ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Amy Cuddy - Social psychologist
Amy Cuddy’s research on body language reveals that we can change other people’s perceptions — and perhaps even our own body chemistry — simply by changing body positions.

Why you should listen

Amy Cuddy wasn’t supposed to become a successful scientist. In fact, she wasn’t even supposed to finish her undergraduate degree. Early in her college career, Cuddy suffered a severe head injury in a car accident, and doctors said she would struggle to fully regain her mental capacity and finish her undergraduate degree.

But she proved them wrong. Today, Cuddy is a professor and researcher at Harvard Business School, where she studies how nonverbal behavior and snap judgments affect people from the classroom to the boardroom. And her training as a classical dancer (another skill she regained after her injury) is evident in her fascinating work on "power posing" -- how your body position influences others and even your own brain.

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TEDGlobal 2012

Amy Cuddy: Your body language may shape who you are

Amy Cuddy: 肢体语言塑造你自己

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肢体语言影响着他人对我们的看法,但同时它也影响着我们对自己的看法。社会心理学家Amy Cuddy表示“有力的姿势”--以一个自信的方式站着,即使我们不感到自信--他们也能够影响我们脑内的睾丸酮和可的松含量,甚至可以爆发性地推动我们成功的机会。
- Social psychologist
Amy Cuddy’s research on body language reveals that we can change other people’s perceptions — and perhaps even our own body chemistry — simply by changing body positions. Full bio

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So I want to start开始 by offering you a free自由
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首先我想要提供给你们一个免费的
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no-tech没有高科技 life hack,
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非科技的人生窍门
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and all it requires要求 of you is this:
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你只需这样做
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that you change更改 your posture姿势 for two minutes分钟.
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改变你的姿势二分钟时间
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But before I give it away, I want to ask you to right now
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但在我要把它告诉你们之前,我想要请你们
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do a little audit审计 of your body身体 and what you're doing with your body身体.
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就你们的身体和你们身体的行为做一下自我审查
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So how many许多 of you are sort分类 of making制造 yourselves你自己 smaller?
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那么你们之中有多少人正蜷缩着自己?
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Maybe you're hunching中恒, crossing路口 your legs,
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或许你现在弓着背,还翘着二郎腿?
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maybe wrapping包皮 your ankles脚踝.
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或者双臂交叉
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Sometimes有时 we hold保持 onto our arms武器 like this.
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有时候我们像这样抱住自己
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Sometimes有时 we spread传播 out. (Laughter笑声)
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有时候展开双臂(笑声)
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I see you. (Laughter笑声)
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我看到你了(笑声)
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So I want you to pay工资 attention注意 to what you're doing right now.
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现在请大家专心在自己的身上
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We're going to come back to that in a few少数 minutes分钟,
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我们等一下就会回溯刚刚的事
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and I'm hoping希望 that if you learn学习 to tweak this a little bit,
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希望你们可以稍微改变一下
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it could significantly显著 change更改 the way your life unfolds展开.
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这会让你的生活变得很不一样
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So, we're really fascinated入迷 with body身体 language语言,
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所以,我们很真的很执着于肢体语言
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and we're particularly尤其 interested有兴趣
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特别是对别人的肢体语言
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in other people's人们 body身体 language语言.
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感兴趣
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You know, we're interested有兴趣 in, like, you know — (Laughter笑声) —
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你看,我们对(笑声)
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an awkward尴尬 interaction相互作用, or a smile微笑,
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尴尬的互动,或一个微笑
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or a contemptuous轻视 glance一瞥, or maybe a very awkward尴尬 wink眨眼,
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或轻蔑的一瞥,或奇怪的眨眼
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or maybe even something like a handshake握手.
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甚至是握手之类的事情感兴趣
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Narrator旁白: Here they are arriving到达 at Number 10, and look at this
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解说员:他们来到了唐宁街10号,看看这个
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lucky幸运 policeman警察 gets得到 to shake hands with the President主席
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这位幸运的警员可以和美国总统握手
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of the United联合的 States状态. Oh, and here comes
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噢,还有
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the Prime主要 Minister部长 of the — ? No. (Laughter笑声) (Applause掌声)
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来自....的总理?不(笑声) (掌声)
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(Laughter笑声) (Applause掌声)
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(笑声) (掌声)
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Amy艾米 Cuddy卡蒂: So a handshake握手, or the lack缺乏 of a handshake握手,
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Amy Cuddy:所以一个握手,或没有握手
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can have us talking for weeks and weeks and weeks.
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我们都可以大聊特聊一番
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Even the BBCBBC and The New York纽约 Times.
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即使BBC和纽约时报也不例外
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So obviously明显 when we think about nonverbal非语言 behavior行为,
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我们说到肢体行为或肢体语言时
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or body身体 language语言 -- but we call it nonverbalsnonverbals as social社会 scientists科学家们 --
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我们将之归纳为社会科学
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it's language语言, so we think about communication通讯.
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它就是一种语言,所以我们会想到沟通
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When we think about communication通讯, we think about interactions互动.
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当我们想到沟通,我们就想到互动
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So what is your body身体 language语言 communicating通信 to me?
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所以你现在的身体语言正在告诉我什么?
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What's mine communicating通信 to you?
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我的身体又是在向你传达什么?
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And there's a lot of reason原因 to believe that this is a valid有效
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有很多理由让我们相信这些是有效的
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way to look at this. So social社会 scientists科学家们 have spent花费 a lot
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社会科学家花了很多时间
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of time looking at the effects效果 of our body身体 language语言,
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求证肢体语言的效果
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or other people's人们 body身体 language语言, on judgments判断.
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或其它人的身体语言在判断方面的效应
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And we make sweeping笼统的 judgments判断 and inferences推论 from body身体 language语言.
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而我们环视身体语言中的讯息做决定和推论
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And those judgments判断 can predict预测 really meaningful富有意义的 life outcomes结果
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这些结论可以预测生活中很有意义的结果
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like who we hire聘请 or promote促进, who we ask out on a date日期.
