушали
to get her off me, but I couldn'tније могао.
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Borila sam se i pokušala da je sklonim
sa sebe, ali nisam mogla.
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Then the oldстари ladyдама cameДошао towardsка me
with a rusty-lookingRasti u potrazi knifeнож,
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Onda mi je starica prišla
sa nožem koji je izgledao zarđalo,
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one of the sharpоштар knivesnoževi,
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jednim od oštrih noževa,
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orange-lookingOrange u potrazi, has never seenвиђено
waterвода or sunlightсунчева светлост before.
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nalik narandžastoj, nikada nije video vodu
niti svetlost dana.
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I thought she was going to slaughterpokolj me,
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Mislila sam da će me zaklati,
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but she didn't.
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ali nije.
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She slowlyполако slidSkliznuo down my bodyтело
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Polako se spustila niz moje telo
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and endedзавршио up where my vaginaвагина is.
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i došla do moje vagine.
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She tookузела holdдржати of what I now know
to be my clitorisklitoris,
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Uzela je ono za šta sada znam
da je bio moj klitoris,
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she tookузела that rustyзарђати knifeнож,
and startedпочела cuttingсечење away, inchинч by inchинч.
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uzela je taj zarđali nož
i počela da seče, komad po komad.
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I screamedвришти, I criedplakao,
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Vrištala sam i plakala,
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and askedпитао my momмама to get off me
so this painбол will stop,
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molila sam mamu da siđe sa mene
da bi bol prestao,
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but all she did was say, "Be quietтихо."
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ali samo je rekla: "Budi mirna."
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This oldстари ladyдама sawedNe znam gde away at my fleshmeso
for what feltосетио like foreverзаувек,
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Starica je strugala moje meso,
činilo se, čitavu večnost,
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and then when she was doneГотово,
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i onda kada je završila,
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she threwбацила that pieceпиеце of fleshmeso
acrossпреко the floorпод
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bacila je to parče mesa na pod
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as if it was the mostнајвише disgustingодвратан thing
she's ever touchedдодирнуо.
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kao da je to najodvratnija stvar
koju je ikada dodirnula.
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They bothи једно и друго got off me,
and left me there bleedingкрварење,
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Obe su se sklonile od mene
i ostavile me tu da krvarim,
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cryingplakanje, and confusedзбуњено
as to what just happenedдесило.
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plačem, zbunjena zbog toga
što se upravo dogodilo.
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We never talkedпричао about this again.
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Nikada nismo više pričale o tome.
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Very soonускоро, we foundнашао
that we were comingдолазе to AustraliaAustralija,
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Ubrzo potom smo saznali
da idemo u Australiju,
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and this is when you had
the SydneySydney OlympicsOlimpijske igre at the time,
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a u to vreme su se održavale
Olimpijske igre u Sidneju,
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and people said we were going
to the endкрај of the worldсвет,
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i ljudi su govorili
da idemo na kraj sveta,
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there was nowhereНигде elseдруго
to go after AustraliaAustralija.
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da nema više gde da se ode
posle Australije.
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Yeah, that comfortedutehu us a bitмало.
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Da, to nas je malo utešilo.
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It tookузела us threeтри daysдана to get here.
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Trebalo nam je tri dana da stignemo ovde.
04:11
We wentотишао to SenegalSenegal, then FranceFrancuska,
and then SingaporeSingapur.
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Išli smo u Senegal, zatim Francusku,
i onda Singapur.
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We wentотишао to the bathroomкупатило to washпрање our handsруке.
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Išli smo u kupatilo da peremo ruke.
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We spentпотрошено 15 minutesминута
openingотварање the tapславина like this.
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Proveli smo 15 minuta
uključujući česmu ovako.
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Then somebodyнеко cameДошао in,
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Onda je neko ušao,
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slidSkliznuo theirњихова handруку underиспод and waterвода cameДошао out,
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gurnuo ruke ispod i voda je krenula,
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and we thought, is this what we're in for?
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i pomislili smo, zar smo zbog toga ovde?
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Like, seriouslyозбиљно.
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Mislim, stvarno.
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We got to AdelaideAdelaide, smallмали placeместо,
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Došli smo u Adelejd, malo mesto,
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where literallyбуквално they dumpedдумпед us
in AdelaideAdelaide, that's what I would say.
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gde su nas bukvalno istovarili,
tako bih ja rekla.
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They dumpedдумпед us there.
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Istovarili su nas tamo.
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We were very gratefulзахвални.
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Bili smo vrlo zahvalni.
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We settledсеттлед and we likedволи it.
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Nastanili smo se i svidelo nam se.
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We were like, "We're home, we're here."
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Bili smo u fazonu: "Kod kuće smo, tu smo."
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Then somebodyнеко tookузела us to RundleRundle MallTržni centar.
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Onda nas je neko odveo
u Randl tržni centar.
Adelejd ima samo jedan tržni centar.
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AdelaideAdelaide has only one mallтржни центар.
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It's this smallмали placeместо.
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To je malo mesto.
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And we saw a lot of AsianAzijski people.