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像是我们雇用谁或给谁升职,邀请谁出去约会
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For example, Nalini娜莉妮 Ambady阿姆巴迪, a researcher研究员 at Tufts塔夫茨 University大学,
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举例而言,Tufts大学的研究员,Nalini Ambady表示
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shows节目 that when people watch 30-second soundless无声 clips剪辑
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人们观赏一部医生和患者互动的
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of real真实 physician-patient医患 interactions互动,
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30秒无声影片
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their judgments判断 of the physician's医生 niceness美好的事物
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他们对该医生的和善观感
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predict预测 whether是否 or not that physician医师 will be sued起诉.
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可用来预测该复健师是否会被告上法庭
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So it doesn't have to do so much with whether是否 or not
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跟这个医生能否胜任工作没有太大关系
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that physician医师 was incompetent无能, but do we like that person
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重点是我们喜不喜欢他
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and how they interacted互动?
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和他们是如何与人互动的?
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Even more dramatic戏剧性, Alex亚历克斯 Todorov托多罗夫 at Princeton普林斯顿 has shown显示
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进一步来说,普林斯顿的Alex Todorov 表示
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us that judgments判断 of political政治 candidates'候选人' faces面孔
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我们对政治人物脸部的喜好判断
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in just one second第二 predict预测 70 percent百分 of U.S. Senate参议院
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大概可用来对美国参议院和美国州长的
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and gubernatorial州长 race种族 outcomes结果,
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竞选结果做70%的预测
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and even, let's go digital数字,
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甚至就网络上
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emoticons表情 used well in online线上 negotiations谈判
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在线聊天时使用的表情符号
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can lead to you claim要求 more value from that negotiation谈判.
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可以帮助你从交谈中得到更多信息
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If you use them poorly不好, bad idea理念. Right?
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所以你千万别弄巧成拙,对吧?
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So when we think of nonverbalsnonverbals, we think of how we judge法官
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当我们提起肢体语言,我们就想到我们如何论断别人
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others其他, how they judge法官 us and what the outcomes结果 are.
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别人如何论断我们以及后果会是什么
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We tend趋向 to forget忘记, though虽然, the other audience听众
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我们往往忘记这点,受到肢体动作所影响的那群观众
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that's influenced影响 by our nonverbalsnonverbals, and that's ourselves我们自己.
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就是我们自己
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We are also influenced影响 by our nonverbalsnonverbals, our thoughts思念
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我们也往往受自己的肢体动作,想法
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and our feelings情怀 and our physiology生理.
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感觉和心理所影响
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So what nonverbalsnonverbals am I talking about?
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所以究竟我说的是怎样的非语言?
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I'm a social社会 psychologist心理学家. I study研究 prejudice偏见,
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我是一位社会心理学家,我研究偏见
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and I teach at a competitive竞争的 business商业 school学校,
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我在一所极具竞争力的商业学院上课
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so it was inevitable必然 that I would become成为 interested有兴趣 in power功率 dynamics动力学.
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因此无可避免地对权力动力学感到着迷
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I became成为 especially特别 interested有兴趣 in nonverbal非语言 expressions表达式
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特别是在非语言表达
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of power功率 and dominance霸主地位.
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对权力和支配的领域
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And what are nonverbal非语言 expressions表达式 of power功率 and dominance霸主地位?
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权力和支配的非语言表达究竟是什么?
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Well, this is what they are.
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嗯,让我细细道来
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So in the animal动物 kingdom王国, they are about expanding扩大.
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在动物王国里,它们和扩张有关
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So you make yourself你自己 big, you stretch伸展 out,
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所以你尽可能的让自己变大,你向外伸展
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you take up space空间, you're basically基本上 opening开盘 up.
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占满空间,基本上就是展开
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It's about opening开盘 up. And this is true真正
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关于展开,我说真的
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across横过 the animal动物 kingdom王国. It's not just limited有限 to primates灵长类动物.
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透视动物世界,这不仅局限于灵长类
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And humans人类 do the same相同 thing. (Laughter笑声)
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人类也干同样的事(笑声)
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So they do this both when they have power功率 sort分类 of chronically长期地,
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不论是他们长期掌权或是在某个时间点感到权力高涨
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and also when they're feeling感觉 powerful强大 in the moment时刻.
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他们都这么做
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And this one is especially特别 interesting有趣 because it really shows节目 us
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特别有趣的原因是
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how universal普遍 and old these expressions表达式 of power功率 are.
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它让我们明白权力的展现从来是如此地一致,不管古今世界
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This expression表达, which哪一个 is known已知 as pride自豪,
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这种展现,被认为是一种荣耀
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Jessica杰西卡 Tracy特雷西 has studied研究. She shows节目 that
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Jessica Tracy研究表示
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people who are born天生 with sight视力
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视力良好无碍
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and people who are congenitally先天不足 blind do this
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和先天视障的人
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when they win赢得 at a physical物理 competition竞争.
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在赢得比赛时都做了同样的事
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So when they cross交叉 the finish line线 and they've他们已经 won韩元,
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当他们跨过终点线赢得比赛之际
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it doesn't matter if they've他们已经 never seen看到 anyone任何人 do it.
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无论能否看的见
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They do this.
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他们都做这样的动作
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So the arms武器 up in the V, the chin下巴 is slightly lifted取消.
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双臂呈V字型朝上,下巴微微抬起
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What do we do when we feel powerless无力? We do exactly究竟
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那我们感到无助的时候呢?我们的行为正相反
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the opposite对面. We close up. We wrap ourselves我们自己 up.
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我们封闭起来。我们把自己蜷起来
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We make ourselves我们自己 small. We don't want to bump磕碰 into the person next下一个 to us.
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让自己变得小一点,最好别碰到别人
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So again, both animals动物 and humans人类 do the same相同 thing.