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I videli smo mnogo Azijata.
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My momмама said all of a suddenизненадан, panickingu panici,
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Moja mama je rekla iznenada, u panici:
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"You broughtдоведен us to the wrongпогрешно placeместо.
You mustмора take us back to AustraliaAustralija."
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"Doveli ste nas na pogrešno mesto.
Morate da nas vratite u Australiju."
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Yeah. It had to be explainedобјаснио је to her that
there were a lot of AsiansAzijati in AustraliaAustralija
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Da. Moralo je da joj se objasni
da ima mnogo Azijata u Australiji
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and we were in the right placeместо.
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i da smo na pravom mestu.
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So fine, it's all good.
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Tako da je sve bilo u redu.
Moja mama je onda imala briljantnu ideju
05:13
My momмама then had this brilliantбрилијантно ideaидеја
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05:15
that I should go to a girlsдевојке schoolшкола
because they were lessмање racistрасистички.
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da treba da idem u školu za devojčice
jer su one manje rasistički naklonjene.
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I don't know where she readчитати
that publicationпубликација. (LaughterSmeh)
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Ne znam gde je pročitala tu brošuru.
(Smeh)
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Never foundнашао evidenceдоказ of it to this day.
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Do danas nisam našla dokaz u prilog tome.
05:25
Six6 hundredсто whiteбео kidsклинци,
and I was the only blackцрн childдете there.
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Šest stotina bele dece,
a ja sam bila jedino crno dete tamo.
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No, I was the only personособа
with a bitмало of a colorбоја on me.
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Ne, bila sam jedina osoba
sa malo boje na sebi.
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Let me say that. ChocolateČokolada colorбоја.
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Da vam kažem. Čokoladna boja.
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There were no AsiansAzijati, no indigenousдомородан.
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Nije bilo Azijata niti domorodaca.
Imali smo samo neke preplanule devojčice,
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All we had was some tanTan girlsдевојке,
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girlsдевојке who feltосетио the need
to be underиспод the sunсунце.
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devojčice koje su imale potrebu
da budu pod suncem.
05:41
It wasn'tније the sameисти as my chocolateчоколада,
thoughипак. Not the sameисти.
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Nije bilo isto kao moja čokoladna boja.
Nije bilo isto.
05:45
SettlingRešavanja in AustraliaAustralija was quiteприлично hardтешко,
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Nastanjivanje u Australiji
je bilo prilično teško,
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but it becameпостао harderтеже when I startedпочела
volunteeringvolontiranje for an organizationорганизација
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ali je postalo teže kada sam počela
da volontiram za organizaciju
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calledпозвани Women'sŽenski HealthZdravlje StatewideSirom drzave,
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po imenu Zdravlje žena širom zemlje,
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and I joinedПридружио theirњихова
femaleзенски пол genitalгенитал mutilationмутилација programпрограм
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i priključila se njihovom programu
genitalnog sakaćenja žena
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withoutбез any awarenessсвесност of what
this programпрограм was actuallyзаправо about,
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bez svesti o tome
o čemu je program zapravo,
06:02
or that it relatedповезан to me in any way.
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ili da ima veze sa mnom
na bilo koji način.
06:04
I spentпотрошено monthsмесеци educatingобразовање
nursesмедицинске сестре and doctorsдоктори
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Provela sam mesece edukujući
medicinske sestre i doktore
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about what femaleзенски пол genitalгенитал mutilationмутилација was
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o tome šta je žensko genitalno sakaćenje
06:10
and where it was practicedvezbali:
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i gde se upražnjava:
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AfricaAfrika, the MiddleSrednje EastIstok, AsiaAsia,
and now, AustraliaAustralija and LondonLondon and AmericaAmerika,
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u Africi, Srednjem istoku, Aziji,
i sada i u Australiji, Londonu i Americi,
06:16
because, as we all know,
we liveживи in a multiculturalMultikulturni societyдруштво,
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jer, kao što svi znamo,
živimo u multikulturalnom društvu,
06:20
and people who come from those backgroundsбацкгроундс
come with theirњихова cultureкултура,
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ljudi koji dolaze iz tih sredina
dolaze sa svojom kulturom,
06:24
and sometimesпонекад they have culturalкултурно practicesprakse
that we mayможе not agreeдоговорити се with,
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i ponekad imaju kulturalne običaje
sa kojima se možemo ne slagati,
06:30
but they continueНастави to practiceпракса them.
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ali nastavljaju da ih obavljaju.
06:33
One day, I was looking at the chartграфикон
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Jednog dana, gledala sam prikaz
06:35
of the differentразличит typesврсте
of femaleзенски пол genitalгенитал mutilationмутилација,
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različitih tipova
sakaćenja ženskih genitalija.
06:38
FGMFGM, I will just say FGMFGM for shortкратак.
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SŽG, govoriću SŽG skraćeno.
06:41
TypeTip I is when they cutрез off the hoodHud.
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Tip I je kada odseku kapicu.