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这再一次证明,人类和动物都做同样的事
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And this is what happens发生 when you put together一起 high
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这就是当你有力量和没力量时的行为
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and low power功率. So what we tend趋向 to do
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所以当力量来临时
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when it comes to power功率 is that we complement补充 the other's其他 nonverbalsnonverbals.
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我们会迎合别人的非语言
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So if someone有人 is being存在 really powerful强大 with us,
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若有人之于我们相对权重时
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we tend趋向 to make ourselves我们自己 smaller. We don't mirror镜子 them.
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我们倾向把自己变得较小,不会模仿他们
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We do the opposite对面 of them.
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我们做和他们正相反的事情
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So I'm watching观看 this behavior行为 in the classroom课堂,
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当我在课堂上观察这么现象时
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and what do I notice注意? I notice注意 that MBAMBA students学生们
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你猜我发现什么?我发现MBA的学生
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really exhibit展示 the full充分 range范围 of power功率 nonverbalsnonverbals.
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真的很会就充分利用肢体语言
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So you have people who are like caricatures漫画 of alphas阿尔法,
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你会看到有些人像是统治者
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really coming未来 into the room房间, they get right into the middle中间 of the room房间
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走进房间,课程开始之前一屁股坐在正中间
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before class even starts启动, like they really want to occupy占据 space空间.
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好像他们真的很想占据整个教室似的
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When they sit down, they're sort分类 of spread传播 out.
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当他们坐下的时候,身体会展开
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They raise提高 their hands like this.
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像这样举手
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You have other people who are virtually实质上 collapsing崩溃
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有些人则不然
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when they come in. As soon不久 they come in, you see it.
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他们一走进来你就会发现
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You see it on their faces面孔 and their bodies身体, and they sit
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从他们的脸和身体你会发现
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in their chair椅子 and they make themselves他们自己 tiny,
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他们坐在椅子上的时候把自己变得很萎靡
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and they go like this when they raise提高 their hand.
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然后举手的时候是这种姿势
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I notice注意 a couple一对 of things about this.
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我观察到很多事情
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One, you're not going to be surprised诧异.
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其中一件,不令人惊讶
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It seems似乎 to be related有关 to gender性别.
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就是跟性别差异有关
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So women妇女 are much more likely容易 to do this kind of thing than men男人.
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女人比男人更容易出现这种状况
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Women妇女 feel chronically长期地 less powerful强大 than men男人,
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女人一般比较容易比男人感到无力
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so this is not surprising奇怪. But the other thing I noticed注意到 is that
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这并不太令人意外。然而我发现的另一件事是
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it also seemed似乎 to be related有关 to the extent程度 to which哪一个
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这似乎也跟
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the students学生们 were participating参与, and how well they were participating参与.
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学生参与的程度高低有关
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And this is really important重要 in the MBAMBA classroom课堂,
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就MBA的课来说这真的非常重要
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because participation参与 counts计数 for half the grade年级.
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因为课堂参与程度要占成绩的一半
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So business商业 schools学校 have been struggling奋斗的 with this gender性别 grade年级 gap间隙.
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所以商学院一直以来都为此伤脑筋
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You get these equally一样 qualified合格 women妇女 and men男人 coming未来 in
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入学的时候男生女生是不分轩轾的
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and then you get these differences分歧 in grades等级,
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可是成绩出来却有这些性别差异
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and it seems似乎 to be partly部分地 attributable归属 to participation参与.
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而看起来却有一部分原因和参与度有关
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So I started开始 to wonder奇迹, you know, okay,
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所以我开始思索,好吧
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so you have these people coming未来 in like this, and they're
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这群人一开始进来是这样,他们参与其中
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participating参与. Is it possible可能 that we could get people to fake it
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那有没有可能让大家来假装
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and would it lead them to participate参加 more?
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让他们更加参与进来?
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So my main主要 collaborator合作者 Dana达纳 Carney卡尼, who's谁是 at Berkeley伯克利,
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我在Berkeley的主要合作研究伙伴,Dana Carney
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and I really wanted to know, can you fake it till直到 you make it?
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我很想知道,你能假装直到你成功吗?
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Like, can you do this just for a little while and actually其实
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譬如说,只做一下下然后就体验到一个
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experience经验 a behavioral行为的 outcome结果 that makes品牌 you seem似乎 more powerful强大?
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让你感到更加充满力量的结果
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So we know that our nonverbalsnonverbals govern治理 how other people
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所以得知非语言如何掌控他人
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think and feel about us. There's a lot of evidence证据.
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对我们的想法和感受。有很多证据可以证明
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But our question really was, do our nonverbalsnonverbals
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但我们的问题是,我们非语言的部分
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govern治理 how we think and feel about ourselves我们自己?
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是否真的掌控我们对自己的想法和感受?
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There's some evidence证据 that they do.
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这里确实有些证据可以表明
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So, for example, we smile微笑 when we feel happy快乐,
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举例来说,当我们高兴的时候我们会笑
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but also, when we're forced被迫 to smile微笑
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但同样地,当我们含着一只笔练习笑容的时候
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by holding保持 a pen钢笔 in our teeth like this, it makes品牌 us feel happy快乐.
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我们也会感到开心
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So it goes both ways方法. When it comes to power功率,
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这说明这是相互的。说到力量的时候
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it also goes both ways方法. So when you feel powerful强大,
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亦是如此。所以当我们感到充满力量的时候
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you're more likely容易 to do this, but it's also possible可能 that
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你更加可能会这样做,但你也可能
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when you pretend假装 to be powerful强大, you are more likely容易
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假装自己很有力量
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to actually其实 feel powerful强大.
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然后真的感到力量强大
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So the second第二 question really was, you know,
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那第二个问题就是,你看
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so we know that our minds头脑 change更改 our bodies身体,
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我们知道心理状态会影响我们的身体
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but is it also true真正 that our bodies身体 change更改 our minds头脑?
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那身体是否能影响心理呢?
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And when I say minds头脑, in the case案件 of the powerful强大,
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这里所说的心理充满力量
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what am I talking about?
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究竟指的是什么?
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So I'm talking about thoughts思念 and feelings情怀
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我指的是想法和感觉
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and the sort分类 of physiological生理 things that make up our thoughts思念 and feelings情怀,
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和可以组成我们想法和感受的实际事物
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and in my case案件, that's hormones激素. I look at hormones激素.
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我这里是指荷尔蒙。我指的是这个
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So what do the minds头脑 of the powerful强大 versus the powerless无力
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充满力量和没有力量的心智
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look like?
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是什么样的呢?
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So powerful强大 people tend趋向 to be, not surprisingly出奇,
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毫不令人意外,心理坚强的人往往
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more assertive断言的 and more confident信心, more optimistic乐观.
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比较果断,自信,且乐观
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They actually其实 feel that they're going to win赢得 even at games游戏 of chance机会.
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就连在赌注里也觉得他们会赢
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They also tend趋向 to be able能够 to think more abstractly抽象地.
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他们也倾向于能够抽象地思考
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So there are a lot of differences分歧. They take more risks风险.
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所以这其中有很大区别。他们更敢于冒险
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There are a lot of differences分歧 between之间 powerful强大 and powerless无力 people.
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充满力量与否的心智二者存有许多不同
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Physiologically生理, there also are differences分歧 on two
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生理上两个关键的贺尔蒙
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key hormones激素: testosterone睾酮, which哪一个 is the dominance霸主地位 hormone激素,
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睾丸酮,是一种支配荷尔蒙
08:58
and cortisol皮质醇, which哪一个 is the stress强调 hormone激素.
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可的松,是一种压力荷尔蒙
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So what we find is that
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我们发现
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high-power大功率 alphaα males男性 in primate灵长类动物 hierarchies等级
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灵长类的雄性首领
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have high testosterone睾酮 and low cortisol皮质醇,
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有高浓度的睪丸酮和低浓度的可的松
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and powerful强大 and effective有效 leaders领导者 also have
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相同情形也在
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high testosterone睾酮 and low cortisol皮质醇.
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强而有力的领导人身上可见
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So what does that mean? When you think about power功率,
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这表示什么? 当你想到力量
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people tended往往 to think only about testosterone睾酮,
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人们往往只想到睪丸酮
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because that was about dominance霸主地位.
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因为它代表支配统治
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But really, power功率 is also about how you react应对 to stress强调.
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但力量其实是在于你如何应对压力
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So do you want the high-power大功率 leader领导 that's dominant优势,
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所以你会想要一个
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high on testosterone睾酮, but really stress强调 reactive反应?
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有着很高浓度的睪丸酮但同时又高度紧张的领导吗?
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Probably大概 not, right? You want the person
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大概不会是吧?你会希望那个人
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who's谁是 powerful强大 and assertive断言的 and dominant优势,
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是充满力量,肯定果断且知道如何支配
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but not very stress强调 reactive反应, the person who's谁是 laid铺设 back.
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但不是非常紧张,或是懒洋洋的
09:42
So we know that in primate灵长类动物 hierarchies等级, if an alphaα
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灵长类动物的金字塔里
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needs需求 to take over, if an individual个人 needs需求 to take over
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如果一个首领想要掌控这个种群
09:52
an alphaα role角色 sort分类 of suddenly突然,
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或取代原先的首领
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within a few少数 days, that individual's个人 testosterone睾酮 has gone走了 up
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几天之内,那一方体内的睪丸酮会大大地上升
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significantly显著 and his cortisol皮质醇 has dropped下降 significantly显著.
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而其可的松会剧烈地下降
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So we have this evidence证据, both that the body身体 can shape形状
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身体影响心理之例,由此可见一斑
10:04
the mind心神, at least最小 at the facial面部 level水平,
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至少就表面而言是如此
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and also that role角色 changes变化 can shape形状 the mind心神.
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同时角色的转换也会影响心智
10:11
So what happens发生, okay, you take a role角色 change更改,
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所以,如果你改变角色
10:14
what happens发生 if you do that at a really minimal最小 level水平,
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就一个小改变
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like this tiny manipulation操作, this tiny intervention介入?
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像这样一个小小的操作,这样一个小小的干预?
10:19
"For two minutes分钟," you say, "I want you to stand like this,
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"持续两分钟"你说,"我要你们这样站着,
10:21
and it's going to make you feel more powerful强大."
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它会让你感到更加充满力量"
10:24
So this is what we did. We decided决定 to bring带来 people
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我们是这样做的
10:28
into the lab实验室 and run a little experiment实验, and these people
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我们决定将人们带进实验室,做一个小实验
10:33
adopted采用, for two minutes分钟, either high-power大功率 poses姿势
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这些人将维持有力或无力的姿势两分钟
10:37
or low-power低电量 poses姿势, and I'm just going to show显示 you
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然后我就会告诉你
10:39
five of the poses姿势, although虽然 they took on only two.
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这五种姿势,虽然他们只做了两种
10:42
So here's这里的 one.
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这是其一
10:45
A couple一对 more.
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看看这些
10:47
This one has been dubbed配音 the "Wonder奇迹 Woman女人"
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这个被媒体取名为
10:50
by the media媒体.
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"神力女超人"
10:52
Here are a couple一对 more.
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还有这些
10:53
So you can be standing常设 or you can be sitting坐在.
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或站或坐
10:56
And here are the low-power低电量 poses姿势.
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这些是无力的姿势
10:58
So you're folding折页 up, you're making制造 yourself你自己 small.
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你双手交叉,试着让自己变小一点
11:02
This one is very low-power低电量.
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这是非常无力的一张
11:04
When you're touching接触 your neck颈部,
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当你在摸你的脖子
11:05
you're really protecting保护 yourself你自己.