06:44
TypeTip IIII is when
they cutрез off the wholeцела clitorisklitoris
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Tip II je kada odseku ceo klitoris
06:47
and some of your labiavaginalne usne majoraмајора,
or your outerспољашњи lipsусне,
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i nešto od velikih polnih usana,
ili spoljnih usmina,
06:52
and TypeTip IIIIII is when they
cutрез off the wholeцела clitorisklitoris
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a tip III je kada odseku ceo klitoris
06:54
and then they sewшивати you up
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i onda vas zašiju
06:56
so you only have a little holeрупа
to peeпишкити and have your periodраздобље.
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tako da imate samo malu rupu
da piškite i da imate menstuaciju.
07:00
My eyesочи wentотишао ontoна TypeTip IIII.
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Oči su mi krenule ka tipu II.
07:03
Before all of this,
I prettyприлично much had amnesiaamnezija.
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Pre svega ovoga,
uglavnom sam imala amneziju.
07:05
I was in so much shockшок
and traumatizedtraumatizovan by what had happenedдесило,
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Bila sam u tolikom šoku
i traumatizovana time što se dogodilo,
07:08
I didn't rememberзапамтити any of it.
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da se nisam sećala ničeg od toga.
07:10
Yes, I was awareсвесна something badлоше
happenedдесило to me,
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Da, bila sam svesna
da mi se dogodilo nešto loše,
07:13
but I had no recollectionsecanje
of what had happenedдесило.
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ali nisam imala sećanje
na to šta se dogodilo.
07:15
I knewзнала I had a scarožiljak down there,
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Znala sam da imam ožiljak tamo dole,
07:17
but I thought everybodyсвима
had a scarožiljak down there.
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ali sam mislilila da svi imaju ožiljak tu.
07:19
This had happenedдесило to everybodyсвима elseдруго.
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To se i svima ostalima dogodilo.
07:21
But when I lookedпогледао at TypeTip IIII,
it all cameДошао back to me.
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Ali kada sam pogledala tip II,
sve mi se vratilo.
07:25
I rememberedсетио what was doneГотово to me.
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Setila sam se šta mi je učinjeno.
07:27
I rememberedсетио beingбиће in that hutхут
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Setila sam se da sam bila u toj kolibi
07:29
with that oldстари ladyдама and my momмама
holdingдржање me down.
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sa tomo staricom i mojom mamom
koja me je držala.
07:34
WordsReči cannotне може expressизразити the painбол I feltосетио,
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Reči ne mogu opisati bol koji sam osetila,
07:39
the confusionзбуњеност that I feltосетио,
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zbunjenost koju sam osetila,
07:42
because now I realizedреализован that
what was doneГотово to me was a terribleстрашно thing
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jer sam sada shvatala da je
ono što mi je učinjeno užasna stvar
07:46
that in this societyдруштво was calledпозвани barbaricvarvarski,
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koju u ovom društvu nazivaju varvarskom,
07:49
it was calledпозвани mutilationмутилација.
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nazvana je sakaćenjem.
07:51
My motherмајка had said
it was calledпозвани circumcisionobrezivanje,
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Moja majka je rekla
da se zove obrezivanje,
07:54
but here it was mutilationмутилација.
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ali ovde je to sakaćenje.
07:56
I was thinkingразмишљање, I'm mutilatedпохабљен?
I'm a mutilatedпохабљен personособа.
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Mislila sam: ja sam osakaćena?
Ja sam osakaćena osoba.
07:59
Oh my God.
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O Bože.
08:01
And then the angerбес cameДошао.
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I tada je nastupio bes.
08:03
I was a blackцрн angryљут womanжена.
(LaughterSmeh)
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Bila sam ljuta crnkinja. (Smeh)
08:07
Oh yeah.
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O da.
08:08
A little one, but angryљут neverthelessипак.
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Mala, ali ipak ljuta.
08:11
I wentотишао home and said to my momмама,
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Otišla sam kući i rekla mami:
08:15
"You did something."
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"Uradila si nešto."
To nije afrički činiti,
upirati prstom na svoju majku,
08:17
This is not the AfricanAfrički thing to do,
pointingPostavljanje pokazivača at your motherмајка,
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08:20
but hey, I was readyспреман for any consequencesпоследице.
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ali hej, bila sam spremna na posledice.
08:22
"You did something to me."
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"Nešto si mi uradila."
08:24
She's like, "What are you
talkingпричају about, KhadijaKhadija?"
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Ona će: "O čemu pričaš, Kadidža?"
08:27
She's used to me mouthingIzgovaranje off.
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Navikla je da imam dugačak jezik.
08:28
I'm like, "Those yearsгодине agoпре,
You circumcisedобрезан me.
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Rekla sam: "Pre toliko godina,
ti si me obrezala.
08:33
You cutрез away something
that belongedje pripadao to me."
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Odsekla si nešto što mi je pripadalo."
08:36
She said, "Yes, I did.
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Ona je rekla: "Da, jesam.
08:38
I did it for your ownвластити good.
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Uradila sam to za tvoje dobro.
08:43
It was in your bestнајбоље interestинтерес.
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Bilo je u tvom najboljem interesu.
08:45
Your grandmotherбака did it to me,
and I did it to you.
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Tvoja baka je to uradila meni,
i ja sam uradila tebi.
08:48
It's madeмаде you a womanжена."
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To te je učinilo ženom."
08:50
I'm like, "How?"
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Ja ću na to: "Kako?"
08:52
She said, "You're empoweredовлашћени, KhadijaKhadija.
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Ona je rekla: "Osnažena si, Kadija.
08:54
Do you get itchySvrbi me down there?"
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Da li te zasvrbi tamo dole?"
08:56
I'm like, "No, why would I
get itchySvrbi me down there?"
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Ja kažem: "Ne, zašto
bi me zasvrbelo tamo dole?"
08:58
She said, "Well,
if you were not circumcisedобрезан,
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Rekla je: "Pa, da nisi obrezana,
09:01
you would get itchySvrbi me down there.
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zasvrbelo bi te tamo dole.
09:03
WomenŽene who are not circumcisedобрезан
get itchySvrbi me all the time.
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Žene koje nisu obrezane stalno svrbi.
09:06
Then they sleepспавај around with everybodyсвима.
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Onda spavaju okolo sa svima.
09:09
You are not going
to sleepспавај around with anybodyбило ко."
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Ti nećeš spavati ni sa kim."
09:12
And I thought,
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Pomislila sam,
09:13
her definitionдефиниција of empowermentоснаживање
was very strangeчудан. (LaughterSmeh)
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njena definicija osnaživanja
je vrlo čudna. (Smeh)
09:20
That was the endкрај
of our first conversationразговор.
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To je bio kraj našeg prvog razgovora.
09:23
I wentотишао back to schoolшкола.
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Vratila sam se u školu.
09:24
These were the daysдана when we had
DollyDoli and GirlfriendDevojka magazinesчасописи.
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To su bili dani kada smo imali
časopise Doli i Drugarica.
09:27
There was always the sealedzatvoreno sectionодељак.
AnybodyNikoga rememberзапамтити those sealedzatvoreno sectionsсекције?
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Uvek je postojao zatvoreni odeljak.
Da li se iko seća tih zatvorenih odeljaka?
09:32
The naughtyнаугхти bitsбита, you know?
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Nevaljali delovi, znate?
09:34
Oh yeah, I love those.
(LaughterSmeh)
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O da, volim ih. (Smeh)
09:37
AnywayIonako, there was always
an articleчланак about pleasureзадовољство
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Uglavnom, uvek je tu bio
članak o zadovoljstvu
09:40
and relationshipsвезе and, of courseкурс, sexсек.
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i vezama i naravno, o seksu.
09:43
But it always assumedPretpostavio
that you had a clitorisklitoris, thoughипак,
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Ali se uvek pretpostavljalo
da imate klitoris,
09:47
and I thought, this doesn't fitфит me.
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i mislila sam, ovde se ne uklapam.
09:51
This doesn't talk about people like me.
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Ovo ne govori o ljudima kao što sam ja.
09:54
I don't have a clitorisklitoris.
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Ja nemam klitoris.
09:56
I watchedгледао TVTV and those womenЖене
would moanStenji like, "Oh! Oh!"
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Gledala sam TV
i te žene bi stenjale: "Ah! Ah!"
10:00
I was like, these people
and theirњихова damnedProklet bio clitorisklitoris.
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Mislila sam, ti ljudi
i njihov prokleti klitoris.
10:03
(LaughterSmeh)
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(Smeh)
10:04
What is a womanжена withoutбез a clitorisklitoris
supposedпретпостављено to do with her life?
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Šta žena bez klitorisa
treba da uradi sa svojim životom?
10:08
That's what I want to know.
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To ja hoću da znam.
10:10
I want to do that too --
"Oh! Oh!" and all of that.
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Hoću i ja da to radim -
"Ah! Ah!" i tako to.
10:14
Didn't happenдесити се.
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Nije se desilo.
10:16
So I cameДошао home onceједном again
and said to my momмама,
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Došla sam kući još jednom
i rekla mami:
10:19
"DollyDoli and GirlfriendDevojka said
I deserveзаслужују pleasureзадовољство,
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"Doli i Drugarica kažu
da zaslužujem zadovoljstvo,
10:23
that I should be havingимати orgasmsоргазам,
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da treba da imam orgazme,
10:25
and that whiteбео menмушкарци should figureфигура out
how to find the clitorisklitoris."
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i da beli muškarci
treba da otkriju kako da nađu klitoris."
10:30
ApparentlyNavodno, whiteбео menмушкарци
have a problemпроблем findingпроналажење the clitorisklitoris.
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Navodno, belci imaju problem
da pronađu klitoris.
10:33
(LaughterSmeh)
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(Smeh)
10:35
Just sayingговорећи, it wasn'tније me.
It was DollyDoli that said that.
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Samo kažem, nisam ja.
Doli je to rekla.
10:40
And I thought to myselfЈа сам,
I had an innerунутрашњи jokeшала in my headглава
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I pomislila sam,
imala sam unutrašnju šalu u glavi
10:43
that said, "I will marryоженити се a whiteбео man.