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你其实在保护自己
11:07
So this is what happens发生. They come in,
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实际的状况是,他们进来
11:10
they spit into a vial小瓶,
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取出唾液
11:12
we for two minutes分钟 say, "You need to do this or this."
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维持一个姿势达两分钟
11:15
They don't look at pictures图片 of the poses姿势. We don't want to prime主要 them
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他们不会看到姿势的照片,因为我们不想要影响他们
11:17
with a concept概念 of power功率. We want them to be feeling感觉 power功率,
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我们希望他们自己感觉到力量
11:20
right? So two minutes分钟 they do this.
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不是吗?所以他们做了整整两分钟
11:22
We then ask them, "How powerful强大 do you feel?" on a series系列 of items项目,
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我们关于一些事物问:"现在你觉得自己多有力量?"
11:25
and then we give them an opportunity机会 to gamble,
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受试者接着会有一个博奕的机会
11:28
and then we take another另一个 saliva唾液 sample样品.
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接着再取得唾液范本
11:31
That's it. That's the whole整个 experiment实验.
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这就是整个实验
11:33
So this is what we find. Risk风险 tolerance公差, which哪一个 is the gambling赌博,
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我们发现到风险承担能力,
11:36
what we find is that when you're in the high-power大功率
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也就是在赌博时,当处于强有力的姿势的时
11:39
pose提出 condition条件, 86 percent百分 of you will gamble.
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86%的人会选择赌博
11:43
When you're in the low-power低电量 pose提出 condition条件,
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相对处于一个较无力的姿势时
11:45
only 60 percent百分, and that's a pretty漂亮 whopping高达 significant重大 difference区别.
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只有60%的人,这真是很令人惊讶的差异
11:49
Here's这里的 what we find on testosterone睾酮.
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就睪丸酮而言我们发现
11:51
From their baseline底线 when they come in, high-power大功率 people
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这些人进来的那一刻起,有力量的那些人
11:55
experience经验 about a 20-percent-百分 increase增加,
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会有20%的提高
11:57
and low-power低电量 people experience经验 about a 10-percent-百分 decrease减少.
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无力的人则下降10%
12:02
So again, two minutes分钟, and you get these changes变化.
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所以,再次地,当你有这些改变
12:05
Here's这里的 what you get on cortisol皮质醇. High-power大功率 people
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有力的人
12:07
experience经验 about a 25-percent-百分 decrease减少, and
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可的松下降25%,
12:10
the low-power低电量 people experience经验 about a 15-percent-百分 increase增加.
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而无力的人可的松则上升15%
12:14
So two minutes分钟 lead to these hormonal激素 changes变化
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二分钟可以让这些荷尔蒙改变
12:17
that configure配置 your brain to basically基本上 be either
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使你的脑袋变得
12:20
assertive断言的, confident信心 and comfortable自在,
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果断,自信和自在
12:23
or really stress-reactive应力 - 反应性, and, you know, feeling感觉
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或高度紧张以及感到与世隔绝
12:27
sort分类 of shut关闭 down. And we've我们已经 all had the feeling感觉, right?
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我们都曾有过这些体验对吗?
12:31
So it seems似乎 that our nonverbalsnonverbals do govern治理
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看来非语言确实掌控
12:34
how we think and feel about ourselves我们自己,
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我们对自己的想法和感受
12:36
so it's not just others其他, but it's also ourselves我们自己.
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不只是别人,更是我们自己
12:39
Also, our bodies身体 change更改 our minds头脑.
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同时,我们的身体可以改变我们的心理
12:41
But the next下一个 question, of course课程, is
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但下一个问题,当然,就是
12:44
can power功率 posing冒充 for a few少数 minutes分钟
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维持数分钟的姿势
12:45
really change更改 your life in meaningful富有意义的 ways方法?
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是否真能引导一个更有意义的人生呢?
12:47
So this is in the lab实验室. It's this little task任务, you know,
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刚刚都只是在实验室哩,一个小实验,你知道的
12:50
it's just a couple一对 of minutes分钟. Where can you actually其实
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只有几分钟。你要怎么实现这一切呢?
12:53
apply应用 this? Which哪一个 we cared照顾 about, of course课程.
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落实在我们关心的地方呢?
12:55
And so we think it's really, what matters事项, I mean,
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我们关心的其实是,我是说
13:00
where you want to use this is evaluative评价 situations情况
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你在那里可以用这些技巧去评估时势
13:02
like social社会 threat威胁 situations情况. Where are you being存在 evaluated评估,
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像是社交威胁的情形。譬如说你被人打量时?
13:06
either by your friends朋友? Like for teenagers青少年 it's at the lunchroom小吃店 table.
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或者是青少年吃午餐的时候
13:09
It could be, you know, for some people it's speaking请讲
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你知道,对有些人来说就好像在开
13:11
at a school学校 board meeting会议. It might威力 be giving a pitch沥青
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学校的董事会。有时候是一个小演讲
13:14
or giving a talk like this
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有时是像这种讲演
13:17
or doing a job工作 interview访问.
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或是工作面试时
13:20
We decided决定 that the one that most people could relate涉及 to
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我们后来决定用一个最多人能做比较的
13:23
because most people had been through通过
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因为大部分人都曾经
13:24
was the job工作 interview访问.
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面试工作过
13:25
So we published发表 these findings发现, and the media媒体
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我们将这些发现发表出来,接着媒体就大量曝光
13:29
are all over it, and they say, Okay, so this is what you do
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说,好,所以你去面试时,
13:32
when you go in for the job工作 interview访问, right? (Laughter笑声)
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你得这样做,对吧?(笑声)
13:35
You know, so we were of course课程 horrified吓坏了, and said,
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我们当然大吃一惊,表示
13:37
Oh my God, no, no, no, that's not what we meant意味着 at all.
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我的天啊,不不不,我们不是这个意思
13:40
For numerous众多 reasons原因, no, no, no, don't do that.
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不管什么原因,不不,千万别这么做
13:42
Again, this is not about you talking to other people.
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这和你跟别人交谈无关
13:45
It's you talking to yourself你自己. What do you do
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这是你在和你自己交谈
13:47
before you go into a job工作 interview访问? You do this.
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你在面试工作之前会怎么做?你会这样
13:50
Right? You're sitting坐在 down. You're looking at your iPhone苹果手机 --
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对吧?你会做下来,你盯着自己的爱疯
13:52
or your AndroidAndroid的, not trying to leave离开 anyone任何人 out.
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或者安卓,转移自己的视线
13:54
You are, you know, you're looking at your notes笔记,
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你看着自己的笔记
13:56
you're hunching中恒 up, making制造 yourself你自己 small,
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你把自己蜷缩起来,试着让自己变得小一点
13:58
when really what you should be doing maybe is this,
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你真正需要做的应该是
14:00
like, in the bathroom浴室, right? Do that. Find two minutes分钟.
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找个浴室,然后这样,花个两分钟
14:04
So that's what we want to test测试. Okay?
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所以我们想做是这个
14:05
So we bring带来 people into a lab实验室, and
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把人带进实验室
14:07
they do either high-高- or low-power低电量 poses姿势 again,
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他们再次保持有力或无力姿势
14:11
they go through通过 a very stressful压力 job工作 interview访问.
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接着进行一个高度压力的面试
14:13
It's five minutes分钟 long. They are being存在 recorded记录.
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为时五分钟。所有都会被记录下来
14:17
They're being存在 judged判断 also, and the judges法官
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同时也会被评论,而这些考官都接受过训练
14:20
are trained熟练 to give no nonverbal非语言 feedback反馈,
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不会给予任何非语言的反馈
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so they look like this. Like, imagine想像
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所以他们看起来就像这样,像图上所示
14:25
this is the person interviewing面试 you.
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想象一下,这个人正在面试你
14:27
So for five minutes分钟, nothing, and this is worse更差 than being存在 heckled质问.
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整整五分钟,什么都没有,这比刁难诘问更难受
14:32
People hate讨厌 this. It's what Marianne玛丽安 LaFranceLaFrance calls电话
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大家都不喜欢这种方式。这就是 Marianne LaFrance 所谓的
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"standing常设 in social社会 quicksand流沙."
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"陷入社交流沙中"
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So this really spikes钉鞋 your cortisol皮质醇.
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这可以大大激发你的可的松
14:39
So this is the job工作 interview访问 we put them through通过,
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我们给予受试者这样的面试
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because we really wanted to see what happened发生.
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因为我们真的想看看会有什么样的结果
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We then have these coders编码器 look at these tapes磁带, four of them.
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接着我们得出下列四种结果
14:47
They're blind to the hypothesis假设. They're blind to the conditions条件.
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受试者不知假设前提和状况下
14:50
They have no idea理念 who's谁是 been posing冒充 in what pose提出,
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没有人知道谁摆什么样的姿势
14:53
and they end结束 up looking at these sets of tapes磁带,
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接着他们观看这些带子
14:58
and they say, "Oh, we want to hire聘请 these people," --
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然后他们说,"噢,我们想要录用这些人"--
15:00
all the high-power大功率 posersposers -- "we don't want to hire聘请 these people.
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那些摆强有力姿势的人--"这些人我们不想录用"
15:04
We also evaluate评估 these people much more positively积极 overall总体."
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我们也评量这群人整体而言更正面
15:06
But what's driving主动 it? It's not about the content内容 of the speech言语.
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但背后的原因是什么?这跟演讲的内容无关
15:11
It's about the presence存在 that they're bringing使 to the speech言语.
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而是他们在演讲中带出来的存在感
15:14
We also, because we rate them on all these variables变量
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同时,我们也就这些关于能力之变动因素评价他们
15:16
related有关 to competence权限, like, how well-structured结构良好的
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像是演讲的整体架构怎样?
15:19
is the speech言语? How good is it? What are their qualifications资格?
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它有多棒?讲员的证照学历?
15:22
No effect影响 on those things. This is what's affected受影响.
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这些全都无关。有影响的是
15:25
These kinds of things. People are bringing使 their true真正 selves自我,
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这些事。基本上人们表达真实的自己
15:28
basically基本上. They're bringing使 themselves他们自己.
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就他们自己
15:30
They bring带来 their ideas思路, but as themselves他们自己,
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他们的想法,当他们心里
15:32
with no, you know, residue残留 over them.
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没有芥蒂
15:35
So this is what's driving主动 the effect影响, or mediating中介 the effect影响.
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这就是被后真实的力量,或者可以说是计划的结果
15:40
So when I tell people about this,
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所以当我告诉人们
15:43
that our bodies身体 change更改 our minds头脑 and our minds头脑 can change更改 our behavior行为,
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我们的身体会改变心理,心理会改变行为
15:46
and our behavior行为 can change更改 our outcomes结果, they say to me,
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而行为会改变结果,他们跟我说
15:49
"I don't -- It feels感觉 fake." Right?
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"我不这么觉得--听起来好像是假的" 对吗?
15:51
So I said, fake it till直到 you make it. I don't -- It's not me.
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我就说,你就假装一直到你达成目的为止。不是我啦
15:55
I don't want to get there and then still feel like a fraud舞弊.
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我不想要到达到那个目标后仍然感觉像是一个骗局
15:58
I don't want to feel like an impostor骗子.
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我不想要成为一个骗子
15:59
I don't want to get there only to feel like I'm not supposed应该 to be here.
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我一点也不想达到那个目标才发觉我不应该如此
16:04
And that really resonated共鸣 with me,
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我真是有感而发的
16:06
because I want to tell you a little story故事 about
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这里跟大家分享一个小故事
16:08
being存在 an impostor骗子 and feeling感觉 like I'm not supposed应该 to be here.