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koja kaže: "Udaću se za belca.
10:46
He won'tнеће have that problemпроблем with me."
(LaughterSmeh)
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On neće imati taj problem sa mnom."
(Smeh)
10:50
So I said to my momмама,
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Rekla sam mami:
10:51
"DollyDoli and GirlfriendDevojka said
I deserveзаслужују pleasureзадовољство, and do you know
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"Doli i Drugarica kažu
da zaslužujem zadovoljstvo, i da li znaš
10:58
what you have takenузети away from me,
what you have deniedодбијен me?
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šta si mi oduzela, šta si mi uskratila?
11:02
You have invadednapao me
in the mostнајвише sacredсвето way.
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Oskrnavila si me na najsvetiji način.
11:05
I want pleasureзадовољство.
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Želim zadovoljstvo.
11:07
I want to get hornynapaljen, dammitProkletstvo, as well."
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Želim i ja da se napalim, dođavola."
11:10
And she said to me,
"Who is DollyDoli and GirlfriendDevojka?
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A ona mi je rekla:
"Ko su Doli i Drugarica?
11:13
Are they your newново friendsпријатељи, KhadijaKhadija?"
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Da li su to
tvoji novi prijatelji, Kadidža?"
11:15
I was like, "No, they're not.
That's a magazineмагазин, momмама, a magazineмагазин."
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Ja ću na to: "Ne, nisu.
To je časopis, mama, časopis."
11:19
She didn't get it.
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Nije ukapirala.
11:21
We cameДошао from two differentразличит worldsсветове.
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Došle smo iz dva različita sveta.
11:23
When she was growingрастуће up,
not havingимати a clitorisklitoris was the normнорма.
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Kada je ona odrastala,
bilo je pravilo nemati klitoris.
11:27
It was celebratedпрослављен.
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To je bilo slavljeno.
11:29
I was an AfricanAfrički AustralianAustralijski girlдевојка.
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Ja sam bila afro-australijanska devojka.
11:32
I livedживели in a societyдруштво
that was very clitoris-centricklitoris kako bi pružila.
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Živela sam u društvu
koje je bilo veoma klitoris-centrično.
11:35
It was all about the damnпроклети clitorisklitoris!
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Sve se vrtelo oko prokletog klitorisa!
11:40
And I didn't have one!
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A ja ga nisam imala!
11:41
That pissedљут me off.
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To me je izluđivalo.
11:45
So onceједном I wentотишао throughкроз
this strangeчудан phasefaza of angerбес
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Kad sam prošla kroz ovu čudnu fazu besa
11:49
and painбол and confusionзбуњеност,
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i bola i zbunjenosti,
11:50
I rememberзапамтити bookingrezervacija
an appointmentименовање with my therapistterapeut.
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sećam se da sam zakazala
sastanak sa terapeutom.
11:53
Yes, I'm an AfricanAfrički
who has a therapistterapeut. There you go.
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Da, ja sam Afrikanka
koji ima terapeuta. Eto.
11:56
And I said to her,
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I rekla sam joj:
11:59
"I was 13. I was a childдете.
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"Imala sam 13 godina. Bila sam dete.
Doseljavala sam se u novu zemlju,
12:02
I was settlingrešavanja in a newново countryземљу,
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12:03
I was dealingбављење with racismrasizam
and discriminationdiskriminacije,
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suočavala sam se
sa rasizmom i diskriminacijom,
12:06
Englishengleski is my thirdтрећи languageЈезик,
and then there it was."
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engleski je moj treći jezik,
a onda je to usledilo"
12:09
I said to her, "I feel like
I'm not a womanжена
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I rekla sam joj: "Osećam se
kao da nisam žena
12:12
because of what was doneГотово to me.
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zbog onoga što mi je učinjeno.
12:14
I feel incompleteнепотпун.
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Osećam se nepotpuno.
12:17
Am I going to be asexualaseksualna?"
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Da li ću biti aseksualna?"
12:20
Because from what I knewзнала about FGMFGM,
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Jer iz onoga što znam o SŽG,
12:23
the wholeцела aimциљ of it was to controlконтрола
the sexualityсексуалност of womenЖене.
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čitav cilj toga je bio
da se kontroliše seksualnost žena.
12:27
It's so that we don't have
any sexualсексуално desireжеља.
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Tako da nemaju seksualnu želju.
12:30
And I said, "Am I asexualaseksualna now?
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Pitala sam: "Da li sam sada aseksualna?
12:32
Will I just liveживи the restодмор of my life
not feelingОсећај like havingимати sexсек,
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Da li ću ostatak života
živeti bez želje za seksom,
12:35
not enjoyingуживајући sexсек?"
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bez uživanja u seksu?"
12:38
She couldn'tније могао answerодговор my questionsпитања,
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Nije mogla da odgovori na moja pitanja,
12:40
so they wentотишао unansweredbez odgovora.
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tako da su ostala bez odgovora.