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关于成为一个骗子然后感到不应该在这里的故事
16:11
When I was 19, I was in a really bad car汽车 accident事故.
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在我19岁的时候,发生了一场很严重的车祸
16:14
I was thrown抛出 out of a car汽车, rolled热轧 several一些 times.
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我整个人飞出车外,滚了好几翻
16:18
I was thrown抛出 from the car汽车. And I woke醒来 up in a head injury
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我是弹出车外的,之后在休息室醒来以后发现头部重伤
16:21
rehab康复 ward病房, and I had been withdrawn取消 from college学院,
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我从大学里休学
16:25
and I learned学到了 that my I.Q. had dropped下降 by two standard标准 deviations偏差,
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别人告知我智商下降了2个标准差
16:31
which哪一个 was very traumatic创伤.
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情况非常非常糟糕
16:33
I knew知道 my I.Q. because I had identified确定 with being存在 smart聪明,
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我知道我的智商应该是多少,因为我以前被人家认为是很聪明的那种
16:36
and I had been called gifted天才 as a child儿童.
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小时候大家都觉得我很有才华
16:38
So I'm taken采取 out of college学院, I keep trying to go back.
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当我离开大学时,我试着回去
16:41
They say, "You're not going to finish college学院.
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他们说都告诉我说,"你没有办法毕业的。
16:43
Just, you know, there are other things for you to do,
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你知道,你还可以做很多其它的事阿,
16:46
but that's not going to work out for you."
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别往死胡同里钻了。"
16:48
So I really struggled挣扎 with this, and I have to say,
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我死命挣扎,我必须承认
16:52
having your identity身分 taken采取 from you, your core核心 identity身分,
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当你的认同感被剥夺的时候,那个主要的身分认同
16:54
and for me it was being存在 smart聪明,
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就我而言是我的智力被夺走了
16:56
having that taken采取 from you, there's nothing that leaves树叶 you feeling感觉 more powerless无力 than that.
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再没有比这个更加无助的时候了
17:01
So I felt entirely完全 powerless无力. I worked工作 and worked工作 and worked工作,
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我感到完全的无助,我拼命地疯狂地努力
17:03
and I got lucky幸运, and worked工作, and got lucky幸运, and worked工作.
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幸运眷顾,努力,幸运眷顾,再努力。
17:06
Eventually终于 I graduated毕业 from college学院.
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最终我从学校毕业了。
17:09
It took me four years年份 longer than my peers同行,
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我比同侪多花了四年的时间
17:11
and I convinced相信 someone有人, my angel天使 advisor顾问, Susan苏珊 Fiske费斯克,
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然后说服我的恩师,Susan Fiske
17:15
to take me on, and so I ended结束 up at Princeton普林斯顿,
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让我进去,所以我最后进入了普林斯顿
17:18
and I was like, I am not supposed应该 to be here.
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我当时觉得,我不应该在这里
17:21
I am an impostor骗子.
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我是个骗子
17:22
And the night before my first-year第一年 talk,
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在我第一年演讲的那个晚上,
17:24
and the first-year第一年 talk at Princeton普林斯顿 is a 20-minute-分钟 talk
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普林斯顿第一年的演讲
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to 20 people. That's it.
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大约是对20个人做20分钟的演讲。就这样
17:28
I was so afraid害怕 of being存在 found发现 out the next下一个 day
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我当时如此害怕隔天被拆穿
17:31
that I called her and said, "I'm quitting戒烟."
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所以我打给她说,"我不干了。"
17:34
She was like, "You are not quitting戒烟,
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她说:"你不可以不干,
17:36
because I took a gamble on you, and you're staying.
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因为我赌在你身上了,你得留下。
17:39
You're going to stay, and this is what you're going to do.
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你会留下,你将会留下来了。
17:41
You are going to fake it.
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你要骗过所有人。
17:42
You're going to do every一切 talk that you ever get asked to do.
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你被要求的每个演讲你都得照办
17:46
You're just going to do it and do it and do it,
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你得一直讲一直讲
17:48
even if you're terrified and just paralyzed
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即使你怕死了,脚瘫了
17:51
and having an out-of-body外的体 experience经验, until直到 you have
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灵魂出窍了,直到你发现你在说
17:53
this moment时刻 where you say, 'Oh'哦 my gosh天哪, I'm doing it.
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"噢,我的天啊,我正在做这件事
17:56
Like, I have become成为 this. I am actually其实 doing this.'"
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我已经成为它的一部分了,我正在做它。"
17:59
So that's what I did. Five years年份 in grad毕业 school学校,
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这就是说所做的,硕士的五年
18:02
a few少数 years年份, you know, I'm at Northwestern西北方,
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这些年,我在Northwestern
18:04
I moved移动 to Harvard哈佛, I'm at Harvard哈佛, I'm not really
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我后来去了哈佛,我在哈佛,我没有在想到它
18:06
thinking思维 about it anymore, but for a long time I had been thinking思维,
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但之前有很长一段时间我都在想这件事
18:10
"Not supposed应该 to be here. Not supposed应该 to be here."
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"不应该在这。不应该在这。"
18:12
So at the end结束 of my first year at Harvard哈佛,
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所以哈佛第一年结束
18:14
a student学生 who had not talked in class the entire整个 semester学期,
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我对整个学期在课堂上都没有说话的一个学生说:
18:19
who I had said, "Look, you've gotta总得 participate参加 or else其他 you're going to fail失败,"
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你得参与融入否则你不会过这一科的
18:22
came来了 into my office办公室. I really didn't know her at all.
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来我的办公室吧。其实我压根就不认识她。
18:25
And she said, she came来了 in totally完全 defeated打败, and she said,
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她说:她很挫败地进来了,她说
18:29
"I'm not supposed应该 to be here."
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"我不应该在这里的。"
18:35
And that was the moment时刻 for me. Because two things happened发生.
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就在此刻,两件事发生了
18:39
One was that I realized实现,
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我突然明白
18:40
oh my gosh天哪, I don't feel like that anymore. You know.
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天啊,我再也没有这种感觉了。你知道吗。
18:44
I don't feel that anymore, but she does, and I get that feeling感觉.
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我再也不会有那种感觉,但她有,我能体会到她的感受。
18:46
And the second第二 was, she is supposed应该 to be here!
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第二个想法是,她应该在这里!
18:49
Like, she can fake it, she can become成为 it.
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她可以假装,一直到她成功为止。
18:51
So I was like, "Yes, you are! You are supposed应该 to be here!
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所以我跟她说,"你当然应该! 你应该在这里!"
18:54
And tomorrow明天 you're going to fake it,
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明天起你就假装
18:56
you're going to make yourself你自己 powerful强大, and, you know,
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你要让自己充满力量,你要知道
18:59
you're gonna — " (Applause掌声)
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你将会---"(掌声)
19:02
(Applause掌声)
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(掌声)
19:04
"And you're going to go into the classroom课堂,
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"你要走进教室
19:08
and you are going to give the best最好 comment评论 ever."
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你会发表最棒的评论。"
19:11
You know? And she gave the best最好 comment评论 ever,
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你知道吗?她就真的发表了最成功的评论
19:14
and people turned转身 around and they were like,
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大家都回过神来,他们就好像
19:15
oh my God, I didn't even notice注意 her sitting坐在 there, you know? (Laughter笑声)
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喔我的天啊,我竟没有注意到她坐在那里,你知道吗?(笑声)
19:18
She comes back to me months个月 later后来, and I realized实现
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几个月后她来找我,我才明白
19:21
that she had not just faked伪造 it till直到 she made制作 it,
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她不仅只是假装到她成功为止
19:23
she had actually其实 faked伪造 it till直到 she became成为 it.
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她已经融会贯通了
19:26
So she had changed.
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整个人脱胎换骨
19:28
And so I want to say to you, don't fake it till直到 you make it.
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我想对大家说,不要仅为了成功而假装
19:32
Fake it till直到 you become成为 it. You know? It's not —
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要把它溶到你骨子里去。知道吗?
19:35
Do it enough足够 until直到 you actually其实 become成为 it and internalize内在.
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持续地做直到它内化到你的骨髓里
19:38
The last thing I'm going to leave离开 you with is this.
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最后与大家分享的是
19:41
Tiny tweaks调整 can lead to big changes变化.
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小小的调整可以有大大的改变
19:45
So this is two minutes分钟.
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就二分钟
19:48
Two minutes分钟, two minutes分钟, two minutes分钟.
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二分钟,二分钟,二分钟
19:50
Before you go into the next下一个 stressful压力 evaluative评价 situation情况,
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在你进行下一场紧张的评估之前
19:53
for two minutes分钟, try doing this, in the elevator电梯,
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拿出二分钟,尝试做这个,电梯里
19:56
in a bathroom浴室 stall摊子, at your desk behind背后 closed关闭 doors.
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浴室间,房门关起在你的桌子前面
19:59
That's what you want to do. Configure配置 your brain
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你就这么做,设置你的脑袋
20:01
to cope应付 the best最好 in that situation情况.
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以发挥最大效益
20:03
Get your testosterone睾酮 up. Get your cortisol皮质醇 down.
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提升你的睪丸铜,降低你的可的松
20:06
Don't leave离开 that situation情况 feeling感觉 like, oh, I didn't show显示 them who I am.
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千万别留下,噢,我没把最好的表现出来那种遗憾
20:10
Leave离开 that situation情况 feeling感觉 like, oh, I really feel like
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而是留下,噢,我真想
20:12
I got to say who I am and show显示 who I am.
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让他们知道,让他们看见,我是个怎样的人
20:14
So I want to ask you first, you know,
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在这里我想要求大家,你知道的
20:17
both to try power功率 posing冒充,
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尝试这有力的姿势
20:21
and also I want to ask you
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同时也想请求各位
20:22
to share分享 the science科学, because this is simple简单.
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把这项科学分享出去,因为它很简单
20:26
I don't have ego自我 involved参与 in this. (Laughter笑声)
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我可不是自尊心的问题喔(笑声)
20:28
Give it away. Share分享 it with people,
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放开它。和人分享
20:29
because the people who can use it the most are the ones那些
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因为最经常可以使用它的人会是那些
20:31
with no resources资源 and no technology技术
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没有资源和技术的一群人
20:36
and no status状态 and no power功率. Give it to them
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没有社会地位和权势。把这个传达给他们
20:39
because they can do it in private私人的.
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好让他们可以私下这样做
20:40
They need their bodies身体, privacy隐私 and two minutes分钟,
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他们会需要他们的身体,隐私和那二分钟
20:43
and it can significantly显著 change更改 the outcomes结果 of their life.
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然后这会大大地改变他们生活的结果
20:46
Thank you. (Applause掌声)
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谢谢(掌声)
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(Applause掌声)
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(掌声)
Translated by Amatarasu Ookami
Reviewed by Yuguo Zhang

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ABOUT THE SPEAKER
Amy Cuddy - Social psychologist
Amy Cuddy’s research on body language reveals that we can change other people’s perceptions — and perhaps even our own body chemistry — simply by changing body positions.

Why you should listen

Amy Cuddy wasn’t supposed to become a successful scientist. In fact, she wasn’t even supposed to finish her undergraduate degree. Early in her college career, Cuddy suffered a severe head injury in a car accident, and doctors said she would struggle to fully regain her mental capacity and finish her undergraduate degree.

But she proved them wrong. Today, Cuddy is a professor and researcher at Harvard Business School, where she studies how nonverbal behavior and snap judgments affect people from the classroom to the boardroom. And her training as a classical dancer (another skill she regained after her injury) is evident in her fascinating work on "power posing" -- how your body position influences others and even your own brain.

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Amy Cuddy | Speaker | TED.com

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