12:43
When I startedпочела havingимати my periodраздобље
around the ageстарост of 14,
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Kada sam počela
da dobijam menstruaciju oko 14. godine,
12:46
I realizedреализован I didn't have
normalнормално periodsпериода because of FGMFGM.
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shvatila sam da nemam
normalne menstruacije zbog SŽG.
12:49
My periodsпериода were heavyтежак, they were long,
and they were very painfulболан.
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Moje menstruacije su bile obilne, duge,
i bile su vrlo bolne.
12:55
Then they told me I had fibroidsтумора на материци.
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Onda su mi rekli da imam fibroze.
12:57
They're like these little ballsлоптице
sittingседење there.
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To su kao ovakve loptice koje stoje tamo.
13:00
One was coveringpokrivač one of my ovariesjajnici.
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Jedna je prekrivala jedan moj jajnik.
13:03
And there cameДошао then the bigвелики newsвести.
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A zatim su stigle velike vesti.
13:06
"We don't think you can
have childrenдеца, KhadijaKhadija."
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"Mislimo da ne možeš
da imaš decu, Kadidža."
13:09
And onceједном again, I was
an angryљут blackцрн womanжена.
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Još jednom, bila sam ljuta crnkinja.
13:14
I wentотишао home and I said to my momмама,
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Otišla sam kući i rekla mojoj mami:
13:17
"Your actчинити, your actionпоступак,
no matterматерија what your mayможе defenseодбрана mayможе be" --
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"Tvoje delo, tvoj postupak,
bez obzira kakvo bilo tvoje opravdanje" -
13:21
because she thought she did it out love --
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jer je mislila
da je to uradila iz ljubavi -
13:24
"what you did out of love
is harmingштета me, and it's hurtingboli me.
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"ono što si uradila iz ljubavi
mi škodi, i povređuje me.
13:29
What do you have to say for that?"
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Šta imaš da kažeš na to?"
13:32
She said, "I did what I had to do
as a motherмајка."
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Rekla je: "Uradila sam
šta sam morala da uradim kao majka."
13:36
I'm still waitingчекајући
for an apologyizvinjenje, by the way.
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Još uvek čekam izvinjenje, uzgred.
13:40
Then I got marriedожењен.
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Onda sam se udala.
13:43
And onceједном again --
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I još jednom -
13:45
FGMFGM is like the giftпоклон that keepsзадржава givingдавање.
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SŽG je kao poklon koji ti stalno daruje.
13:48
You figureфигура that out very soonускоро.
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Shvatićete ubrzo.
13:50
SexSeks was very painfulболан.
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Seks je bio vrlo bolan.
13:53
It hurtболи all the time.
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Stalno je bolelo.
13:56
And of courseкурс I realizedреализован, they said,
"You can't have kidsклинци."
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I naravno razumela sam, rekli su:
"Ne možeš da imaš dece."
13:59
I thought, "WowVau, is this my existenceпостојање?
Is this what life is all about?"
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Mislila sam: "Vau,
da li je ovo moja egzistencija?
Da li je ovo sve u životu?"
Ponosna sam što ću vam reći,
14:08
I'm proudпоносан to tell you,
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14:11
fiveпет monthsмесеци agoпре,
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pre pet meseci,
14:12
I was told I was pregnantтрудна.
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rekli su mi da sam trudna.
14:15
(ApplauseAplauz)
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(Aplauz)
14:24
I am the luckyСрећно girlдевојка.
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Ja sam srećnica.
14:25
There are so manyмноги womenЖене out there
who have goneотишла throughкроз FGMFGM
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Postoji toliko žena
koje su prošle kroz SŽG
14:28
who have infertilityneplodnost.
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koja su neplodne.
14:30
I know a nine-year-olddevet godina girlдевојка who has
incontinenceInkontinencija, constantконстантно infectionsинфекције, painбол.
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Znam devetogodišnjakinju koja ima
inkontinenciju, stalne infekcije, bol.
14:37
It's that giftпоклон. It doesn't stop givingдавање.
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To je taj poklon. Ne prestaje da daruje.
14:40
It affectsутиче на everyсваки areaподручје of your life,
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Utiče na svaku oblast vašeg života,
14:43
and this happenedдесило to me
because I was bornрођен a girlдевојка
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a to mi se dogodilo
jer sam se rodila kao devojčica
14:46
in the wrongпогрешно placeместо.
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na pogrešnom mestu.
14:48
That's why it happenedдесило to me.
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Zato mi se to desilo.
14:50
I channelканал all that angerбес,
all that painбол, into advocacyадвокатура
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Kanališem sav taj bes, sav taj bol,
u advokaturu
14:55
because I neededпотребно my painбол
to be worthвреди something.
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jer mi je potrebno
da moj bol vredi nečemu.
14:58
So I'm the directorдиректор of an organizationорганизација
calledпозвани No FGMFGM AustraliaAustralija.
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Direktor sam organizacije
po imenu "Ne SŽG-u u Australiji".
15:02
You heardслушао me right.
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Dobro ste me čuli.
15:04
Why No FGMFGM AustraliaAustralija?
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Zašto "Ne SŽG-u u Australiji"?
15:05
FGMFGM is in AustraliaAustralija.
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SŽG je u Australiji.
15:08
Two daysдана agoпре, I had to call
ChildDete ProtectiveZastitni ServicesUsluge,
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Pre dva dana sam morala da zovem
službu za zaštitu dece,
15:12
because somewhereнегде in AustraliaAustralija,
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jer negde u Australiji
15:15
there's a four-yearчетири године oldстари
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nalazi se devojčica od četiri godine,
15:17
there's a four-year-oldчетворогодишњак whoseчије momмама
is planningпланирање on performingизвођење FGMFGM on her.
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čija mama planira da izvrši SŽG na njoj.
15:22
That childдете is in kindykindy.
I'll let that sinkлавабо in: fourчетири yearsгодине oldстари.
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To dete je u vrtiću.
Da ponovim: ima četiri godine.
15:31
A coupleпар of monthsмесеци agoпре, I metиспуњен a ladyдама
who is marriedожењен to a MalaysianMalezijski man.
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Pre nekoliko meseci, upoznala sam ženu
koja je udata za čoveka sa Malezije.
15:35
Her husbandмуж cameДошао home one day and said
he was going to take theirњихова daughtersкћери
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Njen suprug je došao kući jednog dana
i rekao da će odvesti njihove ćerke
15:39
back to MalaysiaMalezija
to cutрез off theirњихова clitorisklitoris.
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nazad u Maleziju da im odseče klitoris.
15:41
And she said, "Why?"
He said they were dirtyпрљаво.
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Pitala je: "Zašto?"
Rekao je da su prljave.
Ona je rekla: "Pa, oženio si se sa mnom."
15:45
And she said, "Well, you marriedожењен me."
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15:47
He said, "Oh, this is my culturalкултурно beliefверовање."
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Rekao je: "O, to je verovanje
u mojoj kulturi."
15:51
They then wentотишао into a wholeцела discussionдискусија
where she said to him,
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Onda su ušli u čitavu diskusiju
u kojoj mu je rekla:
15:54
"Over my deadмртав bodyтело
will you do that to my daughtersкћери."
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"Preko mene mrtve
ćeš to uraditi mojim ćerkama."
15:57
But imagineзамислити if this womanжена
wasn'tније awareсвесна of what FGMFGM was,
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Ali zamislite da ova žena
nije bila svesna toga šta je SŽG,
16:01
if they never had that conversationразговор?
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da nikada nisu obavili taj razgovor?
16:03
Her childrenдеца would have been
flownлетела over to MalaysiaMalezija
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Njena deca bi bila odvedena u Maleziju
16:06
and they would have come back
changedпромењено for the restодмор of theirњихова livesживи.
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i vratila bi se izmenjena za ceo život.
16:09
Do you know the millionsмилиони of dollarsдолара
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Da li znate koliko miliona dolara
16:11
it would take us to dealдоговор
with an issueпитање like that?
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bi nam bilo potrebno
da se borimo sa takvim problemom?
16:13
[ThreeTri childrenдеца perпер day] in AustraliaAustralija
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Svakoga dana tri deteta u Australiji
16:16
are at riskризик of havingимати FGMFGM
performedизвршено on them.
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su pod rizikom
da SŽG bude izvršeno nad njima.
16:19
This is an AustralianAustralijski problemпроблем, people.
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To je problem Australije, narode.
16:22
It's not an AfricanAfrički problemпроблем.
It's not a MiddleSrednje EasternIstočne problemпроблем.
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Nije problem Afrike.
Nije problem Srednjeg Istoka.
16:25
It's not whiteбео, it's not blackцрн,
it has no colorбоја, it's everybody'sсвима problemпроблем.
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Nije belački, nije crnački,
nema boju, to je svačiji problem.
16:30
FGMFGM is childдете abuseзлоупотреба.
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SŽG je zlostavljanje dece.
16:33
It's violenceнасиље againstпротив womenЖене.
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To je nasilje nad ženama.
16:35
It's sayingговорећи that womenЖене don't have
a right to sexualсексуално pleasureзадовољство.
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To je iskaz da žene nemaju pravo
na seksualno zadovoljstvo.
16:39
It saysкаже we don't have
a right to our bodiesтела.
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Govori da nemamo pravo na svoja tela.
16:42
Well, I say no to that,
and you know what? BullshitSranje.
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Pa, kažem ne tome, i znate šta? Sranje.
16:46
That's what I have to say to that.
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To imam da kažem tome.
16:48
(ApplauseAplauz)
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(Aplauz)
16:54
I am proudпоносан to say that
I'm doing my partдео in endingзавршава FGMFGM.
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Ponosno kažem
da imam udela u okončanju SŽG.
17:00
What are you going to do?
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Šta ćete vi da uradite?
17:02
There mayможе be a childдете in your classroomучионица
who is at riskризик of FGMFGM.
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Možda u vašoj učionici postoji dete
koje je pod rizikom od SŽG.
17:07
There mayможе be a patientпацијент
who comesдолази to your hospitalболница
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Možda postoji pacijent
koji dolazi u vašu bolnicu
17:10
who is at riskризик of FGMFGM.
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koji je pod rizikom od SŽG.
17:12
But this is the realityреалност,
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Ali ovo je stvarnost,
17:14
that even in our belovedвољен AustraliaAustralija,
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da čak i u našoj voljenoj Australiji,
17:16
the mostнајвише wonderfulДивно placeместо in the worldсвет,
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najdivnijem mestu na svetu,
17:18
childrenдеца are beingбиће abusedзлоупотребљава
because of a cultureкултура.
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decu zlostavljaju zbog kulture.
17:22
CultureKultura should not be
a defenseодбрана for childдете abuseзлоупотреба.
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Kultura ne treba da bude opravdanje
za zlostavljanje dece.
17:25
I want ever singleједно one of you
to see FGMFGM as an issueпитање for you.
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Želim da svako od vas
vidi SŽG kao problem za sebe.
17:30
Make it personalлични.
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Doživite ga na ličnom nivou.
17:32
It could be your daughterћерка,
your sisterсестра, your cousinрођак.
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To bi mogla biti vaša ćerka,
sestra, rođaka.
17:35
I can't fightборба FGMFGM aloneсами.
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Ne mogu se sama boriti sa SŽG.
17:38
I could try, but I can't.
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Mogla bih da pokušam, ali ne mogu.
17:40
So my appealжалба to you is, please joinпридружити me.
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Moja molba vama je:
molim vas da mi se pridružite.
17:43
SignZnak my petitionпетиција on ChangePromena.orgорг
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Potpišite moju peticiju na Change.org
17:45
and typeтип in KhadijaKhadija, my nameиме,
and it'llто ће come up, and signзнак it.
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i unesite Kadidža, moje ime,
izaći će, i potpišite je.
17:49
The aimциљ of that is to get supportподршка
for FGMFGM victimsжртве in AustraliaAustralija
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Cilj je da dobijemo podršku
za žrtve SŽG u Australiji
17:53
and to protectзаштитити little girlsдевојке
growingрастуће up here
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i da zaštitimo devojčice
koje ovde odrastaju
17:55
to not have this evilзло doneГотово to them,
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da im se ne dogodi ovo zlo,
17:58
because everyсваки childдете
has a right to pleasureзадовољство.
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jer svako dete ima pravo na zadovoljstvo.
18:02
EverySvaki childдете has a right
to theirњихова bodiesтела beingбиће left intactnetaknuta,
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Svako dete ima pravo
da njegovo telo ostane netaknuto,
18:05
and dammitProkletstvo, ever childдете
has a right to a clitorisklitoris.
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i dođavola, svako dete
ima pravo na klitoris.
18:10
So please joinпридружити me in endingзавршава this actчинити.
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Molim vas da mi se priključite
u okončanju ovog čina.
18:14
My favoriteомиљени quoteкуоте is,
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Moj omiljeni citat je:
18:16
"All it takes for evilзло to prevailprevladati
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"Sve što je potrebno da zlo pobedi
18:18
is for a fewнеколико good menмушкарци
and womenЖене to do nothing."
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je da dobri ljudi ništa ne učine."
18:21
Are you going to let this evilзло
of femaleзенски пол genitalгенитал mutilationмутилација
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Da li ćete dopustiti tom zlu
sakaćenja ženskih genitalija
18:26
to prevailprevladati in AustraliaAustralija?
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da pobedi u Australiji?
18:28
I don't think so,
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Ne verujem,
18:30
so please joinпридружити me in ensuringosiguravanje
that it endsКрајеви in my generationгенерације.
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zato vas molim da mi se pridružite
da se postaramo da se to završi
sa mojom generacijom.
18:34
Thank you.
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Hvala.
18:36
(ApplauseAplauz)
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(Aplauz)
Translated by Ivana Krivokuća
Reviewed by Mile Živković

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Khadija Gbla - Cross-cultural consultant
Khadija Gbla was born in Sierra Leone, spent her youth in Gambia, and as a teenager put down roots in Australia. She uses her cross-cultural heritage to promote understanding in both directions.

Why you should listen

Khadija Gbla was just 3-years-old when the war broke out in her country, Sierra Leone. While her family initially escaped to Gambia, 10 years later they attained refugee status and resettled in Adelaide, Australia. The transition was complex—Khadija experienced racism, illness and depression—but threw herself into her education. She discovered that she had a unique talent: the ability to translate across two very different cultures.

Khadija first used this talent as a peer educator for South Australia’s Women’s Heath Statewide program, where she talked to health professionals about female genital mutilation — helping them understand what it is, where it happens, and the cultural beliefs that surround it. She’s since used her multicultural voice to offer advice on policy through South Australian Government Minister’s Youth Council, to organize camps and activities for newly-arrived refugees and to raise awareness about both sexual and mental health issues among her peers. She has represented Australia in the international arena at the Harvard National Model United Nations, Commonwealth Youth Forum and Australian and Africa Dialogue, and speaks regularly at a wide variety of events to make sure that her perspective is heard.

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